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theonewiththeeyebrows · 7 years ago

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Open Letter for Gifts & Exchanges

I am currently part of a few exchanges & such so I thought I’d write a letter for my preferences.

Dear Gifter,

I am not particularly picky, so even though this seems like a well curated lists of wants and do not wants, only the not wants are hard limits, the rest are go with the flow types. If you are unsure, just message me as a nonnie and i’ll get back to you ASAP.

Preferred Pairings in order of preference:

Derek/Stiles (Teen Wolf),

Jack/Bitty (OMGCP),

Arthur/Merlin (Merlin),

Noah/Luke (ATWT),

Sherlock/Watson (Sherlock Holmes -- versatile pairing)

Preferred Dynamic:

Top/Alpha/Dom - Person on the left;

Bottom/Omega/Sub - Person on the right.

I don’t mind mouthy subs. I like subs to be mouthy or switches.

Sherlock is the only pairing where I don’t actually care who is in which dynamic even though my preference is towards top!Sherlock, I’m totally cool reading bottom!Sherlock.

I like ABO stories where one or both characters defy conventional stereotypes -- Omega character hates the stereotypes of his dynamic and fights for equality -- he might want to have his ass plowed but that doesn’t make him weak or simpering or stupid or any less capable than an Alpha. Or Alpha character hates the way omegas are treated and wants to make a difference. Or Alpha character hates that they are expected to provide when all they want to do is take care of their babies and partner. Or when an Omega is super defiant towards others but super pliant to their own Alpha -- and the Alpha likes that they are only pliant in private -- they will always take their Omega’s side in public whether or not they agree.

Topping from the bottom is something I am totally into, especially considering my list of bottoms. LOL. This is why I like switches for subs and less “conventional” doms who realize that their sub needs to dom every once in a while and then it becomes a dom on dom type scenario.

I don’t mind stories with the roles reversed, but the above are my preferences. If I had to choose, I’d pick those preferences.

I like implied versatility. But I prefer to read explicit scenes with my preferred dynamic.

YESSSS:

Oh man. What don’t I like? Here I’ll list a few (some are specific to fandoms).

ABO & mpreg (Teen Wolf & Merlin, sometimes OMGCP)

HighSchool AUs (NOT sherlock/watson)

Different Time Period (Victorian, Regency, Modern etc).

Royalty AUs (especially paired with ABO and Mpreg)

Arranged/Forced Marriage - enemies-to-lover or acquaintances/friends-to-lovers -- this can even be in the ABO ‘verse

AUs - HP, Merlin, Fairytale, OMGCP, Roswell, Werewolves/other Supernatural, Grimm, sense8, etc, etc, etc - put the characters in the shows of other characters from a different verse or in a verse where they have different abilities or something.

Xeno (teen wolf - alpha/beta shift)

BDSM - wax play, blood play, shibari, bondage, mild pain play, blindfolds, sensory deprivation

Mates - any kind of bond - marks, threads, words, strikes, writing, telepathy, playmating whatnot. Biting YES! Knotting YES! Breeding YES! -- can be in ABO verse as well.

Friends to lovers

Enemies to lovers

Reluctant to mate, but find their soulmate

girl!Stiles, trans!Stiles, girl!Merlin, trans!Merlin

Dub-con (somnophilia if discussed beforehand (can be before the start of the fic), pollen, heats, faeries, etc.)

touch-starved

BAMF!Stiles/Merlin/Bitty/Watson/Arthur

NOPES

Body Horror

Scat/Watersport

Non-con

Beastiality (no dogs/cats/turtles in the bedroom please)

being treated like furniture

24x7 D/S lifestyle (i don’t think any of my preferred subs would like that)

Poly (I don’t mind this, but ask me first)

Peter in general. but I do like fics where he isn’t evil but just kinda cooky. If he is in the fic and is evil I don’t mind it as long as it is isn’t the next bullet.

Peter/Stiles in any way, even if it is implied.

My love for new betas on the show ended with Cora Hale. I’m good with Isaac, Erica, Boyd and Cora. I’m also ok with Kira. I’m okay with some degree of Malia but she needs to be handled well.

Characterization

Unlike some people I’m not particularly bothered by OOCness.

Shows like Teen Wolf aren’t consistent with their characterization at all. So when someone says this Stiles is so OOC, I’m like how the fuck would you know? The show did a piss poor job with continuity. For all we know, it could totally be IN CHARACTER. Yeah. I don’t like people preaching that “this is what a character should be like”.

People change based on their life and the way things happen to them. If Stiles was popular -- he may not have been the sarcastic shit he is. If Derek didn’t lose his family he’d probably a lot less guilt ridden and somber. If Uther hadn’t banned and prosecuted those with Magic, Merlin and Arthur’s entire relationship would have been different. If Stiles had never met Scott, he may have been entirely different.

AUs are up to the author. If someone thinks a character should behave a certain way based on their backstory in the AU, then they should act that way, fuck whatever canon said.

Fandom has the right to rewrite and remold characters. If we can change their entire stories, or makeup events that happened to them, then we can change how we portray a character.

It’s all fiction. So you tell the story you want to tell.

These are just my preferences, at the end of the day you need to enjoy what you write. I will love anything you give me. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I appreciate it.

With lots of love,

#open letter #aboexchange #sss #exchanges #fun stuff #gifts and more

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voldiebuns · 7 years ago

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Anyone notice I was basically absent for like two weeks?? I’m pretty sure my queue ran out sometime last week, but I didn’t have internet when I got home from KiSCon. I’m now mooching off my neighbor’s wifi though so the queue is building back up :D

Anyway, since I have so many new followers from the con and it’s been freaking forever since I’ve done one of these posts, I figured it was time to remind everyone where else they can find me! By which I mean I have way too many tumblr blogs, come follow me lol

my multitude of side blogs:

@rebeea - personal (mostly politics, queer stuff, and cute animals)

@foodandmind - vegan food and mental health stuff

@avariceforbooks – books, poetry, and writing

@fuckyeahfandomdrinks - does what it says on the tin

@wipbigbang - big bang for WIPs

@yjfest - Young Justice fic/art exchange

@aboexchange - ABO fic/art exchange

other social media:

AO3

Livejournal

Twitter

other important things:

fic tag

graphics tag

transformative works policy

my fandoms / my ships (these are... hideously out of date tbh)

buy me a coffee?

#personal

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mianmimi · 7 years ago

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Hello! Since you and other Strordo peeps seem to enjoy writing/reading Omegaverse, I'd recommend you to check out @aboexchange here on Tumblr. Like its name implies, it's a fan exchange with Omegaverse as the main theme. They're in the suggestion phase at the moment, which means it's time to suggest fandoms and ships! I'm thinking about representing the Strordo canoe so people know the ship, but if I don't make it I'd like it if at least one of incredibly talented Strordo writers represent :)

Oh wow! Totally go for it Nonny :) I think it would pretty cool for strordo to be represented in more platforms. The exchange sounds rather interesting! If you do decide to go for it, please keep us informed! I really want to try and support this ship and those who create content for it ^^ Let the canoe sail!

And yes dear Nonny, omegaverse is so prevalent for the DS fandom. It all started with this fic by flyingonfeatherlesswings. And the rest is history. Every consistent strordo writer (there’s like…seven of us?) has taken a crack at it XD or at the very least supported it.

#ask and answer #strordo #stephen strange/karl mordo #omegaverse #we are a small house but a proud one #and every shipper fights with the strength of ten

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