#abeiste

[rjalker]

Ableist cowards: "I want 'mean disabled people' who stand up for themselves against ableists and refuse to take bullshit!!!!"

Disabled person: *does exactly that*

Ableist cowards: No!!!! Not like that!!!! You're not being a mean disabled person you're just being an asshole!!!!!!! You have to be nice to people who abeist ableist to you!!!!!! they're just doing their best!!!!!

[mothergold]

Disabled!Reader Headcanons with some of my genshin favs <3

Warnings: minors please do not interact, Reader is physically disabled, Reader is mentally ill, Reader is gender neutral, Reader uses a mobility aid (cane and wheelchair), Reader has chronic pain, he/him pronouns for Albedo, Diluc, & Kaeya, she/her pronouns for Kokomi, Candace, Hurt/Comfort, Reader is implied to have agoraphobia, 1.2k words, anyone can read but please be respectful, any ableists will be blocked on sight!

Characters: Albedo, Kokomi, Kaeya, Candace, Diluc

A/n: This is just a little self indulgent thing i wrote for myself, because I needed the pick me up to be honest. Please know I am writing from my own experiences as a disabled person and that these experiences may not be universal, so please don’t get upset if you can’t relate, because again these are from my own experiences. Other than that please be respectful and abeists fuck off thanks <3

Albedo

Albedo is probably more sensitive when it comes to your disabilities. He helps you up and about through the day whenever you need the extra boost, or grabs your aid for you if it isn't within reach. You were a little embarrassed to use your aid in front of Albedo, purely out of bad experiences with past partners, but he made you feel at home in your body in an instant. He respects your boundaries, watches you to make sure you don’t overwork yourself, and goes above and beyond for you in every single way imaginable. Albedo vowed to protect you as much as possible, knowing you didn’t have that ability in the same way he did. Bedo even put some research into your disabilities hoping to find ways to help you live a happy and painless life. Albedo was good to you, almost perfect. He never judged, said a hurtful or ignorant word, and always, and I mean always, loved and cared for you no matter what state you were in. At the end of the day he just wanted you to be happy and cared for, and if you were? Well, then Albedo was happy, too. 

Kokomi

Everyday Sangonamiya Kokomi would start the day early with a nice walk along the oceanside, picking up any shells and pearls she found along the way, placing them gently in her bag. All so she could bring them back home to you as a gift before she had to eventually part ways for the day to do her work. She’ll leave a note for you to read once you’ve woken up, knowing that you’d oftentimes sleep in late and wake up when she was long gone, but thankfully that meant you would see her sooner. Or at least that’s what you told her jokingly whenever she gently suggested you go to bed earlier. When you’re in pain Kokomi will try her damndest to heal you, taking her hands and hovering it over the wound with a concentrated face, until either the pain slightly subsides or you ask her to stop. You know that not always will her healing help you, but you accept it regardless with a smile on your face. 

Kaeya

People always say laughter is the best medicine and Kaeya would agree with that sentiment. Whenever you’re experiencing a pain flare up Kaeya is quick to get you whatever you need in a timely manner, but he’s also known for cracking a few lighthearted jokes to distract you from the pain. He loves to tell you how beautiful that smile of yours is and how sorry he is that you’re suffering so much, and how he dearly wishes he could help. You’d smile back at him and assure him his presence was the only thing you needed on your bad days, and of course your usual pain regiment. He’d come home from a long day at work to tell you all about the sights he saw and the stories he heard and everything he had witnessed. It was his own little way of bringing you along with him on his journeys knowing you couldn’t always leave the house so easily as he could. Kaeya wanted you to feel the joys of life, even if some days had to be spent indoors. So, every day he made a goal to make you laugh or smile each day, and not every day did he succeed in that, but he tried his damndest regardless and that’s all that mattered to you. 

Candace

She takes good care of you, brings you your medication and aid when you need it, holds you when things are too much on you, and lets you cry all your pain out on her warm shoulder. She’ll hold you close as you cringe in pain and sob in her arms, humming a sweet lullaby to soothe your pain. Candace is sweet and motherly, and will protect you from any potential harm that comes your way whether it’s real or imagined. After a long day of protecting the village she adores coming home to you, bringing you flowers and fruit as an offering for being gone for so long, but you’d wave your hands and assure her that no apology was necessary. You’d only wish for her warm embrace and soft hums to get you through the remainder of the night. Mornings with Candace were your favorite. You’d wake up to a table full of wonderful smelling food and afterwards she’d take you out for a walk around the village. The two of you would chat up conversations with villagers and friends alike, until you grew too tired and needed to go back home to rest and take it easy. It’s moments like those that you realize just how much happier you are with Candace in your life, you wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world.

Diluc Every day Diluc makes sure you are doing your exercises, encouraging you with a gentle tone to slowly get up for the day and do your daily walk and physical therapy exercises. He would press the back of his palm to your forehead to check your temperature, urging you to get up for the day. He knows it’s your least favorite part of the day, but both of you knew it had to happen regardless. After he made sure you had your breakfast and done your exercises, and even finished your walk with him; he’d bring out your wheelchair and take you into the front of the winery, letting you soak in the sun and sights as he talked to you about his plans for the days ahead. He might even surprise you with a new outfit to wear on a day out to the city of Mondstadt. Watching with a tender smile as your face lit up at his words when he explained the surprise and what exactly it entailed. You were grateful that Diluc wouldn’t let you stay holed up inside all day, even if some days you wished he’d just let you wallow, you were glad he took such good care of you. And if there was one thing you knew about Diluc it was that he was sure to take the utmost best care of you and would for a very, very long time.

[the-fallen-collective]

REMINDER!!!

we do not, and will never, support endogenic “systems”, anyone that falls under endos, or supporters

we hate them. They are horrible. (Pro) endos are just an abeist misinformation spreading cesspool

(pro) endos are horrible and we hate them and we want them gone, endo “systems” and anything that falls under the “endo umbrella” is fake and not real and overall horribly mocking and ableist and harmful

[maniacwatchestheworld]

This isn't meant as an indictment of you as a person but ngl your last post reads pretty ableist. The inability to empathize with people doesn't make someone 'evil' or 'villainous', it doesn't mean that a person with that condition is heartless and can't possibly be sad about their friends getting hurt or dying etc or that it's better if they were 'just tsundere about it'. An inability to (fully) empathize with people can also be a symptom of different 'disorders' and can be a trait of autism too, it's not unlikely that a person with npd and presumably some other form of neurodivergency might have that symptom. It doesn't mean that someone with that trait doesn't or can't care at all, it's just in a different way, and even if that person couldn't care at all that still doesn't make them more evil somehow. I know you probably didn't intend your post to come across that way but it kind of did so I figured I'd let you know

Nods nods. I see. I see. I will definitely try to keep this in mind in the future. But I do think that you misunderstood what I was actually meaning with my post. I wasn't using the term "psychopath" flippantly. I wasn't using the term to be synonymous with "evil" or "villainous" and this was not a case of me armchair diagnosing Eddie with an inability to feel empathy either. I wasn't looking at the Riddler's actions in this podcast and going, "He isn't reacting properly to these scenarios, therefore he must be a psychopath!" I am going to assume that you haven't listened to The Riddler: Secrets in the Dark, because I am not pulling the idea that Eddie is a psychopath in this series out of nowhere. Throughout the podcast, several times Eddie is persistently telling people that he does not care that his friends are dying, that he is only trying to solve these murders because he himself is in danger, and that he is incapable of feeling sad over the idea of people dying! Over and over he emphasizes that he does not feel sorry for their loss and that saying that he is would be lying. The podcast itself was saying over and over that Eddie is incapable of feeling empathy! I'm just trying to use the term that describes what they were very clearly going for! (Which, if there's a different, more preferred term, I would be very grateful to know so that I can change my language in the future!)

Eddie IS neurodivergent. And I would very much expect for him to react to his friends dying in a way that others might think is strange. But at the same time, I would not describe most iterations of the Riddler to be lacking in empathy to a psychopathic degree. But Eddie said it himself repeatedly that he didn't feel sad over it, and so what other conclusion am I supposed to be drawing? I never said that having a lack of empathy makes him more "evil" or "villainous" nor did I mean to imply that anywhere in my post. Additionally, as I was listening to the podcast, his lack of empathy didn't make me think that made him more "evil" or "villainous" either. I just thought that him insisting that he doesn't feel empathy was an odd addition to his character in this podcast and it made me tilt my head a little, because again, it didn't add anything to the story that his narcissism or compulsions wouldn't have had him do anyway. And so since it doesn't really add anything to the story, I don't really know why they had the Riddler bring it up as often as he did.

But you did start making me think about this from a different angle, and it's made me realize... Was the podcast trying to convince the listeners that Eddie is a psychopath in an attempt to make him seem more scary, dangerous, and evil...? Because... Actually... YEAH! That's the only thing that I can think of for why they decided to have him lack empathy! Are they trying to pull on abeist tropes to make us more scared of the Riddler!??? Because let me tell you, I did not find him scary at all throughout this podcast. He's a funny, silly, asshole who can do violent things... But none of it came as a surprise given what I already knew about the character, so it wasn't scary. But to make the audience feel uncomfortable by portraying him as something that the 'ordinary' person can't understand. That's the only thing that I can think of for why they wanted to add it! And it didn't work! (Cause like... I understand that neurodivergent people can express their emotions in ways that are hard to appreciate. I'm neurodivergent too, you know! And I know that people who lack empathy deserve to be understood and treated with compassion and respect just like anyone else and that they are not necessarialy inheriently scary or 'bad' or anything like that.) So maybe that's really what was bothering me about its inclusion. It felt insincere, and if they really did try to put it in to scare the audience, pretty damn ableist too!

In any case, I appreciate you bringing this to my attention. Do you think there's anything I can do to make my post read as less ableist, possibly?

[afuckingsystemsthoughts]

people really dont understand adhd. i dont even have it but i know that adhd is something youre born with and never goes away. i hate when i hear "adult adhd" its no different than "child adhd" which people act like is more common and goes away. it doesnt. adult adhd and child adhd are the same. and i hate how "adult adhd" is used to make the person with possible adhd seem like the r slur stereotype or useless in some way. thats ableist. when theres so many high iq gifted etc people with adhd. so stop spreading misinformation about it out of abeist priviliege.

[hasellia]

So I have a question for the disabled pokémon community in regards to designing a character, from an able bodied presenting person. I'm gonna give my sketch of Wally so far below under the cut if that helps.

I'm designing my take on older Wally, and I wanted to make him more visably disabled. I'm aiming for something aligned with cripple punk ideals beyond aesthetics, but I'm not that well read about it and I don't want to betray those values. Since his condition is only loosely implied to be asthma, which from my own limited observations is mostly seen through the use of medical inhalers, I thought I'd take a few creative liberties. I'm giving him a futuristic mask attached to a small cylindrical filter on his back through two large tubes on the side. It's not a permanent fixture, and he can take it off to sleep, eat, talk over tea, etc. It's sort meant to look like a knight mask, reminiscent of gallade. The mask functions as both a filter (since he works in/near the battle factory at the Hoenn battle frontier) and also as a drug administration device when he's having asthma-esque episodes. My idea is meant to invoke images of more villainistic / ableist characters (like the obvious Darth Vader), but once you meet him, Wally's is actually a very soft, sweet guy. He's just is also capable of annihilating you in a pokémon battle, so people talk up how scary he is to battle. I know this in itself is a trope, but I'm unaware of how the disabled community feels about it and if it's initself abeist. The rest of his clothing isn't villainous, just kind of a progress of what he wore when he was younger.

So, is there anything I should do differently or should know before going forward? I'm not going to pretend that I'm immune to being abeist, and I'm not sure if implying that Wally has some form of fictional pokémon asthma is really the proper way to go. But I thought I should at least try to reach out to the disabled community before I do anything that might be speaking for them.

[vent-in-space]

what did stairway-to-rubicon do?/genq i’ve heard some ppl tell me that they suck, but idrk what they did..,,,,, sry if this is weird

They're a troll that sends death threats, manipulating, being abeist, and harassing others. And playing the victim when you call them out

[greenyvertekins]

I don't have EDS but I do have a severe childhood injury that causes scarring and most definitely has some nerve damage in my hands and likely carpal tunnel as well due to my lifestyle as someone who works with computers and draws and plays video games on my down time... and I wear a wrist brace. I am literally wearing my brace rn because I woke up in such massive amounts of pain. I wasn't diagnosed with needing a brace, I jsut knew I needed one because pressure helps. I say fuck the abeist doctor and do what you feel is necessary to help

Something I never got around to chasing-up was corrective measures for both of my feet since I have three foot deformities (And Piezogenic Papules.). Though one of those is Accessory Navicular Syndrome and I don't want surgery to correct it.

[socialorganism]

Getting harder and harder to deny that the intensely hateful reaction to AI art is alike to every other reactionary movement and response to new forms, styles, and means of making art. Every critique of AI art can be applied to Fountain by Duchamp.

If you can see Fountain as art and as an artistic statement, then you have the intellectual tools to appreciate AI art not just as end-point product, but as intricate technological machine, as industrial production of art reproduced as art, as a profoundly powerful tool of art creation at anyone's fingertips. As a diffuse means to make everyone more capable of self-expression

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fountain_(Duchamp)

Eat shit abeists, and the budding AI art reactionaries letting them tag along and take over your fashy little petty bourgeoisie 'movement' to protect property.

If fucking pewdiepie can pick up the basics there's zero excuse. Just start drawing

[fictionkinfessions]

looks like its time for my hourly pine for kirishima moment 😔✌🏻 i fuckin miss my dumb boyfriend so much jfc. i just want to dye our hair together, and hold hands and look for frogs and ughhhh i'd do just about anything to be with him again. the day i find my eiji will be the best day of my life. literally every kirishima out there deserves all the happiness and love!! i hope every kirishima has the best day ever today, or at least get some nice rest 💚 - katsuki (can my tag be 🐸🧦🍓)

[leopardsealz-remaking]

i know its a waste of time but ladyfiszi’s transphobic ass is actually annoying me so fucking much

shes literally a piece of shit

[clewe]

How the hell do you find entertainment like podcasts and stuff without abeist language!?!?! Almost everything I see or hear uses words like lame to mean uncool, insane and dumb. It's infuriating.

[endoyamato]

ive blocked OP so i don't give a rat's ass if she doesn't see this (shes set in his views which it has a right to, this isn't to try and change them) but this is for anyone reading MY blog: this is an incredibly US-centric, incredibly offensive, incredibly depressing, and enraging take. i wanted to give mine, as someone who only and i mean ONLY survived due to psychotherapy and psychiatry.

i agree on some counts - perhaps, in many cases, your personality disorders are just trauma, just PTSD, yes. i agree that those are just different names given to different ways trauma manifests, and different ways symptoms show themselves. whether that is necessary or not, i am not at liberty to speak - in my opinion, yes, because the different symptoms need to be treated differently. and maybe my mesh of illnesses is just different names for different trauma responses, however what i take issue with is:

you want to process your trauma & to learn self acceptance and develop coping skills. (professional treatment is not necessary for this) - NO NO NO.

1. these coping skills were developed by therapists

2. for some of us professional treatment IS necessary

saying that this is all we need in order to feel/get better is bullshit and absolute drivel. i will not disclose my illnesses (several of which personality disorders) and i don't think it's necessary, but i was in therapy for 10 years and in a psychiatric hospital 3 times of my own volition and they ALL wanted to help me. they did not ignore me, talk badly to me, treat my diagnosis as if it makes me inherently worse, didn't dismiss me like a lot of the notes seem to say AND believed it was curable. im sorry MH in the US & maybe UK is so fucked up & that you had bad experiences but that doesnt mean there arent doctors elsewhere who DO want to help their patients. if you take away psychiatry you also take away peoples medication. and some of us need that. saying all this is akin to telling someone like me who might KILL HIMSELF without medications that "this is all a scam bro!"

and no, personality disorders arent just "bad person disease". in fact, a lot of therapists strongly oppose that & a lot of people think it's ableist to think so. yes, including NPD. it is NOT a "bad person disease" and nobody except quacks and abeist garbage actually believes that. + a lot of GOOD THERAPISTS actually prefer NOT to diagnose you, as they feel its very limiting.

someone in replies also seems to think the word trauma is bad or offensive and some ploy and to solve trauma we need to solve abuse and while i agree that we need to solve abuse, a lot of trauma didn't come from abuse. mine didn't. solving systematic abuse would not have kept me safe. therapists who wanted to help me and wanted to see me grow and be better for myself and others kept me safe.

your experience is not everybody's experience.

I bring a sort of "personality disorders aren't even real" vibe to everybody else within society that makes them really uncomfortable. But I'm right ♡

[bottlepiecemuses]

maybe learn what sociopath and psychoyic mean before you use them as insults lmfao cause you just look stupid and ableist

I am not abeistic it fits the description of people who are willing to kill to fit a world thy see right and think it's funny as well. It is disturbing to cheer for.

[a-heart-full-of-dumb]

About me

Hey hey! I thought I'd introduce myself a little bit.

You can call me River/Eden/Moth/Crow

I am 20 years old

I use they/ae/xe/ey pronouns

I identify as queer, demiromantic, ace and nonbinary/agender.

I am neurodivergent and disabled. I have a nonverbal learning disability and dyscalculia (and a whole bunch of currently undiagnosed stuff).

I am Dutch, English isn't my first language

What I post

My blog is a big of a mess tbh, but I mainly post about

LGBTQ+ content

Art and theatre content

(Mental) health related content

Musicals

Neurodivergent related content

Books, movies and series

Animals/nature

Witchcraft related content

Astrology

Mythical creatures/cryptids

Sometimes political content

Before you follow

I tag/put trigger warnings on:

Self harm related content

Suicidal related content

Eating disorders

Homophobia and transphobia

Religion

Abuse

Ableism

Hate speech

Cancer

Substance abuse/addiction

!! If I ever not tag something you really want me to tag, let me know !!

Do not interact if:

You're homophobic/transphobic/acephobic/exclusionist

You're a terf

You're racist

You're abeist

You're sexist

You're a nazi/neo-nazi/nazi apologist

Pedophile/ pedophile apologist/ ship pedo ships

You don't respect neopronouns and xenogenders

You're under 16

My pronouny thing

[gdheadtestified]

Welcome To My Page.

Hey, welcome.

I’m James/Sleep, 19 and any pronouns are fine.

You can see my pronouns here and some other things like my kins here.

I’ve been in-and-out of the HS fandom for 10 or so years. 

My alignments are Knight of Space, Derse, and Gemga.

Mainly a Homestuck blog but you might see other content too.

I do cuss so fair warning.

Requesting.

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Both kinnies and fictives are welcome to request here.

I do icons, ocs, some ships, sprite edits, and stim boards.

I don’t do gore, but some blood is okay (e.g. nosebleeds). I will do s/h scars (requests with s/h scars will be tagged appropriately with #triggering.)

I do both June and John edits aswell as all versions of Roxy and I will not edit for Bro Strider. Don’t try to fight with me on this. Thanks.

Please specify what kind of art you want, (e.g. simplistic sprites, Pesterquest sprites, etc..) and feel free to give me hex color codes for things like hair/skin for edits. Reference photo(s) needed for OCs.

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DNI.

Pretty basic DNI section; 

LGBT+ phobic or exclusionist, PoppyTWT, Terf/Transmed/Transcum, Proshipper/Anti-Anti, Racist/Nazis, Abeist, MAP/Pedo, Zoophile/Necrophile, or if you condone any of these.

Traumacore and Dreamcore make me uncomfortable, but you can still interact with me.

I’m also including condoning harmful relationships (e.g. Incest, Abusive Relationships, Yanderes, etc..) I don’t ever want to see this stuff requested.

Enjoy Your Stay.