#a toast to all the aros and aspecs and demis and everyone else no matter if you’ve figured yourself out or not!!

[in-a-vancaster]

I’m aromantic.

I’m cishet.

I don’t know my feelings, I don’t know what people are talking about, I don’t know how to express myself in a good way.

Just in general, fuck it

Is it so important to put people into your nice little boxes and determine if they’re “queer enough”? “Aro enough”?

I understand wanting to make a space for you, and those like you, but when you become what you swore to destroy, someone who discriminates because someone isn’t like you, you’ve missed the point. You can’t make criteria for queerness, because everyone experiences this differently.

To those who think there are those who aren’t aro enough, queer enough, and otherwise like you enough to fit into your box, I give a big fuck you, aro beam

To all of you who don’t know your place, don’t know your feelings, don’t know what you’re “supposed to be”

I love you, you deserve to have a place in a community that doesn’t shun those who don’t fill their strict criteria

[in-a-vancaster]

Community really does help, no matter how small it may be- thanks for the kind words, and do keep posting, it’s nice being reminded I’m not alone

*we’re not alone

I know you asked for anon hate, But id rather give nonanon love

This blog is wonderously supportive for me, an aro who doesn’t understand shit, and sometimes feels like I’m a fake

Your posts really just push the thought of “I’m not alone in this feeling” and that really helps

Have a wonderful day/night, week, month, year and decade, and keep being awesome!

thank you <22