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rigginsstreet · 2 months ago

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it is not enough to introduce an m/f/m throuple situation on a show you HAVE to let the dudes fuck. if the dudes are not also fucking then what is the purpose what are we doing what are we saying as a society!!!!

#the amount of times ive seen this done on shows is TOO MANY #ENOUGH!#IT IS NOT PROGRESSIVE #YOURE JUST BEING HOMOPHOBIC #yall means all or something idk

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poorly-drawn-mdzs · 1 year ago

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Bare skin, bare feelings.

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#poorly drawn mdzs #mdzs #lan wangji #wei wuxian #blood #Imagine coming off as homophobic to your crush so bad he weaponizes a strip tease against you.#LWJ is just having a storm of bad emotions. His tummy hurt real bad and he was just trying to be brave about it!#WWX is just trying to be a good bro and heal his friendcrush. It worked but not for the reasons he thinks it did.#LWJ's shyness is also hilarious here considering they have bathed together before. Literally nothing there he hasn't seen before.#Granted it was a few years back and before he was left to stew in his feelings.#LWJ is more focused on his pride than being responsible and reasonable (getting is wounds treated).#His arc really is about accepting that he can't be perfect. That there is importance in being honest and vulnerable.#The tragedy is that he realizes this way too late.#Pride is the worst sin because it destroys your ability to protect anything other than the smallest crown in the world.#When everyone is gone and you are left alone - was it worth it to feel safe and protected from showing your flaws?#Control over oneself is in conflict with connection to others. You cannot pick both.#Hanguang-jun appears to us as a 'perfect guy' but the truth is that he is the version of LWJ who is done with *needing* that validation.#And this time - He can properly reach out to those he wants to be close with.

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utilitycaster · 8 days ago

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I enjoy a friends-to-lovers story but when it comes to a lot of ships I don't like that are argued to fit that model the problem is usually one of two:

they were never that convincing or interesting as friends either

they work well as friends, but. have you ever been friends with someone and then worked with them or become their roommate and it didn't go well? Sometimes people are great friends because they do not need to make major life choices together and can agree to disagree on significant philosophical choices in a way that couples do not

#this should not be so hard like. one of the top reasons people break up is over wanting children #which. irrelevant to your average friendships.#but like. so many pitches for relationships in fandom are like. i think you mean friends #and i get we can be a little wary of Just Friends for the whole problem of like. Why Can't We Have Friendships used as a homophobic cudgel #but sometimes...the ships are still bad despite the friendship being good. sorry.

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spkyart · 1 month ago

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Peaceful

#have you ever drawn something so cheesy it pains your heart #i love the idea of hiei lifting kurama up so much you believe me #its because kurama is a big boy in both form so i think he would enjoy feeling small and light from time to time #just like hiei likes to climb on top of furniture and electric poles to feel the rush of being tall #they re so cute they make me sick i feel homophobic #they re celebrating something there choose your scenario bc i am too lazy to think also this #digital art #clip studio paint #yu yu hakusho #yuyu hakusho #yyh #hiei jaganshi #hiei #yyh hiei #kurahi #kurama #youko kurama #shuichi minamino #yyh kurama

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lady-lessobian · 14 days ago

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Haha silly tumblr lesbian, don't you know that you're missing out on half the population? That surely Mr. Right is out there if you look hard enough? Everyone's a little bit bisexual, there's certainly an exception out there for you somewhere. In fact, I don't believe you when you say you're gay- I mean sexuality is sooo fluid, right? Aren't you being bigoted by not being into men? Isn't turning down a man such a bigoted and hateful thing to do? When will you find a man? Go find a man now. Go find a man or you're a terrible person. It is imperative that you find yourself a man. It's simply against nature that you refuse to make yourself available to men.

#hh. vent. sorry #lesbophobia #everyones first fault was supporting a post made by someone with a harry potter url #but i didnt even have to make up anything here. this is just what people were saying #im just shattered at this point. how am i supposed to feel any sense of community #when your response to someone being gay is 'I don't believe you'#all of the gay people in the notes having to whip themselves like 'im sorry im sorry! i wish i was and i tried hard to be bi'#'but i just couldnt be!' what are we fucking doing!!!#why are we making mr/mrs right a progressive stance! why are we making 'choosing to be gay' a progressive stance!#its fine to be bisexual but when you're going around tauting that you don't think homosexuality exists #then you're not a part of any queer or lgbtq community. you're just bi and homophobic #delete later #probably #people get very mad when gay people dont let themselves be kicked down #fr saw someone say a bisexual being mean to homosexuals is 'punching up'

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mamawasatesttube · 2 months ago

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some of u are just a lil too comfortable being homophobic i fear

#rimi talks #do u guys understand that calling someone a twink in a derogatory sense even if ''ur joking'' and ''ur also queer'' is like. homophobic #do u guys understand that ''twink'' refers to a body type #do u guys understand that referring to ''twinks'' in derogatory ways (usually while conflating twinks with always being bottoms and subs)#is in fact still being homophobic. you are acting like being ''''''the woman'''''' in sex is the same thing as being passive/submissive #and that it is linked to being physically smaller than your partner also #like if you point at a man and go ahaha this twink could never top [x] you are being homophobic. sorry! maybe do some soul searching #am i vaguing some shit i saw just now? yeah but its so prevalent you could guess anything lol

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tadfools · 1 year ago

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I don’t want to say this where this comment was added because while it was rb’ed from me, the root post isn’t mine and I don’t want to drag op in a circus tent. Do we really need to put homophobic on the highest shelf up from the tik tok folks?

This is about Kethric and ????? Homophobic coded??? Statistically and logically speaking, there are going to be queer people that you do not get along with and that you don't like in real life. That's just the way people are. And it's not because we're queer, it's because we're human

Kethric doesn’t hate Aylin because she’s a lesbian. He despises her because she is the child of Selûna, because he believes that she corrupted Isobel - not with queer cooties but with the love of a goddess who he felt betrayed him

If Aylin was a man, the hatred would not be diluted at all

#baldurs gate 3 #bg3 discourse #kethric thorm #if your hatred or annoyance with someone is caused by I don’t know? them always chewing with their mouth open?#you could not like them and that doesn’t make you homophobic if they're queer #If you hate a guy because he’s married to a man or because of the cadence in his voice thats being homophobic #being queer doesn’t give you a 'everyone loves me or they're homophobic' pass #please don't let this line of thinking bleed into real life #plenty of us are ass holes. its not cause we're queer its because we are humans with flaws just like everyone else #i didn't go check this person age but god i hope they're a kid and not 30

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sukibenders · 14 days ago

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Not some JayViks are calling Arcane, specifically the show creators and writers, even animators, homophobic for not catering to their ship...even though the show's main couple is wlw...

#arcane #anti jayvik #anti arcane fandom #like in my opinion a big thing that's annoying with this ship & it's stans is how they pick and choose what fits them #and then make it everyone else's problem #first they were celebrating jayvik's ending and now they are complaining and trying to force it into the noxus narrative #you can't find hardly anything about other ships or characters or even jay & vik separately without this ship being added #it's everywhere #and many of them use the excuse of homophobia (when again that's not true) to mask their misogyny and racism when discussing mel in the same #breath bc why do they always have to drag her into discussions to secretly shit on her? it's weird!#and there's nothing wrong with shipping jayvik but to go and harass the actual creators just for not getting your way is wrong #and then to act like they didn't give you multiple forms of queerness rep bc of ONE ship is so ungrateful and entitled #another thing: attempting to drown out criticism of antiblackness and misogynoir by framing it as homophobia is also wrong #stop existing in a vacuum and actually listen #(calling something homophobic when a wlw is the main ship...do u not see them as queer rep tho?)

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thebroccolination · 9 months ago

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THE EX-MORNING SERIES CONCEPT

By now I think many people have heard that KristSingto’s upcoming series is an original script that was written for them. What we also have confirmed is that it was written about them.

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KRIST: This series was written by P'Backaof and directed by P'Lit where they created this script from the start deliberately for the two of us and they got information for the characters etc. from KristSingto directly. In the series, the name for P'Sing is Tamtawan, and my name is Phatapi. And Tamtawan Tamtawan and Phatapi are KristSingto themselves.

INTERVIEWER: Does that mean you play yourself?

KRIST: [laughing] Yes, we act as ourselves, so it's not difficult at all.

Today, Aof elaborated on his part on Twitter:

[source: @backaof]

[translation: @_beinglistener]

And Jojo added:

[source: @jojotichakorn]

[translation: @_beinglistener]

So, two gay men are the leading creative minds behind KristSingto’s comeback series. Time to study up on your KristSingto history, kids. \:D/

Long live sanctioned RPF. 🎉

#krist perawat #singto prachaya #kristsingto #the ex morning #i’ve already seen the same tired ‘guess rent was due’ about krist and #i see on twitter when people link my thread about krist to people still insisting he’s homophobic #man’s rich #he works constantly #he even said it’s something he regrets now that his grandmother who raised him passed away #he worked so much he didn’t have as much time for his family—who he helps support #he is quite literally considered bl royalty #he has more queer people in his circle than straight #waa (gay) is his mentor #aof (gay) wrote this series and jojo (gay) thought up the concept so even professionally he's supported by queer people #you don’t have to like him #and you don’t have to admit to sending death threats to a stranger who doesn’t speak your language based on rumors you didn’t verify #just y’know #admit quietly to yourself alone in your head that you were wrong and you caused harm to a person who didn’t deserve it #plenty of actors use bl as a stepping stone to bigger jobs #he’s not one of them #he wanted to do bl for years but gmmtv told him he could only work with singto #so literally the only reason kit didn’t do bl until BMF was scheduling issues because singto wanted to study abroad #and singto couldn’t get a fixed date for it and then the pandemic messed with his plans even more #i’m glad to see more and more people are understanding who krist is recently #and even in the series they made pathapi’s controversy an impulsive act of anger #krist has said he used to struggle with being hotheaded #and one of his apologies for the igs was even something like ‘i acted without thinking of how it would look out of context’#he just wanted people to stop harassing him for his sexuality but the context isn’t in the igs #anyway my go-to when i’m too tired to talk about this is always this #if he had ever been homophobic thai people would be the ones leading the charge against him…but it’s interfans

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theposhperyton · 9 months ago

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All evidence suggests yes

#starting a new power scaling system for the warlords of the sea but im rating them based on whether i think theyre an ally or homophobic #kuma is an ally because photos dont lie and hes clearly wearing an ally pin #also you cant spend that much time around somebody with the title “Queen of the Queers” and somehow be homophobic afterwards #unless youre sanji but hes still on his internalized homophobia growth arc. i believe in you buddy you can beat this #crocodile is trans and baroque works is the alphabet mafia in a literal form #with that said. he has the energy of “im not homophobic yall are just annoying”#doffy has the energy of a homophobic homosexual #like hed kiss a guy and then call him a f*g and throw him out a nearby window #jimbei joins the strawhats so ofc HES an ally #blackbeard sucks but i dont think hes homophobic #hes one of those people you meet and theyre just the worst all around and youre like “man this guy has gotta be homophobic”#somebody mentions their partner and you go “oh boy here it is” but he just has no reaction whatsoever #hes such a problem but at least hes not homophobic on top of everything else #Gecko Moria is such a virgin that i dont think he knows being gay exists any more than he knows being straight does #Typa MFer who thinks “sex” is just a synonym for gender #also hed see your top scars and get excited because he thinks youre a zombie #gecko moria probably thinks LGBT is an acronym for some branch of the navy that he doesnt know (or care) about #Because Boa lives on Sapphic island i would jump the gun and immediately say she's an ally but i feel that its more complicated than that #not unlike moria. she also doesnt actually have a real strong grasp on being straight vs being queer #but thats just because shes used to everybody being whipped for her equally #somebody tries to explain it to her and shes just like “??? but theyre all obsessed with me?”#if she ever encounters a gay man it will be a reality shifting event for her #id say itd be the same if she met a sex/romance indifferent aroace but like #monkey d luffy #its already happened #mihawk is probably both an ally and queer himself but he just minds his own business so much that we may never know #one piece #seven warlords #warlords of the sea #bartholomew kuma

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xaneix-k · 4 months ago

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The two only canon female characters being old ladies? How yuriful~ 👭🏳️‍🌈💞

Parkour Civilization rates a 1/3 in the Bechdel test (if you squint reall hard) so this the only possible wlw interaction we have lmao

#parkour civilization #made this for giggles and shits #seawatt's not being homophobic he's just in utter shock #also my friend told me that since they're both from the parkour fighters level they had an actual probable chance of interacting #do that what you will #also if your asking about his dad lets just say he supports his poly bisexual wife #seawatt

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poorly-drawn-mdzs · 2 years ago

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Stop flirting and start fighting

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#poorly drawn mdzs #mdzs #wei wuxian #lan wangji #some people read these comics without knowledge of the source material so this is your *warning for spoilers* in the tags #Wwx in the audio drama gets *so* flustered when lwj kneels down to inspect his leg. Only for the curse mark and arm to start raging #poor nmj: jin ling was obnoxious but at least he wasn’t *this* bad #homophobic only for these two. and honestly...yeah. look at them. listen to them.#i think its key to not separate wangxian from being extremely obnoxious around each other #you’re happy for them but god you want them to shut the hell up.#welcome to my cayboy nmj agenda btw. If there is a Nya Huaisang there must be a Nya Meowjue #wwx puts his pants back on soon but remember: he’s the secret third party member from now on B*)#Every time they flirt in his presence he makes those faces.#once again: that is just one arm bouncing around like an enraged dvd logo. not 3 separate arms.

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strewwwberry · 4 months ago

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I love the idea of characters like meng mo and ming fan being total haters of bingqiu so much, and being like "you unnatural fiends!"

(mainly to binghe but that's totallyyyy irrelevant)

And both lbh and sqq(y) drawing the conclusion:

Oh, they’re homophobic

But then one day they come along and Ming fan is like oh I’m bisexual coz I realized nyy doesn’t love me and sees me like a brother but my “insert male disciple friend” is actually kinda cute, and meng mo being like “I’ve fucked a guy when I had a body”

(-these are my beautiful crack headcanons that I thought of while writing this and reading back in like, that fits actually)

And then bingqiu is like ??????

And then mf and mm are just like oh, i (we) don’t think you’re freaks for being gay, i (we) just think your freaks because… you are

#BAHAHAGA #STG #bingqiu being like #ugh homophobes #and then they’re like #watching them and are like #wtff #meng mo is a bigger hater because he doesn’t just find Binghe to be the epitome of freak #whereas Ming fan is like shizun must have a reason #he probably has a reason #please have a fucking reason shizun #they both agree that Binghe needs to grow some eyeballs and sort out his freak a lil #and meng mo is like looking at sqq(y) like an insect like #your secretly freakier then this moron aren’t you 🤨#(and he’s so right) 💀#hp x svsss #shen qingqiu #pidw #luo binghe #ming fan #meng mo #meng mo support group #meng go definitely needs therapy after living inside binghe’s mund #the spring dreams I can only speculate #he’s just like “I’m an idiot for choosing this child but thank god I didn’t end up in the mind of his unbidden #obsession #posts

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general-ysines · 3 months ago

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somebody said alnst was an example of burying your gays bc theyre doomed and its like. no? that isnt what burying your gays is? at all? media literacy please come back i need you

#alnst #alien stage #theyre doomed and happen to be gay #they arent dying cuz theyre gay or gay because theyre dying #theyre gay bc vivinos has a history of producing queer media #and theyre doomed because alien stage is a tragic story that will most likely have a bad ending #they are both but the causes of being both are unrelated to each other #and burying your gays in its actual uses makes gay characters “more expendable” than straight ones #but in alnst the focus is on gay characters and their deaths are the groundwork and plot of the series #there is no expendability #and they arent being removed from the plot in the way burying your gays is meant to do #sua and ivan are still very important characters despite death that get good attention from the series?#and the gay characters (mizisua and ivantill) are more important to the story than the “straight characters” (hyunaluka)#if alien stage is an example of the bury your gays trope its doing a really fucking awful job at what that trope is meant to do #they are gay people who happen to be dead #its not related and it isnt homophobic they just happen to both be true and coexisting #gay people can have tragic storylines without being discriminated against

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lgbtlunaverse · 9 months ago

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Everytime I see discourse about kink or nudity at pride I get reminded of the time I went to pride a few years ago with my mother and my sibling- who was 17 at the time and is somewhere on the ace spectrum- and about halfway through, the march went under a gatehouse. Some inhabitants were sitting in their open windows watching the parade. Right before we crossed under them, one of them decided to just... take her shirt off. She wasn't wearing a bra. And you know what happened? People whooped and cheered, and then kept walking. That's it. And there were kids around!! They didn't care. My sibling didn't care. My mother, a cisgender heterosexual woman in her 50s, did not care.

This stuff stops being such a big deal when you go offline. It was basically the same amount of boob you'd see in any perfume ad. No one was like 'what about the children?' And if you didn't wanna see it and looked down, no one would've called you a puritanical prude for that. And it helps to remind myself of that everytime I see kink at pride discourse getting rehashed because at actual pride, people don't care.

#pride #kink discourse #lgbtqia #lgbtq #kink at pride #something DID make my mom uncomfortable later. and it was a bunch of gay guys in front of us making homophobic jokes at each other #she went 'i know they're gay so it's technically hamless but i just don't think it's right'#so it's not like she's some kind of radical liberated queer activist or anything she's just your average liberal parent #and she did not care about this! at all!#to be clear discomfort with sex in an amatonormative society is perfectly fine and normal #'disgust has no ethical weight' goes both for what triggered the disgust response and for the person having the disgust response #and i think i also want to say to those people who don't want to be labeled 'puritans' but can't help the discomfort #i've found people are generally also a lot more gracious about THAT irl #if they aren't being told 'leave' but 'let's make sure you can ignore this and have a good time'#most people who aren't assholes will be receptive to that #i think maybe queer people could stand to learn from disabled people and the way they deal with conflicting access needs #for example allowing support animals excludes people with allergies #you can't get around that by declaring either of these groups unwelcome you have to find a balance #and try to help as many people as you can while compromising

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sinnbaddie · 7 months ago

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Partner⁉️

#maito gai #kakashi hatake #kakagai #gaikaka #sins kkg #sins gai #sins kakashi #sins kakagai #he had no reason to call himself Kakashi’s partner #they were not on the same team or anything he just said this freely no hesitance #he said that shit with his chest too #*as Kakashi’s partner!* YOURE GAY‼️ YOU KISS HIM AND HE KISSES YOU‼️#do y’all think they had a conversation about what to call each other #cuz Gai easily could’ve said rival best friend comrade etc #but he chose partner so I’m thinking this was pre-decided #hiruzen being fed up with Gai and Kakashi’s homosexuality you homophobic bitch fuck you

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