#Wherela

[thebirdandhersong]

at @wherela's recommendation I listened to the whole album yesterday and I'm happy to report that Lizzy McAlpine's five seconds flat personally still makes me want to throw up

[greater-than-the-sword]

@wherela

the name "theresa" is so funny like. theres a what

[lizzibennet]

bestie how did you learn so many languages?

honestly like the main factor was that when i was a teen i did not give a shit about school and all of my time was spent reading for leisure, and some of that reading (/listening to music) was in foreign languages lmao my native is portuguese and all the other languages i speak apart from english are also latin based so it was always a matter of just immersing myself in the languages and hoping for the best 😭 i also like naturally gravitate towards grammar n shit i genuinely like studying it so. it was always very low effort tbqh i honestly just like gradually added them into my life and went at whatever rhythm felt right

[imissthembutitwasntadisaster]

Grace I adore how much you read. I strive to read this much someday

<3<3<3 Kayla this is so kind! and lovely to hear actually because I stopped reading mostly when I hit my last two years of highschool and I'm really trying to get back into the habit and it's HARD and I tend to feel that I don't do enough, so this made me really happy. When you do read, let me know what you've been reading, I love talking about books and I'm always down for recs (although it may take Many Moons before I get to them XD)

[kiekiecarrera]

Hey, so I found your Jiara fic yesterday, and absolutely loved it!! I read the entire thing in one sitting, it was exactly what I needed for that afternoon!! Loved the characterisation (it felt true to the characters), the angst, the way you wrote their chemistry, the way I could feel their chemistry. It was perfect!!!!!

omgggg ty so so much!! that makes me so happy :') so glad you liked everything (and saying it felt true to the characters plssss) you really made my day!!! <3

[graveyarrdshift]

How does it feel to be my first and only polish mutual(affectionate) ???

No way, I'm your first and only polish mutual?! I think I have just 2 or 3 mutuals who are also from Poland, but I'm not sure anymore. Most of my mutuals are also from America, so my dash is incredibly boring sometimes. So it's always nice to meet someone here who's also from Poland!

[xcleanx]

You're polish??????????????

i am!! are you polish too? :)

[catkin-morgs-kookaburralover]

@stealingmyplaceinthesun HANDS @wherela

North & South (2004) | Episode One, hands

[official-chocolate]

Bestie!!!!! How are you????

Hellloooooo I’m stressed as hell ngl but I’m still happy (I think???) how are you bby

[jakeperalta]

Speak now or sparks fly

sparks fly ✨ 💫

[lizzibennet]

How do you feel about the fact that the PJO and Bridgerton s3 will probably come out at around the same time?

(I am basing this solely on the fact that they're both in the early stages of filming - pjo a little earlier actually, but I assume the production might take them a little longer cause it's the 1st season)

I AM NOT STRONG ENOUGH…

[ohifonlyx33]

@wherela I'm so sorry I'm laughing at this 😭

[imissthembutitwasntadisaster]

Sending you an ask!

Love Grows (Where My Rosemary Goes) by Edison Lighthouse (I love this song so much) or Let The Rain by Sara Bareilles!!!

Send me an ask I'll say what song I think fans would use for edits of you if you were a fictional character

[thejudgingtrash]

Okay so here's the thing: I have a platonic crush on this guy in my class (meaning I just wanna be besties), and like we talk sometimes, but not as much as I'd like to and I'm really awkward and have no idea how to initiate conversations with him and it's really bugging me rn.

You wanted asks and that's what I was thinking about so umm do whatever you want with this I guess 🤷

Hey there!

I kinda had to let this simmer a bit because I had to think over some stuff.

Regardless of whether it’s a platonic or a romantic relationship, there has to be some sort of chemistry between the two of you. It’s still difficult maintaining a relationship even if it’s “only” platonic. Gaining a solid circle of friends (IRL) is equally as difficult as jumping into a romantic relationship, I don’t get why people pretend those are two separate stages in separate levels.

You feel like you behave awkwardly, but does he make you feel that way or is it your own nervousness? Does he act in a particular way (frowning, slightly moving away from you, etc) that shows he’s uncomfortable? If not, you’re fine, I’d say.

Since you interact with him in class, you already have some common ground to start off conversations. I know that, I’m currently in the middle of meeting new people due to my master’s program 😄

What I’d do in your situation, would be branching off from school related topics into interests and relations. School is a good start for a conversation but it can get fairly redundant and boring. Branch it off by asking him to what sort of music he listens to. Is he a gamer? Is he an anime nerd? Are there any movies or tv shows that might interest the both of you?

Pop culture and media is an easy way of getting behind someone and then you can try to find out if your value system is the same (do you believe in certain rights, what is unjustly to do, which great problems are each of you facing that the other might help to resolve?).

This is just what I would do (as I’m currently doing so and I’ve met a ton of great people so far!!)

And of course it all depends on how close you already are and how comfortable the two of you are with each other ☺️

Good luck!!

[graveyarrdshift]

This is a tumblr hug, or a tumblr high five, or a tumblr sitting in the same room together, pass it on to your ten favorite followers or mutuals ♥️

Thank you so much Kayla! You're the best! 💞

[no-mere-mortals]

∞

"Somehow I got older, year by busy year

Guess the songs kept playing, but I didn't stop to hear

All that youth and swagger turned to grown-up doubt

As the world spun like a record, and the music faded out"

-Where Did the Rock Go from School of Rock