#We are in some polymind and system shared spaces

[starstruck-sillies]

Ahhh I see, thanks for informing me!

I think it is fine for them to have their shared spaces, just that I and many other traumagens are wary about if they're as similar to us as they say, and oppose them comparing themselves to us is the main thing. There definitely have been plenty of pwCDDs who have benefitted from mixed-origin spaces, and their experiences aren't any less valid than those who have been hurt by them.

And ofc!! We love having conversations about this, we find it much more helpful to actually talk to the other side of things and hear them out than just shutting them down, it's helped us learn things!

-Milkyway and Xero

Some of our (apparently) Hot Takes

Modern "Tulpamancy" is a bastardization of an ancient closed practice, and claiming to be a "Tulplagenic System" is both shitty to actual systems AND cultural appropriation Anecdotal evidence is NOT the same as scientific evidence and a few scientists using anecdotes to say "Yea endos are probably real" is not only not enough evidence to prove they are real, but is also extremely unscientific, stop treating it like it's infallible evidence

Fictives are NOT their sources, and as such no fictive needs to apologize for anything their source did, regardless of if they're source connected or identify with their source

Source dating is extremely fucking weird stop doing that

Feeding into and reinforcing delusions is awful, extremely anti-recovery, and outright dangerous. Stop defending IRLs/DAs and insisting it's fine

Regular trauma survivors who don't have CDDs don't belong in CDD spaces (genuinely can't believe we have to say this, this goes for endos too yall don't belong either)

"Doubles" are fucking stupid, and fictives are not doubles

Just because you experience something vaguely similar to a symptom of a disorder, that doesn't automatically mean you have the disorder, or that your experience is exactly the same as someone who has the disorder

Feel free to add on to this, or fight me idc

-Milkyway and Xero