#Understanding Dog Body Language - Learn how to read dogs behavior better

[creaturefeaster]

Any tips on raising animals, specifically dogs? Just had a puppy today and named it after Frigus lol.

Long paragraphs below, hiding under a readmore. Also I absolutely love that. There's a real freakin' Frigus out there..... wow...

There's a lot of common sense things you could probably easily find online, but something that I think is always very swept under the rug is pure consistency. That goes with any animal. An animal is not going to be able to learn to be comfortable around you, if it doesn't know what to expect.

If you are tipping your toes around trying to avoid scaring a flighty dog all the time, you best be prepared to do that the entire time you own them because that is what they will learn to work with. Otherwise when you try acting normally, it will confuse and stress them out. If you just behave as you will from the start, not compromising your way of life for the sake of your pet, they will adapt and be happier for it, understanding you at your most you, knowing what to expect.

I grew up around a lot of dogs, big and small. Cats too. My first real pets I raised myself were chickens, ducks, and geese. I have a rescue dog now too. Chickens become very flighty of you and any other human if you don't hang around them enough, touch them, hand feed them. Bother them all their life, they get used to it and sometimes even learn to love it. At the very least they grow up to tolerate it enough for me to be able to look at them when they are hurt. They know what to expect from me, after all.

My geese become agitated around other people, because those people (understandably!) clam up and act awkwardly. They change and stiffen their body language. If there is anything I've learned from my geese it'd be to never waver. Don't aggress, of course, but a lot of animals in the pet world have different levels of "how much can I get away with?". Geese have very high levels, and the second you let them know they've scared you, they take fullll advantage of that. They like to have fun bothering things if they can get away with it. So being consistent in your body language is key. And I'm not going to work around the lot constantly being stiff. I'm going to walk like me, and they understand that because I've never done anything different.

Dogs, for instance, may see you giving into their stubbornness every now and then-- they are sitting down when you don't walk they way they want to walk, so you end up going they way they want, for instance-- and double down each time you try to correct this behavior. If they know they've gotten away with it in the past, they will probably be able to get away with it again. It can be awkward, or boring, but if you're consistent about not giving in (or at least not rewarding them in any way if you can't get them to behave), they won't know that the probability exists to begin with.

Other than that... respect boundaries. Learn their body language in turn. A lot of sites will tell you what to look for in dogs in terms of fear, stress, early aggression, body tension, whatever. They're good starter points, but every dog is different. Every animal is different. Some are easier to read than others, and some tolerate things better than others. Some have different histories and backgrounds and past experiences that shape their reactions. You have a puppy so hopefully this part won't apply to you. But some dogs, they'll show those whites under their eyes even if they aren't stressed. Some dogs are growly but they don't mean it in an aggressive way. Like I said, it can be hard to correctly read some dogs until you get to know them.

Always familiarize and reinforce handling them-- if you want your dog to like pets as an adult, of course you always reinforce petting as a puppy! That mindset goes for everything you want your dog to tolerate you doing in the future, but sometimes dogs also just don't like certain things, and if your dog ends up hating their paws played with no matter how much you've tried, you shouldn't do it more than necessary if you can tell it stresses them out. Or you try and make it fun, which can work (as long as you're consistent, which is basically the theme of this ask at this point)... but it still might not always help. Depends on their temperment. It's good to try offering treats and other fun stuff while enforcing behaviors that are a little scary or stressful for a dog, to see if it helps. But if it doesnt, just learn to respect them if you can't buy their tolerance, lol.

And also if your puppy is a purebreed of anything, I hope you read up on their energy levels and temperments and proper coat care and the like, and that you're prepared to match those needs. It's too sad seeing people get border collies or other high energy dogs, but they live in an apartment or they never give them anything to occupy themselves with. It's sad to see very busy people getting breeds that thrive best in human company. Sad to see dogs with high maintenance coats being neglected the amount of time and care they need.

Okay okay okay very wordy I'll end it here, but those are just things I always wish more pet owners practiced and considered. 🪿🖤

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We have a new citizen in Mount Phoenix:

          Kim Seungmin, a 22 year old son of Hades.          He is a librarian at Phoenix Library & Museum.

FC NAME/GROUP: Kim Seungmin / Stray Kids CHARACTER NAME: Kim Seungmin AGE/DATE OF BIRTH: 22 / September 22nd, 2000 PLACE OF BIRTH: Seoul, South Korea OCCUPATION: Librarian at the Phoenix Library & Museum HEIGHT: 5’10 WEIGHT: 123lbs DEFINING FEATURES:

He has an aura of quiet and calm radiating around him

He has a sharp and calculating gaze that can sometimes feel like he’s seeing right through you, that he can see who you are at your core with just a glance

He wears glasses sometimes

Piercings: Three in his left ear (2 lobe, 1 cartilage), three in his right ear (1 lobe, 2 cartilage).

PERSONALITY: Seungmin is… quiet. He used to talk more, be more open, friendly, and comfortable interacting with people. But after a few years of being “too” friendly and “too” open, saying things some people would rather not hear or things they refused to believe and responding with hostility or anger– Seungmin just stopped talking and interacting unless he was spoken to first. He also just… dropped the friendliness too.

 Instead of friendly or open remarks, Seungmin started to respond with more bluntness and an undercurrent of an extremely sharp tongue. He takes no shit from people and can be rather sarcastic and to the point in a way that leaves no room for questions.

He’s not unfriendly persay, just very hard to get to know. He can be a bit of a savage as well, laying into people with biting comments if they trigger his defenses and unwillingness to talk more openly.

He says what he thinks and will not back down when his opinions are challenged, he argues his point to be sure he’s understood and to show he’s not a weak person. He’s not mean or nasty, just sharp because he learned that’s the only way to talk to people sometimes. He has a good heart deep down, his care for people or creatures who truly matter to him bringing out a much gentler nature. It takes work to get behind all his defenses but once you do you have one of the most loyal and true to heart people you could ever meet. He’s fiercely loyal to his friends, protective and caring.

If you betray him however, break that trust you gained after all the work you had to put into getting through all those layers he has built up… you better run because hell hath no fury like a child of hades scorned.

HISTORY: As a baby, Seungmin had been left alone in a ditch shivering and cold with a threadbare blanket wrapped around his small body. He’d been found later, nearly frozen to death and quickly brought to a community home for abandoned children. Everything was fine until he was old enough to talk, often pointing out how people had things following them. ‘Shadows’ that seemed to want to speak with them.

For some, they realized they were deceased relatives.

Often, they were far too creeped out by that fact to really understand so rather than talking to Seungmin about it- they punished him. They said nasty things and often claimed that was the reason he’d never be adopted out. After all that- Seungmin stopped. He stopped talking about the shadows and instead turned to reading. He read a lot, consumed a lot of books of all kinds and learned languages for fun.

He never did get adopted out either, his past talk of shadows tarnishing his ‘adoptability’ for people in the years that followed.

Soon enough, the moment he was turning eighteen had come and he ended up on the streets. For most places when a child ages out of the system, said child was supposed to be given a starting point of sorts. A small apartment and a job. Seungmin was not given that and instead spent his eighteenth birthday trying to find a dry and comfortable enough area to shelter from the oncoming cold.

Two days later, Seungmin met a small pack of stray dogs and upon observing some odd behaviors from them he chanced asking them if they knew a good place to shelter from the cold. To his surprise, the dogs began leading him to a place he could get out of the cold.

It was a stray animal haven, and there he met the first ever parental figure he’d ever had. A kindly woman with a connection between her and her strays that surpassed all expectations. It was there he was given a bed, a roof to sleep under, and food to eat. He stayed there for a few years, learning what he could to help the woman and her strays up until one day he was approached by a Spirit. For most of his life he’d only known them as shadows but this time he could see the spirit so clearly he knew what it was. The spirit had a connection with the woman he was staying with and though he was hesitant… Once again Seungmin decided to try becoming a mediator between a living person and their deceased connection.

This time he received positivity, a thank you. Instead of fear and rejection.

After that, the woman told him about a place. A place where he could find answers and a place where he’d be welcomed by others like himself (others like her as well, though she never sought it out as she never needed it as much as others do). She told him her suspicions about who his father might be, as it had to be Hades. There was no other reason why he could see and interact with spirits like he could as well as have the dogs interact with him in the ways they do. Like he was their leader that they would follow without question.

She urged him to travel to Mount Phoenix, a place where he might find more answers about himself and what he could do. And so, with clear instructions on how to get there- Seungmin packed up his few belongings, promised to visit the kindly woman when he could now and then, and made his way to Mount Phoenix to see what awaited him there.

PANTHEON: Greek CHILD OF: Hades POWERS:

The Ability to Sense, Summon, and Speak to Ghosts

Dogs obey him without question

STRENGTHS:

He will not waver in the face of unfairness or adversity.

He knows how to protect himself and others.

He can easily tell when someone is bullshitting him. He learned how to pay attention to people’s nervous tics and generalized habits from a very young age.

WEAKNESSES:

His sharp tongue and blunt nature makes him difficult to approach.

He doesn’t give chances to people very often. If someone fucks up once, they don’t get another chance.

He has difficulty opening up to others and trusting people too deeply. He’s spent too long building up his defenses to keep himself safe and unhurt.

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Have you ever wondered how well your furry friend really understands you? As it turns out, dogs are incredibly skilled at reading human body language and facial expressions, even better than some other animals such as chimpanzees and bonobos!

Research has shown that dogs are able to interpret human cues and understand our intentions, emotions, and even some of our words. For example, when we point to an object, dogs are able to follow our gesture and look in the direction we're indicating. Similarly, they're able to recognize and respond to a variety of human emotions, such as happiness, anger, and fear, and adjust their behavior accordingly.

One of the reasons why dogs are so good at understanding us is because they've been selectively bred for thousands of years to work alongside humans. From hunting and herding to providing companionship and assistance, dogs have played an important role in human society and have evolved to be attuned to our needs and behaviors.

In addition, dogs are highly social animals that rely on communication to interact with their pack mates. They use a variety of body postures, vocalizations, and scents to convey information and establish social hierarchies. When interacting with humans, dogs may use these same communication methods to signal their intentions and respond to our cues.

Of course, every dog is unique and may have their own individual strengths and weaknesses when it comes to understanding human behavior. Some dogs may be particularly skilled at reading facial expressions, while others may excel at following verbal commands. However, with proper training and socialization, most dogs can learn to understand and respond to a wide range of human cues.

Create a stronger bond with your furry friend and enjoy a happier, more fulfilling life together - start training with us now!"

So the next time you're interacting with your furry friend, remember that they may be picking up on more than you realize. By being aware of your own body language and cues, and using positive reinforcement training techniques, you can strengthen your bond with your dog and improve your communication skills. After all, a well-trained dog is not only a joy to be around, but also a true companion that understands you like no other

[catofgooddecisions]

I use these buttons for my dog, and I agree with all of the above. This is communication, but it's communication for the human's benefit so that we can benefit our dogs better. They are not learning speech. But speech is better for us, so we let them "borrow" it. lol As another example: you've probably seen people with bells on their front or back doors so the dogs can ring them when they want to go out. Or dogs that will bark, sit by the door, scratch, ect. These are functionally the same as the button for "outside". The dog is doing a behavior for the sole purpose of communicating their desires to the human. What we've done with the buttons is show the dog that if they hit this button, they will be taken outside. Thus, we've shown the dog the optimal way to communicate this desire with us, and modified their behavior. And the dogs know that these buttons are for communication, even if they don't understand why or how. Our dog will hit buttons at random if she wants something that there isn't a button for. But you know what? That's effective too. We know that she wants our attention, and now we invest in reading her body language and offering possible solutions to see what she wanted to tell us. So I rate those buttons 10/10, but please go into them with proper expectations and research into R+ training methods and behavior modification.

Do you think those cat/dogs learning to talk with buttons thing is actually accurate? I know even primates apparently dont know how to parse human words (with regards to sign language) so i struggle to understand why dogs or cats suddenly understand complex english

They don’t actually understand what the buttons mean. These animals aren’t capable of processing language like we humans do and they tend to react more to your tone and visual cues then the actual words you’re saying. 

The buttons are just very basic operant conditioning. I very basic form of cognition in animals. They press the buttons because they are rewarded for doing so, not because they actually understand the meaning behind the buttons.

You can see in those videos (they do usually edit it out, but sometimes the creator of these videos just outright admits it) that it can take their pet something like 15 - 20 minutes to respond via the buttons.

Claims that the pets are asking questions ect. feel very staged / trained (like the below for example). Remember these videos are all coming from people on tiktok and people will do anything for a bit of internet fame. Scientific research has shown that dogs do not pass the “mirror test” but the mirror test is a very outdated way to show self-recognition in animals.

You compare this to the language studies done by Pepperberg with African Grey Parrots like Alex; in which they were able to ask questions they weren’t already trained to ask, form sentences they weren’t previously trained to do, display self-recognition (via asking what colour they were), could understand syntax and form their own words eg. Alex called apples “banerries”,  a combination of "banana" and "cherry", two fruits he was more familiar with.

I prefer not to touch on koko the gorilla because that research is already pretty widely criticised with a lack of actual data, and there was evidence of the Clever Hans effect (her trainers' unconscious cues were prompting her to display specific signs). 

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Socializing Your Puppy: Why Puppy School is More Than Just Training

Puppy school offers far more than basic obedience training; it provides crucial socialization experiences that shape a well-rounded, confident dog. During the early months of life, puppies are particularly receptive to new experiences, making this the ideal time to introduce them to the world around them. Here’s why puppy school plays a vital role in socialization and why it's an essential part of your pup's development.

1. The Importance of Early Socialization

 Socialization is the process of introducing a puppy to new people, animals, environments, and situations in a controlled, positive way. It’s essential for building a dog’s confidence and teaching them how to respond calmly in various circumstances. A well-socialized puppy is less likely to develop anxiety or aggression later in life, making early socialization experiences critical to their emotional well-being.

 2. Why Puppy School Is the Perfect Setting for Socialization

 Puppy school offers a safe, structured environment where your puppy can interact with other puppies, people, and new experiences under the guidance of a professional. This controlled exposure allows puppies to develop social skills without overwhelming them. Through guided interactions, your puppy learns essential behaviors and builds confidence, which can be difficult to achieve through at-home training alone.

 3. Building Positive Associations with New Experiences

Exposure to new experiences is one of the main goals of puppy school, and it goes beyond simple obedience. Puppies encounter a variety of stimuli, from different sounds and surfaces to diverse people and other animals. This variety helps them adapt to new situations and reduces the likelihood of fear-based reactions. The more positive interactions they have, the more resilient and adaptable they’ll be in the future.

 4. Learning How to Play and Communicate with Other Dogs

Understanding social cues from other dogs is essential for healthy interactions, and puppy school provides ample opportunity for this learning. During supervised play sessions, puppies learn to read each other's body language, interpret boundaries, and respond appropriately. This skill set helps prevent issues with other dogs as they mature, leading to safer, more enjoyable experiences in public spaces like parks and walking paths.

5. Boosting Confidence and Reducing Anxiety

 A structured setting helps puppies confront new situations with support, allowing them to build confidence. Puppy school exercises, like meeting new people or experiencing unusual sounds, help puppies develop coping skills in a safe environment. Regular exposure to new things helps reduce anxiety and stress later on, especially in unpredictable environments or around strangers.

 6. Developing Good Manners and Impulse Control

In puppy school, dogs learn essential commands like “sit,” “stay,” and “leave it,” which are helpful in daily life and provide structure for better behavior. Learning these commands with other puppies around also helps build impulse control, as they must focus and respond to cues despite the distractions of their classmates. This training instills patience and reinforces polite manners that make your dog more manageable and enjoyable to be around.

 7. Strengthening the Bond Between You and Your Puppy

 Attending puppy school together enhances your relationship by building trust and communication. You’ll learn how to guide and support your puppy effectively, while they learn to look to you for cues and reassurance. This strengthens the bond you share, creating a foundation of mutual respect and understanding that will last throughout your dog’s life.

 8. Preparing for Real-Life Situations

Puppy school introduces situations that mimic real-life experiences, like interacting with strangers or encountering various sounds and sights. These exercises help puppies develop the confidence to handle everyday events, from meeting new people on walks to dealing with unexpected noises at home. As a result, they’re better prepared for the experiences they’ll encounter in the world, making them adaptable and resilient.

Tips for Making the Most of Puppy School Socialization

1. Attend Regularly – Consistency is key. Regular attendance helps reinforce lessons and gives your puppy ample opportunity to interact with others.

2. Practice at Home – Reinforce what your puppy learns at school by practicing commands and socialization exercises at home. This repetition helps solidify their learning.

3. Be Patient and Positive – Training and socialization take time, so be patient and celebrate small wins. Puppies pick up on your energy, so staying calm and positive helps them feel secure.

4. Expose to Different Environments  – Once your puppy is comfortable at school, gradually expose them to new places like parks, sidewalks, or pet-friendly stores to further build their confidence.

Conclusion: More than Just Training – A Foundation for Life

Puppy school provides more than basic training; it’s a gateway to a well-adjusted, confident dog. Through structured socialization and exposure to new situations, your puppy learns essential skills for interacting with the world calmly and confidently. By attending puppy school, you’re setting the stage for a lifetime of positive interactions, making your dog a happy, well-mannered companion for years to come.

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Dog Training 101: Proven Techniques for Teaching Your Dog

Are you having trouble talking to your dog? Do you want a calm and confident pet? This guide has everything you need to make your dog the best pet ever. We'll show you how positive reinforcement works and how to teach basic commands. You'll learn how to build a strong bond with your dog. This journey will make your dog better and make your life richer too. Key Takeaways - Discover the transformative power of positive reinforcement in dog training - Master essential obedience commands like "sit" and "stay" for a well-behaved pup - Learn how to create a calm and confident canine companion - Understand the fundamentals of effective communication with your dog - Deepen the bond and connection with your furry friend The Importance of Positive Reinforcement in Dog Training Positive reinforcement is a key tool in dog training. It rewards good behavior instead of punishing bad ones. This method helps dog owners teach their pets and builds trust and cooperation. Understanding Positive Reinforcement Positive reinforcement works by rewarding good behavior. When a dog does something right and gets a treat or praise, it wants to do it again. This approach is kinder and more effective than punishing dogs. Effective Positive Reinforcement Techniques - Treat-based training: Giving treats right after a good behavior makes the dog want to do it again. - Clicker training: A clicker marks the exact moment of a good behavior, followed by a reward. It helps dogs understand what they're doing right. - Praise-based training: Dogs love praise and affection. This can be a strong motivator for them. Using positive reinforcement in dog training strengthens the bond between dog and owner. It makes training more enjoyable for both. This approach is not only effective but also kinder. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XQRgci18tvY "Positive reinforcement is the most effective and humane way to train dogs. It helps build a strong bond between the dog and the owner, making the training process more enjoyable for both." Dog Training 101: Proven Techniques for Teaching Your Dog Learning to train your dog is all about understanding how they communicate and building a strong bond. Positive reinforcement is key to turning your dog into a well-behaved and obedient friend. Effective dog training starts with knowing how to talk to your dog. By reading their body language and sounds, you can meet their needs better. This builds trust and a strong connection, essential for good training sessions. Positive reinforcement is at the heart of dog training. It rewards good behavior instead of punishing bad ones. Giving treats, praise, or other rewards for good actions helps your dog learn and repeat those behaviors. - Clicker training: A handheld device that makes a click sound can mark the exact moment your dog does something right. This lets you reward them right away. - Treat-based training: Small, tasty treats can motivate your dog to follow commands or behave well. - Praise and affection: Words of praise, pets, and affection can also be rewards, strengthening your bond with your dog. Using these positive methods in your training will help your dog learn faster and build trust. Remember, training should be fun for both you and your dog. Positive Reinforcement Technique Benefits Clicker Training Precise timing, clear communication, and immediate reward Treat-Based Training Highly motivating, reinforces desired behaviors Praise and Affection Strengthens the bond, provides emotional rewards By learning positive reinforcement and understanding dogs, you'll build a strong, trusting bond with your dog. This will help you succeed in their training journey. Building a Strong Foundation: Basic Obedience Commands Teaching your dog basic obedience commands is key. "Sit" and "Stay" are essential. They help your dog learn to follow instructions and prepare for more advanced training. Positive reinforcement makes learning fun and strengthens your bond. Teaching the "Sit" Command The "Sit" command is a great place to start. Hold a treat near your dog's nose and move it back. As they follow the treat, they'll sit down. Say "Sit" and give them the treat and praise. Keep practicing until they always sit when you say the command. Mastering the "Stay" Command The "Stay" command teaches your dog to wait until you say it's okay. Start with your dog sitting, then take a step back. Say "Stay" and keep eye contact. If they stay, give them a treat and praise. Slowly increase how far and long you ask them to stay. Always reward them when they do it right. Positive reinforcement is the best way to teach obedience. It builds your dog's confidence and strengthens your bond. With patience and consistency, your dog will learn these important skills. Command Description Benefits Sit Teaches your dog to sit when commanded. Establishes control, teaches obedience, and can be used as a foundation for other commands. Stay Instructs your dog to remain in one position until released. Promotes calmness, impulse control, and the ability to follow instructions, even in distracting environments. "The foundation of a well-trained dog is built upon mastering the basics. Investing time in teaching 'Sit' and 'Stay' lays the groundwork for a lifetime of rewarding obedience training." By focusing on basic obedience commands, you improve your dog's behavior and your bond. Remember, patience and positive reinforcement are key to success. Creating a Calm and Confident Canine Companion Many pet owners dream of having a calm and confident dog. This goes beyond just basic obedience. It's about making your dog well-adjusted and well-behaved. By using behavior modification and socialization, you can make your home peaceful and your pet a joy to have around. Mastering Behavior Modification Behavior modification helps solve problems like barking, jumping, or anxiety. It's about replacing bad habits with good ones. This is done through training and managing their environment. With time and effort, your calm dog will learn to stay calm in different situations. The Importance of Socialization Socialization is key for a confident dog. Introduce your puppy to many people, animals, and places early on. This helps them grow up well-adjusted and less scared. Keeping up with socialization as they grow helps them stay confident and easy to get along with. Behavior Modification Techniques Benefits of Socialization - Positive reinforcement - Environmental management - Counterconditioning - Desensitization - Reduced fear and anxiety - Improved social skills - Adaptability to new situations - Decreased risk of behavioral issues Using the right behavior modification and a good socialization plan, you can make your dog calm and confident. This makes them a wonderful addition to your family. "The key to a well-behaved dog is not just training, but creating an environment that supports their natural instincts and helps them feel secure." Conclusion Positive reinforcement is the key to successful dog training. It builds a strong bond and rewards good behavior. This makes your dog calm, confident, and well-trained, becoming a beloved family member. The methods shared in this guide work well. They help with basic commands and building a lifelong bond. Using these strategies will show great results and strengthen your bond with your dog. Dog training is a journey that never ends. But with patience, consistency, and a positive mindset, you can unlock your dog's full potential. Start using what you've learned and watch your dog become a calm, confident, and well-behaved companion. FAQ What is the importance of positive reinforcement in dog training? Positive reinforcement is key in dog training. It helps shape good behaviors by rewarding them. This method strengthens the bond between dog and owner, making training positive and motivating. What are some effective positive reinforcement techniques for dog training? Treat-based training, clicker training, and praise are popular methods. They reward dogs for actions like sitting or coming when called. This encourages them to do these actions again. How can I teach my dog basic obedience commands like "Sit" and "Stay"? Teaching "Sit" and "Stay" is crucial for a dog's training. Positive reinforcement makes it easy to teach these commands. It helps you communicate well with your dog and lays a strong foundation for more commands. What are some strategies for creating a calm and confident canine companion? To make your dog calm and confident, focus on behavior modification and socialization. Addressing any behavioral issues is also important. These steps help your pet become well-adjusted and well-behaved. How can I develop a strong bond with my dog through training? Positive reinforcement training is a great way to bond with your dog. It makes training a positive experience. This helps you communicate well with your dog and builds a lasting connection. Read the full article

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Unleash Your Dog's Potential: The Benefits of Dog Obedience Classes

Welcoming a new furry friend into your family can be an exciting and rewarding experience. However, as any dog owner knows, it also comes with its fair share of challenges, especially when it comes to behavior and obedience. That's where dog obedience classes come in. These structured training programs offer numerous benefits for both you and your canine companion. In this blog, we'll explore why enrolling your dog in obedience classes is a wise investment in their well-being and your bond together.

Establishing a Strong Foundation: Dog obedience classes provide a structured environment where your pup can learn basic commands and behaviors. From sitting and staying to walking on a leash and coming when called, these fundamental skills form the foundation for good manners and obedience. By mastering these commands early on, your dog will be better equipped to navigate the world around them safely and confidently.

Socialization Opportunities: One of the key benefits of obedience classes is the opportunity for your dog to socialize with other dogs and people in a controlled setting. Socialization is crucial for preventing behavioral problems such as aggression or fearfulness and helps your dog become more well-adjusted and friendly. In class, they'll learn how to interact appropriately with others, building their confidence and communication skills.

Bonding with Your Dog: Training sessions provide valuable bonding time between you and your dog. As you work together to learn new skills and overcome challenges, you'll strengthen your relationship and deepen your understanding of each other. Training is not just about teaching commands; it's about building trust, respect, and mutual cooperation.

Behavior Modification: Obedience classes can also address specific behavioral issues your dog may be struggling with, such as jumping, barking, or chewing. Experienced trainers can provide guidance and techniques to modify these behaviors in a positive and effective manner. Through consistency and patience, you'll see improvements in your dog's behavior both inside and outside the classroom.

Improved Communication: Effective communication is essential for a harmonious relationship between you and your dog. Obedience classes teach you how to communicate clearly and effectively with your canine companion, using positive reinforcement techniques to motivate and encourage desired behaviors. You'll learn how to read your dog's body language and respond appropriately, fostering better understanding and cooperation.

Confidence Building: Training and mastering new skills can boost your dog's confidence and self-esteem. As they succeed in obedience classes, they'll feel a sense of accomplishment and pride, which can translate into improved behavior and overall well-being. A confident dog is more likely to be well-behaved and less prone to anxiety or insecurity.

Continued Support and Guidance: Obedience classes provide ongoing support and guidance beyond the classroom. Trainers are there to answer your questions, address concerns, and provide personalized advice to help you and your dog succeed. Whether you're dealing with a specific behavior problem or simply looking to refine your training techniques, you'll have access to expert support every step of the way.

In conclusion, dog obedience classes offer a wealth of benefits for both you and your furry friend. From establishing a strong foundation of obedience to improving communication, building confidence, and fostering a deeper bond, these classes set the stage for a lifetime of positive interactions and mutual understanding. So why wait? Enroll your dog in obedience classes today and unleash their full potential!

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Dogs are fascinating creatures, loyal companions, and man's best friend. They bring joy and happiness to our lives, and their ability to communicate with us goes beyond barks and wagging tails. Understanding dog body language can provide valuable insights into their emotions, needs, and overall well-being. As responsible pet owners, it is crucial to learn how to decipher their non-verbal cues to ensure a deeper connection and a happier, healthier relationship with our furry friends. Understanding Dog Body Language 1 - Tail Wagging - More Than Just Happiness: When we see a dog wagging its tail, our immediate assumption is that it is happy and friendly. While this is often true, the context and the way the tail is wagged can reveal much more. A relaxed, broad wag with the whole body involved indicates a happy and content dog. However, if the tail is held stiffly or tucked between the legs, it might indicate fear, submission, or anxiety. Conversely, a high, fast wag can signal excitement or even arousal. It's essential to consider the entire situation and other body language cues to interpret tail wagging accurately. 2 - Eye Contact - The Language of Trust and Respect: Eye contact is a powerful form of communication in the canine world. Understanding dog body language is crucial. Direct, soft eye contact between a dog and its owner is a sign of trust and affection. It strengthens the bond and reassures the dog that all is well. On the other hand, prolonged staring, especially from a stranger or another dog, can be perceived as threatening or confrontational. Some dogs may interpret it as a challenge, leading to discomfort or defensive behaviors. It's always best to give new dogs a chance to get comfortable with you before attempting direct eye contact. Also Read : What is Safe for Dogs to Chew On 3 - Ears - Expressing Emotions: A dog's ears can express a wide range of emotions. When a dog's ears are relaxed and in their natural position, it usually indicates that the dog is calm and content. However, if the ears are pinned back against the head, it often means the dog is feeling fearful or submissive. Raised ears that are alert and forward can signify the dog's curiosity or excitement. Understanding dog body language is crucial, Paying attention to the ears, along with other cues, can help you better understand what your dog is trying to communicate. 4 - Barking - Different Tones, Different Meanings: Barking is one of the most obvious ways dogs communicate with us, but it's not always easy to understand what they're trying to say. The tone and pitch of a dog's bark can give us valuable clues about their emotions. A high-pitched, rapid bark might indicate excitement or playfulness, while a deep, low bark could be a sign of warning or threat. Whining or whimpering can indicate pain, discomfort, or a desire for attention. Understanding the context and accompanying body language can help you decipher the meaning behind your dog's vocalizations. 5 - Body Posture - The Key to Emotional State: A dog's overall body posture speaks volumes about its emotional state. A relaxed and loose body indicates a happy and comfortable dog. On the other hand, a stiff, tense body suggests fear, aggression, or stress. Dogs that feel threatened or anxious may exhibit defensive postures such as raising their hackles, standing on their toes, or leaning backward. Understanding dog body language, and learning to read these subtle body cues will enable you to respond appropriately and help your dog feel safe and secure. 6 - Licking and Nipping - Communication Through Actions: Licking is often considered a sign of affection and bonding. Dogs may lick their owners to show their love or to seek attention. However, excessive licking can sometimes be a sign of anxiety or stress. Similarly, gentle nipping or mouthing can be a playful behavior, especially in puppies. But, it's essential to discourage this behavior when it becomes too intense or rough.

Being aware of the context and the intensity of these actions can help you understand your dog's intentions better. 7 - Rolling Over - Submission or Playfulness? When it comes to understanding dog body language its' essential to remember when a dog rolls over onto its back, it's often interpreted as an invitation for a belly rub or a sign of submission. While it's true that many dogs enjoy belly rubs, it's crucial not to assume that every dog rolling over is relaxed and happy. Some dogs may roll over as a way to communicate their fear or to appease a perceived threat. Context and accompanying body language can help you determine whether your dog is genuinely inviting affection or expressing discomfort. Also Read : How To Test Dog Blood Sugar At Home in 6 Steps 8 - Yawning and Panting - Not Always Just About Sleep or Heat: Dogs yawn for various reasons, and it's not always because they are tired. Dogs may yawn when they are anxious or stressed, using it as a self-calming mechanism. Similarly, panting is a normal way for dogs to cool down when they are hot, but it can also occur when they are anxious, in pain, or feeling unwell. If your dog is yawning or panting excessively in non-stressful situations, it might be an indication that something is bothering them, and it's best to investigate further. 9 - Play Bow - Let the Games Begin: The play bow is a classic canine invitation to play. When a dog lowers its front end while keeping its rear end in the air, it's an indication that they want to engage in playtime. This posture is often accompanied by wagging tails, bouncy movements, and happy facial expressions. Responding to the play bow can strengthen the bond between you and your dog and provide an enjoyable outlet for their energy. 10 - Hiding and Avoidance - Respect Their Need for Space: Just like humans, dogs may need their personal space and time alone. If your dog is hiding or avoiding interactions, it could be an indicator that they are feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or unwell. Understanding dog body language is essential. It's vital to respect their need for space and not force them into uncomfortable situations. Providing a safe and quiet space where they can retreat to when needed will help them feel secure and reduce their stress levels. Conclusion Understanding your dog's body language is crucial to being a responsible and caring pet owner. You can gain valuable insights into their emotions and needs by paying attention to their tail wagging, eye contact, ears, barking, body posture, licking, rolling over, yawning, play bow, and hiding behaviors. This enhanced understanding will strengthen your bond with your furry friend and contribute to their overall well-being and happiness. Remember that every dog is unique, and their body language may vary based on their breed, personality, and past experiences. Observing and learning your dog's cues will help you become attuned to their communication style and create a harmonious and loving relationship that will last a lifetime. So, the next time you interact with your dog, watch closely and listen to their body language – you might be amazed by how much they've been trying to say all along! https://petsdogworld.com/understanding-dog-body-language/?feed_id=1271&_unique_id=65ce78103271c

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TECHNIQUES FOR MANAGING NIPPING AND BITING

Identifying Common Causes of Nipping and Biting

Understanding Your Dog’s Body Language to Recognize Warning Signs

All dogs can exhibit nipping and biting behavior. If you feel your dog is exempt, remember that even the most laidback pup can have the occasional episode depending on the situation. Like humans, every dog has a patience limit when exposed to certain stimuli.

To avoid injuries and better communicate with your dog, it’s essential to learn how to read and understand their body language so you can recognize any warning signs they may be sending. Suppose your pup is showing signs of stress like lip-licking, a tense stance, or raising their hackles. In that case, it’s best to immediately step away from the situation and wait until it’s safe to return (this is applicable both when dealing with your dog and when encountering an unfamiliar and aggressive dog).

Check out this blog for additional insights on reading dog body language.

Developing Strategies for Redirecting Attention Away From Nipping and Biting

If you’re dealing with a puppy or young dog exhibiting nipping and biting behavior, remember, first and foremost, that this is not an uncommon issue. They’re likely to grow out of the behavior with the proper guidance. Start by developing effective strategies to redirect attention away from nipping and biting. Focus on rewarding desired behaviors instead of emphasizing negative ones. Owners who ignore (i.e., do not reward with attention) nipping and biting behavior and instead reinforce positive behaviors (e.g., sitting still or retrieving a toy) can help curb the negative behavior naturally. Additionally, you can try redirecting your dog’s attention with a toy when they start nipping and biting, giving them a new focus for their energies other than the unwanted behavior.

If dealing with an adult dog, you might have to take extra steps to curb the behavior, but the principles are the same. Use positive reinforcement, redirection, etc., to mitigate nipping and biting behaviors. You can also try practicing other training commands, like recall, to ensure they keep their attention on you, not external stimuli that may trigger nipping behaviors.

Utilizing Positive Reinforcement and Avoiding Aversive Techniques

Generally, all training is best done with positive reinforcement, such as treats and praise. These techniques help establish trust between pup and pet parent while teaching consistency and shaping better behaviors in our four-legged friends. Once dogs learn the connection between a reward and positive behavior, they’re more likely to exhibit positive behavior instead of negative behavior, which does not produce a reward.

Establishing Boundaries with Your Dog Through Training Exercises

Training is for life; practicing tricks and commands can help remind your pup of their expected behavior and boundaries. With regular, practiced exercises, you can establish and reinforce your pup’s nipping and biting boundaries. For example, try setting up situations where you will naturally reward desired behaviors (like playing fetch or receiving treats) and discourage negative behaviors (such as lunging at people). Reinforcing the basics keeps your dog mentally and physically stimulated and can help distract from nipping and biting tendencies. Such practice can help create a trusting bond between you and your pup and train them that no positive reward comes from acting aggressively.

Managing nipping and biting behaviors may seem difficult initially, but with consistent practice and patience, you can help redirect your dog’s focus to something more positive. Remember that rewards like treats and praise can go a long way toward reinforcing good behavior in any situation. Also, it is important to establish boundaries with your dog; don’t be afraid to set limits consistently, firmly, and gently. If you remain patient and diligent in managing these problems, your pooch will soon understand what’s expected of them, and you can have a nipping- and biting-free companion.

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"Dog Behavior: An exploration of dog behavior, including why dogs do what they do, how to understand their body language, and how to communicate effectively with them."

Dog behavior is a fascinating and complex subject, and understanding it can be helpful in building a stronger bond with your furry friend. Dogs have their own unique ways of communicating, and learning to read their body language can help you better understand their needs and emotions. Effective communication with your dog can help you avoid problem behaviors and create a more harmonious living situation for both you and your pet. By exploring the world of dog behavior, you can deepen your appreciation for these incredible animals and build a stronger relationship with your furry companion.

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How To Read Dog Body Language

Dog body language involves a series of unique methods for communicating emotions and intentions. It can be quite different from how humans communicate.

A lot of canine communication consists of barks, whines, and growls, so it’s important to know what dog sounds mean. More often, though, dogs rely on nonverbal body language. That can lead to plenty of human-dog misunderstandings. Sometimes, dog body language is simply unfamiliar (after all, people don’t have tails). At other times, it’s in direct contrast with what that same signal means to a human, such as with yawning or looking away. To better communicate with your canine companion, learn some tips on reading dog body language.

Tail Wagging

Tail wagging seems like an obvious body language signal. If a dog’s tail is wagging, the dog is happy, right? Wrong. People misinterpret this signal all the time. All a wagging tail means is that the dog is emotionally aroused. It could be excitement, but it could be frustration or worse. To interpret the dog’s emotions and intentions, look at the speed and direction of the wag as well as the position of the tail.

Basically, the faster the wag, the more aroused the dog. Think about those long, slow, side-to-side tail sweeps your dog makes when greeting you — the type that wag the dog’s whole body. That’s a relaxed dog. A faster twitch-like wag indicates a higher level of arousal and possibly in a negative way. Think of a guard dog on alert.

The direction of the wag may hold clues as well. A recent study on tail-wagging showed that dogs tend to wag more to the right when they feel positive about something, like interacting with their owner. Tails wagged more to the left when dogs faced something negative. Then, there’s the helicopter tail wag where the dog’s tail spins in a circle. Without question, that’s a happy wag. You’ll usually see it when a dog is greeting a beloved person.

Finally, the position of the dog’s tail relative to the ground holds important clues about their emotional state. Essentially, the higher the tail, the more assertive the dog. Dogs with their tails pointing down to the ground or even tucked between their legs are feeling fear and stress. Dogs with their tails held up like a flag are feeling confident, perhaps even aggressive. Relaxed dogs hold their tails in a neutral position, but neutral depends on the breed. Some breeds, like Chow Chows, have tails that naturally curl over their backs whereas breeds like the Italian Greyhound have a very low neutral tail position. If you get to know your dog’s neutral tail position, you will more quickly recognize when their emotions have shifted.

Raised Hackles

When a dog’s hackles are raised, it means the hair along their back is standing up. Technically called piloerection, the fur can fluff up across the shoulders or down the back and all the way to the tail. This is a definite sign that the dog is aroused, but not necessarily in a negative way. The dog might be upset or stressed but could also be excited or intensely interested in something. It’s often an involuntary reaction, like goosebumps in people.

Posture

A dog’s weight distribution can tell a lot about mood and intention. Consider a cowering dog that is hunched toward the ground. That’s a sign of fear or stress. The dog may be trying to get away from something and the posture makes the dog appear smaller. In other words, it says, “I mean no harm.” The extreme of this posture is a dog that rolls onto their back exposing the belly. This may look like a dog soliciting a belly rub, and in a relaxed dog, it often is. But it can actually be a sign of considerable stress and anxiety. The dog may even urinate a little in appeasement.

The opposite posture is a dog with his or her weight shifted forward. This dog is trying to get closer to something. This might simply indicate the dog’s interest. But it could also indicate offensive intentions, particularly paired with other aggressive body language cues like a twitching tail held high. In this case, the dog is trying to appear larger.

An easy-to-read aspect of dog body language is the play bow. This is when dogs place their chest on the ground with their rump in the air. As the name implies, it’s used to initiate play with other dogs and even with people.

A less easily understood signal is the paw raise. In the pointing breeds like the English Setter, the paw raise is part of pointing behavior where the dog indicates nearby prey. But outside of this context, a raised paw often indicates a dog is uncertain about a situation or perhaps feels a bit insecure.

Facial Expressions

Dogs have similar facial features as people, but they don’t use them in the same way. Consider yawning. People yawn when they’re tired or bored, but dogs yawn when they’re stressed. Dogs use yawning to calm themselves in tense situations and to calm others, including their owners. She suggests yawning at your dog to provide comfort at stressful moments like a vet visit. But don’t be surprised if your dog yawns back. Just as yawning is contagious in people, dogs can “catch” yawns too.

Lip-licking is another bit of dog body language that people often misinterpret. Just like people, dogs will lick their lips after a delicious meal, but they will also do it when they feel anxious. Sometimes the tongue flick is so quick it’s tricky to notice. Your dog isn’t signaling a desire to lick your face, but rather discomfort with a given situation.

The most confusing facial expression is smiling. Yes, some dogs smile, and if you’re not familiar with the expression it can look terrifying. Usually, when dogs bare their teeth, it serves as a warning, as if they’re saying, “Look at my weapons.” It’s hard to mistake the aggressive intention of a snarl, especially when it’s paired with a menacing growl. The corners of the dog’s lips form the shape of a C and the front teeth are fully displayed.

Smiling dogs also display their front teeth, but the meaning is the complete opposite. Also known as a submissive grin, this expression is often found on a happy dog with a loose and wiggly posture. The dog’s overall attitude says, “Hello, I come in peace.”

Eyes

You can learn a lot about your dog’s internal state by looking at the eyes. First, a dog’s eyes can be soft or hard. Soft eyes have relaxed lids and sometimes look like the dog is squinting. They indicate the dog is calm or happy. The opposite is hard eyes where the eyes seem to go cold. These indicate a negative state of mind, and you’ll know them when you see them. The dog might be guarding a toy or feeling aggressive. A hard stare, where the dog looks intently at something, especially for a long time, usually signals a threat.

Eye contact is an important signal for dogs. Just as the hard stare can be a precursor to aggression, looking away is meant to calm a situation. When dogs feel stressed, they will pointedly look away and avoid eye contact. People often interpret this as their dog ignoring them or being stubborn, but the dog is expressing discomfort.

The whites of the eyes are another key indicator. Known as “whale eye”, when a dog shows the whites of the eyes, it’s a signal they are feeling anxious or stressed in a situation. You might see them when you make your dog uncomfortable, like when you pat your dog on the head, or when they’re afraid someone will steal a bone or toy.

Deciphering Dog Body Language

None of these dog body language signals act alone. They are all part of a package. So, when you read a dog’s communication, look at every signal the dog is using from the tail height to the eye shape. Your dog is “talking” to you all the time. If you learn what your dog is saying, you will develop a deeper bond of trust and respect. Plus, your newfound understanding of your dog’s emotional state will help you predict your dog’s behavior and prevent problems before they occur.

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Is it time to tear ANOTHER Dhar Mann video to shreds? YOU BET.

I've been sitting on this one for a bit because I wanted to make sure I talk about this tactfully. The subject of parents abandoning their disabled children is a very touchy one.

Parents abandoning their disabled children simply for being disabled is way too common. Like, I understand that not everyone has the resources to care for a disabled child (which is why you reach out for help, and why people like me, who work with disabled people, exist), but it doesn't mean you just walk out of their life. There are exceptions, like if you truly didn't want children or something like that, but just flat-out walking out of your kid's life BECAUSE they're disabled is fucked up.

I know someone personally whose biological mother abandoned her when she was born. Why? Because she's disabled. Physically, and mentally, to a point. I work with this woman on a daily basis. I don't really know WHY exactly her biological mother abandoned her, but I do know that her being disabled was part of it. It's sad. It doesn't affect her, thankfully. I'm happy that she's got her biological dad, her brother, and another maternal figure in her life, at least.

ANYWAYS. Before we get to the topic at hand, I need to put an obligatory trigger warning, like I do with EVERY Dhar Mann post:

This post will be talking about parents abandoning their disabled children simply for being disabled, treating disabilities like they're tragedies (in this case, we're talking about autism...again), divorce, and some SPICY ableist bullshit from an allistic (nonautistic) PIECE OF SHIT.

If any of this triggers you or makes you uncomfortable in any way, you don't have to read this post. This isn't worth putting yourself in a bad state mentally. I would never ask for any of you to put yourselves in that position all for a post. Put your mental health and well-being first. Consume media that sparks joy for you.

As far as my response goes, it's definitely more calm than normal. Funny....since this video is about autism spectrum disorder again. (Third time's the charm, huh, Dhar Mann? NOT.)

LET'S FUCKING GET IT.

The video starts off with these two parents (Gwen and Allen) in a psychologist's office. The psychologist tells the parents that their son (Chance) is autistic, and she tries to explain what autism is to the parents, but Allen cuts her off. Why? Because he teaches at a prestigious university, so he AUTOMATICALLY knows what autism is from that fact alone.

Um, excuse me? Just because you're a teacher at a prestigious university, it doesn't mean you're an expert in everything. It doesn't make you an expert in ASD or anything like that. Unless you SPECIALIZE in that area. Even then, shut the fuck up. The people who know about being autistic are AUTISTIC PEOPLE THEMSELVES! SHOCKER.

Hey, Dhar Mann! QUIT WITH THE VIDEOS ABOUT AUTISTIC LITTLE WHITE BOYS AND YOUNG WHITE AUTISTIC CISHET MEN! I'M SICK AND TIRED OF IT. It's annoying, ignorant, and it feels like you're doing this on purpose at this point to piss people off. If you're so uninformed about autism in women and girls, FUCKING ASK AUTISTIC WOMEN AND GIRLS! DO BETTER RESEARCH THAT DOESN'T INVOLVE AUTISM SPEAKS. The Autism Self Advocacy Network (ASAN) and the Autistic Women and Nonbinary People Network (AWN) are great organizations to go to for any kind of research on ASD in women and girls. STOP GOING OFF OF THE BRAINS OF AUTISTIC WHITE BOYS AND AUTISTIC WHITE MEN.

I don't feel I need to go too deep into the fact that autistic women, autistic girls, autistic nonbinary people, autistic BIPOC, autistic AAPI, autistic LGBT people, autistic teenagers, and autistic adults exist. Y'all already know.

Gwen asks the psychologist if that means Chance isn't healthy. (I understand not knowing about autism, but don't treat it like it's a terminal illness. Please.) The psychologist tells her that Chance is fine, but he just learns differently and might need more support compared to his peers.

Yeah, autism can affect how you learn about certain things (limited and repetitive patterns), but there are other disabilities that can affect learning as well. Like how dyslexia can affect your ability to read, dyspraxia can affect your ability to do math, and Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) can affect your ability to focus or on impulse control. Autism affects how your brain is developed, it affects you socially, behaviorally, and how you communicate.

Allen is upset, says that he can't have a son "with a learning disability" (ASD is a neurological disability, not necessarily a learning disability), and treats Chance like he's stupid for being autistic. Gwen tells her husband that autism doesn't make you any less intelligent, WHICH IS SO FUCKING TRUE. ABSOLUTE FACTS. I was totally with her until she began that little monologue with "Just because a person HAS autism". SAY "JUST BECAUSE A PERSON'S AUTISTIC" INSTEAD! IT'S NOT HARD. PERSON FIRST LANGUAGE ISN'T WHAT EVERY DISABLED PERSON PREFERS. Allen says that "they could have another kid" and "put Chance up for adoption". Gwen obviously wasn't down with that. Allen gives his wife an ultimatum that it's either HIM or their son Chance. Gwen says that she can't choose between the two, but she will stand by her autistic son. Allen gets up and leaves the office, saying he wants a divorce.

Years pass by, Gwen is single and taking care of her autistic son Chance, and Allen has a new life with a ✨perfect son✨ (Samuel). He never mentions the son HE abandoned (Chance). He's completely forgotten about Gwen and Chance. (YOU OWE SO MUCH CHILD SUPPORT, ALLEN.)

Hey, Allen, how much do you wanna bet that your ✨perfect son✨ Samuel is autistic too?

There's the SATs, they're announcing a winner, and guess who it is? IT'S OBVIOUSLY CHANCE, OF COURSE. He's got the highest score in the country, with Samuel in second place. Allen is PISSED.

Chance gives a speech about how his mom really helped him, he struggled with autism, how Allen LITERALLY ABANDONED HIM, and THE CROWD GOES FUCKING WILD. Samuel, instead of being a sore loser, APPLAUDS FOR CHANCE. Stay humble, Sam.

My thoughts on the video? If you cannot tell by my tone throughout this post, IT WAS DOG SHIT. This video was insensitive to the true reality of parents abandoning their disabled children just because they're disabled. What do I expect from Dhar Mann at this point?

Here's my response to his video below. Don't worry, I will fully type out my response soon for anyone who cannot read the screenshots easily. It's a lot easier for me to do that on the desktop site than it is for me to do it on my phone.

For anyone who can’t read my response, I’m typing it out for you. Like I said, it’s easier for me to type it out on the desktop site than it is for me to type it out on my phone. It’s a real royal pain in the ass. But because I’m trying to make my posts easier to read for people, I’m doing this anyway. /lighthearted

First, second, and third screenshots (broken up into paragraphs):

Hey, listen, I appreciate the message you’re trying to go for, but can you please stop putting autistic people into a box? Can you stop treating being autistic like it’s a tragedy? Not every single autistic person is a little white boy in elementary school who’s considered “wild and unruly” or “super quiet and makes no friends”, nor are they a young white cishet man who’s a super genius or is how Chris Chan was before she came out as trans. (For anyone who doesn’t know about Chris Chan, there are many documentaries people have made on YouTube, and I highly recommend Geno Samuel’s docuseries, if you’re really interested in learning about Chris Chan.)

Autistic women, girls, nonbinary people, BIPOC, APPI, LGBT people, teenagers, and adults all exist too. 

It’s very apparent now that you get your resources from Autism $peaks, a hate group that spends the vast majority of their money on funding eugenics instead of helping autistic people like they claim, claims that only little white boys and young white cishet men are autistic and ignores all other autistic people who don’t fit that description, have no autistic people on their leader board or on any board for that matter, have members who have actually fantasized about k1lling their autistic children, treat autism like it’s a tragedy or a disease someone can catch (completely false), act like autism should be cured (there is no cure, and ABA therapy is a total shit show in itself), and treats autistic people like they’re broken and need to be fixed. Also, not every autistic person is a Super Genius(tm). That’s so demeaning to autistic people who aren’t seen as intelligent in any way. I’m autistic and seen as smart; however, there are subjects I’m stronger in than others.

If you can’t handle the possibility of having autistic children, or just disabled children in general, DON’T HAVE CHILDREN. If you can’t handle working with or alongside disabled people, including autistic people, maybe find a different profession. Even if you do that, you’ll never get away from disabled people. Disabled people aren’t a disease. We’re human beings just like neurotypical and able-bodied people.

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I would highly suggest getting resources from reputable organizations for ASD, such as the Autism Self Advocacy Network (ASAN) and the Autistic Women and Nonbinary People Network (AWN). Talk to any autistic person who isn’t a little white boy or a young white cishet man. 

Instead of using the puzzle piece, which is a symbol that many autistic people, myself included, are offended by (because of Autism $peaks and other organizations before them using it, plus it symbolizes that only autistic children exist and that we’re “missing a piece” like we’re broken), use the rainbow infinity sign (for all neurodivergent people) or the red and gold infinity sign (just for autistic people). Instead of “lighting it up blue”, light it up red or gold. Do both if you want. 

I’m actually really sick and tired of seeing just autistic little white boys and young autistic white cishet men being represented in the media, and y’all manage to fuck that up too. 

Before anyone mentions Sia’s movie “Music”, that’s also very poor representation of autistic girls. Besides, the actress who played the autistic girl isn’t even autistic. She MOCKED autistic people. I know she’s a kid, but that’s still super fucked up. I hope she’s able to turn that around. 

If anyone would like to discuss this topic with me or ask any questions, feel free to. I’ll answer as best as I can. Thank you and have a good night.

Before I get attacked for mentioning Chris Chan in my response, I bring up Chris Chan because allistic people think that every autistic person is like her (especially before she came out as trans). That person is part of why I wasn't open about being autistic or talking about my diagnosis until this year. I didn't want to be grouped up with Chris Chan because I do have very similar interests to her, I've been seen as cringey for having said interests, and just the way Chris treated autistic people who were formerly diagnosed with A$p3rg3r$ $yndr0m3 (like I was) really made me feel even more alienated.

Also, S1a supports A$ (Autism $p3aks). She's not a very good person to support. Some of her music is good, but her as a person....no. Her movie "Music" was gross, from what I've read about it and seen pictures of.

If you've read this far, thank you so much!

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Intruder Alert

A/N: This fic is based on an ask by@multi-muse-transect. The ask was for a Peggy/Nat AU in which Natasha is taken in by Wong after he defeats Drykov. While she is studying as his apprentice, Nat sees Peggy working out. I have not seen The Black Widow. I hope this somewhat meets the request. Enjoy.

Natasha Romanoff still burned with the imprint of her former training. Her Master, Drykov was a viscous taskmaster and one whom distributed brutal punishment on those who did not meet his impossible standards. Nat did not fail, but she saw plenty who did, plenty who disappeared and were never seen or spoken of again. When Wong came to Red Room, many of the girls scattered, taking the opportunity to escape, if they had the nerve. Natasha watched. She watched as the General threw everything he had at Wong. But, the peaceful looking Asian was not an ordinary man. By some power that Natasha did not understand, Wong defeated Drykov.

When the battle was over, such as it was, the man looked at her intently. She returned his scrutiny with curiosity of her own. He approached her with open hands and smile with which the young assassin could find no fault. She was looking. Hard.

“Do you want to leave this place?” he asked, like he was order lunch. “I do not think there is anything left here for you.”

“I'm supposed to follow a strange man though a glowing golden portal and hope it all turns out well for me?” Natasha answered, coldly.

“Better than a Russian Gulag or being hunted like a dog for the sake of deniability,” the Asian answered, softly, but directly.

“If we get along,” the redhead offered. “And, I'm not saying we will. I want you to teach me what you were doing. The golden patterns were...beautiful. The power in them is obviously strong.”

“It is possible that this could be done. If we get along. As you know, students get the grunt work. Are you prepared to keep working? I promise that learning form me will be nothing like this place.”

“Let's go,” Natasha said, ready to leave with the clothes on her back. “There is nothing here for me.

She watched as the portly man seemed to spin a web of light, which opened into a larger circle and showed an empty alley on the other side. Without a glance toward her, he walked through.

She stood still; considering he empty alley, the oddly content man, and potential to learning a power beyond her understanding.

“Are you coming?” he asked from the other side of the portal. His hands clasped behind his back. “The window will close momentarily.”

“Who are you?” Natasha asked, her heart rate rising.

“My name is Wong.”

“Who are you, really?” she pressed. “You will find out soon enough. JUMP! NOW!

Natasha jumped as the portal closed around her.

*****

The house in New York was old, but comfortable. Stylish, in a museum kind of way. Nat found its timeless, multicultural decorations relaxing. It was inviting in a way the Red Room complex was spartan and lifeless. Nat was also pleased that she and Wong had worked out a teacher-student relationship that was both challenging and rewarding. His positive reinforcement was a refreshing change from Drykov, but also an initial hurdle as Nat knew she was exhibiting the behavior of an abused child. It took some time for each of them to learn to trust each other. It was coming, slowly, but surely.

After three months of introductory lessons, Wong decided to give her something a little more complex. He handed her a small leather bound book with ornate decoration on the front and back cover. It could not have been more than 20 pages long. Opening the volume, she found child like illustrations and words in a language she could not read. “Study this for this afternoon. Talk to me about what you have discovered at dinner.

Nat was not one to retreat from a challenge. Sitting at table on in the library, she started to 'read'. The words meant nothing, but the pictures...

Two hours later, Nat was knocked from her reverie by the faint sound of grunting an exertion. It wasn't Wong, or anyone else she had met at the House. She could hear the unmistakable sound of fists pounding leather. Kicking too. Rising from her chair she was was surprised to see golden sparks dissipate about her. What the hell? Even the sparks couldn't keep her from following the sounds of someone beating the shit of a hanging bag. Following the exhilarating sounds lead her to a wide, carpeted stairwell leading down. Of course its coming from the gym, dummy.

Making her way down the stairs and through a longer than normal corridor, Nat pulled up short before entering Wong's work out room. Peering into the room, but remaining out of sight, Nat was amazed at what she saw. The person beating on the bag was a woman. A giant woman. She must have been...over six feet tall. Her shoulders, glistening with sweat, were broad and muscled. Her entire body was broad and muscled. In her boxing stance, Nat could see the definition in her calves, thighs, and abs. The skin tight exercise pants left little to the imagination. The woman had a magnificently tight set of glutes. It was a nice ass. Who was she fooling? Despite herself, Nat found her eyes glued to the mystery woman. For the time being she felt that observing would be the best course of action. She wished the woman would turn around so she could get a look at the rest of her, but the Amazon was positioned to only show her back.

“How long are you going to stand there and watch?” the brown haired woman asked.

For the second time in a few short minutes, Nat had been caught off guard. Lost in thought. It was unforgivable. Drykov would have beaten her and thrown her naked into a cell the size of broom closet. That was then, though. This was now. Now, was a beautiful, muscle bound woman calling her out for staring. Natasha turned on the ice.

“I was waiting to get a good look at our intruder,” she said, flatly.

“Well,” the other woman said, turning to face Natasha. “Am I good looking?"

The former Red Room assassin, trained in all manner of self control and deadly precision, blinked. Dark brown eyes, strong jaw, aquiline nose, full, luscious lips, and large breasts, that seemed to strain against her loose grey tank top.

“Passable,” Nat said, without emotion. You thought luscious lips and big boobs, you big liar!Natasha felt like she needed to leave. She wasn't thinking clearly. This woman was affecting her in a way that she couldn't control. At first sight, her training was gone and she was succumbing to baser instincts. She's a hot athlete who started flirting with you immediately.

“Better than I get from the guys on the construction crew,” the larger woman said. “I think they're scared and don't know what to do with someone who could take them in a fight.”

“Sorry to hear that,” Natasha said. “Can't be easy taking shit from guys like that.”

“They are harmless. Literally. None of the them could hurt me.”

“Nasty names can't be easy every day,” Natasha said, moving not so stealthily toward the chair where the woman's bag lay open and white towel hung over the edge. “Plus, I'm not sure sure such names are entirely accurate.”

“Changing your tune that soon?” the other woman challenged. “I didn't come here to to be hit on by little girls. I came to work out.”

“I am not a little girl and I am hardly hitting on you,” piqued by the boxer's audacity.

“That drool at the edge of your mouth says otherwise?” the intruder continued, brazenly.

“I don't drool,” Nat responded, harshly, her self control eroding further. “Who are you? I need a name to give the police.”

“I'm Peggy, and there's no need to call the police. They would come, find you unconscious, and I would be in the wind.”

This woman, Peggy, was instigating her. Why? Perhaps she thinks your cute too. Did she already know who Natasha was? Was she an associate of Wong's? Or, did she simply like pushing buttons?

“If that was a threat, it was lost on me,” Nat said, with confident cool. “I can take care of myself. I'm sure you've heard the phrase: the bigger they are, the harder they fall?”

The larger woman's brown eyes gleamed with mirth. Placing on gloved hand on her hip, she brought the other to her mouth in failed attempt to stifle a laugh.

“Did you really just say that?” Peggy said, rounding out her chuckle. “Trained assassins should be able to make better threats than that. Seriously.”

Another figurative right hook to Natasha's ego sent her reeling. “Do you need a towel? You're sweating?” That's right. Offer to wipe down her sweaty muscles while you try to recover from her owning you from the moment you saw her.

“Sure, Natasha,” Peggy said, taking the offered towel and beginning to wipe herself off. “Since you mentioned it, if I fell, which is unlikely, I would make every effort to fall on top of you so there would be no clear victor.”

Nat was sure she was hypnotized. She was a Red Room assassin and a Sorcerer's apprentice. Who did this Amazonian street thug think she was? This is getting old. You are not hypnotized. You are hot for her at first sight and just won't admit it.

“Who's Victor?” Nat said, emerging form her inner argument. “And, how do you know who I am?”

“Are you okay?” Peggy said, coming toward her. The taller woman, pulled her boxing gloves off and tossed them to the floor. She turned her hand knuckles out and reached toward the assassin's forehead. Nat blocked the strong forearm aside before the hand could touch her.

Raising her hands in surrender, Peggy said. “I'm not going to hurt you. I was trying to check your temperature. You seem out of sorts.”

“How would you know what sort I am?” Nat said, too harshly.

“You're sweating,” Peggy said. “Your face is flush. You offered me a towel. I didn't see that coming.”

“You're sweating!” Nat exclaimed, causing a small burst of golden sparks to shoot from her temples.

“Whoa,” Peggy said, shocked, as the sorcerer's assassin collapsed toward her.

Peggy caught the younger read head and scooped her up into her large arms.

“What has Wong gone and done this time,” Peggy said, as she walked Natasha up the stairs in search of her teacher.

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How tf was my autism undiagnosed for 3 decades?

Part 2 - Act your age

(part 1 here)

One of the less commonly known autistic traits is a mosaic-like mix of behaviors we are seemingly “too old” and “too young” for, respectively. Because we can have a hard time fitting in with our peers, our development often takes its own trajectory - some aspects will appear more “mature” compared to our age group, others less so. This was actually one of the main insights I got from a TED talk about autism in AFAB ppl that made me pursue my ASD diagnosis. Here are some examples from my weird life:

I was “late” for / seemed younger:

- Dropping “child-like” habits, like drinking from a bottle (I was 7 and I really liked the taste of the rubber thingy), playing with toys, reading children’s / YA books (I have since learned that the latter two are basically great learning opportunities for social interaction, so we use them as tools), wearing “serious” clothes, makeup etc. (still a nope, it needs to be comfy and ideally have bugs or dogs on it).

- All kinds of physical activity. Riding a bike, ice-skating, jumping into water, roller-coasters... I just have bad coordination / proprioception and a fear of heights. Ironically, I did work part-time as a dancing teacher, which somehow works better, idk why? Also, I still don’t have a driver’s license and probably never will, for public safety and all*.

- Emotional reactions. When I’m happy, I jump and squeal. When I’m angry, I slam doors and swear like a sailor. When I’m even slightly upset, I cry. Especially in social situations, any kind of negative interaction will make me bawl (rejection sensitive dysphoria, yay). This, combined with my 5′2 stature, perpetual babyface and clothing choices (see above), often makes ppl think I’m not a grown woman with a PhD but a lost child looking for her mommy (sometimes true, often not).

I was “early” for / seemed older:

- Speaking full sentences, reading and writing, learning foreign languages, understanding language-based jokes. My dad would make me show off my reading and Hungarian nursery rhyme skills like a trained puppy. Elementary school was pretty boring, but sometimes I got to read to the other kids. This is known as hyperlexia.

- Questioning beliefs, skepticism, being pragmatic. I never got the point of the easter bunny, tooth fairy or even religion, and was actually pretty pissed when I found out I had been lied to. I was and am often the go-to when anything gross or sad needs doing without a fuss. Teachers and adult acquaintances repeatedly called me “an adult stuck in a child’s body” (suuuper problematic, but back then the ultimate compliment).

- Responsibility, independence, commitment. Even though I was a late-bloomer physically and in terms of my first boyfriend, I was the first in my class to have her own apartment, a part-time job, a dog, and move in with what would be my long-term partner at 17. And it did not even turn into a total disaster! I never felt like a real kid so I tried to go straight to adulting, I guess?

*this only applies to me personally (poor coordination, social anxiety, zero sense of direction), I know tons of autistics who drive just fine!