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tealsapphire · 3 years ago
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The irony is not lost on me.
On the contrary, I spent the whole day being so conscious, or brooding, about it (even in the middle of day-long mid year review, induction training AND customer meeting, yes) I can finally come into one sound, proud conclusion : I've finally moved on past J.
This is J we are talking about. The man who contributed to the worst heartbreak I've ever had in my 33 years living on planet #3.
All of my past indie playlist consisting of melancholic, angsty songs that was kind of dedicated for him, or the memory of our relationship. Heck, my past Tumblr account consisted of emotional, dark and lonely posts that was meant for him (if I actually had any guts to tell those words)
10 years I spent avoiding any means of communicating with him.
That was easy at first. He moved 8,509 kilometres away (this is a fact) and got settled in immediately with a nice lady (now this is assumptive because I've never really found out in detail how his life post-me was, it was too painful and also embarrassing to stalk your ex) but one thing I know, they got married (and still are).
So he moved on smoothly. While I was pretty much stuck in my 4rd year of med school, staying in that city for another 2 year feeling miserable, lonely and freaking in pain.
I used to laugh when people said that heartbreak felt like someone physically rip your heart out of your chest. And oh man, I experienced that pain.
After a while the pain kinda subsided and I decided that in no fucking hell I'd want to experience that again. I blocked him everywhere. Email (marked as spam), phone number (easy, I don't really have his number and pretty sure he won't reach out to me first), social media accounts (kids this was in 2010 so we only had FB, Skype, and Flickr at that time but hell yes I blocked him on all of those)
Harsh, and yes it hurt but hearing from him again (when he's not mine)... The idea fucking hurts.
I spent the next few years still being sore everytime his name was mentioned, going for relationship with guys when my heart clearly wanted him only, and getting haunted by his shadows in my dreams.
He found me in 2016 in a social media platform through a mutual friend and we reconnected briefly.
Big mistake. I got heartbroken still after 6 years. He was still as charming and polite as ever, saying that he missed me (as a friend of course, but goddamn it my heart just couldn't take the pain).
So I did what I do best, I blocked him and asking our mutual friend to never give any of my information to him ever again.
Life was pretty quiet after that.
Then came 2020. Freaking stubborn dude found me on LinkedIn (of all places to look for your ex, am I right) and we reconnected again.
This time, I took the liberty to laid it all out: save me all the crap of missing me, and let's know each other all over again as friends.
Never really got any confirmation from him but his approach definitely got more muted than years before. We started to talk about mundane stuffs: my 9-5 job and his clinic, general situation between our countries, and generally about families. I draw a line about details of his personal life; honestly I don't want to know and although it doesn't hurt anymore, I decided that I don't want to be having a fake smile about it and cry afterwards later on during emotional meltdown.
He complied so far, and at least he never really brought up anything from our time together in the past. That shit still hurts.
But to have him back in my life, albeit fleetingly, is something I wouldn't dare to think about even 5 years ago.
We talk from time to time, one short conversation every month or even less frequently.
And just that, this morning in mid July 2021 I woke up at 6pm (midnight in Germany) with a photo of him raising a glass of whisky.
That damned smile plastered on his handsome face used to make my heart flutter like a high school girl, but this morning I woke up looking at that photo just feeling indifferent.
We had a 15 mins worth of texting and for the very first time in 11 years, it felt just like texting my work colleague about next presentation module: unattached and honestly-i-don't-give-a-damn-about-you.
Now at 10pm, I look back to the picture he sent me this morning and finally, finally, I can look at that face with no feelings anymore.
If this is the feeling of finally moving on, I'm loving it.
Yes the always-melodramatic part of me always wishes that the moment would come like those epiphanic scenes in House MD, but no.
And I'm totally fine with it.
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vin-taege · 6 years ago
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low expectations
summary: after disappearing for six years to pursue law, you come back to Seoul, only to be hired by Jeon Jungkook, tattoo artist on the rise, and your high school ex
genre: angst, eventual smut, l2e2l (lovers to enemies [kinda?] to lovers)
pairing: tattoo artist!jungkook x lawyer!reader
words: 4 700+
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Scattered boxes lay on your newly bought apartment. Some opened, most of them unopened. The only decent room as of now was your bedroom, and even that looked plain. Considering how organized you usually were, this was a severely chaotic. Even though the move to Seoul has been rough - some of your belongings even ending up in Daegu, but thankfully back where they belong now - you were ecstatic. Mainly because you were now far away from your overbearing mother. The increase in salary remained as a mere bonus. To say things between you and your mother were rocky was a bit of an understatement. She was heartless, manipulative, the perfect CEO. You had lived with your father after the divorce, and appreciated his company more. Life wasn't as luxuries as it was with your mom, but he cares for you more than anything. She did her part in paying for child support, funding most of your needs, compared to your father's salary as a small cafe owner. Going back to Korea has always been on your mind, ever since you graduated law school. If it weren't for the aforementioned salary increase, your mother would've never let you get that plane ticket. The new firm you transferred to was more than welcoming. They gave you a three week grace period so you can settle down, and even assigned you an assistant. It was just your luck that person happened to be Namjoon, your best friend since college. After graduating, you split ways. It was ironic how your reasons for going back to Seoul were direct opposites - him to return to his family, and you to escape from yours. He was probably the only person who had his shit together more than you. Not even two days after you landed, he already had your schedule organized for the next month. Even you didn't have enough patience to do that. Admittedly, you were a bit scared to go back. The last memory you had here was one in Busan, and it was far from pleasant.
You refreshed your emails again, not used to the absence of the usual influx of "urgent" files. The first thing you unpacked was of course the coffee machine. The other labeled boxes still had packing tape on, and you were dreading to open them up. Your phone has been on silent mode ever since midnight. You'd rather deal with your mother later than answering all her pressing texts now. Thank God she didn't know your Skype account.
Sluggish from the jet lag, you began picking at the packing tape, finding the edge of it and ripping the package open. In all honesty, you could’ve finished all the rooms in one day, and even have time for a manicure and pedicure afterwards. But this day just seemed so slow.
You never were used to a non-busy schedule.
Box after box, you made your way through your belongings. Throw pillows, small vases, the succulent collection you had. You didn’t have time for a pet, but your cacti were the perfect substitute. They made you feel needed on a deeper level, even though they only needed you to water them once a week.
Lofi music played in the background, giving you a more relaxing atmosphere. You slowly got in the zone, not noticing the hours pass by until you finally decided to take a break and check your phone.
Immediately, you were bombarded with six phone calls from Namjoon. Panicked, you quickly called him back. “Hey, Joon! I’m sorry, my phone was on silent. Is everything okay?”
“Everything’s fine,” In contrary to what he said, his voice sounded distressed. “I know it’s your week off, but there’s just this really pushy client. He’s demanding a meeting with you as soon as possible. I told him I’d give you a call, and here I am.”
You grimaced. This client was already leaving a bad impression on you. If anything, you hated unprofessional clients and often turned them down, but you felt sorry for Namjoon. “Does he want to meet today?”
“I can schedule him for next week if you want. Put him on the priority list. You don’t have to if you don’t want to.” You considered it for a moment. You didn’t have anything to do tonight except to unpack, and your body was itching for work. “No, I’m free tonight. Did he give a time or a place.”
“He left me an address. Told me to come whenever. I looked the place up, and it’s a tattoo parlor. The customer reviews were nice, and it’s pretty popular here in Seoul too.” Here comes the unprofessionalism again.
“Wanna go at seven and have dinner after?”
“Sure. As your best friend, I wouldn’t mind catching up. As your assistant, I couldn’t let you die unless I want to get fired,” you both laughed. You heard typing in the background, followed by a few mouse clicks. “-And his case file’s done. Pick you up at six?”
“Damn, how long has this guy been bothering you? Case files take hours.”
“Ever since 7 am. This better be some god-tier dinner to make up for it,” he chuckled on the other line.
Somehow, the tattoo parlor reminded you of him again. He always wanted to run one, and you wondered if he ended up doing so. The call ended, and you started to get ready. Surely the client wouldn’t mind you dressing casually, it was a week off after all.
Namjoon picked you up exactly at six, pulling over in his freshly car-washed Mercedes Benz. He was donning a black turtleneck and jeans, mirroring your casual style. It was clear you both just didn’t give a shit anymore. A pair of black glasses sat atop his nose.
“Nice car. When did you start being a popular kid?” He scoffed at your teasing, remembering his skewed fashion choices back in college. 
"Ever since I started hauling your drunk ass home after parties. Ever since I started making you nachos on thesis nights. Ever since-" 
"Okay Namjoon, I get it. College ___ was a hot mess," you conceded. "You got that case file ready?" "Yeah. I forwarded it to your email," You checked your inbox, and indeed received the file from him. You browsed through it quickly, skipping client details and diving straight into the case. False accusations of tax evasion and illegal substance import. The case seemed simple enough, could be handled with a few counter-suits here and there. Just as you finished the case details, you decided to finally check the client info. "You know what makes this case so complicated?" Namjoon spoke up, ripping your attention away from the file. "What?" "Evidence tampering. From the rival tattoo shop, I think," You scoffed. Typical behavior from two business trying to climb to the top. "They, what, planted cocaine packets under the ink refills or something?" Outside, the sun started to set. It's been a while since you've last seen a sunset, long work hours demanding you to be in your office more. It was one of the things you missed in Korea, especially from Busan. "Yeah, something like that. The guy seems too young to be the head of the shop. Must be very good at what he does." You opened the file again, checking the client info. Jeon- "We're here." Sighing, you closed the file again, getting out of the car. You'll have to read up more on him later. Not even a month back in Seoul and you already have a possibly big case on your hands. This could really make or break your career. However, that name sounded familiar. Familiar enough to leave a bittersweet taste in your mouth. Jeon. The memory of soft brown hair came back to you, long enough to frame his big brown eyes. The same eyes that would crinkle each time he showed his bunny smile. There was a pained twinge in your heart. Namjoon knocked on the glass door. There was a purple neon sign hooked on it, blaring a bright "open" to entice customers to come in. On top of the building was a huge sign, lit up by LED lights. "Seoul Ink." The shop had a large glass pane next to the door, resembling a barbershop style. The inside was dimly lit with light pink, giving the shop a retro vibe. You could faintly hear music blaring from the inside. Not long after, the door was opened, revealing a short, yet muscular man. His hair was a vibrant pink, in contrast to the dark tattoo sleeve spanning his left arm. A worn tank top draped from his torso, not doing much to hide his skin. The man looked like the shop personified.  "Good evening, we're here for Mr. Jeon. He told my assistant to set an appointment for today." "Oh, you're the lawyer he hired? Come in, please," He stepped aside, making way for you. "Jungkook! Our lawyer's here!" You froze. No, this can't be the same Jeon Jungkook from high school. Who knew how many Jeon Jungkooks were out here in Seoul? You were hoping, praying, he wasn’t the Jungkook you knew. "Wait. Goddammit, Jimin I told you to sterilise the needles." A lean, young man came out from the curtain-covered hallway. His hair was black, swept back to show his forehead. Sharp, doe eyes stared straight at you. His features became more angular, but it was clear he was the same boy you knew all those years ago. "___?" His eyes widened, expression hardening. "___. Pleasure." "You two know each other?" Namjoon whispered to you, loud enough for Jungkook to hear. "We went to high school together," He dead-panned, leaving it at that. Your cheeks heated up, the atmosphere soon turning awkward. "Come inside. We have a lot to discuss." He led you through the same hallway, pink lighting kept uniform throughout the whole building. Tattoo designs were plastered on the walls; Designs of the same motif grouped together on each tattoo booth. Each door had a different feel to it; one monochromatic, another one clipped with Polaroids and fairy lights. They really brought out each tattoo artist's identity, gave you an idea of their style and aesthetic. You counted four of them in total, including Jungkook and Jimin. Jungkook stopped at the last door. Just one look at it and you knew it was his. Lush roses were stuck to the black-painted wood. At the very center of it was a small, golden bell with two red ribbons tied to it. You were too busy staring at it, not noticing the rest of the boys come inside. "___," Namjoon called you. "Yes. Sorry," Jungkook stared at you, eyes glassy. You were the first to break eye contact, shutting the door. °°° 6 years ago "You told me it was my turn to pick the movie!" You whined, Jungkook only laughing at your annoyance. It was your annual Friday movie night. You usually took turns picking the movie, but Jungkook already had one prepared when you came to his dorm. "But this one's really good, I promise," he pouted. "I'll let you pick two movies next time. His offer sounded tempting enough, prompting you to begrudgingly accept it. It was another anime rom-com. You recognized it, seeing enough pictures of the poster saved in Jungkook's phone gallery. He'd talk about it a lot, the mere existence of it shaping his entire understanding of true love. "Your Name?" He grunted, arm wrapped around your waist. You were cuddling on the couch, body on top of him. The popcorn bowl was neatly balanced on your back. "I've always wanted to watch this with you," he whispered, fingers threading through your hair. "Accidentally downloaded a shit-ton of viruses on Tae's laptop just trying to pirate this." "Hey, support artists. Pay for art," You repeated his motto. He rolled his eyes, bringing you closer to his chest. "I want to. I just wish I didn't fall in the stereotypical broke art student category," His tone was sharp. You knew better than to push it, knew this conversation would only lead back to his unsupportive parents. The moment Jungkook told his parents he wanted to open up a tattoo parlor, they shut him out. He didn't talk about them much, but you knew enough to know he didn't exactly have the best relationship with them. His brother helped him pay his high school fees, but only up to that point. Once Jungkook hits college, he'll have to support himself. He's picked up a few commissions here and there to save up, but it was nowhere near the money he needed to take an arts course. "Hey," you brought your shifted, bringing your hand to his chest. "My mom's offering me a part-time job in her firm. She could get you a spot if-" "I don't want to," His eyes were on the screen, though you felt him tense up. "Leave it, ___." "The pay is good. I'm just saying, you should look into it, Kookie," you frowned. It was always difficult to talk to him when money or jobs were involved. You couldn’t even recall how many times you fought over either college or job-related problems. He was so hell-bent on taking an arts course, but too stubborn to accept any help, especially from your mother. He exhaled deeply, dropping his arm from your hair. "Leave it." You watched almost half the movie in silence. He was right next to you, but sometimes he just felt so unreachable. You felt his soft lips against the crown of your head. "I'm sorry, I'm just not in the best mood to talk about that stuff." You reached over, pausing the movie. He sat up, mirroring you. "What's wrong?" His eyes were dull, refusing to look back at you. "Jungkook." "Nothing," he rubbed his eyes, running both hands through his hair. "It's nothing." "Tell me," you placed your hand over his, him enveloping it immediately in his large ones. His thumb drew small circles on your knuckles, just like he did when he was nervous. "My dad is signing me up for a med college in Seoul. I don't want to leave Busan. I don't want to leave you," he lowered his voice in the last part. You cupped his cheek with one hand. "You won't. We'll be together until college, and until after college. You'll always be my own Da Vinci, I'll always be your-" "Muse," he finished, lovingly meeting your gaze. "You'll always be my muse." °°°  "So they did plant cocaine packets in the ink refills!" Namjoon burst out. You facepalmed a little, gaining weird looks from the boys. "Ignore him. Where did you say you got your refills from?" "California," Jimin responded. So far, over the course of the discussion, Jungkook remained silent, arms folded as he stared at the table. Jimin was more than enthusiastic to cooperate with you, answering your questions as detailed as he could. "We've been getting our refills from there for three years now. Taehyung knows the dealer, and we're all positive there's no way in hell he shipped us that." "Taehyung?" you glanced at Jungkook, whose mouth remained pinched in a thin line. You were relieved to find out they remained best friends after everything that happened. You knew Jungkook needed a strong support system, and Taehyung was more than enough for that. "Yeah. He just finished his shift today, but if you need to talk to him, I can give him a call," Jimin offered. "No, it's fine. I talk to him in personal some other time," you scribbled some notes on a scrap piece of paper. "The drugs must've been planted here in Korea. If it were from abroad, it wouldn't get pass customs." "That's exactly what we've been telling the police, but they wouldn't listen to us without a lawyer," he rolled his eyes. "Any suspects?" "Minho. Jung Minho," Jungkook's voice surprised you. He sat up, placing his hands on the table. "He runs the tattoo parlor down the street, that sleazy son of a bitch." "Must've gotten a hold of the package before we did," he continued. He was twiddling with his thumbs, a habit you recognized he never got rid off. "Don't jump to conclusions." "I'm not, but sometimes we have to make decisions, ___." He spat, voice raising slightly. He noticed the everyone staring at him uneasily and slid back down on his chair. "I mean, no one else would've done it aside from them." "Do you have any evidence, at least?" you passed Namjoon the notes so far from your hour-long discussion. He took his laptop out to summarize everything in a single document. "No. But we got the coke bags out. Made sure to use gloves so we won't leave prints behind and give the police the wrong idea," Oh so now he wanted to talk. Though you felt guilty for everything that happened in the past, you can’t help but get annoyed at his attitude right now. He was the one who wanted your help in the first place. "I see. I'll take a look at them after this," you looked over to Namjoon, who returned a curt nod. He was still focused on his laptop. "We appreciate your cooperation," your sarcasm directed to Jungkook. He scoffed, abruptly standing to rustle at his desk. He aimlessly picked up pencils and markers, putting them in their respective holders. "We'd appreciate it more if you won this case." With just one statement, Jungkook managed to push all your buttons. You stood up as well, Namjoon holding your arm down. "Why don't you check on the cocaine bags while I interrogate Jungkook more? Mr. Park-" "Jimin's just fine," The pink-haired boy offered a kind smile. "Jimin, please guide the way." One of Namjoon's winning traits was being calm under pressure. He was the one to hold you back before fights erupted, or the one to retrieve deleted files whenever the computer crashed and you had a presentation in two hours. Basically the one to keep you impulsiveness and short temper on watch. You followed Jimin out Jungkook's workplace. He led you back into the waiting area, and into the employees only room. The room itself resembled more of a hangout than an employee lounge. They had all their stocks and spare equipment neatly placed in cabinets off to one side. The center had a round table covered in sketch designs and discarded pencils. Those were about the only things that made the room look professional. The other side of the room was a whole different world. On the opposite side was a small vending machine next to an arcade game of Tekken. You recognized a D.Va styled jacket slung on one of the chairs. The walls had video game labels and band posters plastered all around. "Oh wow, how you did you get all this?" You blushed, immediately realizing how arrogant you must have sounded. Jimin didn't mind though, even laughing at your awe-struck expression. "The tattoo shop burst in popularity two years ago. We had money to spare, so Jungkook thought he'd pamper the employee lounge a bit," He put a black glove on and reached into one of the drawers, bringing a small sealable bag out. You picked up a stray glove, wearing it before picking the baggie up. It looked about five grams. You crinkled your nose in disgust. After finding some tissue, you carefully wrapped it up and placed it in your bag. Jimin let you check the lounge once more, patiently giving you space. "I'm Jimin, by the way," you looked at him questioningly. "I mean, I know you already know my name, but I wanted to give you a proper introduction." "Hello, Jimin. I'm ___," you smiled. "I'm a lawyer who used to be America-based, but as you can see, I moved here to escape from my insufferable mother." He laughed again, eyes crinkling. You never truly got a good look at him. His cheeks were full, like his plump lips. Although he was shorter than Jungkook, he looked older. It was clear he worked out, but you soon found out he was also very open as a person. "I'm a tattoo artist who specializes in traditional and blackwork styles. We each have our own thing here in Seoul Ink. Tae's good in watercolor and illustrative styles. If you like monochromatic designs, the right person to go to is Yoongi hyung." "How about Jungkook?" you told yourself you were asking out of curiosity, and only curiosity. You were to remain professional, to not get involved with your ex. "He's a well-rounded guy, but likes realism and new-school designs more. Not to pry, but is everything okay with you guys?" he gestured for you to sit on one of the chairs. "Well, I suppose we do need to be open with our clients." Jimin waited for you to continue, the pink light making his features softer. "We used to date in high school. It ended right before college, and I'm pretty sure it ended badly." "I'm pretty sure it ended badly too." You gave him a pointed look, to which he held his hands up in defense. "I mean, you looked like you were gonna tear his throat off a while ago." "I was trying to be civil. I guess I didn't know any better and thought he'd grown out of his childishness or something." "Maybe he didn't get over the breakup? That usually happens when it ends badly." He didn't know, but Jimin got it straight on. Even you haven't gotten over it yourself. You always wished the best for him. A selfish part of you even wanted to get him back, even after all those years. But you weren't here to get him back. You were here to finish the job. You had to push your feelings away. Jimin noticed your silence. "Do you believe in fate?" "I think?" Truthfully, you used to a dreamer, like Jungkook. Law school beat it out of you, giving you a cold facade to put on. "I want to believe in fate." "Maybe fate brought you here so you two could have a second chance then." he smirked. You glared at him, wiping the smile off his face. "At least make up a little. We couldn't get through this if you're constantly at each other's throats." "I'll talk to him." "Great! He already gave Namjoon his number, but here's mine for when you can't contact him," You gave him your phone, his fingers tapping away to input his number. "Thanks for putting up with us," His eyes were filled with sincerity, and you couldn't help but give him a small grin. "Of course." It's my job, you wanted to say, but couldn't find the heart to. You met Namjoon in the waiting area, laptop tucked away in his satchel. He was checking out one of the designs - a man wearing a suit, a bouquet of roses sprouting from his neck instead of a head. "Do you wanna get one or...?" He jolted at your voice. "Jesus Christ, ___." He never really grew out of his nerdy persona. Maybe people never truly change. "Jungkook seems like a nice guy. Lay off him a little, okay?" "I was actually planning to talk to him real quick, thank you very much." With that, you disappeared behind the hallway curtain again, leaving Namjoon with Jimin. You quickly found his room, knocking thrice before opening the door. You gasped, shutting it quickly again. Jungkook was sitting by his desk, shirt off and tattoos on full display. You didn't see much aside from a blur of black and splashes of reds and blues. Your cheeks were heating over, and you guess you must've surprised him as well. There was a thud behind the door, along with rapid footsteps. Slowly, the door opened slightly, enough to reveal a shirted Jungkook "Can I talk to you for a second?" you murmured. He stepped aside, opening the door wider. Wordlessly, you let yourself in, awkwardly standing behind him when he sat back on the swivel chair. "Hey." "Hey," he replied plainly. He always got this difficult sometimes, even back then. "How are you?" You settled for the customer seat, attached to a tray holding needles and a tattoo gun. You took a closer look around his workplace, recognizing messy sketches pinned on a corkboard. The same designs he used to draw back then. He fidgeted for a bit, eyes downcast on the floor. "Good. Been running the shop for a while. My brother calls me twice every month now." He looked up at you, eyes dark. You couldn't tell whether was anger or pain. Or both. He let out a long sigh. "I made it, ___." "I'm sorry," you choked out. You didn't know what else to say. You cursed yourself for not asking Namjoon for more information on the client before accepting the case. But did you really want to give this away? "I never stopped thinking of you." "Do you expect a thank you?" he folded his arms again. Why did he have to act so difficult? You shamed yourself for having these thoughts. It was your fault after all. He had every right to be angry at you. "Jungkook, I'm sorry," you tried again, tone softer this time. He blinked back what looked like tears, or he could've had something in his eye. The light made it hard to see. "Let's just act like adults, okay? Finish the case. And if you want to talk about more personal things, we can do that after." "You never did change, huh? As goal-oriented as ever," he smiled bitterly. “Job over everything else.” "You're still as stubborn as before," you grimaced at him. He chuckled, leaning back, tilting his chin up to the ceiling. He hummed, stretching his back. "I miss you," He opened an eye, peering at you. Your facade has crumpled, and you felt like the same girl six years ago after the breakup. He didn't say anything. Jungkook had so many thing running through his mind. Out of all the lawyers in Seoul, he just had to get you. Even after all those years, he still wanted to see you. But now that you were right in front of him, he felt nothing but pain and sadness. He loved you so much, but now that you were here, the only thing he could remember was the day you ran away from him. The day you left him. He shifted in his seat. Jungkook knew he had to get himself together for the tattoo parlor, for his friends. He thought he cut you off already a long time ago. "You can win this thing, right? I worked too hard for too long just to lose this. I crawled my way up here. I’m finally doing something I love," His voice was low, masking his wavering tone. You nodded determinedly. You weren't going to disappoint him again. "I know you can, ___. I've always believed in you. Would've appreciated it if you believed in me too," The way he said it was so quiet, you almost didn't hear it. But you did. It felt like he wanted to say something else, like he was ready to tell you everything that happened after the day you left, but he stopped himself. He spun the chair, facing away from you. "I have a full schedule tomorrow. I should finish the rest of these designs." You slowly got up. Your chest felt heavy, heart in your throat. All the pent-up emotion hit you all at once. "It's good to see you again," he lightly said. You looked back, seeing a sad smile on his lips. The second you got in the car, Namjoon was looking at you worriedly. "Are you okay? You look like you're about to cry." "The lighting was too much for me," you lied. You've made your mind up. Case or no case, you were glad to see Jungkook again. And you weren't willing to let him go this time. “Let’s get that god-tier dinner.”
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elopez7228 · 4 years ago
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Scenic Route 15/47
Read on AO3 : https://archiveofourown.org/works/18268208/chapters/43229774  
Start over : https://elopez7228.tumblr.com/post/620919089893933056/scenic-route-0147
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Rey woke up around six in the afternoon. Her clothes stuck to her sweat-drenched skin, much like her hair. BB8 was lying in the back seat, chewing on her old sock.
She shuffled out of the car, wondering how on earth she was going to make herself presentable. She’d showered yesterday but it felt like ages ago—in a matter of hours she had sweated, taken a tumble in the leaves, wandered into a thorn bush, rolled around in a pile of nettles, fought with an actual bear, and managed to sweat even more in the aftermath. She was covered in dirt, scratches, and leaf litter. Not to mentioned that she reeked of dog slobber. At this point, a shower seemed less of a luxury and more of a necessity. But where was she going to do that?
She recoiled at the thought of calling Ben Solo again. Better not get too dependent, too burdensome...what kind of post-breakup-soul-searching-road-trip would this be if she was constantly relying on the first man that crossed her path?
She opted for a campsite, she would have to spend the night somewhere anyway. And since she was sleeping in the car she wouldn’t have to bother with the whole tent business. She was carrying a lightweight dress and makeup essentials in her bag. It would suffice for this evening. As for BB8, she would be coming along—the poor girl—she didn’t have to spend the evening chained to the car.
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Cigarette in hand, Ben reviewed Snoke’s responses to the leaked information from Rey’s phone as he sat on the terrace of the Town Square Tavern.
According to his files, her employer—Smart Berries—was a London-based startup specializing in targeted advertising. Their app used a patented algorithm to identify potential customers for various businesses. It was nothing remotely compromising. They had zero presence abroad. Just a team of fifty people, most of them myopic computer geeks or Frappuccino-guzzling business newbies. No connection whatsoever with Earth Soldiers or FORCE. Rey’s primary contacts consisted of her ex-fiancé Finn Storm who also worked in IT, and his boyfriend Poe Dameron who was a mechanic. She went out for lunch every afternoon, paid her taxes on time, donated regularly to cancer research initiatives, and lived a generally uneventful life. No prior political engagement, revolutionary plotting, activism, or discernable link to any ecological organizations whatsoever. The investigation into Jessika Pava returned similar results. The one thing that stood out to Ben was that Rey was born to absentee parents and raised by an adopted family.
“That makes two of us,” he sighed as he picked up his phone to text her his location. She would likely show up on time.
In the central plaza, a crowd of onlookers had gathered to watch a group of comedians perform an Old West skit. Saloon girls strutted around in billowy red satin bloomers. Military men paraded in on horses waving the Stars and Stripes, and daring cowboys performed a mock duel with toy pistols. The crowd was in full swing, laughing and cheering along.
Night fell slowly, the air still humid, the sky eventually turning pitch black. Kylo and the band dispersed into the crowd, with the exception of Syed who was still under orders to shadow Rey. Wherever she went,  Syed was never far away. Syed tore through the crowd in Ben’s direction, silently wishing she was slicing through something else entirely.
Ben couldn’t help but find her beautiful, in her black leather pants, studded belt and combat boots. She stood in front of him, raising the cigarette she twirled between her fingers to her lips.
“So, how was your day?” he asked, feigning indifference.
“I went on a twelve mile hike, confronted a bear, saved your girlfriend’s life, and then watched her sleep for three hours. I wasn’t exactly idle. What about you?”
“You saved her life?” He exclaimed, no longer able to maintain a poker face.
“Yeah. She’ll probably tell you, she’s going to be here any minute now.” Syed responded, looking behind her as if to pick someone out of the crowd. Ben followed her gaze.
That’s when he saw her.
To this day he had only ever seen her in jeans and a t-shirt, her feet clad in ankle boots and her hair tousled at best. But now he hardly recognized the woman approaching him.
Rey was wearing a blush pink silk dress and high heeled sandals that accentuated her elegant figure. The silk flowed effortlessly down her body, held up by thin straps. She had evidently forgone a bra. Her hair was swept into a loose updo, with a few rebel strands escaping to frame her lightly  made-up face.
Ben suddenly felt overly warm. He swallowed the lump in his throat, cursing his own weakness as he felt a blush creeping up his face. Syed tapped him under the jaw.
“Close your mouth or you’re going to catch flies.” She intoned.
Rey held a small purse in one hand (just big enough for her phone and wallet) and a leash in the other. BB8 trotted along nearby, chewing contently on a red rubber ball that was too large for her jaw and wagging her tail excitedly.
But the dog froze as soon as she caught sight of Ben, growling viciously. The sound that came out was garbled, muffled by the rubber ball. Ben rose to pull out a chair for Rey. He had a hard time finding the right words.
“Good evening. You look...beautiful. What will you be drinking?”
“Margarita, thanks.”
She sat down, hanging the leash on the back of her chair. BB8’s eyes were still glued to Ben as the growling continued. He looked down on her disdainfully and contemplated a swift kick in her direction. The dog was easily within  range of his boot—but that would surely ruin the evening. He gingerly moved his foot away.
Syed broke her silence, crushing the end of her lipstick-stained cigarette into an ashtray. “I’m going to see what Saul is up to. Call me if you need me Kylo, I’ve got my cell.”
Without waiting for a response, she turned on her heels and disappeared into the sea of passers by. A waitress brought a margarita for Rey and a  pint of Rainier for Ben. They clinked glasses.
“So, did you have a good day?” Ben asked finally, strangely hesitant.
“I don’t know,” Rey replied, taking a long sip of the sugary tequila concoction through her straw. She looked up at Ben with gleaming eyes. “I fought a bear...”
“Oh, you too?” Ben asked, immediately regretting his untimely slip up.
Rey frowned, obviously perplexed. “What do you mean, me too? Do you know a lot of people who have fought bears?”
“Er no I meant—I thought it was just some British expression or something—to say that you’ve had a rough day?”
Rey burst out laughing.
Nice save.
“No, but it could be! Believe it or not, I fought an actual bear.”
Ben’s eyes widened. “If you fought a bear there’s no way you would have escaped, unscathed, to tell the tale.”
“You don’t believe me?” Rey feigned offense. “Would you bet on it?”
“A bet?” Ben took a gulp of his beer. He didn’t like where this conversation was headed. What the hell was the story with this bear? He knew Rey was danger-prone but this was too much even for her. “Alright, you’re on. What are the conditions?”
Rey lit up instantly. She had Ben right where she wanted him. He wasn’t particularly well dressed this evening but she found a surprising amount of grace, watching him in the dimming glow of twilight. His shoulders were massive and his mouth too large, his nose too long and his ears slightly too big for his face. She had lost count of his beauty marks. But it all seemed to work, his features coming together in atypical harmony. What she really liked was his hair. It fell in thick waves to the nape of his neck and she suddenly had the urge to run her fingers through it. The idea of sliding her nails through was enough to make heat bloom in her stomach.
She crossed her legs to clamp down on the impulse as she feigned an air of nonchalance. “If I can prove that I fought a bear today, you have to...let me pleat your hair.”
Ben broke out into a laugh—the genuine  sort of laughter that Rey had never heard from him before. She smiled. It suited him, tracing dimples along his cheeks and revealing a row of slightly imperfect teeth. The nth little flaw that added to the equilibrium of his face.
“No way,” he finally managed after he caught his breath.
Disappointed, Rey pressed her lips into an exaggerated pout. “Tell me, what would you counter, then?” Rey asked politely.
“If I win you have to teach your dog to like me,” Ben replied without missing a beat.
Rey smiled inwardly, she was touched by the fact that he wanted to make friends with BB. She couldn’t help but find his intentions adorable.
“Alright,” she agreed, but only if you let me do your hair.”
“Okay.”
That would cost him. He wasn’t afraid of looking ridiculous—what he was really afraid of was the feel of her fingers running against his scalp. Would he be able to keep himself in check? What if she noticed he was half-hard? But the truth was he had a lot to gain if he won the bet.
Rey grinned triumphantly, reaching into her bag to take out a piece of metal which she placed on the table.
Ben held it between his fingertips. “What is this? A bullet?”
“Yep. It belongs to the hunter who scared the bear off,” she confirmed.
“The bear...that you fought with?” Ben had a hard time buying it.
Rey launched into a story, gesticulating wildly as she recounted her adventure: BB8, the chipmunk, the bear and the invisible shooter.
Ben licked his lips. It all corresponded with what Syed had so succinctly reported: Confronted a bear, saved your girlfriend’s life. He could have denied it, could have asked for additional evidence that she would never be able to supply. But he already knew it was true. What point would there be in antagonizing her and calling her a liar?
He nodded. “Okay, you win.”
Rey raised her arms in victory, it was her turn to laugh. “Are you ready for a makeover?”
“Here?” Ben sputtered incredulously.
Rey grinned mischievously. “It’ll happen whenever and wherever I choose tonight,” she countered, sipping on the rest of her cocktail. She was hungry too, her stomach growled in complaint.
And so they ordered pizza. BB8 perked up at the scent. She didn’t hesitate to butt the table with her snout in begging for a slice.
Rey caught Ben’s attention. “Give her a little piece,” she whispered, “and then pet her gently. She’ll warm up to you.”
Ben obeyed, albeit with caution. The dog growled, but was unable to resist the temptation of hot pizza. She swallowed the piece whole with a single movement of her jaw. Ben slowly retrieved his hand. BB reclaimed her rightful place next to Rey, who stroked her affectionately.
“That’s it, good dog. See him? That’s Ben. You’ll get used to him eventually. I’m sure he’ll give you more pizza, and you’ll be friends. What do you say, Ben?”
“I...suppose, yes.” He wasn’t quite at ease with the animal but in order for the mission to succeed, he would have to be able to approach Rey.
She finished her pizza and ordered a second margarita, all the while licking the salt on the rim of the glass from her fingers. She raised her honey colored eyes to Ben.
“So l’ll summarize what I know about you: you play music, you drive a big pickup, and you have history with the lead guitarist. Who are you, Ben Solo? Is music your business or your pleasure?”
He diverted his gaze. He had no intention of stumbling this time. “I tour with the band for a month at a time but...the rest of the time I work at a multinational company in Silicon Valley.”
“Oh? You’re in tech?”
“No, it’s in the industrial sector. What about you?” He turned the tables on her ”I know that you’re British, that you’re single as of late, that you like music and hiking, and that you fear solitude. What do you do in life, Rey?”
She blushed. “My title is Office Experience Manager. I work in HR at a startup where I handle the well-being of the team. I make sure that they like what we do and are happy with where they are.”
That was definitely her calling. There was something luminous about her, she was like sunshine. He didn’t doubt for an instant that she brought happiness wherever she went. Ben himself was so taciturn—more like moonlight—and yet he found himself changing in her presence.
“Why do you think that I fear solitude?” She asked, dreading the response.
Ben’s hand reached out and gently swept a loose lock of hair behind her ear. She trembled slightly, making his palm brush against her cheek. She was warm to the touch. He didn’t move his hand, somehow frozen in the moment. Rey closed her eyes.
“You say you’re travelling alone, but you keep coming back to me, again and again,” he murmured breathlessly, “why?”
“You’re the first person I met here, when I was in the depths of hell. You helped me,  in your own way. Brash and intrusive...quintessentially American.”
Ben’s palm cupped her cheek. His hands were massive, he could have held her whole face in that palm.
“Rey.”
She blinked, coming back to her senses.
“Come.”
He rose, depositing a handful of cash on the table. She took the hand he offered her.
“What about BB8?” She asked softly.
“We’re not going very far. She can wait a few minutes.”
Rey let Ben pull her away—pull her in—far from the crowd. He lead her down the alley, a shelter away from prying eyes and public lighting. He grabbed her wrist, pinning her against the wall. Rey gulped. He was so close, and his gaze was so intense. He licked his lips, a tick that she had noticed on the first day they met. It gave away his apprehension. Or was it anticipation?
Slowly, she lifted her hands, and with a slight tremble, buried them in the dark waves of his hair. Obeying an irrepressible instinct, he took her face in both hands and crushed her mouth to his.
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Map Editors I Have Known And Loved
Much as my favorite part of any RPG is the character creation screen, my favorite part of any RTS (and many other genres of video game) is the map editor, where it’s included. This is a brief review of different map editing experiences for different games based on the time I’ve spent with them.
Warcraft 2
One of the first, wayyy back in the dark days of the mid-90s. Good for little besides making melee maps, really, due to the absence of a trigger system (as I recall).I was too young to really be able to experiment with its mechanics, and mostly used it as a glorified version of a Paint program, because I liked Wc2′s distinctive art style.
Age of Empires 2
AoE2 is/was a freaking terrific game, but (and probably because the campaigns the game shipped with didn’t need more than it provided) the trigger system of its in-game editor is not super sophisticated. Third-party editors and utilities supplement the default modding tools, and modding AoE2 is easier than ever with the HD edition, but if you want to do something super elaborate you’re going to need to do a lot of quirky tricks and editing of database values. I still love the AoE2 map editor, because I love building huge elaborate isometric recreations of medieval European cities, and then wrecking them with a giant army of Elite Mangudai and trebuchets.
Deus Ex: GOTY Edition
An FPS, but it came with a variation on the Unreal engine level editor that was, despite requiring a fair bit of knowledge about the engine to make it really useful, was still great for a kind of conceptual Lego, building beautiful austere environments with careful lighting you could walk around in (and shoot up with a GEP gun). Again, I was a little too young and a little too impatient to master the subtler aspects of DX level design, like triggers and scripting and whatnot, and the tools provided, though powerful, didn’t hold your hand at all. Still, full marks for making the inner workings of the game robustly exposed to modders.
Starcraft
The original Starcraft and the BW expansion have a lot to recommend them: a great kind of redneck-punk scifi aesthetic, some seriously fun campaigns, and some seriously fun multiplayer (the panic instilled by “nuclear launch detected,” etc.); the map editor was great because it had pretty decent unit editing capabilities, and an extremely good trigger system--plus you could make your own voiced mission briefings, string missions together as campaigns, etc., etc. A lot of what you couldn’t do was supplemented by third-party editors, and playing around with SC’s trigger system trying to get all kinds of weird things to work laid a lot of the cognitive groundwork for learning how to think and clarify ideas when I started learning actual programming languages like Python. Rates very highly on both the “purity of form” and “purity of spirit” scales, but it’s nothing compared to
Warcraft 3
Hoooooooo boy
I have a sentimental attachment to wc3 map editing like nothing else. There were whole summers I spent playing custom games on battle.net, and probably thousands of ideas I played around with in the editor itself, but never quite finished, because let me tell you, this bad boy is as far as I’m concerned the gold standard for map editors. It was released in a somewhat limited form with RoC, but around the time TFT came out, they updated the editor to a much more full-featured version, and they eventually also released all the plugins necessary to make Wc3 models with third-party programs. Combined with the idiosyncratic-but-actually-kinda-useful form of custom game searching, the result was, as anyone with a passing familiarity with the wc3 modding scene probably knows, one of the greatest flowerings of modding creativity in video game history. Out of this crucible of innovation came among other things a deep vein of tower defense maps, elaborations on the Aeon of Strife custom games from SC, and out of those, eventually, the DotA maps--leading to DotA Allstars and thence DotA 2.
The Wc3 editor lets you fuck with literally every conceivable value in the game, comes with an exceedingly powerful trigger system, lets you make custom units and abilities and buildings, and where it can’t do what you want it to, also just lets you script shit directly. I love it so much. It is my happy place; the little “doot doo do do doot DOO” that sounds when you start it up gives me a jolt of delight every time, years later.
Homeworld 2/Homeworld Remastered
Honorable mention to the most fun I have ever had in a melee RTS with my pants on. The maps here are exceedingly simple: you edit them with a text editor. But true 3d space battles--true 3d gorgeous space battles with a 70s sci fi aesthetic--are impossible to underrate in my book, and it helps that the Homeworld series has genuinely delightful gameplay mechanics. It also has a pretty good modding scene, with the inevitable Star Trek and Star Wars and BSG mods, because while the game isn’t super easy to mod, and has nothing in the way of built-in modding tools, it isn’t actively hostile to modding the guts of it like some games I could mention (cough cough Paradox cough). Confession: I’ve never tried to mod HW2. I have played a shit ton of it, though, and I live in the vain hope that one day someone will be like, “You know what? Not only is it time to bring RTSes back, 3d space battles are actually the fuckin’ best,” and make another game like it.
Starcraft 2
I haven’t played around as much with the Sc2 editor, because while I played a lot of Sc2 melee during WoL and HotS days, the actual experience of finding custom games with SC2 blows. Rather than Wc3′s “here’s all the custom games currently going, knock yourself out bub” thing, with Sc2 they tried to start a curated game list thing and added rating games and all this other wacky stuff that means it’s actually kinda impossible to find things 1) that you like and 2) that people are actually playing. I haven’t touched Sc2 in years, though; maybe it’s gotten better? I doubt it. The editor itself is, based on my limited experience, just the natural iteration of the Wc3 editor: a little more robust, possibly a little more confusing at first as a result, but it’s got that same classic Blizzard polish that makes their modding tools such a joy to use. But between the fact that the scifi aesthetic doesn’t appeal to me as much when it comes to making custom games, and the sucky game finding interface, I think I’m mostly holding out for WC3: Reforged to scratch that RTS modding itch.
DotA 2
Valve did the community a huge solid and released its developer tools to let people mod its hat collecting/racial and homophobic slurs archiving engine, DotA 2, but the custom game search features suffer from the same problem that plagues SC2, only even worse. Just give me a fucking server browser!!!! FPSes had this solved in like 1994!!!
It doesn’t help that DotA is built in what is fundamentally, like, an FPS engine (ok, probably that’s not an accurate characterization, but it is the engine they devised for like Half-Life 2 and TF2), which means that the developer tools feel clunky and counterintuitive and wayyy too complicated if you’re thinking of them as RTS modding tools. Plus, since not everybody has the time and the professional pride Blizzard used to have to create powerful, polished, standalone modding tools, they’re not gonna hold your hand at all. And the fact that MOBAs/ARTSes have mostly colonized the space classic RTSes used to fill means that what you really have is, like, 5% of the assets you’d need to actually make an RTS mod for the DotA engine. It would probably be easier to make an FPS in the DotA engine than a true, Warcraft-style RTS. (Someone did once make an FPS in the Warcraft 3 engine. It was... actually kind of fun? But seriously goofy.)
If I were a smarter and more hardworking person, I could probably build an RTS-like thing in DotA’s modding tools, but I am not. Plus, there are elements of DotA level design that suffer from the same problems as
Later iterations of the Unreal engine
One thing I loved about the classic UT engine, which the original Deus Ex used, is that (though it was prone to frustrating geometry bugs) it let you tinker around with architecture directly in the space it provided. I played with the level editors of some later UT games (principally UT3, I think?), and with the push toward fancier graphics of later generations, there was also a push toward use of a lot more doodads and 3d assets in levels to provide what I would think of as basic architectural details. I’m sure there are solid graphical and programmatic reasons for this. I’m a dilettante at best at this sort of thing, and I can’t speak to those. But the downside of that was that unless you have some 3d modeling chops, and a measure of planning and patience, the sandboxy/creative appeal of dicking around in the level editor was much reduced. That’s not a criticism of the tools provided so much as it is a neutral observation and, perhaps, me mourning a little bit the fact that older, simpler games, by virtue of their simplicity, are often more amenable to modding. One thing we lose in an era of ever-more-elaborate triple-A titles is a fundamental transparency in how games are constructed; they become super complex, teetering programmatical edifices, and while that often allows for interesting new developments in gameplay (and shiny graphics!), for the person who wants to learn How Games Work by taking them apart and poking around, well, it’s harder. That’s one reason why I’ve never gotten into Skyrim modding, even though it looks awesome and super powerful.
(the U4 engine “map editor” equivalent is a suite of game dev tools, and sold as such, but I’m not really talking about standalone game dev tools that are meant to allow you to build a game from the ground up in this post, so that’s beyond the scope of what I’m interested in. Obviously the more general and powerful a modding tool is, the more it shades directly into that; and there’s something of an artificial distinction between a “total conversion mod” and “a new videogame,” like that between a musical and an opera, that mostly has to do with spirit and intent and marketing.)
EU4, CK2
I am including these because I love modding these games, even though the “modding tools” for them are Notepad++ and GIMP. It’s nothing but images and weirdly formatted text files (and little documentation), and it’s terrible and frustrating! But I love it! My big complaint is actually the lack of ability to alter fundamental game mechanics: everything you can change about the game easily is the accidence of it: its appearance, the map, what countries and characters you can control. The underlying mechanics--the spirit of the game--is frustratingly immutable, except via very clunky workarounds, and while I understand why you might not go out of your way to make these things easily manipulable (it’s a lot of extra work to uncertain benefit), and why Paradox games rely on an event-driven system that is both like and much unlike RTS trigger systems, it is a little disappointing. But EU4 and CK2 drive very different parts of my imagination (geography and politics and economics) than, say, Wc3 (strategy and fighting and tactical finesse), in the same way that Deus Ex drove yet another part (the architectural, the spatial, the atmospheric). One day, maybe, someone will invent a game that somehow captures everything I love about each, a kind of  transcendental game of everything, with modding tools to match, but I doubt it, and I’m OK with it even if that never happens.
Honorable mention: the Civ series
4x games are moooostly outside my scope of interest here, but I do remember Civ2 having a terrific editor with lots of opportunities for modding buildings and techs, and the great thing was that units and cities and terrain were all just very simple images that you could edit with an in-game tool. SMAC/AX was also pretty moddable, had a built in scenario editor/cheat menu, and Civ 3/4/5 have fun map editing and scenario building tools. Turn based games appeal to me a little less inherently, because they lack the thing I love about RTSes, the “oh shit PANIC” moments where you reflexes and quick thinking become super important, but the Civ series does have great strategic and econ management elements.
Other games
There are whole genres of games--Sim City, Dwarf Fortress, Minecraft, the building aspect of 4X games--that capture in small or large part what I love about map editors, with the same build-create-tweak-adjust cycle, though obviously on a distinct footing since they’re making them an actual game rather than a tool with which to create games. It scratches a similar itch, though: it’s all about combining aesthetic design with design of systems. I have a radical thesis which is that every game is improved with the inclusion of a map editor. The existence of a representational, navigable space is intrinsic to almost every genre of game (every game I can think of, though I don’t exclude the possibility that there are ones I haven’t thought of that don’t have that), and being able to use the same underlying rules--or to iterate on those rules--and apply them to a new space, especially a new space you can design for optimum fun rather than just relying on procedurally generated (inevitably samey) space, extends the life of games considerably.
My earliest and biggest interest is in RTSes with map editors, though, because I have a fervent, unquenchable love for the genre. Alas, as noted, it’s a genre that has never been super popular and is currently pretty marginal. THe challenges of making a good RTS engine--nevermind a fun-to-play RTS--are considerable, especially if you care about things like multiplayer (which is my favorite part of RTSes). A lot of entries in that genre now are in some sense hybrid. MOBAs, of course; but games like EU4 have RTSlike elements (and, being pausable, are in some ways the best of both worlds with regard to RTSes and turn-based games). I live in hope that the RTS genre will experience a minor renaissance one of these days, and we’ll get something worthy of being the successor to WC3 or AoE2. If you’re working on that--please, please, I’m begging you, release it with a map editor.
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flatcherriley95 · 4 years ago
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How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back When He Has A New Girlfriend Stunning Unique Ideas
By learning about them, putting them down, or talking to each other again.As long as you can, but I couldn't think of anything else in the name of love.You need to give my ex back, you'll be back in your dwelling wondering what went wrong.Now it's time to think harassing their ex again and you know this, it will get your ex back actually work?
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Appearing too needy or desperate to get your ex is the most liberal of men think that it's not cheating.In fact, when he sees you again, so don't be worried to speak up.Don't even try to understand her expectations.So, you just suffered a breakup is hard to do for some time, they need a plan of action.Be sure that you have made, and promptly correct them.
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Don't try and introduce any romance into the black hole of emotions is bound to fail, which makes this trick simply powerful.Don't make the ground and a time when you meet.Answer his email with another email - these are not only would it feel to not contact them.After deciphering the root of the times, physical beauty but on the non official date:I was on the wall and figure out the author, TW Jackson, gives his customers.
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That will take your time, and this guy was in the interests of enjoying a happy, loving and fruitful life together, all of these things?Breakups are harsh, and you also have to try getting your ex back is going through a difficult thing to do.Of course you are, and trying to communicate with your ex back from another girl behind her back.If you have recently had a good idea that you reply only reply short answers.Take a look at the time to reconsider but if you truly do mean that you have to examine and eliminate if you have a secret for you. if you are alright without him.
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jakeallison96 · 4 years ago
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How To Get Back At A Narcissist Ex Blindsiding Ideas
If you have one thing that we were intending to get back?This is one of getting back together again, when everyone thought that, right?You cannot think of anything you did anything to make your ex again, that probably gave her good reason for doing so.You need to be a little story about my ex and move away from you.
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Finding the info is the case,getting your ex to talk then he might just convince her.Cut the thread and start thinking about them without bothering them at the end all be yours again.Arrange a date of sorts somewhere that offers that?Sometimes though, it just furthers their frustration, don't be nervous and pressure yourself to resist a man to be comfortable around, believe you can't live without him.This is precisely why guys that can really help.
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Tell him that you want him so soon after the break up.Here are some things will help you is because having no contact rule works all the problems that one is telling you that, over time, you will be men and women come close, they feel that there is better and better each time you are not willing to pardon yourself? Your girl wants to talk to your history together.Tweaking some things to work towards self-improvement.Self interest is what it takes to make you feel like she did.
Finally, you have to do to win back love.It is very observant and aware of the break up with him the chance to show your girlfriend all of getting your guy back and be truthful to yourself - Lastly, you should look into getting back together.Cultivate other interests and friendships.The thing which will help you contemplate on what happened, can take a deep breath and calm down.If so, there are specific things to each other plenty of water.
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mistyyygoode · 7 years ago
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The Lonely Hearts Pt.2 (The Butchery)
After unpacking the rest of the house, Shelby felt like she needed to get out of the apartment. She changed from her yoga pants and a sports bra to a pink sweater that hung off one of her shoulders, and a pair of black skinny jeans with a pair of black ankle boot. As she grabbed her purse she saw the card Ally had given her a few days ago, and thought maybe she would stop by there after she looked at a few yoga studios.
She drove to the first yoga studio she looked up online that had four and a half stars and walked inside. She walked up to the front counter where a bleached blonde young woman sat.
"How can I help you?" she asked.
"I'm thinking about signing up."
"Okay," the woman said before looking through a stack of papers. "What's the best schedule for you?" she asked as she handed over a paper.
Shelby scanned the paper for a second. "I'm not exactly sure yet... I'm new to town and I still have to find a job."
"We have some openings... what's your background like?"
"I owned my own yoga studio in LA before moving here." She told the woman.
"Let me go get my boss."
Shelby nodded. She waited a few minutes before she young woman came back with a older, short, thin, brunette mixed with grey haired woman.
"Brandy says you owned your own place in LA, and you're looking for a job?"
"Yes, ma'am."
"Come to my office, we can talk there."
Shelby followed the woman down a hall, on the way they passed four yoga rooms, each one was being used. When they reached the office, the woman took a seat behind her desk, and she sat across from her.
"I'm Elizabeth, by the way."
"It's lovely to meet you. I'm Shelby."
"Do you mind me asking why you left your studio?"
"I took a break for something else, and by the time I came back, my assistant was doing so well, I sold it over to her. I moved here for a new start."
"Okay," Elizabeth nodded before turning in her seat to grab a file of paper. "Well, here's an application. If you can, put the number for your old assistant or the studio, and I'll give them a call. I don't see why I couldn't hire you, so after you fill this out, I'll get back to you in a week."
"Okay, thank you."
The woman handed Shelby over a pen, and she started writing things down. She wrote down her maiden name instead of Miller since she was planning on changing it back as soon as she could. She wrote down the number of her assistant, and everything else that was needed before handing it back over.
"Alright, Miss... Darling, we'll get back to you within a week if not sooner."
"Okay, thank you so much." Shelby said as she stood up.
Elizabeth showed her out and shook her hand.
Shelby made her way back to her car, and put in the address for the butchery into her phone before making her way there. She looked at the building before walking inside. A host greeted her with a smile and walked her over to a booth near the kitchen with a menu.
As she scanned the menu, she had no idea what to get, there were so many things she thought sounded good, but she just couldn't make up her mind. She saw the kitchen door open up, and Ally walked out with a platter in one hand and a bottle of wine in the other. She watched as the woman walked over to a table of woman, and set it down the wine. She saw Ally walking back her way, and their eyes met.
"Shelby, you finally made it!" the other woman smiled as she walked to her.
"Yeah," she smiled softly.
"I like the hair."
"Thanks, I thought I needed something new."
"Well, it suits you well." Ally grinned. "What are you getting?"
"I'm not sure yet. There's too many things to choose from. They all sound so good."
The other brunette took a seat across from her. "Well, I'd say the steak is the best, but a lot of people who come here say the burgers are the best. For sides, with the steak I think the potatoes and onions are a good choice, and for the burger the homemade fries are my favorite."
"They both sound incredible." Shelby said before biting her lip as she looked back down at the menu.
"Well, I could get you both, and you can try, and see what you like best."
"Really?" she asked as she looked back up.
"Why not?"
"Well, two meals is way too much... and kind of expensive."
"It'll be on the house, don't worry about it."
"Are you sure?"
"Of course I am," Ally smiled. "I'll even get Ivy to prepare it."
"Is Ivy your top chef?"
"That and my wife."
Shelby wasn't sure why, but she felt her heart ache over the news that Ally was married. She was never really attracted to w women before, and she wasn't sure if what she felt for Ally was just one of those friend-crushes, but it sure did feel different for her.
"That would be nice," she smiled.
"Okay, I'll be right back." Ally said before getting up. She walked toward the kitchen, but turned back. "What do you want to drink?"
"Water is fine."
"I'll bring you some wine." She said before disappearing behind the kitchen's door.
Shelby shook her head as a small laugh fell from her lips. As she waited, she grabbed her phone just in time to get a text from her old assistant.
Amanda: Just letting you know, some woman named Elizabeth just called. She asked if you were a good person to work with.
Shelby: I'm hoping to get a job with her. What did you say?
Amanda: Well, of course I told her you were amazing when you were here. She asked what you were like as a boss, and I told her you were the best I ever had.
Shelby: Thank you so much, Mandy.
Amanda: You're welcome, good luck.
"Here you go," Shelby heard, and looked up to see a glass of red wine in front of her and Ally across from her again.
"Thank you." She said before taking the glass and taking a sip, humming at the flavor. "Mm, this is really good."
"We have custom wine here along with others. This is a personal favorite of mine."
"It's amazing."
"The burger should be out in a minute, and then the steak." Ally informed her.
"Okay," she nodded.
"So, what do you think of the town so far?"
"It seems great."
"Do you have a job here?"
"I just turned in an application at the yoga studio on Fannin."
"I've heard great things about that place."
"Google reviews seemed that way. It's the only placed I've looked at so far though."
"Well, if it doesn't work out we're always accepting."
"I wouldn't like being a waitress, but thank you."
"There's more than just waitressing. We have bartenders, chefs, and I need an assistant or I'll have to find a nanny for my son."
"You have a son?" Shelby asked with a small smile.
"Yes, his name is Ozymandias, but everyone calls him Oz or Ozzy."
"That's an eccentric name."
"I know, Ivy and I wanted something we knew no one else his age would have."
Shelby nodded, "That's understandable."
The kitchen door opened up, and a blonde haired woman walked out with a small platter with the burger and fries. She set it on the table while smiling.
"This is Ivy." Ally told Shelby. "This is Shelby, the woman I told you about."
"A new face in town is always great." Ivy smiled. "It's great to meet you."
"You too, thank you both so much for this."
"You're welcome," they said in unison.
"Alright, I've got to get back. See you later," the blonde said before pecking Ally's lips and walking back to the kitchen.
Shelby looked down at the food, and felt her stomach growl. She took a knife some the silverware set and cut the burger in half before taking a bite. She wiped her mouth after swallowing, "That's incredible," she said with a smile.
"Great!"
"Do you guys cut your own meat?"
"We do."
"Do you cook as well?" Shelby asked before taking another bite.
"No, that all Ivy. I stick to the books and the accounting. I can't stand the sight of blood so I hardly ever go into the kitchen unless it before prep." She explained.
"I know what you mean," the other brunette said. "I used to be a vegan."
"What happened?"
"After... recuperating at the hospital and a blood transfusion I was diagnosed with anemia, and I was told that I basically have to eat meat to replenish the iron I need because supplements aren't enough." She explained, and was shocked that she found it easy so to talk to Ally about these things, things she hadn't told anyone else.
"I'm so sorry. It must have been incredibly stressful to go through all of that."
"Yeah," she nodded before grabbing a few of the fries. "God, these are great too."
"They are," Ally nodded with a smile.
"I can't imagine anything else being better than this."
"Then the steak will blow your mind."
Not long after a waitress came over with the steak with potatoes and onions. Shelby took her first bite, and hummed again. "God, I don't think I'll be able to eat anywhere else." She laughed. "I'm sure you hear that a lot."
"We go, but I'm thrilled each time I hear it."
"I can't decide which is better."
"Either way, you can take what you can't finish home with you, and if you want a bottle of this wine I can get you one, it'll be on the house too."
"Thank you, but the wine is too much."
"Take is as a welcome to town."
"Okay," she nodded with a smile. "Thank you again."
"You're welcome. I know how hard it can be to relocate."
"You do?"
"Yes, about fourteen years ago, Ivy and I moved here from New York, and it was rough for the both of us."
"It was hard on Matt and me when we moved too, so I understand."
"Matt was your husband right?"
"Yeah... well, ex." She shrugged before eating more.
"You two got a divorce?" Ally asked. "Sorry... that's none of my business."
"It's okay," she said. "It was in the works before the second part of the show was filmed."
"You know, you don't seem like you did on there."
"It was highly edited... Sydney was an asshole, and made it seem as if we all hated each other, and after the police found everything his team made it just as he would have."
"They sure did make it seem that way. Audrey seemed the worst through."
"She wasn't... nice to say the least."
"Do you mind asking me if it was weird? I mean, having to see yourself played by someone else?"
"I don't mind. And it was, extremely weird."
"Has anyone else said anything?"
"No, you were one of the first people I've actually spoken to besides the movers. It's why I dyed my hair, and since I did that and changed my name no else has seem to realize."
"What did you change it to?"
"My maiden name, Darling."
"Shelby Darling," Ally said. "I like that."
Shelby loved the sounds of her name from the woman's lips. "Thanks," she smiled.
"Babe, you need to go pick up Oz!" Ivy yelled from the kitchen door.
Ally looked down at her watch. "Shit... sorry, I need to go."
"You're fine." The other brunette smiled.
"See you around?" she asked as she stood from the booth.
"Defiantly." Shelby smiled.
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dgaf-dgaf-blog · 8 years ago
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People You Can Turn to in Your Search for Validation
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Thinking about getting back together with your ex? Hooking up with your roommate’s ex-boyfriend? Hooking up with your roommate’s current boyfriend? Investing in coal? Wiring your savings to a Nigerian prince who wrote you a particularly eloquent email? Wearing a “Make America Great Again” hat to Sigma Delt? Getting coffee from the Hop?
Before you do any of that, you first need to get through the first and most valuable step of all: receiving exterior validation. You need to hear that sweet, sweet “YES ohmygosh you should totally go for it” endorsement, or read that uplifting “OMG i wud def do the sameeeee” text. Unfortunately, it can sometimes be difficult to find someone willing to give you the permission you need and deserve for your life decisions, forcing you to go through the arduous process of countless people telling you “no” before you can find that gem who gives you an enthusiastic “yes!” (or, at the very least, an “I mean, I guess there are worse things you can do”). Fortunately for you, we have compiled a helpful list of possible people you can turn to in your quest for affirmation.
Your Best Girl Friend
You know her better than anyone else, and she knows you better than anyone else. You’ve been side-by-side through thick and thin, and she understands how you think, how you make decisions, and how the consequences of those decisions affect you. There’s clearly no one better to turn to than your favorite gal pal when looking for advice on whether or not to do something.
Your Best Guy Friend
Unfortunately, sometimes your best girl friend gives you advice that you don’t want to hear, which is when you have to turn to your second-best option: your best guy friend. God knows how many times you’ve reviewed his flitzes and given him unsolicited critiques on his clothing choices; it’s time for him to return the favor and tell you what you want to hear.
Your Roommate
Honestly, your friends are probably just jealous that you’re being so mature by making rational and important decisions; on second thought, you never should have asked them in the first place. The person who’s actually the best for this situation is your roommate (who you’ve been trying to befriend since fall and honestly this would make for a great bonding opportunity). Your friends spend maybe, what, like two hours a day with you on average? Your roommate spends at least eight hours a day with you if you both have a healthy lifestyle, so clearly she must understand what’s best for you more than anyone.
Your Freshman Roommate 
Okay, so maybe your roommate thought it was a bad idea. Big deal. You only got stuck with her because the housing system screwed you over (thanks, MDF!). Clearly the problem was that you went after the wrong roommate— you should have sought out your freshman one first on your quest for validation. Sure, you may have despised her at the time for locking you out of the room every night so that she could play private sessions of online chess with her Internet friends without having to worry about you interrupting, and, yeah, her radish-pickling hobby made all of your clothes smell bad, but the past is in the past! She was there with you when you picked up your room key. She stood by your side at a safe distance as your mom took an awkward picture of the two of you before leaving. She tossed you a pickle jar to throw up into the morning after your first college party. Hell, you’re pretty certain she watched you sleep every night; who else is better able to handle your need to be told “yes”?
Your Boss 
All this time, how did you not see that the best person to turn to is your boss? Hear me out: who pays you every other week? Who hands you a check with no strings attached, entrusting you to do whatever you want with the money you have earned? Your boss has never once taken issue with the decisions that she has empowered you to make (or at least never that much of an issue, considering she’s still your boss)— why would she choose now to tell you that you shouldn’t do something?
The Person Taking Your Order at KAF
Your boss was a jerk that one time you stapled the bottom of the pages instead of the top — she’s clearly out of touch: seeing as no one uses paper anymore, how were you supposed to know proper stapling form? It’s the 21st century, where everything is digital and the decision you’ve already secretly made for yourself is a good one. Fortunately, you can always count on the lovely KAF workers to be your best advisors. They’re young and hip with their assortment of drinks and bougie pastries, unlike your stupid boss who eats a peanut butter sandwich and vanilla Yoplait yogurt every day. To maximize your chance of success, explain your situation to them when the line is at peak length, since they’d probably rather just give you the affirmation you seek than have to argue with you with so many customers waiting.
Your Parents
They’ve said “no” to you all of your life, and then sent you far away to college where they trust you to be able to live without them having any jurisdiction or ability to say “no”— thus, their absence is practically an implied “yes” to all decisions that you make while away at college. Explain this to them as the reason why you’re deciding to go ahead with your choice and surely they won’t try to stop you.
Your Grandparents
Because who else do you turn to to say “yes” when your parents say “no”?
Dean of Your Choice: Not your grandparents, apparently. Skip this option if you are seeking an endorsement for something that actively promotes Greek Life. Otherwise, you can be certain that your Dean will support whatever it is you are choosing to do, as long as you are capable of framing your decision as an “alternative social” one.
Your Drug Dealer
Your social circles, family, work, academic relationships… up until this point you’ve been relying on the word of individuals who make up irrelevant socially constructed establishments for advice on your life. Your life need not fall within the bounds of what They see as proper. On your hunt to find someone to stand by your rationalizations, hit up that one guy who never fails to indulge you. While you’re at it, maybe buy something. And give him a hefty tip (that’s drug deal etiquette, right?). Which you pull out as you’re asking him for the advice.
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At this point you should turn to someone who actively wants you to fail to validate you.
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Ralph Waldo Emerson once stated, “To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” You are a powerful woman. Embrace your ability to believe in your own choices. Look in the mirror and say “I can.” Blast “Independent Women” by Destiny’s Child and sing at the top of your lungs. Go ahead and affirm yourself.
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