#TeenagerProblems

[waccozzz]

if i watch seasons 5-now of rick n morty (+ the anime) will u pirate drawn together

SOOOO for drawn together ive been planning to watch it honestly but it really depends of what my hashtag parents say sigh #teenageangst #emo #teenagerproblems #relatable

i WILL message you if i get the okay though 👅👅 heh dont worry poses

[meganutriland]

“Nastolatki to nie potwory. To tylko ludzie próbujący się nauczyć, jak sobie radzić wśród dorosłych na świecie, którzy prawdopodobnie sami nie są tego tacy pewni.” - Wirginia Satir *** “Adolescents are not monsters. They are just people trying to learn how to make it among the adults in the world, who are probably not so sure themselves.” - Virginia Satir #teenagerposts #teenagerpost #highfiveofteenagers #momofteenagers #bookofteenager #myteenager #almostateenager #teenagerquotes #teenagergirl #momofateenager #teenagermemes #gayteenager #officiallyateenager #teenagerlife #societykilledtheteenager #nolongerateenager #teenagerproblems #theteenagergroup #teenagernow #thesecretlifeoftheamericanteenager #officialteenager #notateenageranymore #kaosteenagers #teenagerspost #teenageroom #ihaveateenager #ateenagerz #mylifeasateenagerobot https://www.instagram.com/p/CoYDgfsuyG7/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[thehonestteenager]

How to cope with embarrassment around people

I don’t know about you, but I tend to get myself in embarrassing situations, some not even my fault but i’m left to deal with it. 

It’s even worse with people.

I recently heard some great advice from a family member: ‘(embarrassment) is a sensation, and all sensations are to be enjoyed.’ 

And i know what you’re thinking. Why should I enjoy embarrassment? My own personal answer for this when I asked myself is that it’s better than feeling sorry for yourself. 

So that’s tip number one:

Don’t feel sorry for yourself!

It takes so much practice, I know. This tip is along the wavelength of ‘laugh at your embarrassment’, but with a twist. 

Next Tip: Confront the situation instead of hiding.

Countless of times I try to hide in my own shame somewhere alone, away from people’s eyes. But sometimes the moment doesn’t allow for it, and then you’re stuck. So try to analyze what’s happening.

According to some science test, the best way to deal with an embarrassing moment is to use humor. So play those jokes and gestures like your life depends on it.

Next Tip: Apologize and then just let it go.

Depending on my mood I tend to either brush embarrassing moments briskly off like some sort of lawyer in a TV show or apologize a billion times for it. 

I and you should try to be a mix, a balance of both. Apologize and let it go. It turns out that apologizing all the time (even after the event occurred) makes you focus on the past and not the present. Crazy logical, right? Anyway, you don’t owe anything to any one of the people there (unless the event was REALLY bad), and neither to yourself, so pick yourself up!

Next Tip: Allow yourself to be flawed. 

Hey, I know what it’s like to beat yourself up about some little thing and make it into a big statement on how you’re a dumb-dumb human. 

Everyone gets embarrassed from time to time; what matters is how you deal with these situations. 

You’re stronger than you know.

Next Tip: Talk it out. 

With people, perhaps a friend or even one of your ‘witnesses’, or even just to the mirror. You just need to vocalize it instead of letting your mind dwell on it. 

Maybe your confidant will give the moment new perspective (which often happens to me!) or a positive twist to it.

And the final tip: Stop worrying what people think.

If you’re by yourself and you trip on something, you laugh at yourself. If you’re in public and you trip, you tend to look around to see if anybody just saw that. And god forbid if you tripped in front of your crush.

But hey, just act like you’re alone. Shake it off, laugh it off. Because people tend to be focusing on themselves more than you.

As humans, we greatly exaggerate our flaws. But to just not care and tell a joke about it does a whole great deal more than you realise. 

And guess what? If you’re embarrassed in front of people, then you obviously have something to lose. That means you have something with them in the first place, right? That’s a celebration in itself.

I hope you enjoyed this mini-essay! TLDR, embarrassing moments suck, but you’re stronger than you think, and as the age-old saying goes: just laugh it off.

If you want my advice to a question such as ‘how to cope with embarrassment’, then just write a question in my inbox thingy (don’t really know the tumblr slang ‘:D) and i’ll see what i can do. Until next time, readers!

[kittyxlol]

Hello World

well hello there. I have decided to create a blog, as any normal teenager who's heart was recently broken does. and may I add I'm currently living through an pandemic (CONVID- 19) so I'm currently stuck at home and this is something I can do to express myself, reflect on life and I'm also bored as shit lol.

so what do I plan to achieve? well I don't know, maybe I can entertain who ever views this. Maybe I can clear my mind or solve all my problems. lets find out.

when I write them I will post my ‘blogs’ on my profile. 

[its-just-me-ranting]

I remember watching those high school films when i was younger and thinking that with 16 i‘d have my life together, have a boyfriend..

Now i‘m 19 and i‘m here like: shit, i haven‘t even had a first kiss yet.

[moi-lecosmique]

to relax and feels good :)

and for my death too... probably no one will see this, anymore ..

a playlist any alternative to your sad or happy summer / winter / fall / spring days. ENJOY.

- a matter of feeling (duran duran)

- strange (galaxie 500)

- mystery of love (sufjan stevens)

- youth culture (carmen)

- wings (HAERTS)

- loving you (minnie riperton)

- what we had (the drums)

- dancing queen (ABBA) *vaporwave remix,preferably*

- repetition (information society)

- buzzcut season (lorde)

- rhiannon (fleetwood mac)

- green light (lorde)

- 400 lux (lorde)

- just a fool (jim james)

- my kind of woman (mac demarco)

- salad days (mac demarco)

- passing out pieces (mac demarco)

- perfect places (lorde)

- wonderwall (oasis)

- cosmic love (florence + the machine)

- disorder (joy division)

- michelle (the beatles)

- tugboat (galaxie 500)

- moonage daydream (david bowie)

- heroes (david bowie)

- decomposing trees (galaxie 500)

-  fred astaire (lady bird movie)

[digforcent]

The job market can be a real arena for a teenager, but with a little resilience and ingenuity, you can find many ways to make money

check this Link for more details

[rubinolucia22]

Second teenagers in the house... oh dear! . . . . . #toddlermom #teenager #boymom #teenagerproblems #selfhelpbooks #selfappreciation #leadershipskills #socialentrepreneurship #putyourselffirst #selfcareishealthcare #selfcaresaturday #teenagernow #mindsetquotes #momlife #confidenceisthekey #teenagerlife #confidenceisyou #teenagergirl #momofgirls #confidencecoach #teenagerslife #mindsetchange #mentors #mentoring #leadersoftomorrow #leadershipdevelopment #kidsgram #mindsetiskey #mindsetmatters #teenageragain via @hashtagexpert https://www.instagram.com/p/CBYU-cPJxyz/?igshid=77w29dmnhrxw

[kira-the-wordsmith]

Drop ♥️ if you like it. Follow me @kira.the.wordsmith . . . #lovenotes #poetsofig #poetryisnotdead #missyouquotes #qotd #teenagerproblems #crushquotes #firstlove #justlifequotes #painfulquotes #healing #poemsofig #globalagepoetry #micropoetry #tumblerquotes #retro #poetrybyme #omypoetry #wordswithqueens #hoestlyworded #poeticthoughts #relateablememes #quotestoinspire #lovequotes #lovepoems (at India) https://www.instagram.com/p/B-CghmZlbR7/?igshid=mftv8905xncz

[themadhouseinamerica]

It is very hard to get a photo of your nearly 15 year old. I’m impressed that I managed to get her hands! . . . . #teenagerproblems #lifewithteenagers #cantgetaphoto #blackandwhite #blackandwhitephotography #hands #phone #nearly #expatlife #britinusa #britinmaryland https://www.instagram.com/p/Bsgey44F9uU/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=12qj0j0kaa5mw

[thehonestteenager]

A beginning

Okay, not gonna lie. I made this on a whim. I just really fancied writing on a blog, and I thought tumblr was perfect for that. And since nobody really wants to listen to a random person dump their stuff onto a blog, I thought I could help people instead.

If i help even one person, even myself, I’ll be happy and fulfilling this blog’s purpose. So go ahead and ask a question. It can be serious or not, and I’ll try to give you advice for it.

I appreciate you reading this far! So go ahead and ask something :)

[scarletmaster143]

Me being petty

So me and my mother were chatting and I started typing in my phone because I had a really good plot for my story. My mother assumed I was writing fanfiction and said that what I was writing was not ‘real’ writing (whatever the eff that means) and mocked me. She said I should write something ‘useful’.

She didn’t know I was writing an original story about a female human dictator who rules over the faerie world with her supportive and cinnamon roll of a husband. I didn’t tell her that right at that moment I made my main character’s mother die.

[little-randomness]

#teenagerproblems

[kittyxlol]

Im Hopeless at love!

The title is kinda a spoiler isn't it. oh well. 

so recently I may have had a fling going on, but as usual it never works (may I just add; I rarely have any romantic flings...and I'm 18. apart from the weird mini relationships that I had in primary and secondary school. And I'm talking about the type that only lasted 3 days lol)

so what's been bothering lil ol me? well as I was saying I had a fling. This guy mike*  at a club we both go to (a drama club) and we got along very well. I mean very well! we would walk back to my car and speak for 2 HOURS!! (no joke we stood by my car speaking about random shit) so ww did what any normal, awkward couple of teens did when they begin to like each other. we planned a date. 

date(s)** was good and after we watched films together on a sofa, we kissed in my car as I dropped him off (lol funny thing was my foot was on the clutch the whole time!) it was a while since I kissed someone (my family holiday to span where I kissed some random guy after staring at each other in the pool over the course of a few days... as you do) and IT..WAS...AWKWARD!! lol. I do this thing where I don't really take in the situation until 3 hours later when Im staring at my bedroom celling. but I really liked it, I liked the attention. I liked him, the way he made me comfortable and special (the usual). 

there was a slight bit of doubt in my head, silly me. I sometimes didn't feel a sexual attraction, I think it was because he was a lil goofy...or his hair :/

So you're still reading and asking, what went wrong? well... I'm asking the same thing. he just all of a sudden stopped giving me attention. no messages, no pictures (of his face... ya nasty) I kept asking him to meet me but he didn't show. 

any ideas?

he legit just ghosted me, apart from the occasional reply to messages I force! and even when he does it sounds depressing “yeh, kk” (as we speak he still hasn't replied to my messaged :( .) I'm angry yet sad at the same time, I want to see him and speak to him. what do I do?!!

Do I confront him? ask him if he likes me, like I like him. (so many likes in one sentence lol)  or do I ignore him and risk any type of future at all. 

well there you go, I'm hopeless with love

*name changed for privacy, and if they saw this how embarrassing would that be lol. (btw mike if ur reading this...hmu)

** we met up a lot, only had 2 real dates of dinner and cinema.