#TRADWIVES: Ahistoric LARPing
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TRADWIVES: Ahistoric LARPing
Found some cool clips that debunk the current "tradwife" grift circulating the internet.
Clip 1: Traditional wives were not weak-willed lilies that pined away dutifully, grossly stupid and financially dependent on their husbands... working women, anyway. (Full video here-- though it mainly debunks the "godfather" of the Red Pill more broadly than his misunderstanding of the traditional family.)
Clip 2: The tradwife and Red Pill movement don't understand the 1950s. Married women chose to remain in the work force post WWII, which locked the younger women out of jobs. The younger generations then married and had kids early because the economy was good and there was nothing else to do. (Full video here. I highly recommend it in conjunction with her video carefully deconstructing the "men need sex [at the expense of women]" narrative, found here.)
Clip 3: Lastly, "modern women" who've chosen to become SAHM and SAHW have successfully done so without sacrificing their financial independence or losing their personal dignity or identity. (Full video here, which breaks down popular TikTok tradwife content.)
Obviously, no relationship is perfect; and more obviously, it's a great risk to throwaway the potential of financial freedom and independence on the false dream the trad movement is selling. Not only are they self-employed women masquerading as traditional, but most (not all) are also making a mockery of the hardworking women who juggle their lives, kids, and finances to make a SAHM role work.
At the end of the day, we can only make the best choices for ourselves-- in any area of our lives-- if we're truthfully informed.
Thanks for reading (and watching)~
Enjoy!
#TRADWIVES: Ahistoric LARPing#tradwife#tradwives#SAHM#SAHW#The Authentic Observer#Kidology#debunking a few narratives#passionate about the topic#I see both sides#and I've seen the best and worst outcomes#the tradwife movement would have been fine if it were more about the fun of being a SAHW rather than preaching it to everyone else#more to the point: if most (not all) tradwives weren't actively deceiving their audience for clout#there are some nice ones out there just having a blast#buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut that's certainly not all of them#important#mine#interesting#to me
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