#Super Junior Donghae

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Don't Tell Anyone! (Donghae) Super Junior

DONGHAE

'It's a disaster, Eunhyuk, what do I do?' I whisper into my phone.

Eunhyuk howls with laughter down the other end, 'Oh man this is priceless, what I wouldn't give to be a fly on the wall right now.'

I hung up and decided to phone Leeteuk, maybe he could help me and anyone was more mature than Eunhyuk. Luckily he picks up on the second ring, but it was clear Eunhyuk had gotten to him first because he straight up laughs.

'Real mature, this is partly your fault hyung,' I hiss.

'Babe, are you in there?' y/n calls out, and knocks on the bathroom door, 'are you talking to someone?'

Leeteuk snorts, 'What did you think would happen when you mixed multiple products together?'

I roll my eyes, 'All three of you were adamant y/n would like yours best so I went with all four including mine and only left them alone for a few minutes.'

y/n knocks again, 'Are you okay Donghae?'

'Everything is good y/n, give me a minute,' I reply.

'Don't bother Shindong, Eunhyuk already messaged him. Why are you stressing out about this anyway?' Leeteuk asks, sounding calmer than before.

I throw my free hand in the air, 'y/n's been super stressed at work and I wanted to do something nice and they love bubble baths. Now I've ruined everything, and when I open the bathroom door y/n will be even more stressed because they hate mess,' I whisper.

Leeteuk sighs, 'y/n loves you and will see the sweet gesture you tried. You can both laugh about this one day. Now be a man and open that door. Also, the guys and I will want details later, bye.'

He hangs up.

I put my phone down on the counter, the only free space in the whole room, take a deep breath and unlock the bathroom door. y/n's eyes widen as they take in everything behind me.

'Fucking hell, why are there so many bubbles in there?' y/n asks, face and tone serious.

I shuffle on the spot and swat some bubbles away, 'you really don't want to know y/n.'

y/n's lip twitches, 'you can tell me anything, babe.'

'You've been stressed at work so I wanted to run you a bubble bath but couldn't decide on the scent, so I asked the guys for advice. They told me to use all four bubble soaps, I only left it alone for a few minutes, and then bang so many bubbles.'

y/n's lip turns into a smile and they throw their arms around me, 'You're so thoughtful, I'm so lucky to have you. I love you so much, but maybe next time don't ask the guys for advice.'

y/n then pulls out of the hug and takes out their phone, and poses for a selfie, 'what are you doing?' I ask, very much confused.

y/n laughs, 'Say cheese, Eunhyuk wanted proof.'

That traitorous friend I think wearing a scowl while y/n smiles and takes some photos, he'd already told y/n leaving me to panic. When I next saw him I was going to make him pay for this.

'Why don't we clean this up, enjoy a shower together to relieve both our stresses, order takeout and cuddle on the sofa,' y/n suggests.

The scowl leaves my face and I kiss y/n's forehead, 'that sounds like a much better night to me.'

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This is not a rant, however …

I’m mildly irritated that Donghae’s recent drama has such poor ratings.

I know that the romance/romcom genre prevails in kdrama but not every drama has to follow that pattern.

Some dramas are very predictable, they don’t care about suspense, it’s more about the look of everything.

With the exception of Panda and Hedgehog, all of the other dramas/series Donghae participated in were not your typical kdramas. Oh Youngshim was maybe closest but since it was based on a webtoon it missed some key elements.

I think it’s safe to say that Donghae, while loving slipping into different roles, isn’t your typical male lead either. Even compared with other idols, I guess he would feel too embarrassed to act like Lee Junho in King The Land, D.O in 100 Days My Princess or even Suho in Rich Man Poor Woman (for me one of the tamest performances by an idol in a kdrama).

And I’m asking myself, is that a bad thing? Must every male lead actor be Prince Charming? Must every kdrama be a Cinderella story?

I was very excited about Donghae’s drama and counted down the days until it premiered. I have watched all 7 episodes so far. Yes, it’s true, not much is happening, yes, sometimes I wish they’d focus more on Jung Hyeon-seong and Han Seong-ok’s storyline and less on the supporting actors’s. I wish not every episode would end on a cliffhanger, but that’s how the writer thinks the story should be told. I’m hopeful that by the end everything will be revealed.

Having said that, I wish the viewers would watch the drama with an open mind and focus on what they see instead of what they want to see.

I know that drama means exaggeration, everything is either seen through rose-colored glasses or it’s the end of the world, but every now and then there’s a more realistic, more close-to-life story and it should be celebrated likewise.

That what this drama does. Showing that life is tough, relationships are tough and the dreams you had an a young adult may fade away as you grow older. There’s no glamour, no grand gestures. Sometimes it’s even plain and monotonous because that’s what life is like sometimes as well.

(Also I’m reading comments about how viewers call Donghae’s character a red flag and I don’t agree with that either. There are always two sides to a story.)

I will continue watching and hoping that the end will bring a smile to every character’s face.

And I will continue to support actor Lee Donghae in whatever role he feels comfortable slipping in 🥰

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Eunhae analyses - why is Eunhae real - part 5(Donghae’s personality analysis)

Thank you 溫莎虫 again for granting me permission to translate the post

For first-time readers, my words would be in italics, while the words from the original author would be normal. Also, some short forms he=happy ending, be=bad ending in Chinese. These are used as both nouns and adjectives. I also follow as I want to preserve the meaning of the original meaning of the author.

For non-Eunhae shippers, you can just leave this page. No one forces you to read. We have our freedom to believe what we think, you also have the freedom to believe what you think. We don't mind your business, so you also don't have to mind our business. Thank you.

I analysed the mbti of Hyukjae before, but not for Donghae. I always feel that compared with the contrasts and contradictions of Hyukjae, Donghae is much easier to be seen through.

However, as I started to analyse Donghae systematically, I realised there are still points worth noting. When disclosing the innate character through the familiar scenes, we can realise that the person that loves everyone equally, still loves Hyukjae the most.

Donghae's mbti is ENFJ, passionate and sincere, the educator that shines for everyone like the sun.

This kind of person puts emotions as the first priority. Is good at and relies on socialising. Idealistic. Has a strong sense of cooperation and teamwork. Is sensitive to the conditions of the people surrounding him. Would build a sense of responsibility for himself.

These are all very obvious personality traits. If you understand Donghae more, it is easy to discover these traits in him. This blog entry is not meant to introduce his personality, but just roughly conclude some most flagrant qualities.

Members always say, if not because of Donghae, super junior may not be able to exist till now.

With the competitive atmosphere at that time, anyone could be kicked out of super junior at any time. They were filled with worries. Even though they were companions for each other, they also had competitive relationships with each other. At a time when everyone was highly sensitive due to unforeseen futures, Donghae always put the team as the first priority. Compared with his personal career development, he cares more about team development.

ENFJ is always the one who has the strongest sense to cooperate in a team. He would always remind himself as a part of the team. He would use all he can to ensure to the team is getting together.

Even though Donghae always gives a feeling of a 'free spirit', he is actually a person who can notice the hints given from others' eyes. He is pretty observant and can notice the change in mood of the people around him.

Even though he said he is afraid of cameras and variety shows, his EQ is definitely decent, or even at a level that can master social situations well. He understands completely what kind of people he should date with. The prerequisite of this strength is that he is a very sincere person.

Talking about ENFJ, people like this kind of person are usually due to their sincerity. They are generally very likeable, as they know how to socialise well.

Being good at socialising does not mean being tactful and mature, as probably they are only willing to put effort into dating. Socialising is a vital part of ENFJ's life. They need friends and need to date people. They like the feeling that they can rely on others.

A quality of ENFJ that can be said as a strength or weakness is their altruism.

They are full of emotions, highly empathetic, can sense the emotions of others easily, and love everyone idealistically. They are willing to lower their own sense of existence to help the overall development.

They are the natural 'vice-leaders'. Their beliefs towards the team would make them get close to leadership inadvertently, but their escape towards responsibility and ruling would also lead them to refuse the highest leadership position. This also explains why Donghae is not the leader of the group, is not the eldest of the group, but has very decent power in his words.

Above these qualities can be observed easily, so I am not going to explain them in detail. More importantly, I would like to analyse how special ENFJs are towards the people they love.

ENFJs have a tendency to have hypergamy in their romantic relationships. Their attitude towards a person is usually decided at first sight.

When facing the person they like, this type usually has a crazy crush towards that person just like idolisation. Everything is attractive to them about their crushes. Would not withstand anyone speaking a single point badly for them. Only have their crushes in their eyes.

A point to note is that the first reaction of this kind of person when meeting their real love would be feeling diffident. Due to hypergamy and almost blindly crushing on someone, it is easy for them to worry about 'is it that he doesn't like me?'

As you all know, Donghae somehow just speaks without a filter. During the period Hyukjae refused to commercialise any ships, for the question 'who is the person getting along the least with Eunhyuk', he gave a famous quote 'I wish to be the answer to all his questions.'

From his avoiding eyesight and slightly guilty expression with his head lowered, I think he really suspected that Eunhyuk was not willing to ship with him was due to that Eunhyuk did not like him.

When ENFJs found someone they like, they would gradually treat this person as the centre of the world. Obsessed but also insecure.

In the eyes of ENFJs, even if the world becomes black and white, the people they love are still coloured.

For the people they love, they always encourage and appreciate them unconditionally. If you compare how Donghae treats Hyukjae versus other members, you would find out that he almost never speaks anything bad about Hyukjae. Even for variety show puns, he also cannot speak of anything bad about Hyukjae. It is because, under his special filter, the person he loves is always immaculate.

(except individualistic)

In public situations, the only weakness he spoke of Hyukjae seriously would be 'individualistic', yet interestingly, no one would speak of this friend as selfish.

So I tend to think what Donghae minds is the individualism of Hyukjae himself. When ENFJs love a person, they would give the person everything unconditionally. Compared with what ENFJs give to their partner, if their partner does something a bit egocentric, ENFJs would treat this as not prioritising themselves enough.

As aforementioned, ENFJs are typically generous and likeable. When others don't treat them well enough, they would also comfort themselves 'never mind. They also have their own thoughts.'

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However, for someone they love, ENFJs would put themselves and their partners together, treating them as a single entity. At this stage, if their partner in any circumstances just thinks of themselves, they cannot tolerate such thoughts.

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When ENFJs are with someone they love, they always speak of 'we'. He would put the person he loves into every of his plan and arrangement. Everything is only meaningful when 'we' are doing it together.

How they are being nostalgic, would usually be the kind naturally linking incidents and people together, just like it is a 'we' when mentioning Hawaii. If there is a part of their memories that is special, everything about it would carry a special meaning for them.

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Although the story of Donghae telling Hyukjae all his secrets with Hyukjae being apathetic was told many times, the main characters of the story are always only these two. The problem is that Donghae would tell everyone his story passionately, but he would only be angry when Hyukjae was not giving him responses.

How ENFJs centre with 'devotion', meaning that they would treat everyone sincerely, but such sincerity would not ask for returns in equal value. For them, respecting and tolerating the privacy and freedom of others is also a type of devotion.

However, if talking about someone that ENFJs love, they would be required to give back the same level of sincerity. They would be required to devote everything they have, in order for ENFJs to ensure that their partner also cares as much about themselves.

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Before in Weibo, I talked about how Donghae can be someone that is very controlling if he doesn't date properly. It is also the most problematic part of ENFJ. They would instil their own thoughts into others, having a strong desire to control the thoughts of others. From serious values to trivial daily life habits, would also use his own ways to control others.

However, in this type, the controlling behaviour can also be subdivided. Some people would like to instil their own thoughts in everyone, including colleagues, and always make others feel suffocated. Donghae is definitely another scenario, only instilling in the people he is close enough with.

Members usually describe him as someone who would easily accept the opinions of others. He would follow the opinions of the majority and would sacrifice for the sake of team development. However, for Hyukjae, he would fearlessly express his own opinions.

The way how they get along right now is the fruit of the long-term adjustment between the two. Donghae definitely did not dare to raise his own opinions towards Hyukjae directly from the start. Hyukjae also would not be able to tolerate how controlling Donghae is for him. It needs a long time for mutual understanding and adjustments.

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Donghae intentionally went inside to get a chair to sit next to Hyukjae.

Though Donghae always sticks to other people, the extent to which he sticks to others varies. Towards other members, it is more like he loves to hang around them habitually. He habitually needs someone to be with him. However, for Hyukjae, it is more of a spiritual reliance.

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When meeting something that he is not good at or cannot be completed well, Donghae would naturally find Hyukjae for help. Hence, Hyukjae becomes the spokesperson of Donghae.

Calling Hyukjae at any time to find him, finding Hyukjae even though just handling trivial incidents, these obviously childish and unreasonable requests are just ways for him to justify his importance.

Even ENFJs are passionate and generous in normal social situations, they lack the sense of security in romance. They have very rich emotions, to the extent for anyone not as emotional as themselves, would think they don't love ENFJs enough.

The way how they show their affection is that even if it is something very trivial, they want to create opportunities to be with someone they love. Even others think ENFJs are brave and free, but for someone they love, it is even harder to confess than going to his home 10 times without any reason to have a chance encounter.

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That's why Donghae would go shopping at Hyukjae's home to take clothes, would get into his home without prior notice, and would create trouble for Hyukjae.

All these unreasonable acts are just ways for him to express his affection and how he misses him. Even though ENFJs don't have any difficulties socialising in most situations, can get people liked so easily. However, it is hard to find real love for someone like this. When real love appears, it would make them forget all their social skills, back to using sincerity and warmth to get close to someone he loves.

All in all, friendships are usually natural and poised, while romantic relationships are usually very meticulous. After so many tests and justifications, all are just worried that the other does not like them.

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After all the analysis, it is obvious that Eunhae's personalities are so different from each other. One of them is warming, giving his all at once, the other is rational, giving more and more of himself gradually.

Although these differences would require them to have a lot of adjustments for each other, the way they can complement each other is even more precious.

Also, personality is just a part of the innate factors in a relationship. More importantly, maintaining a relationship would also need the effort of the two people. One can understand the rationality and meticulousness of the other, one can tolerate the idealism and emotions of the other. It is because they understand each other enough, so they know those 'unreasonable acts' and 'not suiting your taste' are also ways to express their affection.

If saying love of Hyukjae is a rationalist giving all his impulsiveness and romance to Donghae, the love of Donghae would be an idealist giving all his vulnerability, sensitiveness and seamy side to Hyukjae.

'Just be yourself. I would love you as long as it is you.'

Point to note: as an MBTI enthusiast who understands MBTI to a level that understands cognitive functions very well, I actually discussed with some of my friends for an accurate typing and all we agree he should be ENFP instead of ENFJ. That's why some of the traits above sound pretty ENFP also. If you happen to understand more about MBTI and all those cognitive functions, you can message me to discuss a bit, though I may not always check my messages.

Thank you for waiting for me for so long for another update. I was really busy with school works over the term time and can only update a bit during term breaks. Wish this can help!

And please support super junior's comeback on 15/12! Celebrate! Let's do our best to support them!!

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eunhyuk always present on donghae's birthday because HE'S THE HUSBAND THAT'S WHY!

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