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Get to Know Kyungsoo (D.O.)

(12 January 1993, Seoul)

Let me begin by saying that it’s extremely difficult for Kyungsoo to express himself and be understood by others. His tightest aspect is Moon Opposition Venus at (-0,01′) literally as tight as an aspect can be. And it’s just such a difficult aspect, I’ll cover it in later posts but think of it this way “Very few people know Kyungsoo, I doubt even other exo members are close enough to know and understand the real Soo not because he doesn’t want to connect to others (oh trust me, he wants to be loved sooo bad). He’s just constantly misunderstood and doesn’t know how to show his care and love“.

Actually this pancake is so interesting, layers upon layers and every single one is more different and interesting than the rest. Even after a whole week of studying his chart I doubt I have a grasp on him.

Dominants/key notices:

lacks air and fire in his table

fire void in one’s table can mean lack of assertiveness OR the person may try to overcompensate by appearing as super manly and powerful (think Luhan)

people who don’t have a lot of air placements dislike “small talk”, think it’s pointless and aren’t that big of socializers

as capricorn dominant he really respects authority, is hardworking, ambitious, likes working on details and is a great organizer

absolutely loves working on details, learning. Constantly wants to improve his mind and work

Capricorn stellium sun, mercury, uranus and neptune (ego, brains and dreams)

This combo makes a very down-to-earth person

very realistic dreams (less dream-like, more like goals)

loves working on details

ambitious, calm and hardworking cutiepie

rational, clearheaded and logical

stubborn and prefers to be in charge rather than bossed around

dislikes surprises

easily concentrates

very practical, responsible and persistent

will never simply bail on a project, will always see it through

nobody is as good at finding the right resources and making the best out of them

rather inflexible thus needs  to learn how to bend and adapt as things don’t always go as he might want

his serious/formal-ish image might make him look angry, unpleasant and difficult to approach

when in reality he’s just cautious

constantly feels like everybody is judging him (as he judges others himself, he thinks others do the same)

doesn’t talk much

making friends is super difficult for him

but the ones he befriends have his unbreakable loyalty (like, this man still prefers hanging out with his childhood friends, tell me this aint loyalty)

yes he’s a great friend but still awful at texting back

i don’t really want to talk about relationships in this series, just know that Kyungsoo would be the absolute bestest husband ever. No buts. I’ll tell you guys about it one day, You’ll melt~

what a thinker he is, he just has to explore and think over all options before making a decision

slow and methodical, appreciates structure in his life

brilliant memory and a passion for learning

material success is VERY important to him

he just loves working, and when stressed he just works even harder, and becomes even more focused

this can wear him down so if you ever meet him just tell’im to relax a bit ty

he’s naturally very cautious

tends to keep his ideas, beliefs and thoughts to himself

by doing this, he puts far too much pressure, worry and stress on himself

it’s a huge struggle for Capricorn dominants to open up and be spontaneous (especially considering his Moon Opposite Venus this is just painful)

he doesn’t want to appear foolish, so chooses what to say carefully, because of this might come off stiff

if he looks confident and natural during a speech you can bet he worried himself sick over how he’d appear and practiced all night

doesn’t get influenced or swayed by others easily

but often feels the need to prove himself

will live and die by his beliefs

actually learns life lessons rather slowly because of his stubbornness

usually chooses a subject and becomes an expert in it (rather than being jack of all trades and learn everything at the same time)

really fascinated by history and traditions

thus wants to do something practical and useful so that he’d leave a mark on this world that would stand the test of time (I believe that’s one of the reasons why he got into acting)

might appear judgmental and strict as he just doesn’t have the patience to explain the obvious

dislikes air-headed people

absolutely hates people who don’t keep their word

pretty skeptical about new ideas, needs time to think them over

powerful voice and he proves he’s worth listening to

has a bad habit of getting himself into negative thoughts

but would not tell anybody until on the point of breaking down

some topics he’d love to talk about: his life goals, history, his reputation and ambitions

most likely a weeb/furry

passive aggressive little shit, but almost everybody in exo is passive aggressive so they probably understand each other well (it’s a joke guys, I’m not trying to be rude)

And now virgo moon and his emotions

what emotions? he’s a virgo moon, he has none

end of paragraph

jk jk

all virgo moons are in denial of having emotions

they don’t do feelings because those are problematic and make life more complicated as they seek perfection, order & have high expectations of themselves

feels shy and insecure about showing others how he feels as he sees it like burdening others and for him feelings = flaw

even a bigger hard worker

but often anxious

he loves being liked and to have friends (even though he doesn’t say it)

but won’t hesitate to cut off a toxic friend out of his circle

secretly thinks he’s better than everybody else~

also, doesn’t say it, but needs constant validation from others 

honestly pisses others off with his love (as a virgo moon, I know what I’m talking about)

will tell you to not stay up late and go to sleep, eat healthy, put on your seat-belt, quit smoking, lecture about your unhealthy lifestyle...

for others it might sound like nagging

but he says it because he truly cares about your health and safety and it would break his heart if you got hurt

will show his love through constructive criticism (the saddest part is that people nowadays can’t take criticism)

but he doesn’t want to hurt you

he wants your relationship and you to be the best you can

almost always gets misunderstood for this showing of love and probably believes there’s something wrong with him sigh

feels like he doesn’t deserve love and sympathy

thus always needs to feel useful

finds it rather difficult to understand other’s feelings

enjoys the little things in life, may deny it, but likes running errands, meddling with details, taking care of the house (may complain, but if he’ll get appreciated, he’ll do his very best)

usually the first to volunteer to help someone

really loves routine or at least feeling that his work is necessary and meaningful

open affection most likely would make him to pull back a bit

give him time to make himself comfortable around you and he’ll show his true colors ^^

Virgo moons enjoy being busy and they’re happy as long as their life feels under control

usually put up invisible barriers to others, whether they realize it or not

they hope that others will put forth the extra effort to get to know them anyway... (haha kill me)

With cancer mars ruling his aggression, he’s rather emotional about conflicts (unlike everybody depicts him)

finds it difficult to let go of past pains, tends to hold grudges

that’s actually the main cause of conflicts - everything pilling up until it explodes into tears

would do almost anything to avoid an argument

sensitive when it comes to family, very close friends, internal anxieties and uncertain future

indifference hurts him more than anything

emotional displays would occur if he felt threatened

seeks security in everything

not very vocal about his needs and expects others to figure it out

exceptionally loyal

loves babies and would want children asap

Bonus:

his sun, moon, mercury, neptune is all strict structure, work and locked up feelings

but his love life is as soft and cute as cotton candy

he’d release all his suppressed emotions, would love his family dearly, would be constantly smiling and just so so happy. Would love talking to his wife, breakfast to bed, hugs, cuddles and just being soft together

he’s such an emotional romantic under that hard shell. Such a family man

he also understands how relationships work very well. He’s not afraid of ups and downs of marriage, divorce is VERY unlikely, he just naturally knows how to have a happy marriage

with Moon in 10th house (esp in conjunction with MC) he would find it easier to express his feelings in public than in private. In his case though (as he has a lot of harsh placements when it comes to relationship with others) thus it makes him exceptionally good at expressing feelings in movies.

And that, my dears, why he’s so good at acting. He might have struggled with expressing himself all his life but stars aren’t cruel, if they take from one aspect of life, they bless you in another ^^

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