#So I'm. Being a bitch about it xoxox

[matan4il]

OK but what would make you laugh more? I'm re-watching all my favorite Buddie scenes and I love Ryan slowly evolved Eddie from jealousy and possessiveness of Bucks time to also just being a petty bitch in the best way. You know? Like it's a crime if Buddie doesn't go Canon but also if they don't make Eddie gay.

So I always, from the beginning, looked forward to the day I got to see Eddie get jealous over someone hitting on Buck.

But now also I would do anything to see Eddie just be disgusted and petty when a women hits on him. Just picture him like, "do I look straight to you?" "Do you not clearly see my husband right there."

In a perfect world, I would get both damn it!!! Also it's not that I don't think Buck is jealous. I just think he's always so proud of Eddie, he would be like look at you getting hit on while he gives him a bear hug!!

Hi Nonnie, thank you for this lovely ask! *hugs*

Honestly, I suspect that even if Buddie goes canon, they won't make Eddie gay. I think they wouldn't want to do that to whatever he had with Shannon, which was complicated and painful, but was also portrayed as having real feelings. That said, I would STILL love Buddie together and Eddie being all petty about being hit on by a woman while Buck is right there. The "How DARE" of it all would still be there, but in the context of, "Can't you see just how taken I am? Do I need to wear TWO wedding rings!?"

As for Buck, he def has his jealousy moments, he just manifests them as encouragement to break up. He's rooting for Eddie to break up with girls before he even properly started dating them! We cannot ignore that. But yeah, he def likes that others sees Eddie in the same light he does - utterly irresistible.

Thank you so much for the laugh! I hope you have a great day! (for more of my Buddie content, click here) xoxox

[hardoncaulfield]

Everyone should be able to express their small and mean opinions to someone who won't clutch their pearls about it. Being a bitch is a human right

[bitchesgetriches]

Hey bitches! Love your stuff, have read all of your stuff to date... I keep nearly getting fired because of my mental health. Because I do almost nothing but work (often overtime) my health declines, I lose my shit at work and I am almost F.I.R.E.D >.< on a disturbingly regular basis. Like... what the heck do I do? I know for sure there are folx in the same boat, but no one has anything helpful to say. I'm trying to change an improve but it's so hard when I have no time and all the stress. xoxox

Oh puggle, this sounds like an awful predicament to be in. I’m so sorry you’re going through this cycle of stress and breakdowns. Clearly, something’s gotta give.

You’re working too much. And while it would be easy for me to just say “Take a break!” or “Quit one of your jobs!” I understand that finances probably necessitate you keep working at this grueling pace. So you need to find a way to take care of your mental health both in your off hours and during work. To that end, I want to share everything we’ve written on self-care, and then focus you in on one of our posts dedicated to mental health:

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The cycle will just keep repeating unless you find a way to manage your mental health and overall well-being. Something has to change, and I hope that some of the tactics in those links work for you.

You’ve got this, puggle. Don’t give up. We believe in you.