#SafeShipping

[frankys-wife]

Lemme just say that I absolutely adore self shippers with f/o's who are really obscure characters.

If your f/o is a background character, they're really happy you picked their face out in the crowd and fell in love with them! 💗

If your f/o is a character from a really old piece of media, they're happy that the sands of time haven't stopped you from loving them! ❤

If your f/o is from an obscure piece of media, it makes them happy that you found them and hold them close like a precious treasure that was waiting to be found 💝

If your f/o is often forgotten by the fandom, it warms their heart to know you've immortalized them with your love 💖

If your f/o is unconventional, it makes them feel so special that they're just your taste! ❤️‍🔥

YOUR F/O'S LOVE YOU!!

Pro/com/darkship DNI!!

[a-sasi-selfshipper]

Nah my man just straight up insults me

Jkjkjkjk

I mean he did in the beginning when we were still tryna become friends. But he started become softer as we got closer:)

Imagine your f/o trying to court you during their crush stage:

It seems that no matter how hard they try to be nonchalant and cool around you, something about the way you smile at them just makes all their words jumble themselves together in awkward stutters and nervous giggles

They figured that spending some time alone with you would make things easier, smoother, so they could tell you about their feelings. Oh how wrong they were. Every time your skin brushed against them their whole body would feel as warm as a boiling kettle.

How about a different approach? Maybe writing it out would help! Or so they thought, a pile of crumpled up and ripped papers litters their desk as they attempt to come up with yet another love letter for you, to no avail. They don't feel like the words do their feelings and your perfection proper justice.

It doesn't take long at all for both of your friends to notice how their demeanor changes around you; how they melt at the sight of your eyes, how their voice cracks whenever they respond to you calling out their name. Of course they're all rooting for you and your f/o to get together, and they make it hilariously obvious.

Whether it's through re-approaching their initial attempts, asking their friends for help or just blurting it out straight when they finally gather the courage- Your f/o eventually confesses to you, and their heart feels like spring blossoms once you tell them you feel the same way!

proship/darkship/neutral DNI

[guzmasenbyboyfriend]

Y’all ever had like no interest in a series but there’s a character in it that peeks your interest so you’re now just kinda looking into the series because the character just tickles your fancy quite a bit

Pro.shippers/com.shippers DNI please

[brutally-loving]

It's not promo hour BUT HAVE ONE ANYWAY!

BEHOLD! MY STUFF!!

I'm so down bad! I'm done for! This is THE f/o of all time now idk what to tell you- Here goes nothing, take a glance.

Uhh I'm 18, he/him, and my main f/o is Choso from JJK (non-sharing, though-). I'd love to find more mutuals who have JJK f/os, and I'd love to have more people to talk to generally! Please feel free to DM me or send asks, I'm quite extroverted. I follow and interact from @esotericdivinity, so that's who's spam liking your stuff if you see it! I can't wait to find more super awesome mutuals.

You can find more info about me in my pinned post!! PR0.SHIP DO NOT INTERACT.

Selfship template by @fictitious-symbiosis !!! (I love it, what a fun thing.)

[fitzselfships]

Just felt like drawing them being snuggly and cute together :3

Proshippers/adjacent dni. 100000 shark attack 🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈 also Zooble self ship doubles dni

[genericmain]

Alright serious question selfshipping community - From a non-judgemental place, how often are you imagining your F/O with you?

*please comment your response

Also like so you know I'm not judging, Literally all the time. I just wanna know if it's just me or nah. Also if your answer is rarely, I know you still love them just as much as I love mine dw!!

->Proship/Varients DNI, Doubles are okay to interact for sample size!

[chuuyaplushies]

Squished <3

🎨 — GeminisDaughter

[selfship-confession-void]

Every time I see a Selfship ask game where it’s basically like, people sending an emoji to ask you a question— I wanna reblog it so bad. I really do

but every single time, I never get any asks. Whenever I do, it’s because someone I know sees me asking for it and pities me

Someone suggested I tag my mutuals but like, why would I bother them about this?

I know I shouldn’t feel this upset about it. In my head I know that no one has a reason to care, since my f/o isn’t from a well-known media at all, and I’m just some random guy

I look at all the Selfship-centered blogs and feel very jealous of the attention they get. But then I remember they have popular characters as f/os, are completely Selfship based, or contributed a lot to the community

I just wish I had people I knew to talk about my f/o with them. But no one really pays much mind

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[bunnys-lil-hideout]

Things that your F/O(s) do(es) NOT hate you for:

being unemployed/barely making money

not having a drivers license yet/being too scared to drive

not having any friends/only having a small group of friends

having no social life/being physically or mentally unable to have a social life

being homeless/having to live with roommates to make ends-meet/still living with your parents

being a virgin/not being that experienced

having been with multiple partners

your past/current trauma

your looks/weight/height

your disability/illness

your bad habits/routines/boundaries

your life

you

[shot-by-cupid]

For people who have been in love with the same character for years- your f/o loves every version of you there ever was

Proship dni

[bunny-lovers]

Reminder that there’s no such thing as loving your f/o(s) less just because you don’t publish content of them or gush about them as frequently; or at all.

You don’t have to post content of your f/o(s) if you’re not in the mood to, if you don’t have the energy to or if you simply don’t want to. You don’t have to gush about them if you’re not in the mood to, if you don’t have the energy to or if you simply don’t want to.

Thinking long and hard of how others can post a thousand and one times a day isn’t the right way to go about it. They’re a completely different being from you and that’s okay.

Your self ships are just important as the next and the one after that, no matter what you do so, take your time. Take a deep breath and try not to be so hard on yourself. Work as much as you can at whatever pace you can. it’s okay.

proship/darkship/neutral DNI

[guzmasenbyboyfriend]

I love finding fanart of my f/o and immediately having to look away from my phone because aaaaaaaaa

Pro.shippers/com.shippers DNI please

[ponyuyu]

I don't know who needs to hear this right now but

That fictional old man does love you

He has such a soft spot in his heart for you

(Not for pro//shp stop touching this or i'm gonna tell the feds to check ur hard drive)

[emceescha]

there is something so very special about a selfshipper's headcanons for their f/o. likee you KNOW they come from a place of love and adoration that nobody else could conceive of otherwise. thank god for selfshippers honestly

[kynibyou]

if you think it feels embarrassing or cringe to get excited and giddy about ur f/os… you shouldn’t, because ACTUALLY— i saw ur f/o giggling and kicking their feet while looking at pictures of you SO…

[helgethas]