#SORRY saw a video of a woman talking abt hers and im happy for her but girl your beautiful snout...........the world mourns its loss

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i wish ffs didnt come with a rhinoplasty 99% of the time what are we doing to our beautiful queens.............

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(1/2) hey seo! i'm currently in 8th grade, and i love watching your videos and i Just Now saw ur studyblr and i love you even more because bdg is such an icon. for the actual ask- i'm kind of concerned with my relationship with my mother??? she's very religious and super big on mental health and being open and it's v ironic that im pretty sure i have depression + anxiety, and bi (im sorry but girls r too cute)! anyway yesterday we had a big talk and i made her cry over her thinking she didn't...

(2/2) raise me correctly and i feel terrible. she says that all my achievements are because of me being independent and not from her teaching me well, and that im not open enough with her. problem is, since my mom is v religious (she voted for the referendum to change the romanian law from saying "marriage must be between 2 ppl" to "marriage must be between a man and a woman") and im Scared and i dont know if not telling her abt my sexuality/mental health will be better than telling her now???

honestly, this kind of thing is very personal + i feel like the situation varies.

for me, i value my family far more than my personal affairs + i value my safety over my personal relationships. because of that, i’ve elected to stay in the closet for what seems to be the long-term future + that’s a choice that i’m making for myself. it does not diminish any aspect of my character and my identity imo, but others may view that differently. i couldn’t care a single whit about it though because that’s my choice to make, not theirs.

i think you should make the choice that is safest for you. that is an opinion that may differ from other people’s opinions and personal choices, but in the end, this is your life and your family and your identity. make the choices that you are the most comfortable with, and know that no matter what happens, you are still valid. your identity and your health and your personal thoughts and opinions are still valid, and nothing will ever change that. 

stay safe and stay happy, anon ;;