#SCevie

[sanitysims]

my sim entry for the dating deanna bachelorette challenge by @changingplumbob!! ٩(^ᗜ^ )و ´-

(there are slots open until christmas!!! go check it out wink wink)

Evelyn Huang is a communications student at Foxbury who's recently discovered her attraction to women.

Growing up in a cramped apartment with a single dad and two younger brothers, her getaway has always been engrossing herself in fantasy novels. She might be studying to become a journalist, but who says she can't write a bit on the side? And get popular enough to focus solely on writing novels? A girl can dream...

Either way, she hasn't had much luck with love, so she's taking a big step out of her comfort zone by joining! She hopes Deanna can see past her awkward exterior and get to know (and maybe love...?) the wonderful person underneath. And at the very least, maybe she'll get better at writing romance.

name: evelyn huang, eve/evie to family & close friends age: 19 (young adult) identity: cisgender bisexual female, she/her traits: socially awkward, generous, bookworm aspiration: bestselling author likes: blue, orange, writing, singing, pop, r&b dislikes: red, mischief, gardening, spooky music

open to getting flirty with other contestants? hey, if anyone would want to flirt with her, she'd be down!

open to polyamory? the heart wants what it wants! she's never explored polyamory before but she's down to try it.

open to woohoo? it's certainly a big step, but if she's got a good connection with someone (or someones 👀), she's not opposed to the idea!

open to flirting with joey? why not? she's here, might as well be open to everything! it certainly helps that he's good looking as well 🤭

entry style: all in!! woot woot 🥳🎉

[download] - let me know if it blows up your computer or doesn't work 🥹 the traits will be off since i don't have the pack-specific traits 😵‍💫 if there's anything else different please let me know as well 🫡

[blackmoonrose13]

Okay so I don't know if this is a legit question or not I am acting like it is.

It's more or less a boundaries respecting thing, um more detailed explanation under the cut

Reasons this is now a thing, it's mostly in discord. Because there has been this massive uptick in, Unsolicited Direct messages. I think that is the term I hope it is.

Aka rando messaging you with out even like having a back and forth in the said server you are in...I personally prefer a back and forth in the server before private messaging because I don't know call me old.

People randomly just info dumping on something they like or dramadumping to you thinking you care...not saying you don't but you know read the room.

If you happen to be a streamer (like me) or someone with a following and you run a server so people can easily get updates on projects, when you stream etc, you do get those fans who think because they are in that server that gives 100% okay to message the said creator. And it's a mix bag and also can be yikes.

This massive uptick in. "Hi I am a GFX artist I want you to commission me" Scams especially if you are in more gamer/streamer based discords, at least from my notice as a mod. Aka bots join the server and spam scams and shit.

If you are in servers that may have a NSFW section or are NSFW based...MASSIVE AMOUNTS OF CREEPS, if you happen to be female presenting in one of those servers, those unhinged horny folks will just barge into your space like a drunk scevy guy at the club trying to solicit you or show you their junk, or try to get pics of your junk. Oh the number of creeps you can get in discords some times, heck even if you aren't active and give off the female presenting vibe it happens. Some servers like this do have roles that are like dms open, ask to dm, do not dm, You know showing the consent of it all. Yea the creeps don't care and just wanna be creeps and gross, and don't know how to socialize I guess...a lot of those servers actually take those things seriously because nothing is sexier than consent. And if they are breaking that boom out. Those are good servers.

And due to all the things happening above, when you get a random dm from a random person and you never interacted with that person in the server you both share, you automatically get defensive. You feel like uh you know that one worker who doesn't get the hint to leave your space you are trying to work and insists on staying so they can gossip or talk about their family drama? Yea it is kinda like that.

Now Yes I am an artist who has commissions open and I advertise it in many a server, but 9/10 times if a person dms me about a commission they usually state that in their first line. And I am not as prickly and I go through the process and hope the person in question isn't trying to just get free art out of me or something.

To be honest, I do like the ask if its cool to dm first, But that is just my brain. I think of it less of a "What is with these kids?" Thing and more of a "Yea people are respecting boundaries can we please keep that up?"

What horrifying new social rules are the kids inventing now

[scxutshonor]

TEXT 📲 SCEVIE

SCOUT: r u gonna b in the shop friday?

SCOUT: i have a 2:00 appt and wanna bug ur dumb ass

[krisscrossed]

Ok when I heard it was about the Mecha girls I was kinda scared it might get scevy, but instead we got a fun magical girl spoof , unlike most of the comment section I found it fun