#Race is also a made up social construct but yall not ready for that conversation yet

[hecateisalesbian]

this posted before I could finish wtf

anyways

ignoring the fact that you have to kill me for some reason

I didn’t realize until I was trans until after I discovered my orientation so you can imagine what hell that was trying to figure out my new orientation based on gender and for awhile I landed on being Gynosexual buttt idk I didn’t feel like it fit me and it took years of hell and confusion and bad thoughts™️ but after a while (and after joining tumblr) I realized that orientation and gender and stuff is all kinda just…made up. And that revelation SHOOK me to my CORE. I didn’t have to choose an orientation. I could like whoever I wanted to (this is where queer came in handy too) and I didn’t have to label myself if I didn’t want to. Gender works the exact same way. Yeah at first I was pretty strict on my gender, fluctuating from girl to boy to nonbinary (for MONTHS. This is around the time I met yall) and then it kinda just….disappeared? Sometimes I feel a strong urge to be a girl or a boy or nb or sometimes agender but overall I don’t mind any pronouns. So if you don’t want to go through the gender crisis rn and wanna shove it under a rug, go by she/her and call yourself cis. OR (to piss off the conservs) use she/they and call yourself cis too! It’s all a made up concept so who cares? Just let us know if you want us to use they and we’ll agree. Or if you feel ready to go skydiving into a volcano then you can try researching terms for how you might feel. (Demigirl is good for the way you’re describing it but there’s THOUSANDS of genders outside of the main 10)

Sorry for the wall of text, hope this helps!

(Tagging you so you see the rb @rainbowangel110)

Hey okay so before I kill you can I ask something? As a blue hair and pronouns haver.

How do you figure out your pronouns??? Cuz like sometimes I'm like "Huh. Would I be okay with she/they??" And then other times it's like "Yeah I'm fully a girl." It fluctuates and I can't fuckin pin this down for Christ's saKE HOLD STILL-

Uh oh sounds like someone’s joining the genderfluid club

@feathersnflowers @flyingdumpsterfire