#ROBIN PADILLA

[ejaydoeshisbest]

Immediate Thoughts on the Movie "Hayop Ka" (You Animal) on Netflix.

Overall Impression I did not like it. While I loved the animation and found some of the dialogue funny, the story is cliché. “Hayop Ka,” directed by Avid Liongoren and produced by Rocketsheep Studio and Spring Films, unfolds like an overdone romantic-comedy/dramedy reminiscent of 80s–early 2000s Philippine cinema. The film features a toxic love triangle involving our dissatisfied, working-class protagonist Nympha (a common, but sexy, street cat), her macho mongrel boyfriend Roger (a janitor), and the high-society charmer Iñigo Villanueva (drawn as a Siberian Husky, perhaps to emphasize his foreign lineage).

Plot and Themes The basic premise: perfume-selling kitty Nimfa Dimaano must choose between her macho boyfriend Roger and the bourgeoisie business dog Iñigo. It immediately struck me as being overdone, overcooked, and overused, echoing the same tired narratives I’ve seen since childhood. Although the modern animation helped update the presentation and may have saved it from harsh reviews on Google and Rotten Tomatoes, I’m still unclear about the film’s deeper message. It appears to be a satirical portrayal of modern Philippine society, highlighting how the working class navigates poverty and oppression while clinging to dreams—often through the mundane rituals of sex and beef stew—all wrapped in a cartoonish, 90s movie vibe. Ultimately, the film leaves me wondering: are we all just animals acting on base instinct and primal desire, or are we depicted as such because we’re all fundamentally flawed? Or is it just a movie for horny adults with nothing much to do on a Saturday?

Humor and Sexuality The humor was somewhat entertaining, and I did chuckle at the sex jokes throughout the movie, especially during the pivotal shower scene where Nympha and Iñigo gave in to desire, even shouting lists of food items to replace their body parts. The thing is, the film relies heavily on dirty jokes and sexual innuendos. I’m glad there was at least some plot to keep it from becoming merely an adult, lewd spectacle. It’s clear that the film intends to showcase the evolving, open-minded sexuality of Pinoys.

Characters and Their Arcs Every major character is driven by desire, whether personal or carnal, from the protagonist to the aristocratic villains. While I appreciate their flaws, I wish the story made them more sympathetic and three-dimensional. Unfortunately, the moments meant to add depth instead lean on outdated, overused tropes.

For example, Nympha is depicted as a common street cat struggling to provide for her family back in the province. She is caring for her sibling and aging mother, while her little sister is pregnant at a young age. This portrayal left a bitter aftertaste, with the only redeeming factor being the stunning animation and art style. In the end, she becomes pregnant with Roger's baby and decides to go through the pregnancy without his support.

I also expected Nympha to rise above her station as she faced consequences—to learn her lesson, stand strong, and either find a man worthy of her or become an independent, badass woman. Instead, the ending credits hint at her pairing with a simple, ugly frog named Jerry, whom she met earlier as Inigo's chauffeur. Granted, Jerry is much nicer than both male leads: he is honest and hardworking, qualities that far surpass those of Inigo and Roger. Meanwhile, Roger ends up living with her ex-best friend, Jhermelyn, (more on her later), happily dodging child support, and Iñigo, despite being comically launched from his office building when he proposed a throuple with Nympha and another upper-class girl, remains a rich, charming asshole who scoffs at the poor.

Nympha’s ex-best friend, Jhermelyn—a rabbit who openly displayed her desire for Roger early on—settles for being a backup option for Roger when he and Nympha break up, and is unashamed when Nympha discovers their relationship when she seeks her comfort in tough times.

In the end, both Nympha and her early-pregnant sister seem to perpetuate the cycle of poverty. While one might imagine that Nympha ending up with Jerry could signal a healthy, stable relationship, it instead feels like a rushed nod to the classic Pinoy humor trope of the beautiful girl falling for the ugly guy, with no real development or romance established beyond him simply being present at their usual beef stew shop.

As for Inigo Villanueva, his subplot deserved more exploration. Scenes hint at his impatience with common people and his willingness to trample over them—taking their land for building projects, for example. I wish he had experienced a fall from grace, had his ego been knocked down, or even learned from his misdeeds. Instead, his fate was played purely for laughs.

A brief scene that stuck with me was when Nympha called the radio DJ near the end. The DJ tore into her character, voicing exactly what the audience would have shouted. It reminded me of those late-night college calls to radio hosts for advice. Missed the way they cut through all the caller's bullshit and called out their lies.

Voice Acting I did not like Angelica Pangilinan’s voice as Nympha, though her personality and quirky edge did shine through at times. On the other hand, I appreciated Robin Padilla as Roger, whose rough, deep-voiced bad boy persona fit perfectly. Sam Milby also delivered a fitting performance as Iñigo, embodying the super-rich, playboy archetype.

Conclusion In summary, while the animation and art style were commendable, the clichéd plot, overused tropes, and unsatisfying character arcs left me disappointed. I know I'd like to add more. But work and coffee calls.

[buhaytuklas]

Kilala Nyo Ba Sya?

[otepzablan]

SINO ANG SUSUNOD NA PRESIDENTE MO? (SURVEY)

Kung excited ka na sa pagpapalit ng administrasyon sa darating na eleksyon, hindi pa mangyayari yun kasi midterm election palang sa 2025. Ibig sabihin, mananatili pa ring presidente si Marcos at mananatili pa rin ang labing dalawang senador na nanalo nitong huling halalan. Pero naglalabasan na agad ang mga survey tulad ng isinagawa WE NUMERO RESEARCH na nakita ko sa isa sa mga socmed ng STAR.…

[wienersmosh]

LET’S BURN THIS TO THE GROUND • an ian + anthony playlist

[pocket-cowbae]

i had a dream i was dating Anthony Padilla and he was the sweetest gentlest softest ever, he kept smiling all soft n genuine at me and giggling when i blushed and we were walking thru a store and he was holding my hand (AND HIS HAIR WAS VERY SOFT!!) and he told me he wanted matching pikachu backpacks because he wanted me to make sure i knew how much he thought about me even when he was busy or traveling and it was amazing and i woke up feeling like 🥰🫣🥹

[justanothergeneralkrow]

Doing a literary analysis of a poem about PGMA (Gloria Macapagal Aroyo) and reading about how she wasn't impeached for the "Hello, Garci" scandal cause the house failed to get enough votes. On that very same article one of the reccomended articles was about the senators who opposed the contempt of court charged on Quiboloy (a pastor who's been accused of rape, child molestation and human trafficking.)

[bipedalseal]

i have to analyse robin padilla’s “martial law is good because it stopped communism in the philippines” for philosophy class oand oh my god

[gme-news]

GRABE! Robin Padilla’s Explosive Speech for Duterte at Senate Hearing!

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[sasheneskywalker]

batfamily fic recs which are told from an outsider’s perspective

the city carries ruins in its heart by nex_et_nox

“Do you trust him?” Jim asked.

“Yes,” said Batman, unhesitating.

He didn’t know if he would ever like Red Hood. He didn’t know if he would ever be able to like working with him. He wanted to arrest the man. But if Batman trusted him, that would have to be enough for Jim.

Jim Gordon's evolving perspective on Red Hood.

T | No Archive Warnings Apply | Jim Gordon & Jason Todd

playacting by nex_et_nox

“So,” Jim said, “are you one of Wayne’s new kids?” Because only siblings acted that way toward each other, and it seemed like every time Gotham turned around, Bruce Wayne was adopting more kids. It was a reasonable question.

“What?” Jay asked. “No, I’m—” He paused. Very slowly, his head tilted as he looked over Jim’s shoulder in the most obvious way he possibly could.

Jim Gordon accidentally meets the "newest" member of the Wayne family.

G | No Archive Warnings Apply | Jim Gordon & Jason Todd, Tim Drake & Jason Todd

Finding a New Perspective by njw

“I got this, Hood.” Red Robin sounds annoyed as he arcs and twists through the air, kicking one henchman into another and wrenching the gun away from a third while simultaneously retracting his grappling line and then launching it to catch another unwary henchman. Just, how?

“I can see you do,” Red Hood says, and wait. Was his voice always that deep? Is he… Maya squints. Is he staring at Red Robin’s ass?

She blinks, then studies the line of sight more closely. Maybe he’s just checking out Red Robin’s kneecaps, in preparation for shooting at them? That seems more his style. Sexual attraction is kind of confusing and she still doesn’t totally believe Tosh that it’s actually as big a thing as people make it out to be—seriously, do other people really spend that much time thinking about it? Sounds fake but okay.

But no, Red Hood’s helmet is totally pointed at Red Robin’s ass. Huh. That’s new.

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For the tumblr Jaytim Week 2021 Holiday Gift Exchange. Thanks, Chibi, for putting this all together!

T | No Archive Warnings Apply | Tim Drake/Jason Todd

seeing is believing by envysparkler

Five times Agent Padilla has the wrong idea about her neighbors’ relationship, and one time she gets it right.

(Or: Natalia knew that Gotham was crazy, but she didn’t realize it was move-in-next-to-Nightwing-and-Deathstroke-the-Terminator-crazy.)

M | Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings | Dick Grayson/Slade Wilson

red by any other name by curiositea

The first thing Leo thinks, when she sees the guy strapped to the chair, is that cable ties aren’t going to be enough.

or, a minor gang kidnaps the Red Hood’s “boyfriend”. It goes about as well as you’d expect.

Not Rated | No Archive Warnings Apply | Jason Todd & Original Character(s)

The Talking Cure by DariaHernandez

Two vigilantes and a couples therapist walk into a room.

M | No Archive Warnings Apply | Tim Drake/Jason Todd

The Horrible Lives of the Completely Sane by withthekeyisking

Three civilian looks at the goings-on of the Wayne family.

G | No Archive Warnings Apply | Batfamily Members & Original Character(s)

Training Day: Gotham City 911 Edition by Spee (birbsandbats)

“Could you at least help me out here? The mall is about to explode!”

“Meh. It’s gone downhill since the Macy’s closed,” Pilar said.

“Meh??” Eric sputtered. “How can you not take this seriously?”

“The Riddler isn’t even an A level villain anymore. I think you and Robin can handle him, newbie.”

or: Eric Richards knows nothing about Gotham City--which would be fine, if he weren't its newest 911 operator.

T | No Archive Warnings Apply | No Relationships

Something to Last by Lawsome

Gotham City Police Department Detective (Senior Grade) Sally "Sal" Yun's most recent sting netted Internal Affairs and the FBI forty-three felony indictments against eight GCPD officers and netted Sal a promotion to Detective Senior Grade, a prestigious transfer to Major Crimes, and a quiet personal promise from Chief Vitelli that Senior Grade was as far as she would go.

Sal's caught a new case. It seems Vice has lost one of their informants and they’ve decided to dump the case on Major Crimes after the snitch told somebody that a dead rogue called the “Red Hood” was back in town.

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Or: "The Wire: Jason Todd Edition"

T | Graphic Depictions Of Violence | Jason Todd & Bruce Wayne, Tim Drake & Jason Todd, Jason Todd & Original Character(s), Stephanie Brown & Bruce Wayne, Tim Drake & Bruce Wayne

[josh0555]

This is the Summer Station ID of GMA in 2010. The Summer Station ID was themed “All-Stars and the Sun”

The Summer Station ID Theme Song is Reach for the Stars by Owl City from the video game Sonic Colors. 

The Summer Station ID features Ritz Azul, Alice Dixson, Arcee Muñoz, Tuesday Vargas, Eula Caballero, Marian Rivera, Bea Alonzo, Xian Lim, AiAi delas Alas, Cherry Pie Picache, Long Mejia, Marco Alcaraz, Raymond Bagatsing, Bayani Agbayani, JC de Vera, Martin Escudero, Gerald Anderson, Daniel Padilla, Alwyn Uytingco, DM Sevilla, Shawn Yao, Vice Ganda, Kim Chiu, Kristine Hermosa, KC Concepcion, Meg Imperial, Liza Soberano, Lovely Abella, Marc Logan, Vicky Morales, Ryan Agoncillo, Jose Manalo, Wally Bayola, Steve Burns, Gloria Diaz, Jason Statham, Dominic Roco, Felix Roco, Arnell Ignacio, Emman Abelda, Joshua Dionisio, RJ Padilla, Tito Sotto, Vic Sotto, Joey de Leon, Heart Evangelista, Erich Gonzales, Dimples Romana, Gardo Versoza, Paolo Ballesteros, Oyo Boy Sotto, McCoy de Leon, Jhong Hilario, Claudine Barretto, Gelli de Belen, Judy Ann Santos, Jodi Sta. Maria, Melai Cantiveros, Iza Calzado, Imee Hart, Iwa Moto, Sugar Mercado, Sheena Halili, Empress Schuck, Aiko Melendez, Andi Eigenmann, Paula Peralejo, Rica Peralejo, Rose Van Ginkel, Maine Mendoza, Catherine Bernardo, Sef Cadayona, Edgar Allan Guzman, Rainier Castillo, Renz Fernandez, Kokoy de Santos, Edu Manzano, Jericho Rosales, Tonipet Gaba, Diether Ocampo, Aga Muhlach, Michael Roy Jornales, Christian Vasquez, Gabby Concepcion, Wendell Ramos, Bearwin Meily, Rudy Fernandez, Junell Hernando, Piolo Pascual, Janno Gibbs, Derek Ramsay, Rafael Rosell, Onemig Bondoc, Mark Herras, Joseph Bitangcol, Paolo Contis, Eric Fructuoso, Patrick Garcia, Zanjoe Marudo, Elmo Magalona, Cedrick Juan, Albie Casiño, AJ Perez, Joem Bascon, Randy Santiago, Wowie de Guzman, Vhong Navarro, Teddy Corpuz, Billy Crawford, Jiro Manio, Addy Raj, Sid Lucero, Arra San Agustin, Rufa Mae Quinto, James Reid, Ken Alfonso, Tommy Esguerra, Rico Barrero, Tom Rodriguez, Hayden Kho, Lucho Ayala, Phytos Ramirez, Gil Cuerva, Mikael Daez, Nadine Lustre, Janella Salvador, Kim Domingo, Carla Abellana, Bianca Umali, Kylie Padilla, Bela Padilla, Mariel Rodriguez, Krystal Reyes, Toni Gonzaga, Camille Prats, Jennylyn Mercado, Luis Manzano, Matteo Guidicelli, DingDong Dantes, Enchong Dee, Enrique Gil, Carlo Aquino, John Lloyd Cruz, Benjamin Alves, Rocco Nacino, Dennis Trillo, Aljur Abrenica, Paulo Avelino, EJ Falcon, Yves Flores, Ken Chan, Paolo Serrano, Ivan Dorschner, Ramon Bautista, Diego Loyzaga, Ion Perez, John Vic de Guzman, Arjo Atayde, Victor Silayan, Neil Perez, Jayson Gainza, Dino Imperial, JM de Guzman, Jeric Gonzales, Jerome Ponce, Julia Montes, Angel Locsin, Ellen Adarna, Shaina Magdayao, Sanya Lopez, Heaven Peralejo, Jessie Mendiola, Ivana Alawi, Coleen Garcia, Dianne Medina, Kylie Versoza, RR Enriquez, Iya Villania, Cindy Miranda, Angelika dela Cruz, Andrea del Rosario, Sunshine Cruz, Princess Ryan, Drew Arellano, Joross Gamboa including DJ Willie Revillame and Regine Velasquez with her husband Ogie Alcasid.

The Summer Station ID also contains child actors Nash Aguas, Valeen Montenegro, David Licauco, Andrea Torres, Vince Gamad, Lianne Valentin, Barbie Forteza, Sharlene San Pedro, Glaiza de Castro, Joshua Colet, Louise Abuel, Martin del Rosario, Jane Oineza, Tony Labrusca, Miguel Tanfelix, Ysabel Ortega, Bea Binene, Migo Adecer, Vin Abrenica, Sophie Albert, Mark Neumann, Shaira Mae Diaz, Akihiro Blanco and Chanel Morales, featuring the SexBomb girls, Shalani Soledad, Niña Jose and Maxine Medina, US singer Michael Jackson British boy band One Direction and the supergroup Bravo All-Stars.

The Summer Station ID also includes faceless cameos of Carmina Villaroel, Eugene Domingo, Nora Aunor, Noli de Castro, Kara David, The Tulfo Brothers, Cherie Mercado, Bernadette Sembrano, Mariz Umali, Kim Atienza, Jiggy Manicad, Ted Failon, Arnold Clavio, Mico Halili, Robin Padilla, Bong Revilla, Jess Lapid Jr., Dan Alvaro, Keempee de Leon, RK Bagatsing, Isko Moreno, Archie Alemania, Polo Ravales, Neil Ryan Sese, Gian Magdangal, Cris Villanueva, Janus del Prado, Brad Turvey, Carlo Gonzales, Raymart Santiago, Ronnie Ricketts, JP de Guzman, Marco Sison, Albert Martinez, Mel Martinez, Marvin Agustin, Ian Veneracion, John Arcilla and Jolo Revilla.

The Summer Station ID re-uses the clips of the 2007 Summer Station ID of ABS-CBN which is “Piliin Mo Ang Pilipinas” and the Just Lose It music video from Art Attack which featured the host Steve Burns but he retired in 2008. But the Summer Station includes the Rebisco Extreme commercial where Drew Arellano goes insane bicycling in Mexico, the Fit N’Right commercial where Joross Gamboa goes skateboarding, the Carefree pantyliners commercial in 2009 where Kim Chiu, Kristine Hermosa, KC Concepcion, Meg Imperial, Liza Soberano and Lovely Abella go longboarding but it will be re-used in the 2011 Safeguard Active commercial but it will feature Luis Manzano, Matteo Guidicelli, DingDong Dantes, Enchong Dee, Rocco Nacino, Dennis Trillo, John Lloyd Cruz and Benjamin Alves go longboarding in the future 2012 Summer Station ID of TV5 which is “Iba Ka-Summer Ang Kapatid” where the TV5 crew members go extreme and have fun in the sun.

This is also the first Summer Station ID of GMA to feature the crew of ABS-CBN, GMA and TV5.

[pottersmiracle]

masterlist 【!】

• Harry Potter

- harry potter - ron weasley - hermione granger - draco malfoy - pansy parkinson - blaise zabini - tom riddle - fred and george weasley - sirius black - remus lupin

• Euphoria

- rue bennett - cassie howard - jules vaughn - maddy perez - kat hernandez - fezco - nate jacobs - lexi howard - elliot - chris mckay - ashtray

• Life is Strange 1 2 True Colors & Before the Storm

- max caulfield - chloe price - nathan prescott - victoria chase - rachel amber - warren graham - kate marsh - frank bowers - sean diaz - alex chen - gabe chen - steph gingrich - ryan lucan

• The Umbrella Academy

- luther hargreeves - diego hargreeves - allison hargreeevs - klaus hargreeves - five hargreeves - ben hargeeves - viktor hargeeves - lila pitts

• The Sparrow Academy

- marcus hargreeves - ben hargreeves - fei hargreeves - alphonso hargreeves - sloane hargreeves - jayme hargreeves

• Supernatural

- dean winchester - sam winchester - castiel - crowley - jack kline - rowena macleod - lucifer - gabriel

• Stranger Things

mike wheeler - jane hopper - lucas sinclair - erica sinclair (platonic) - will byers - dustin henderson - max mayfield - billy hargrove - steve harrington - robin buckley - nancy wheeler - jonathan byers - eddie munson - joyce byers - jim hopper

• The Walking Dead

- daryl dixon - rick grimes - maggie greene - negan - michonne grimes - carl grimes - glenn rhee - rosita espinosa - king ezekiel - jesus - abraham ford - shane walsh

• Outer Banks

- jj maybank - john b routledge - sarah cameron - pope heyward - kiara carrera - rafe cameron

• 13 Reasons Why

- clay jensen - hannah baker - jessica davis - justin foley - tony padilla - zach dempsey - alex standall - tyler down - skye miller

•Slashers/horror

- stu macher - billy loomis - jennifer check - colin gray - ethan landry - [will be adding more i just dont know how to write for some other movies cause i dont know all the lore for them 😭]

•Jackass/Viva La Bam

- bam margera - johnny knoxville - ryan dunn - chris pontius - chris raab - brandon dicamillo

• Pitch Perfect 1 and 2 (i don't like 3 i apologize)

- beca - emily junk - chloe beale - stacie conrad - ashley - cynthia rose - jesse - bumper - benji - pieter kramer - kommissar

The Vampire Diaries/The Originals

-damon salvatore - stefan salvatore - elena gilbert - klaus mikealson - elijah mikealson - rebekah mikealson - kol mikealson - bonnie bennet - jeremey gilbert - caroline forbes - kai parker -

• Avengers (+Loki and Valkyrie)

- tony stark - steve rogers - peter parker - natasha romanoff- thor odinson - bruce banner - loki laufeyson - valkyrie

• Guardians of the Galaxy

-peter quill - gamora - nebula - rocket raccoon - drax - mantis

• ATSV/ITSV

- miguel o’hara - hobie brown - miles morales - peter b. parker - gwen stacy - pavitr prabhakar -

• Youtubers

- colby brock - sam golbach - jake webber - johnnie guilbert - tarayummy - anthony padilla - ian hecox - damien haas - shayne topp -

• Wednesday

- wednesday addams - enid sinclair - ajax petropolus - xavier thorpe - bianca barclay -

• Miscellaneous

- theodore finch - pete davidson - david wooderson - joel miller (show & game) - jake peralta - tate langdon - willy wonka (timothee chalamet) - felix catton - oliver quick - joe goldberg - spencer shay - freddie benson

[will probably update in the future!]

[azzurriandspanishcalciofamilies]

Liga EA Sports [December 2024]

ATHLETIC CLUB BILBAO

Aitor Paredes - girlfriend, Conchi Ming

Álex Berenguer - wife, Sofia Jemmali ⮕ 🤰🏻Baby

Ander Herrera - girlfriend, Isabel Collado ⮕ 👧🏻Daniela & 👧🏻Carla

Andoni Gorosabel - girlfriend, Tzeitel Marqués

Dani Vivian - girlfriend, María Labeaga

Gorka Guruzeta - girlfriend, Saioa Gayo

Iñaki Williams - wife, Patricia Morales

Iñigo Lekue - wife, Anne Larrucea

Iñigo Ruiz de Galarreta - girlfriend, Leire Bergara ⮕ 👦🏻Markel

Javier Martón - girlfriend, Lucía Izpura

Mikel Vesga - girlfriend, Ana Martínez de Bujo ⮕ 👧🏻

Nico Williams - girlfriend, Ainhi García

Oihan Sancet - girlfriend, Nahikari Rastrollo

Óscar de Marcos - wife, Ibone ⮕ 👦🏻Iñigo, 👧🏻Clara & 👶🏻

Unai Núñez - fiancée, Cintya Roldán ⮕ 👧🏻Gara

Unai Simón - girlfriend, Carmen Orcajo

Yuri Berchiche - wife, Maddi Alduntzin ⮕ 👦🏻Luka & 👦🏻Martín

*Single Players: Alex Padilla, Álvaro Djalo, Beñat Prados, Julen Agirrezabala, Mikel Jauregizar, Nico Serrano, Peio Canales, Unai Gómez, Yeray Álvarez

ATLÉTICO MADRID

César Azpilicueta - wife, Adriana Guerendiain ⮕ 👧🏻Martina, 👧🏻Carlota & 👦🏻Matteo

Koke - wife, Beatriz Espejel ⮕ 👦🏻Leo & 👧🏻Claudia

Marcos Llorente - wife, Paddy Noarbe ⮕ 🤰🏻Baby girl

*Single Players: Javi Galán, Pablo Barrios, Robin Le Normand, Rodrigo Riquelme

CA OSASUNA

Abel Bretones - girlfriend, Bárbara Simón

Aitor Fernández - wife, Naiara Beristain ⮕ 👧🏻Ione

Alejandro Catena - girlfriend, Miriam Clemente

Iker Benito - girlfriend, Marta Castillo

Jesús Areso - girlfriend, Jennifer Ortega

Jorge Herrando - girlfriend, Sara Nuin

José Arnáiz - wife, Alba Mencia ⮕ 👦🏻José & 👧🏻Mía

Juan Cruz - girlfriend, Lidia Flores ⮕ 👧🏻Olivia & 👦🏻Cruz

Kike Barja - girlfriend, Paula Buldon

Lucas Torró - wife, Laura

Moi Gómez - wife, Patricia González ⮕ 👧🏻Valentina & 👦🏻Moisés

Raúl García de Haro - girlfriend, Belén Serrano

Rubén García - girlfriend, Ane Mendinueta

Rubén Peña - wife, Silvia Somoza ⮕ 👦🏻Enzo & 👧🏻Martina

Sergio Herrera - girlfriend, Nerea Egozkue

*Single Players: Aimar Oroz, Bryan Zaragoza, Iker Muñoz, Javi Martínez, Jesús Areso, Jon Moncayola, Nacho Vidal, Pablo Ibáñez, Unai García 

CD LEGANÉS

Adrià Altimira - girlfriend, Marta Solé

Aritz Arambarri - girlfriend, Irati

Dani Raba - fiancée, Miranda Martínez

Diego García - girlfriend, Samira Shakuri

Javi Hernández - girlfriend, Ailin Kroh

Jorge Sáenz - wife, Paula Hernández

Juan Soriano - girlfriend, Noelia Caballero

Miguel De la Fuente - girlfriend, Uxue Caballero

Óscar Rodríguez - girlfriend, X ⮕ 🤰🏻

Roberto López - girlfriend, Miren Zipitria ⮕ 👦🏻

Sergio González - girlfriend, Pilar Martín ⮕ 👧🏻Sofía

*Single Players: Enric Franquesa, Luis Perea, Óscar Ureña

DEPORTIVO ALAVÉS

Ander Guevara - girlfriend, Maite Crehuet

Antonio Blanco - girlfriend, Paola Melgar

Joan Jordán - wife, Marta Durán ⮕ 👧🏻Júlia & 👦🏻Joan

Jon Guridi - girlfriend, Leire Yeregi ⮕ 👦🏻Marco

Kike García - wife, Marta López ⮕ 👧🏻Alejandra & 👦🏻Kike

Manu Sánchez - girlfriend, Evana Bermejo

Stoichkov - girlfriend, Lorena H ⮕ 👦🏻Michael*, 👧🏻Hada, 👦🏻Marcelo & 🤰🏻Mateo

Toni Martínez - wife, Cristina Kobzar ⮕ 👧🏻Sofía & 👦🏻Antonio

*Single Players: Antonio Sivera, Asier Villalibre, Carlos Martín, Carlos Vicente, Hugo Novoa

FC BARCELONA

Dani Olmo - girlfriend, Laura Abla

Fermín López - girlfriend, Berta Gallardo

Iñaki Peña - girlfriend, Claudia P

Iñigo Martínez - wife, Nerea Graña ⮕ 👧🏻Nicole & 👧🏻Paule

*Single Players: Alejandro Balde, Ansu Fati, Eric García, Héctor Fort, Lamine Yamal, Ferrán Torres, Gavi, Pablo Torre, Pau Cubarsí, Pau Víctor, Pedri

GETAFE CF

Borja Mayoral - fiancée, Flavia Natalini ⮕ 👦🏻Liam

Carles Aleñá - girlfriend, Raquel López ⮕ 👦🏻Luca*

David Soria - girlfriend, Carla Carrascosa ⮕ 👧🏻Adriana & 👧🏻

Juan Berrocal - girlfriend, Elena G

Juan Iglesias - girlfriend, Estela Grande

Luis Milla - girlfriend, Andrea Sesma ⮕ 👦🏻Iker* & 👧🏻Claudia*

Yellu - girlfriend, X

*Single Players: Alex Sola, Carles Pérez, Diego Rico

GIRONA FC

Abel Ruiz - girlfriend, Andrea Pericas

Alejandro Francés - girlfriend, Celia Fernández

Arnau Martínez - girlfriend, Carlota Torres

David López - wife, Andrea Méndez ⮕ 👧🏻Blanca & 👦🏻Noah

Iván Martín - girlfriend, Gema Abellón

Juan Carlos - wife, Diana ⮕ 👦🏻Mateo & 👧🏻Mía

Juanpe Ramírez - wife, Laura Ramos ⮕ 👧🏻Gabriela & 👦🏻Pablo

Miguel Gutiérrez - girlfriend, Mari Carmen Jiménez

Oriol Romeu - girlfriend, Sofía Lombarte ⮕ 👦🏻Zac 

Pau López -   wife, Andrea Gálvez ⮕  👧🏻Mía, 👦🏻Leo & 👧🏻Zoe

Portu - wife, Judith Vizcaya ⮕ 👧🏻Vida & 👦🏻Leo

*Single Players: Bryan Gil

RAYO VALLECANO

Adrián Embarba - girlfriend, Mari Carmen Lebrón

Álvaro García - girlfriend, Laura Ibáñez ⮕ 👦🏻Álvaro & 👧🏻Vega

Aridane Hernández - girlfriend, Macarena Lozano ⮕ 👦🏻Ramón*, 👧🏻Valentina & 👧🏻Ariadna

Dani Cárdenas - girlfriend, Marta Granero ⮕ 🤰🏻Baby girl

Gerard Gumbau - fiancée, Anna Albertí ⮕ 👧🏻Mía & 👧🏻Siena

Isi Palazón - fiancée, Marta Soriano

Iván Balliu - wife, Marta Soler ⮕ 👦🏻Nil & 👦🏻Pol

Joni Montiel - girlfriend, Carlota Martín-Mateos ⮕ 👧🏻Martina

Jorge De Frutos - wife, Rocío Jarillo ⮕ 👦🏻Adán

Óscar Valentín - wife, Vanesa Ramos

Sergi Guardiola - girlfriend, Susana Otálora ⮕ 👧🏻Lía & 👦🏻Romeo

Unai López - girlfriend, Julia Llebaria

*Single Players: Diego Méndez, Pelayo Fernández, Pedro Díaz, Pep Chavarría, Raúl De Tomás, Sergio Camello

RC CELTA DE VIGO

Borja Iglesias - girlfriend, María Valero

Fran Beltrán - wife, Estefanía Molina ⮕ 👧🏻Isabella & 👧🏻Valeria

Hugo Sotelo - girlfriend, Antía Rodríguez

Iago Aspas - wife, Jennifer Rueda ⮕ 👦🏻Thiago, 👧🏻Mía & 👦🏻Aleix

Iván Villar - girlfriend, Inés Carballido

Javier Manquillo - girlfriend, María ⮕ 👦🏻 Romeo & 👦🏻Theo

Marcos Alonso - girlfriend, Paloma Vega-Penichet ⮕ 👧🏻

Miguel Baeza - girlfriend, Sara López

Óscar Mingueza - girlfriend, Andrea Freijomil ⮕ 👧🏻Bruna

Sergio Carreira - girlfriend, Mencia Calvo 

Vicente Guaita - wife, X ⮕ 👦🏻, 👦🏻 & 👦🏻

*Single Players: Carlos Domínguez, Damián Rodríguez, Hugo Álvarez, Pablo Durán

RCD ESPANYOL

Álvaro Aguado - wife, Tania Cazalla ⮕ 👧🏻Cayetana

Ángel Fortuño - girlfriend, Judit García

Antoniu Roca - girlfriend, Gal·la Cots

Carlos Romero - girlfriend, Andrea

Edu Expósito - fiancée, Inma E ⮕ 👦🏻Eduardo

Fernando Calero - fiancée, Paula Calderón ⮕ 👦🏻Marco & 👧🏻Olivia

Fernando Pacheco - fiancée, Ángela Guerrero ⮕ 👦🏻Fernando 

Jofre Carreras - girlfriend, Elba Martínez

José Gragera - girlfriend, Ana

Marash Kumbulla - girlfriend, Greta Manzato ⮕ 👧🏻Matilde

Pere Milla - wife, Esther Barroso ⮕ 👦🏻Mauro

Pol Lozano - girlfriend, Carlota Climent

Salvi Sánchez - wife, Soledad ⮕ 👦🏻Brayan, 👦🏻Tiago & 👦🏻Martín

Sergi Gómez - wife, Laura Pages ⮕ 👦🏻Milo

*Single Players: Álvaro Tejero, Brian Oliván, Javi Puado, Joan García

RCD MALLORCA

Antonio Raíllo - fiancée, Malén Cortijos ⮕ 👦🏻Thiago, 👦🏻Lucas & 👦🏻Nicolás

Antonio Sánchez - girlfriend, Conchi Serra ⮕ 👧🏻Carla

Copete - girlfriend, Paula Pérez

Dani Rodríguez - wife, Cristina Palavra ⮕ 👦🏻Quique, 👦🏻Izan & 👧🏻India

Iván Cuéllar - girlfriend, Vanessa Torbado ⮕ 👧🏻Valeria & 👦🏻Enzo

Leo Román - girlfriend, Aitana Martínez

Manu Morlanes - girlfriend, Sara Noguera ⮕ 👦🏻Luca

Mateu Morey - girlfriend, Catalina

Omar Mascarell - girlfriend, Sara Rodríguez ⮕ 👧🏻Matilda & 👦🏻Milan

Robert Navarro - girlfriend, Lorea Arregui

Sergi Darder - wife, Mireya Moreno ⮕ 👦🏻Martí, 👧🏻Claudia & 🤰🏻Baby

*Single Players: Abdón Prats, Javi Llabrés, Pablo Maffeo (👧🏻Valentina*), Toni Lato, Valery Fernández

REAL BETIS

Adrián San Miguel - wife, Tamara Mariscal ⮕ 👦🏻Enzo, 👦🏻Eric & 👦🏻Evan

Aitor Ruibal - girlfriend, Anabel Martínez ⮕ 👦🏻Rodrigo

Diego Llorente - wife, Ana López ⮕ 👧🏻Vega

Héctor Bellerín - girlfriend, Elena

Iker Losada - girlfriend, Laura Rodríguez

Isco - wife, Sara Sálamo ⮕ 👦🏻Isco*, 👦🏻Theo & 👦🏻Piero

Juanmi Jiménez - wife, Lorena López ⮕ 👦🏻Nicolás, 👧🏻Olivia & 👦🏻Tomás

Marc Roca - girlfriend, Zoe Assens

Pablo Fornals - wife, Tania Lara ⮕ 👦🏻Martín & 🤰🏻Baby

Sergi Altimira - girlfriend, Mar Bassa

*Single Playes: Fran Vieites, Marc Bartra (👧🏻Gala*, 👧🏻Abril* & 👦🏻Max* )

REAL MADRID

Brahim Díaz - girlfriend, Luz Méndez

Dani Carvajal - wife, Daphne Cañizares ⮕ 👦🏻Martín & 👦🏻Mauro

Dani Ceballos - girlfriend, Luna Serrat

Jesús Vallejo - wife, María Delgado

Lucas Vázquez - wife, Macarena Rodríguez ⮕  👦🏻Lucas, 👧🏻Macarena & 👦🏻Benjamín

*Single Players: Fran García

REAL SOCIEDAD

Aihen Muñoz, girlfriend, Elba Zapata ⮕ 👧🏻Iera

Alex Remiro - girlfriend, Ainhoa Andonegui

Álvaro Odriozola - girlfriend, Inés Laffón ⮕ 👧🏻Olympia & 👧🏻Allegra

Aritz Elustondo - wife, Idoia Marin ⮕ Luken

Beñat Turrientes - girlfriend, Saroa Azkarate

Brais Méndez - girlfriend, Cristina Uña ⮕ 👧🏻Olivia

Igor Zubeldia - girlfriend, Ione Bastida ⮕ 👧🏻Nicole

Javi López - girlfriend, Cristina Chiyah

Jon Pacheco - girlfriend, June Orbegozo

Mikel Oyarzábal - girlfriend, Ainhoa Larrauri ⮕ 👦🏻Martín

Sergio Gómez - girlfriend, Andrea García

Unai Marrero - girlfriend, Iratxe Urbieta

*Single Players: Ander Barrenetxea, Jon Ander Olasagasti, Jon Magunazelaia, Martín Zubimendi, Pablo Marín, Urko González

REAL VALLADOLID

César De la Hoz - wife, Irene Arnáiz ⮕ 👦🏻Liam

Iván Sánchez - wife, Noelia Marcos ⮕ 👦🏻Leo

Javi Sánchez - girlfriend, Alba Aceituno ⮕ 👦🏻Marco & 🤰🏻Baby Girl

Kike Pérez - fiancée, Irene Ruiz

Luis Pérez - girlfriend, Andrea Claudia

Raúl Moro - girlfriend, Mariona Baena

Víctor Meseguer - girlfriend, María Trigueros

*Single Players: Chuki, David Torres, Juanmi Latasa, Mario Martín

SEVILLA FC

Isaac Romero - girlfriend, Silvia García

Jesús Navas - wife, Alejandra Moral ⮕ 👦🏻Jesús &👦🏻Romeo

José Ángel Carmona - girlfriend, X

Juanlu Sánchez - girlfriend, Candela Tovar

Saúl Ñíguez - wife, Yaiza Salamanca ⮕ 👧🏻África & 👦🏻Enzo

Suso - wife, Alicia Rodríguez ⮕ 👦🏻Alessio & 👧🏻Bianca

*Single Players: Adrià Pedrosa, Alberto Flores, Álvaro Ferllo, Kike Salas, Mariano, Pedro Ortiz, Peque

UD LAS PALMAS

Alex Muñoz - girlfriend, Catalina

Álvaro Valles - wife, María Saravia ⮕ 👦🏻Alejandro*, 👧🏻Antonella & 🤰🏻Alma

Benito Ramírez - girlfriend, Melanie Pérez ⮕ 👦🏻Jaziel

Fabio González - girlfriend, Rosa López ⮕ 👦🏻Luca

Iván Gil - girlfriend, Judit González

Jaime Mata - wife, Rocío Irisarri ⮕ 👦🏻Teo & 👧🏻Gadea

José Campaña - girlfriend, Paula Abalo ⮕ 👧🏻Cataleya & 👦🏻Lío

Kirian Rodríguez - girlfriend, Cecilia

Marvin Park - girlfriend, Lucía González

Mika Mármol - girlfriend, Alba Arjona

Pejiño - girlfriend, Isabel Crespo

Sandro Ramírez - girlfriend, Gabriela Sánchez ⮕ 👦🏻Sandro

Viti Rozada - girlfriend, Lucía Díaz

*Single Players: Alberto Moleiro, Alex Suárez, Javi Muñoz, Manu Fuster, Marc Cardona

VALENCIA CF

César Tárrega - girlfriend, Cristina

Dani Gómez - girlfriend, Ana Cucoreanu ⮕ 👦🏻Luca

Diego López - girlfriend, Mar Calatayud

Hugo Duro - wife, Nerea Martí

Hugo Guillamón - girlfriend, Claudia Ferraro ⮕ 👦🏻

Jaume Domenech - girlfriend, Victoria ⮕  👦🏻Jaume & 👧🏻Valentina

Javi Guerra - girlfriend, María Alonso

José Gayà - girlfriend, Aitana Fornés

Luis Rioja - fiancée, Cristina Mesa ⮕ 👧🏻Camila

Pepelu - girlfriend, Alba

Sergi Canós - girlfriend, X

*Single Players: Cristhian Mosquera, Fran Pérez, Germán Valera, Jesús Vázquez, Rafa Mir, Yarek Gasiorowski 

VILLARREAL CF

Dani Parejo - wife, Isabel Botello ⮕ 👦🏻Daniel, 👦🏻Diego & 👦🏻Gonzalo  

Denis Suárez - wife, Nadia Avilés

Diego Conde - wife, Ana Moya ⮕ 👦🏻Mateo*

Gerard Moreno - wife, Núria Pulido ⮕👧🏻Melissa, 👧🏻Marta & 👦🏻Mauro

Kiko Femenía - wife, Elena Ortiz ⮕ 👧🏻Malena, 👧🏻Daniela & 👧🏻Francesca

Pau Cabanes - girlfriend, Salma Gallen

Pau Navarro - girlfriend, María Forcanell

Ramón Terrats - girlfriend, Paula Martos

Raúl Albiol - wife, Alicia Roig ⮕ 👧🏻Azahara, 👧🏻Alma, 👦🏻Romeo & 👧🏻Mía

*Single Players: Alex Baena, Alfonso Pedraza, Ayoze Pérez, Juan Bernat, Santi Comesaña, Sergi Cardona, Yéremy Pino

— — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — —

Michael [Deportivo Alavés] is Stoichkov’s son from a previous relationship.

Luca [Getafe CF] is Carles’ son from a previous relationship with Ingrid Gaixas.

Iker & Claudia [Getafe CF] are Andrea’s kids from a previous relationship with Iker Muniain.

Ramón [Rayo Vallecano] is Macarena’s son from a previous relationship.

Valentina [RCD Mallorca] is Pablo’s daughter from a previous relationship with Yaiza Soler.

Isco [Real Betis] is Isco’s son from a previous relationship with Victoria Calderón.

Gala, Abril & Max [Real Betis] are Marc’s kids from a previous relationship with Melissa Jiménez.

Alejandro [UD Las Palmas] is Marías’s son from a previous relationship.

Mateo [Villarreal CF] is Ana’s son from a previous relationship with Javier Sánchez.

[aphrodict]

secret agreement my ass 😆😆 pati response ni robin padilla sobrang nakakatawa nalang LOL tas tinatanong niyo pa kung bat wla ginagawa gobyerno natin,,, eh sila yung binoto mo eh mga corrupt na ewan

[thanyupsal]

Taena ni robin padilla sarap sakalin, pati pag ka inheat nya dinaan sa senado.

[upismediacenter]

Robin Padilla, aso ka ba? Bakit ka in heat?: Ang repleksyon ng mababang pagtingin sa mga kababaihan

Illustration by Nina Andres

!! TW: Mentions of sexual violence (abuse, rape, harassment) !!

“Hindi mo naman pinipili kung kailan ka ‘in heat’. […] Wala ka sa mood, paano ako [na] nasa mood?” 

Ito ang tanong ni Senador Robin Padilla sa Women’s and Children’s Rights advocate na si Atty. Lorna Kapunan noong Agosto 17 sa pagdinig ng Senate Committee on Public Information and Mass Media ukol sa mga polisiya ng mga TV network at Artist Management Agencies kaugnay ng mga reklamo ng pang-aabuso at harassment. Nabanggit niya ang tanong matapos mapunta ang kanilang pagdinig sa usapan ng mga relasyon at nangyayari sa loob ng tahanan.

Nakakaalarma ang pagtatanong ni Senador Robin Padilla nito dahil siya ay isang opisyal na dapat pinoprotektahan at tinutulungan ang mga mamamayan sa pamamagitan ng pagpapatupad ng mga batas na tumutugon sa ating mga pangangailangan. Dagdag pa rito, siya ay repleksyon ng taumbayang naghalal sa kanya, kaya maaaring sinasalamin ng kanyang pahayag ang mas malawak na pag-iisip ng mga kalalakihan sa bansa. Makikita natin na patuloy pa ring nakakaranas ng pang-aabuso ang ating mga kababaihan dahil sa mababang pagtingin sa kanila ng mga kalalakihan. 

Kaugnay sa komento ni Senador Padilla, masasabi natin na talamak at laganap pa rin sa ating lipunan ang makalumang gender roles—maging ito man ay sa pang-aabuso o sa mga paniniwala na nakakaapekto sa pang-araw-araw na kilos. Kung susuriin natin ang mga datos, ayon sa Child Protection Network Foundation Inc., 646 na kaso ng karahasan laban sa mga bata at 216 na kaso ng karahasan laban sa mga kababaihan ang naitala noong Enero 1 at  Pebrero 4, 2024 lamang. Base sa 2022 National Demographic and Health Survey (NDHS) na isinagawa ng Philippine Statistics Authority (PSA), 17.5% sa ating kababaihan na may edad na 15-49 ay nakaranas ng pisikal, sekswal, at emosyonal na karahasan habang nasa isang relasyon. Noong 2021 naman, 8,399 na kaso ng pisikal na karahasan, 1,791 panggagahasa, at 1,505 na acts of lasciviousness ang nabalitaang ginawa ng mga lalaki sa kanilang karelasyon.

Malinaw na ipinakita ng ganitong pahayag ni Senador Padilla ang patuloy na pag-iral na baluktot na pagtingin sa kababaihan o ang tinatawag na “objectification.” Ayon sa Ferris State University, ang termino na “objectification” ay nangangahulugan ng pagtingin sa mga kababaihan na mas mababa pa sa pagiging tao o bilang isang “bagay” na kailangan nilang kontrolin at angkinin upang matupad ang kanilang mga sekswal na pagnanasa. Nagreresulta ang paniniwalang ito sa iba’t ibang uri ng pang-aabuso sa mga kababaihan. Ayon naman sa UNICEF, ang “sexual objectification” ay isa sa mga dahilan ng pagkakaroon ng mga masasamang gender stereotypes sa mga kababaihan na nagreresulta ng karahasan tungo sa kanila. Dahil sa paniniwalang ito, napapalaganap ang mga stereotype tulad halimbawa ng pagtingin na sila ay dapat manatiling masunurin (nang walang hangganan) at “maganda” at dapat sundin ang gusto ng mga kalalakihan sapagkat sila ay “mas dominante.” Dagdag pa rito, lalong binibigyang-diin ni Senator Padilla ang paniniwalang ito sapagkat ang paniniwala na mayroong “sexual rights” ang mga lalaki sa kanilang asawa ay laganap sa mga ilang rehiyon ng ating bansa. Ayon sa isang analisis ng 2021 Young Fertility and Sexuality Study (YAFSS) na isinagawa ng University of the Philippines Population Institute, higit sa 30% ng Pilipino sa edad ng 15-24 ay naniniwala rito. Ang paurong na mga paniniwalang ito’y nagreresulta lamang sa patuloy na pagsasamantala ng mga kalalakihan tungo sa mga kababaihan lalo na sa mga batang babae sapagkat ito’y naitanim sa kanilang utak simula pa sa murang edad.

Laganap sa ating lipunan ang pag-objectify sa ating mga kababaihan tulad ng “catcalling” at lalong tumitindi ito sa pamamagitan ng pagkalat ng pornograpiya sa social media dahil ito ay nag-nonormalize sa pagtrato sa mga kababaihan bilang sekswal na pantasya sa mga kalalakihan. Ani Rep. Arlene Brosas ng Gabriela Women’s Party, “Women portrayed as sexual objects reinforce the country’s culture of misogyny and sexism.” Binanggit din niya na higit na delikado ang laganap na pagkalat ng pornograpiya sa social media dahil madali itong ma-access ng mga kabataan. Ang pag-access ng mga nakakasuklam na media na ito sa murang edad pa lamang ay nagreresulta sa madalas na sekswal na pang-aabuso lalo na tungo sa kapwa bata. 

Nakapagtataka rin ang pagbanggit ni Senador Robin Padilla ng terminong “in heat” dahil ito ay naaangkop lamang sa mga hayop. Ayon kay Gangestad at Dinh (2022), hindi nakakaranas ng mga “heat” o ang tinatawag na “estrous cycles” ang mga tao. Kaya maliban kung siya ay isang daga, aso, o baka, ang pagiging malibog at pagkilos ayon dito—maging sa opisina man, bahay, o kahit sa anumang kinalalagyan—ay hindi makatwiran. Makikita natin na naghahanap lamang siya ng palusot para bigyang-katwiran ang kanyang malibog na pag-iisip. 

Ayon sa datos ng UNICEF na mula sa 30 na bansa, 1% lamang ng kababaihan na nakaranas ng karahasan ang humihingi ng tulong. Sa dami ng ating kababaihan na nakararanas ng matinding karahasan, may mga kaso na hindi pa rin naiuulat dahil sa takot ng mga biktima na sila ay makaranas ng tinatawag na “victim blaming.” Ito ay kung saan sinisisi ng ibang tao ang biktima mismo para sa karahasan na naranasan nila. Nakababahala ang napakaliit na porsyento na ito dahil kahit laganap ang pag-oobjectify sa mga kababaihan, halos walang nagsusumbong sapagkat hanggang ngayon, ang ating lipunan ay naniniwala na kasalanan ng mga biktima na sila’y nakaranas ng ganitong karahasan at nararapat sa kanila ang ganitong pagmamaltrato. 

Mayroon tayong mga batas na layuning protektahan ang ating mga kababaihan tulad ng RA 7877: Anti-Sexual Harassment Act of 1995 at RA 8353: Anti-Rape Law of 1997, ngunit marami pa rin ang kaso ng karahasan laban sa ating kababaihan. Kaya mas mabuti na simula bata pa lamang ay naituturo na ang pagrespeto sa mga kababaihan sa kanilang paligid. Maisasagawa ito sa pamamagitan ng pag-expose sa kanila ng mga karanasan ng mga kababaihan, pagtulong sa kanila na maunawaan ang mga karanasan na ito, at ang pagturo sa konsepto ng consent. Ani nga ni Atty. Kapunan, “‘Pag sinabing ‘no,’ no means no… It applies to both genders.” Bilang mga estudyante, mahalaga na sa murang edad pa lamang ay may kaalaman na tayo sa mga karahasan na nararanasan ng mga kababaihan. Sa pamamagitan ng pagkuha ng litrato o video ng mga “catcallers” at pag-ulat nito sa kanilang mga opisyal ng barangay, at ang pag-monitor sa mga kabataan sa kanilang ginagawa sa social media para maiwasan ang pagkonsumo nila sa pornograpiya ay ilang mga hakbang upang kalabanin ang mga pang-aabuso tungo sa mga kababaihan. Ang pagmulat sa mga tao sa mga panganib na nagmumula sa objectification sa pamamagitan ng social media, ang pagsali sa mga organisasyon na nagtataguyod sa mga karapatan ng mga kababaihan, at ang paghikayat sa mga kababaihan na huwag ikahiya ang kanilang karanasan at magsilbing boses para sa mga iba pang naging biktima ng karahasan. 

Ang mga kababaihan ay higit pa sa kanilang mga katawan lamang. Ang ating mga kababaihan ay hindi para sa iyo upang matupad ang inyong mga sekswal na pagnanasa. Karapat-dapat sila sa respeto na iginagawad sa bawat tao anuman ang kanilang kasarian. 

//ni Mayden Bartolabac

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[yanyanspeaksout]

To the 25 million Filipinos who voted for Senator Robin Padilla,

We must pause and reflect on the significance of leadership in our society. Recently, a question was raised by your chosen senator that has sparked outrage and deep concern. Senator Padilla asked how a husband can legally coerce his wife into bed, a statement that touches on the sensitive and serious issue of marital rights and the autonomy of women.

This is not just alarming; it is deeply disheartening and reflective of an outdated and dangerous mindset. Marital coercion is a violation of human rights and undermines the dignity of both women and marriage. It disregards the concept of mutual consent, which is fundamental to any healthy and respectful relationship.

The responsibility now lies with all of us to hold our leaders accountable. This is not just about one senator; it's about the kind of society we want to create. A society where respect, equality, and consent are upheld as core values. We cannot allow such rhetoric to persist, for it endangers the progress we’ve made in fighting for the rights of women and all individuals.

The power of your vote put Senator Padilla in a position to influence national policy. The same power can demand better from those we elect. Ask yourselves: Is this the representation we need? Is this the future we want?

Now is the time to speak up, demand accountability, and ensure that our leaders understand the gravity of their words and actions. Let this be a wake-up call for all Filipinos to strive for a government that champions respect, equality, and justice for all.