#Punch them with that girldick

[oxiiiii]

You can immediately say he cries after being misgendered on the internet

[channelworldbluez]

CAP + L take + these men larping as women are not killing themselves because “we’re so mean to them boohoo” they literally demand they intrude in Women spaces, they demand everyone “respect” their bs identity, they encourage rape and demand lesbians to sleep with them and “embrace their girldick(gross)” they tell US to kill ourselves, send rape/death threats I.e.“punch a terf kill a TERF” , they want to erase the very word “woman” so it includes them and we know why that is…it’s because they know they’re men and their entire identity would crumble into ashes if they didn’t do so, like don’t blame me and other radfems plus other people who stand up to them and say “we’ve had enough!” If they wanna kill themselves If they don’t get their way then aight bet bro.

Also I personally don’t think trans people are inferior and used to identify as one. But I’m not playing games with them anymore especially when it’s made very clear they don’t respect women and girls and I see that as a threat.

“Harmless” lol

Whenever you guys say 41% you do realize that's your fault right. It's not some epic own that trans people are inferior and that's why they kill themselves lmao it's because you people are horrible and treat them like shit for no reason. So are you really advocating for women or are you just so bitter that you want a harmless minority to die off

[book-of-lewd]

What girls do you most often imagine as futas and who do you imagine most often without dicks?

All of them all the time so much marvellous mess and girldick everywhere

I guess when it comes to personal preference, my usual go-to futa girls would be ... Yang, Nora, Weiss, Salem, Coco, and Neo. Maybe even in that order? But I don’t have any issues with strapping a cock onto any of the RWBY girls, so to speak.

As far as bio-normative girls, Blake and Pyrrha are pretty comfortable choices, partly because I’m a horny disaster for long legs and nice butts, but mostly because I like them getting fucked into drooling messes.

Outside of RWBY my tastes get a bit broader since I’m less active in other fandoms at the moment (fingers crossed that changes soon enough!). Having said that though, I’m very much a fan of Raven from Teen Titans -- because, duh, who wouldn’t be -- or Tatsumaki from One-Punch Man as super-cocked superheroines...

[radfemnoora]

a lot of transactivists try to make it seem like radfems are this big cult of indoctrination, that no woman is gender critical unless they're exposed to our evil rhetoric when in reality like... the opposite is true

i remember being maybe 12, before i had even heard of tumblr or radical feminism and thinking things like "aren't transwomen stereotyping women by saying these feminine traits are what 'makes' them a woman?"

i remember testing the waters with my older sister, phrasing it as if someone else had said it, and her intersectional feminist reply shaming 'whoever' had had that thought

i remember reblogging post after post saying 'FUCK TERFS' 'PUNCH A TERF' and not looking into it further beyond the fact that the internet had told me trans woman = good, terf = bad

i remember feeling gross after reading post after post about how i was supposed to want girldick, about how ~some girls have penises too~ and i remember feeling comforted silently reading radfems blogs, terrified that i would accidentally like a post and someone would find out, and then i would be harassed

it's not radical feminists who are shoving ideology down poor, unsuspecting women's throats, forcing them to believe our evil transphobic terven lies. transactivists constantly silence women's opinions on men in their spaces, and if a woman dares to question what she is told by them then she's harassed, sent death and rape threats, and driven off of almost all platforms

[genderanarchism-blog]

Learning to love your dick: Overcoming genital dysphoria as a transgender woman

     Living life as a queer trans woman, nothing is politicized and sensationalized more than my dick. I hear how having a dick makes you a man in every debate or joke; I see reveals of a penis on women framed as  “horrific and disgusting” in dramas and horror films. I am assigned male at birth by the sole factor of having a dick. It should be no surprise that I deal with a vast amount of internalized transmisogyny and dysphoria surrounding my genitals as a product from all these violent ideas and depictions. I should not feel the shame society programs into me about my dick, and I should find pride in my transness. Not only as a survival technique but as radical self love and acceptance of who I am and my struggle as a trans woman.

I am going to dispel this masculine connotation associated with my dick and describe my experiences with dysphoria and how I imagine we can reframe our genitals as feminine.

How cissexism in media fills me with shame and dysphoria

     In order to deconstruct the negative male connotations of my penis, it is important to explore how we are depicted in media. One of the worst depictions I have ever seen, was the ending of the 1983 slasher, Sleepaway Camp. If you have not seen this movie, the ending involves the protagonists seeing the killer, a boy who they previously thought was a girl, standing naked dropping a severed head. After panning across a dick between the killers legs, one of the protagonists says, “How can it be? God, she’s a boy.” A perceived woman with a penis is obviously more disturbing than watching your fellow campers severed head roll upon the ground!

     After seeing this scene, I admit to having a flashback to it, the imagery, quote, and the inhuman groaning the transgender killer is making, when I was taking off my pants to shower. I had internalized the shock and horror of the main character in regards to my own body. I saw my dick as something horrific, something that made me a boy. This is how damaging this portrayal in media can be. It can be so strong that it leads trans women like myself to view their own bodies as terror inducing, something that is used to unsettle “normal” people. This trope involving the revealing of the penis, affects how I feel when revealing my own transness when dating. Due to such a strong colloquial connection between penis reveals and trans women, I feel like I am whipping a dick out everytime I tell a potential date I am transgender. Using the chick with a dick reveal is not the only way the media harms transwomen, the lack of any representation can be harmful as well.

     Cisgender romances dominate the media to the point where the only trans representation is used for shock value, tragedy, or at the least a plot device. How am I supposed to feel about the sex I am able to have, with my own genitals, when all the sexuality and romance I see in movies and tv is based around women who have vaginas? Typical sex scenes in movies involve a man lifting a woman onto a counter or against a wall or tossing upon a bed and fucking them at angles only achievable with a vagina. As a woman with a boyfriend, how should I feel when he cannot just fuck me on a countertop, or slide between my legs when we fuck? If this is the only model I see, I am going to feel inadequate and unable to fulfill my role as a sexual woman. Seeing and hearing about vaginal sex as natural and normal way to have sex in media, leaves me feeling as an outsider or not a true woman for being unable to participate in these acts. Everytime I have to douche before bottoming in sex, I get to deal with this imagery internalized. The fact that I have a penis and therefore cannot have sex with my boyfriend the way I see cis people constantly have it.

     Due to the dick reveal trope and lack of trans representation in media, it is assumed I would want to emulate women and hide my own transness. If I were to chop off my dick I could be a “real” woman, or atleast could avoid being “found out.” I could have sex like a “real” woman. These are the cissexist ideas pounded into my head and dominate the discourse surrounding my penis.

So are you cutting it off?

     “Are you keeping it?” This was the question I receive by nearly everyone in my life, and in every variation, when I had first come out as a woman. If I were to reject my male identity, surely I would have to reject all aspects of it. Including, the most masculine and phallic of them all, my penis. Back when I used to dignify this absurd invasion of privacy, they were shocked when I would tell them I was keeping it.  

     First, I would frame this in a joking manner of, “Of course I wouldn’t cut my dick off dude.” But slowly as the hormones took hold of my body, I began to get genital dysphoria. I was unable to continue to have something exist on my body that was masculine. I had two choices left to me: Cut the damn thing off, or reframe it in my mind as feminine.

Reframing our dicks as feminine rather than masculine

     The penis does not have to be the pivotal symbol of masculinity. As a woman; my hands are a woman’s, my legs are a woman’s, my breasts are a woman’s. So why can’t my penis follow this same line of thought? I am a woman, so all my parts are that of a woman. Its very appearance and functionality has been altered by hormones just as much as the rest of me. Although hormones are not necessary for the penis to be feminine, mine was still medically transitioning along with me.  

     Now thinking of this conceptually is all well and good, but does not tame the raging demon that is dysphoria. I could be told all parts of me were a woman's, but I would still see the man in various features, especially the one feature that was considered most male. So this simple thought change was not enough.

     To break the language connection, when I still associated just the word dick with my maleness, I could rename her. Girldick, enlarged clit, or even jokingly, my prolapsed vagina. These were all terms I would use half jokingly, half seriously, to start to break that toxic language connection, so I could create a space where I could break the other connections. Just from this label change, I was able to start to see my dick as something other than just a man's. I began to be able to explore multiple ways of using it, functionally and sexually.

Sex and Pissing

     My girldick was always used sitting when I had to piss. This was out of what I thought would respect women’s spaces at the time, and for my own dysphoria. I found once I was able to start re-framing one aspect of my dick, its labeling, I could re-examine how I see other actions. In my own home, or even drunk outside, I began being able to piss standing out of convenience and without dysphoria. This became not a man’s actions, but just a fancy way I could pee as a girl. I began to joke about this being an advantage over cis women; as a way of punching up at TERFs (Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminists.) Now, my dick was not just a negative aspect, but also had some advantages. The hardest thing to overcome, pun intended, was my dysphoria over using it sexually.

     This genital dysphoria was something I wasn’t able to overcome completely alone. However, one part I was able to conquer alone was using it in other ways than conventional. I would use vibrating toys or hold it against my body to rub as a clit. These two methods were able to let me ignore the fact that I was using a penis, and instead focus on the pleasure I should feel as a woman. They also led to me using the term, “I’m wet,” rather than “I’m hard,” because hardness was irrelevant in these methods and hormones had made my penis secrete like a vagina does.

     My partner was the changing force for my dysphoria with penetration. I was able to penetrate previously, but would always have to ignore portions of the act and/or disassociate slightly to get the job done. It took my partner having sex with me in way that validated my womanhood, celebrated my transness, and was able to work with my penis in ways dysphoria wouldn’t let me fully enjoy. They would be able to top me in modified positions that made me feel like I was taking rather then giving. I was the pentrater, but I was still in the positions I saw women in in cissexist media. Something I had always thought was unachievable for myself. This complete acceptance of my femininity, despite my penis, afforded me a safe place to explore my sexuality.

     I began being able to take more dominant or conventionally masculine positions without receiving dysphoria. By my partner seeing me as fully myself, I could re-frame these sex acts, I previously perceived as male, in a feminine light. This was the final step in my full acceptance of my dick as feminine and loving that part of myself.

     I could be seen as a woman, call my dick a clit, and fuck in ways that cissexists would consider male. I could take off my pants without the shame or disgust I was programmed to feel by the genital reveal trope. I could piss standing up, and penetrate a partner. Though, I still struggle with physical dysphoria and internalized transphobia, I am finally learning to love my dick.

by: Erith Margolis

[taramaclaywasaterf]

Oh honey. You’re a 16 year old male. You have 0 understanding of anything around you, much less oppression. If you think “”””terfism”””” (lmao) is Eurocentric but trans activism somehow isn’t, you’re a fucking idiot. There’s nothing more inherently racist and privileged than saying a straight white man can put on a dress and become a “woman” and The Most Oppressed Victim Ever. If you think it’s ~*colonized feminism*~ (like in that original post) to say real women don’t have penises and that feminism is for real women only, not only are you the racist piece of shit, you’re a worthless misogynist too.

You’re the ones defunding and attempting to shut down rape shelters that predominantly serve Indigenous Canadian women. You’re the ones nailing fucking dead rats to the shelter doors and spray painting “kill terfs” on the windows. Youre the ones tearing their posters down and sending graphic death and rape threats to anyone who supports them. You’re the ones getting women of color fired and witch hunted for refusing to call an entirely gender-conforming white man a “woman.” You’re the ones getting women arrested, assaulted, and de-platformed. You’re the ones punching 60 year old women, choking out little girls, throwing temper tantrums at minimum wage workers, and parading outside women’s meetings with fucking bats and brass knuckles, wearing shirts covered in fake blood, frothing at the mouth. Youre the ones who created a whole goddamn movement founded solely on the idea that lesbians’ underwear are a barrier that need to be broken through. You. Not us. You. We just want you to leave us the fuck alone. So really. Please. Tell me. Which ones of us are the ~eurocentric~ ones again? The group whose ready to slit the throat of any woman who doesn’t immediately bow before the almighty “”girldick””.......or the group that is out here fighting for the rights of females? I’ll wait.

Run along, dickswinger, and go back to hiding behind the anon button like the coward you are👋🏻

Oh wow. Dude you are so racist ... yikes 👌🏼😔

Lmao in case anyone’s curious, this is from @discourser715 in reference to this ancient post he dredged up from god knows how long ago:

https://taramaclaywasaterf.tumblr.com/post/186188178453/dworkinlover69-porntellsliesaboutwomen

He reblogged it literally like seconds after sending this, as if it’s not blatantly obvious it’s him lol

Anyway I’m not wasting my time on this dude, so to make up for him using women of color as pawns in his pathetic mantrums, let me use this time instead to bring more attention to the Umoja Women’s Village in Kenya!

https://umojajewellery.com

They’re an exclusively female-only village made by and for women and girls as a safe haven from male violence such as rape, forced marriage, and female genital mutilation. I found them through a post on here awhile ago, so I figured I’d share so others can learn about them too. They even sell handmade jewelry and keychains, where 100% of the proceeds go to the women. I have several of their pieces (the Mshale necklace is my absolute favorite, Im someone who doesn’t really wear jewelry but I hardly take this necklace off!!!) and I’ve bought a lot as gifts for holidays/friends’ birthdays, and every piece is absolutely stunning and SO well made. And if you just want to support them without buying jewelry, you can just donate to them instead! So go support these amazing women instead of arguing with men in dresses online! It’s a much more productive, worthy, and feminist use of our time and energy.<3