#Pretending he will spontaneously improve harms people because he will continue to harm people until something makes him stop..... | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

justonefeather · 6 months ago

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Ok really quick bc nobody is awake that I can vent to. Losing patience for the long time friend like. Treats people like an accessory then expects priority friend? Yeah idk like if you're gonna keep hanging out with the dude who abused you, threatened me and my bf, hits on 20 year old girls when he's well into his 30s, and screams at his mother.. you know full well the quality of person he is.. you know he refuses to change bc he thinks he's NOT a piece of shit.. like sorry but after this many years I don't have sympathy left, you keep saying oh I'm so done, but you aren't, you left him for a reason but you keep going to his mom's house to hang out with him? Like you can't actually expect me to feel bad when you inevitably complain that's he's the same person he was last year.... You have seen who he is over and over.... You don't rely on him anymore so you can't claim you can't leave, at this point you're choosing this ?? Like come the fuck on

#This isn't the only reason I want to distance myself from her obviously but the excusing everything he does bothers me #Like it's ok that he threatened me it's ok he broke your hand it's ok he doesn't control his anger with people he sees as weaker #It's ok he is STILL proud of beating up drunk people at concerts for being drunk even though he has an opiate addiction #Like he doesn't deserve attention he deserves jail time and to have to explain to every job he applies for that he likes to harm people #Idc I DO wish bad things on him bc some people DONT deserve sympathy and kindness. He will not improve if there's no consequences #For being a fucking abuser and a disgusting person. He's a spoiled man child. For fucks sake block him at least #I know people like to say ohh everyone deserves love ok so how do you think that will help this? It gives him validation that it's ok...#He doesn't seek therapy because he doesn't think there's anything wrong with how he acts. And you want to.. do nothing? Lol #He gets everything he wants that's WHY he's like this he grew up in a rich town and had everything handed to him #Pretending he will spontaneously improve harms people because he will continue to harm people until something makes him stop.....#Idk why that's such a hard concept but apparently it is.#🪶.exe

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