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multi-lefaiye · 2 years ago

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"i can't stand interacting with people who have my deadname" ok negative associations with your deadname are completely valid and i'm not shaming you for that but fr knowing someone who has my deadname helped me so much not to flinch and be uncomfortable with it every time i see it.

well. well that and also one of my beloved mutuals on tumblr having an oc with my deadname whom i adore.

#multi makes text posts #POINT IS transferring your disgust and discomfort at your deadname to affection for someone who has it #does help a lot if you want to lessen your discomfort with it #and regardless i think this is the sort of thing where like... your personal discomfort is fine #but don't like be an asshole to people about it #like if a real person has your deadname it's kinda..... not their problem if you're not comfortable with that #that sounds callous but it's true #anyway. bedtime.

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