#PLEASE.... SOMETIMES YALL TAKE 'GET CRITICAL THINKING SKILLS' TOO SERIOUSLY.....

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the way i REALLY woke up to some people insinuating and supporting the idea that robbe and sander’s relationship is emotionally abusive bc robbe is shown adjusting and trying to support his bf.... yall are literally going stir crazy during this quarantine,, anyway thoughts belong the cut even though no one asked bc yall are SOEMTHIGN.

the way.. some of you really look at sander,,,, someone who dealt with a type of emotional abuse in his last relationship,,,,, and turn around and think he’s manipulating or pushing robbe to do the things he’s doing.... are fucking insane. you’re gonna tell me that robbe drop-everything-for-his-mother ijzermans doesn’t already have the instincts to try to make sander’s existence a little more bearable.... 

deleting and rewriting a text to sound more supportive is censoring yourself.............. i am laughing... did any of you watch season 3 where all he fucking did was delete texts and not send them and rewrite them....... sorry teenage boys aren’t known for fucking empathy, but it’s incredible to me that robbe as a character can pinpoint and correct what may sound slightly condescending to send to someone dealing with an mi in stressful times like this. in fact, it may be even unrealistically communicative of him to do so...

robbe leaving his friends.................... when sander calls him......... because yet again all they were talking about was pussy and weed (NOW they just leave out the homophobic jokes!)........ his friends who left him at the drop of a hat for any girl that walked by all of season 3........ the way yall are acting like they were having some big brain convo when half of us were GRATEFUL that shit was only 2 mins so we didn’t have to listen to teenage boys talk about masturbating with toothpaste.... i cant fklsdjflksdjflkds with YOU GUYS.. PLEASE... THE WAY some of you love the boysquad and specifically jens for being literal nothing friends is so funny to me................... but that’s for another rant.

him not really smoking weed anymore.... i want yall to watch the first clip of the season and tell me robbe wasn’t sitting there trying to cope by getting high and drunk as fuck... why does anyone rely on those substances so heavily? i get it, teenagers are bored and used to it and it’s all fine and dandy, but plenty of people... don’t smoke... the way you guys genuinely think we saw robbe at any single moment in that show LOVING smoking and doing it just for fun rather than to escape his circumstances... so him not doing it now.... honestly seems rather in character lmao. he relied on alcohol n weed to literally get over shit that was happening in his life, and now he doesn’t feel the need to lean so heavily on substances, and yall are MAD and CONCERNED about it? (also... we specifically see him refuse weed the happier he is, ie the hotel clip, before he even knew sander was bipolar... NOW would be the time to pull out those critical thinking skills)

you guys saying that sander gives nothing in return........... did any of you literally watch s3... i am begging you.... please..... know your source material and the characters, you’re driving me to the brink with that insinuation.

and last but not least... i think some of you just WANT robbe to be the least favorite so you can have something to complain about. it’s incredible that you’re able to parse the tag and find examples of robbe’s worth solely hinging on his relation to sander and not the same vice versa......... yesterday, all i saw were people talking about how happy robbe was, and normally... all i see are posts talking abt how happy sander makes him...... you’re gonna tell me that people garnered NOTHING from sitting for an entire 10 weeks in robbe’s shoes? i just don’t buy it. you see what you want to see, and i just can’t entertain half the ideas you guys have people you’re sitting around bored and want something to be mad at. anyway....... sorry if this is too harsh, but it’s like the same people over and over who have whack ass takes and think they have to be the mediators for all discourse and it’s so annoying to me. you can’t just throw around ‘emotional abuse’ n think both sides are equally valid in their thinking... life doesn’t work like that. esp when we’ve only seen 2... (TWO.........) not even 3-minute clips of a relationship outside of season 3.................. you guys are something else...

i love fandom <3