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royalberryriku · 1 month

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My dad, jokingly: "I'm badman"

Me: "haha sure" (not thinking he's anything like batman)

My dad: *left/ separated from my mum when I was a teen, started a GTA gang that helps bullied kids, ended up emotionally adopting like 8 kids and helped them through bullying, suicide, abuse, etc.*

Me: *was hurt by an abuser and had to deal with said abuser being forgiven by family around me*

Me: *gets into Batman lore*

Me: ...

"Wait a second..."

#I guess this makes me Jason Todd lmao #I love him don't get me wrong #but he's also literally Bats here with the leaving and then coming back with eight adopted kids #and me going through a whole thing with wanting to cut off certain people #having anger issues #and having a complex relationship with him and at first feeling a bit like I was replaced #Like damn #He really is Bruce and I'm way too much like Jason #Also thinking about hoe my older brother feels overly responsible and tries to act like a leader #He's so much like Nightwing/ Dick Grayson #Overly forgiving and trying to be more of a leader than he should be and the family oriented type of guy #Don't get me wrong I love him too #Buuut as the younger sibling it's my job to pick on him a bit #Our relationship is a bit like Jason and Dick with comradery but with jabs at each other and not always agreeing with how to do things #He's more of a moderate liberal tyoe too #Wants to save everyone on all sides whereas I'm more of a radical leftist who can hold a grudge #Yeah I can definitely see the batfam in us lmao #Idk what middle brother would be #maybe a bit like Barbara with trying to be the smartest? He's not exactly an overachiever but I think he longs for our mum's attention #I mean we all have sure but I think he's in deeper with that #Me and the oldest one were/ are the more rebellious types or I guess the ones that questioned our parents more #Whereas he kinda goes along with everything and backs them up and seeks a lot of approval #Not a bad thing but can make him sort of dependant and try to seem stronger and smarter than he is/ or needs to act #And ofc out of all us I'm probably the most rebellious #less so when I was little but after not being believed when I said I was abused by a certain old shithead was a big c #*shift for me #Made me trust their judgement a lot less and look for my own path ig #So very similar to Jason there with seeing flaws in Batman's morals and rejecting them because of how they got him hurt #Sort of like how I rejected/ reject the moderate “all sides” standpoint in my family #there's a lt of forgiveness given to people who don't really deserve it in our extended family

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