#Life101 with Lucia

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Intimacy and laughter

I recently reblogged a thing on how minors are interacting with mature blogs yadayada. But it got me thinking. Let's say one of you is a minor, or maybe someone off age who's still inexpereinced maybe i can make a bit of space here to share advice. Anyone who wants to add in their two cents feel free to drop it in an ask to share.

This isn't going to be explicit or anything but it might come in handy. When you are in a relationship, sometimes romantic or intimate gestures aren't going to go as you planned. Your position turns out awkward you trip over your words at the worst possible time, you get the hicups or make some other kind of wierd sound. When that happens. The best advice i can give, is allow yourself to laugh at it. The way you do when your buddy tries to do a cool thing and fails hard. You laugh together and move on. Real life is not like in a movie. Movies have scripts and retakes. You don't. If it's the right person the vibe will come back soon enough. And if you are in a relationship, you really should be comfortable being an idiot in front of them before you put yourself in a vulnerable position.

But that's my take on that. As i said, if anyone has any advice for our lurking Virgin's drop it in the asks and I'll publish it under the tag #Life101 with Lucia

All my love! Ever your faithfull servant Lucia.