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kittenfangirl20 · 6 years ago

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This exactly how I feel, Daenerys has made mistakes, but that is because she is human and not because she is evil. Also funny how it is Jonsas that get offended over this because to them Daenerys can never do anything good because she has to be evil to justify their non canon ship. For once I would like to find a Jonsa who admits that their ship isn’t canon and doesn’t demonize Daenerys just to make their ship happen, like say they would like it better if Jon and Daenerys realize that they didn’t love each other romantically before moving on to another romance instead of coming up with this outlandish theory that Jon is sexually manipulating a rape victim in order for her to go mad and try to kill everyone. Also funny how they go on about tagging etiquette when I have seen quite a few Jonsas run to Joberys tags in order to tell a Jonerys fan that they are wrong.

Daenerys Targaryen Rant

Look, I’m new to the GOT fandom and being on Tumblr overloads with you a lot of information at once. This fandom, is like the definition of toxic and for what? Ships? I have to laugh.

I’m only gonna address one thing but believe me, I’ve got a list so let’s do this shit.

One thing I’ve noticed is the overwhelming hate against Daenerys Targaryen, for her cruelty and impulsiveness in some of her actions. In no way do I agree with all of them but I refuse to reduce her complex character and story buildup to that of a villain or a mad queen.

Daenerys has simultaneously figured out to be loved and feared all at once by her people which is fucking amazing. She was not born with the same training to rule as other highborns. She was not given some handbook on how to be the perfect fucking queen for the people and herself. She makes mistakes and acts impulsively but not at all times and the times she has, she’s paid for them greatly and if she hasn’t learned from them now, she will. Its trial and error with her, it’s the only path of ruling and conqueror she has.

By no means do her mistakes outweigh her good deeds. Daenerys has done questionable things for her claim to the throne but honestly at this point, who hasn’t? (Jon isn’t aware of his claim so just don’t)

She’s not just some benevolent and perfect ruler who shows mercy to all and does nothing wrong. You wanna know why? Because that ruler doesn’t exist. No real person is capable enough to do that because real people are flawed and since GOT tries to reflect real people in their characters, Daenerys is flawed too.

Those flaws do not make her incompetent enough to rule nor do they take away all that she fought to overcome and gain (screw anyone who thinks that shit was just handed to her, her name didn’t mean shit. The Targaryens had been discarded before her and the name and entitlement can only get one so far, look at Viserys for example if you need to)

A lot of people want her to be more compassionate and empathetic with her enemies and people who pose a threat but why should she? Her enemies have never been compassionate and empathetic with her. Daenerys was raised with cruelty, she was only shown cruelty by all those who were supposed to love her which is why I believe she has no problem being cruel to those who pose a threat. It’s all she’s knew, the cruelty others for a very long time. As much as you wanna discard her backstory, its integral to shaping the person she is.

We have seen her ability to grow as a character and show more than the death and destruction that Targaryens have left behind. She cannot learn all the capabilities of a kind and good queen when she has rarely known kindness and goodness herself. But she is growing, her sacrificing a dragon who she considered a child of her own in an effort to help defend the north against the white walkers (without Jon bending the knee first) shows her ability to put people before her own political even fucking personal interest. (Another impulsive action that she paid/ will pay for and fucking learned/will learn from. Also can we acknowledge the fact that instead of holding animosity towards Jon for the death of her dragon like she could’ve, she empathizes with him and instead wants to help him destroy the night king BEFORE he bends the knee all while grieving her fucking child! Dany had no indication that he would bend the knee if she helped him, none. Yet she still wanted to help him destroy the night king and protect the north and it’s people regardless!)

A lot of people have ridiculously high expectations of her even though when she started the show, she had no political experience, no good social experience, no military experience, no experiences one needs to rule. Yet she gained them (she wasn’t given some wise person along her entire path to help her do it either) and she gained a council of people to advise her and that she trusts with her life to become a better fucking queen and to give her knowledge when she lacks it because she knows she doesn’t know everything about ruling. She’s aware of almost all of her flaws and she’s worked to improve on them. She’s not the second coming of Robb Stark (we all wish he was still here) but she is Daenerys motherfucking Targaryen and that means something and not because of her ancestry.

Do I want her to receive the iron throne? Fuck no. I hope its destroyed along with the wheel.

Do I think she doesn’t deserve to be a queen? Fuck no, she’s earned it.

So stop discrediting her and fixating on her bad qualities when there is so much more of her to see.

And for fucks sakes, stop pitting her and Sansa Stark against one another. They both are remarkable fucking women who have coped with terrible shit to become who they are and they’re situations as rulers are rarely the same. Most of y'all are hating on one of them because she gets in the way of a ship and its pathetic.

Sansa helps protect and maintain the north as ruler and was born a Stark which means something there and gives her some kind of respect. Dany is a fucking ruler and conqueror and the Targaryen name held nothing but negative connotations of destruction, failure and death in GOT society before her, she is consistently judged by the sins of her family. She’s not familiar with every land she plans to control but she wants to be, wants to be a voice for the people and those who are oppressed just as she was. Conquering and ruling a new kingdom and ruling a well established one that you grew up in (therefore she’s familiar with customs, the people and ways of life in the north) is nowhere near the same thing.

I’m not discrediting Sansa, I love her and she’s an amazing ruler but she had some aspects afforded to her that Daenerys doesn’t.

I know she’s got an ego but shit, if I had done the things she did and overcome the things she has, my head would either be too fucking big to fit through my front door or I would’ve offed myself before Dany gained her first dragons (I honestly don’t know if I would’ve had the strength to get past that point).There is no question about her strength and resilience because she’s got a fuck ton of it.

One more thing, after Jon bends the knee and she says “I hope I deserve it!” THAT SHIT! THAT NEEDS TO BE FUCKING TALKED ABOUT! Dany isn’t as collected as she paints herself to be, she doubts her actions just as everyone does theirs but she does it in secret. She’s just not in a position to be open about her insecurities and doubts which is why she doesn’t show them to anyone. She’s never really been. Dany has never had family who genuinely and unconditionally loved her like the Starks have their entire lives. She has never had the comfort of confiding in someone like they have or trusting someone the way they do. Even now, the people who love her mostly love her for what she can offer them and what she represents, not who she is. She’s always relied on herself for that which is probably why she’s not as open and vulnerable as people would like her to be. It could even be said without all she represents or her dragons or her power, no one would love her.

She’s grown up without it. Abuse taking its place, she would have no one without her claim. The starks would have each others which is why I think she holds onto it and enforces so much. Her claim has given her people who love her, the things she can offer have given her the people that love her. That sucks but it what it is.

Her questioning her ability to rule, her insecurity shows that she will not let her pride and ego get in the way of being a good queen if she gains the seven kingdom. Just because she exerts confidence does not mean she is overconfident or stuck in the belief of her entitlement to the throne. She worries she will not be the queen the seven kingdoms need which is exactly why she could be. Because those thoughts will keep her vigilant and attentive to all the shit she’s needs to get done once she’s no longer prioritized with conquering.

And to address her motives, or what I believe are her motives, Dany likes power. Why is that a bad thing? For a long period in life, she was considered weak and powerless, a pawn for those with power. She knows what it means to suffer (the death of her family, her husband [Stockholm syndrome but let me not start because she did love him], her only child Rhaego, and her dragon who she loves like a child, being raped, etc.) She knows it and she will never allow herself to be powerless again, she will never allow herself to be weak (I’m pretty sure she associates vulnerability with weakness at this point) in the face of threats, potential allies and the suffering of her, her people or both.

Why is that a bad thing? For her to be powerful, because that’s what she equates it with strength. Power keeps her from weakness and I think it’s why she strives for as much as possible so that she will never know that feeling of powerlessness again and so that her people who depend on her will never know suffering at the hands of the powerful again. It’s not because of her “selfish belief that she deserves it.” She wants it and forced herself to belief she’s entitled and deserves it because while on the throne, she can secure protection from those who would do the horrific things she’s endured and seen with that power to those without it.

She may result to cruelty when needed but that does not make her an evil person/ruler (yes I know about the Tarlys who refused to bend the knee for her. She made a power move, seeing as there were witnesses and the men who witnessed could see her not delivering on her threat of death as a weakness and eventually try and move against her, and she killed them. Now they all know she means fucking business.) It wasn’t right but it instilled fear, she cannot rule with just love. You can love someone and still plot against them, if people fear the consequences of what could happen if they fail, it’ll hold them. She needs both fear and love to rule. Loved enough to fight for her, feared enough to not move against her.

It’s one a.m. but I had to get this off my chest, so yeah, I’m done.

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