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Want a better relationship?  Then, be a better YOU.

That’s right.  It’s easy to blame someone else for not making you feel fulfilled or happy.  

But, when you blame others, you give them external control over you and appoint yourself as the victim. 

Take control and know the answer is within you.  

You, not someone, is responsible for your feelings, reactions, self-esteem, and happiness.  

Remember, you’re the one who chose, hooked up, dated, married, and stayed with the person you’re complaining about.

So, if want a better relationship?  Be a better YOU.  

Improving ourselves improves our self-esteem and decision making abilities.  When we feel better about ourselves, we make better decisions.  

When we have good self-esteem, we don’t and won’t tolerate riff-raff and chaos.  We make better choices.

Remember, everything starts with and ends with yourself.  You control you, not someone else.

If you’re looking to switch your partner, first work on improving yourself.  Consider individual therapy or @Imago_Relationships

Therapy to recalibrate your mindset and emotional balance.

Be a better you.

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A great reminder when wounds or unmet needs are activated. In that moment, what we need is to soothe the wound, not to pour more salt in it. Practicing with the breath helps us come back to the present, to the body and to respond to what is in need of tenderness and compassion. It takes courage to turn towards our own suffering and to make space for our partners pain. To react, to enter the world of defensiveness and right /wrong is automatic and la la wisdom. The intention there is to wound and protect the fragile ego. This resounds us and feeds the defense. Feeding the story just intensifies the hurt and escalates the reactivity. And often we are projecting our needs, our hurts onto our partners. So the question becomes, can we love without possessing? Can we Listen without needing to agree and from the heart? Can we shift and see the vulnerability that’s in the space between the two of us and recognize that both are wounded. Can we speak the language of the heart? This is the way of the wise heart/mind. This is mindfulness and compassion that is the foundation of interconnectedness. This is the path of growth and healing that strengthens acceptance, allows for healing, for intimacy and the blossoming of true love.🙏❤️#imagorelationshiptherapy #mindfulliving #mindfulcouples #compassion #mindfullistening #mindfulspeech (at Delray Beach, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/CKZFBnynyMA/?igshid=s1r6l634ssi3

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#Imago Relationship experts Jesse and Melva [Thomas] Johnson and Janette Ghedotte know that ...in love and relationship, you better ... use it or lose it!

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Falling in Love All Over Again Imago guides couples to recapture renewed hopes and dreams for their relationship.   It's like falling in love all over again.   https://vimeo.com/316352862 Fall in love with our FREE Accurate Body Language webinar, "Argue Less, Love More." Click It to Get the Ticket: https://go.accuratebodylanguage.com/imago-webinar-registration Date:  Thursday, March 21, 2019 Time:   8:00 pm EST 5:00 pm PST Janette Ghedotte, MA LLP Founder & CEO Accurate Body Language https://www.linkedin.com/in/janetteghedotte/ Melva [Thomas] Johnson, LMSW Jesse Johnson, MA LLP Imago Relationship Therapists http://www.jesseandmelva.com/

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Are you (or someone you know) wondering how to "Argue Less, Love More" in your relationship? Do you want to stop the power struggle battles, but not sure how? Imago Relationship Therapists, Jesse-Melva Johnson and Janette Ghedotte show you how to recapture the connection that you thought you lost ...https://vimeo.com/315810900