#I'm still trying to remove all the pictures and screenshots of them from my phone but on god there are so many

[punkrockisafulltimejob]

Ah yes, two and a half years later and I'm still seeing things that trigger memories about my ex partner that infuriate me

[marshallpupfan]

Marshall Merchandise Update!

In my last update, I said it was unlikely that I'd be adding any more Mighty Movie merchandise to my collection, as I figured I'd found just about everything of Marshall. As it turns out... I WAS WRONG.

I've got five items to show off this time, and all but one of them involves merchandise from The Mighty Movie. I underestimated just how much they were going to make for their theatrical sequel. 😅

First off, this plush + blanket! Much like the last one I purchased, this also came from QVC. I think it's exclusive to them, but I'm not 100% sure. Either way, as soon as a friend showed me one, I knew I had to have it! However, I haven't unrolled the blanket yet, but just so you all can see what it looks like, I provided a screenshot from the video on their website. It's quite nice! Hey, what better way to stay warm than with a pup who's coming in hot! 🔥

Next, the "Meteor Mayhem" board game. Sadly, I doubt I'll get to play this with anyone, but of course, you can all imagine the real reason I purchased it. To be honest, when I first heard about this, I thought that unique Marshall wind-up toy would be rather small, but it's actually much bigger than I expected! I haven't removed it from the packaging yet, but I'm not sure if I'll keep it in there or try to display the whole thing. Also...

Is it just me, or are the designs for the pup here a little different? They look more like their TV counterparts than that from the theatrical film. Hey, we've got an episode of the TV series coming up soon, and it's based on Mighty Pups... you don't suppose this is what they'll look like in it, do you? I guess we'll find out soon enough!

Next, these mini-figurines! I found them at a store that I didn't expect to have Mighty Movie merchandise, so I was quick to pick it up. However, after purchasing it and exiting the store, I suddenly realized I might already own this figurine of Marshall. Once I got home, I quickly discovered that...

...yeah, I kinda do. The one on the right came from that mystery box, which I purchased a few months back. However, it has more colors, so I guess that technically makes it kind of different. Do I consider this another new addition to my collection or not? Ah well, I'll find a spot for it somewhere. lol

Hey, look at what finally showed up at a Burger King near me! And to think, it only took a whole month for Indiana to get some! Admittedly, when I seen pictures of this last month, I thought Marshall's toy would be rather small, like those mini-figurines. Turns out, it's about three or four inches tall! It's kind of a shame that the outfit is just one solid color, but... hey, I still like it! Oh yeah, there's a little switch on his left hind leg that makes his fireball light up and blink. Neat!

Last, this... uh-oh... a mystery box. H'oh boy, I was not expecting to stumble upon this today, and at a Menards, no less.

So... yeah, there are new mystery boxes on the market again. This time, they contain Hallmark Christmas ornaments. Actually, I believe these have been around since last year, but at the time, they were only sold as a set (I think). I wasn't able to get one then, so I'm glad to see they're now being sold individually! Of course, the caveat here is that, until you open the container, you'll never know who's inside. That certainly presents a problem to someone who's just looking for one particular pup.

However...

Much like those Mash'em toys, they made yet another critical error with these containers; there are very small holes on both the top and bottom. Once again, if I shine my phone's flashlight at just the right spots, I can just make out a color or two on the inside. And with a little patience, I spotted some red and...

Well, you can imagine where this is going. :)

Yup! I got the exact pup I was looking for! Yay for cheating the system! Should I feel guilty about this or not? lol

Being a Hallmark ornament, it's of course really nice. And really cute, too! I wish his little paw pads had been colored in (real talk; pink paw pads are legit adorable), but hey, I still really like it anyway! Wow, I did not expect to be going home with this one today!

Well, that's it for now! Currently, I've got a three more items coming in the mail, although they'll take a while to arrive because they're coming from overseas! Soon enough, I'll get to add a few more imported Marshall items to my collection again! And the only reason I got them at all was because, much to my amazement, both the items and the shipping were cheap! Like, $3 for both, surprisingly. They're small, but hey, I can't wait to add 'em to my collection! :)

[stilldontknowmynames-huh]

Hey, hi.

I hate when my phone keeps sending me memories of you but one day i’ll remove all our photos from this phone because i hate it when I see our pictures and remember what happened, I don’t want to hate you anymore i’m just trying to keep going with this sad bad thing called life

How are you?I feel like this is where I should tell you how much I miss you, but a part of me knows you probably don't care. If you did, we'd probably still be friends...right? But I will hope you think of me and miss me too..

It's been months since we last talked - who would've seen that coming? I know I definitely didn't.. So much has happened since we last spoke, and I've wanted you to know it all..Isn't that twisted? Even though we're no longer friends, I still want to tell you all the things I used to and it sucks because you're not that person anymore..

You were the one person I was suppose to be able to count on for anything..You used to be a phone call away..

But I guess that's life. Nothing is a constant and no one owes you anything. And even though we're not friends anymore, I still want to thank you. Thank you for being my best friend-and dealing with everything that comes with that. Thank you for the nights we stayed up until dawn just taking and laughing.

And even though we are no longer friends, I just want you to know that I could never hate you..Trust me, I've tried..It sounds awful, but I though it would be easier to get over losing you if I could hate you but I couldn't bring myself to do it. I was hurt when you left, but I will never hate you..You were my best friend..and despite how things ended up, because of that, I will always love you

Sometimes, I still scroll through our pictures and smile.. I see screenshots of old conversations and laugh and whenever I see something that reminds me of you or am inside joke, I almost always almost send it to you..I hope that one day there will be a day when you don't cross my mind, but for now the sadness and hurt are fading, and I'm learning to look at you as a cherished memory

Everyone chooses their paths in life, and I guess your path just no longer intertwined with mine..But I hope you're happy, because I really do wish you the best..I hope you've found someone new to tag in all those Facebook posts, to stay up all night on FaceTime to when you just can't sleep

Just know that I don't hate you.. Know that I cherish the memories we made and wouldn't trade them for anything.. And know that even if I don't go up to you the next time I see you, I will always be grateful to have called you my best friend.

I don’t know why i’m writing this right now but everything keeps reminding me of you and I don’t want to talk about you with anyone so i write it all here for one last time.

[cultoftheswag]

I am suffering from a very bad episode of brain fog today but regardless I would still like to add my own experience as well as context to the screenshots provided by cata.

For starters, I used to be fangs fp (favorite person). I eventually had to cut ties with him for forcing me to abandon my other friends . The screenshots attached are back from that time. Another friend of ours posted a screenshot from a game night they had in a cotl discord server and because Pavi's name was visible , fang spiralled so badly that instead of putting down his phone and distancing himself from the source of anxiety (like the rest of us do , because the people that used to be friends fang are also extremely mentally ill but instead we get falsely accused of projecting our own illness onto his) he sent me over 40 messages on discord that had me so stressed I contacted his ex girlfriend at the time to notify his parents in case he tries to take any drastic action , as well as contacting me at 6 am on my real phone number twice through an encrypted number. And all of this over seeing someone else's username. He accused people of lying to him and conspiring against him by making a discord server to exclude him when said server had existed before even fang had joined the fandom and had even been a member of him at some point himself!!!

Fang you are certainly going to be reading this and I want you to tell you that you aren't am irredeemable monster as you like calling yourself, cause this would absolve you of any responsibility over your actions. You are a huge selfish asshole though that surrounded himself with the kindest people that sacraficed so much emotional labour until you pushed them all away. Being apart from you helped me realize that the reason I was your fp was because I was agreeable and would say anything you wanted to hear so you wouldn't feel triggered. Talking with you felt like I had to constantly walk around eggshells and shoulder all your vents so you wouldn't hurt the people around me until I couldn't take it emotionally anymore. And in turn you found other people to graphically vent , overstep their boundaries and only reach out to them so you can shit talk about how "wart thinks I'm too draining and I cannot vent to them anymore and they most likely hate me and they will leave me : (((((".

You've had so many people actively sacrafice time to specifically help. Cata was literally there for you advicing and we both urged you constantly to reach out and get professional help and not give up (this where the accusation that we projected our mental illness onto him comes from) , and not to mention all the other people on your dms that were also there for you . I literally talked you out of suicide. You had people from different countries and states reach out to you and help you , because you manipulated all of us to such a disgusting degree we got emotionally invested in you , despite how much it endangered us.

Seeing you publicly deny and reframe all this kindness that went into you is infuriating and disgusting. You literally violated one of my dearest friends boundaries and asked the for THEIR PREFFERED METHOD OF SUICIDE IN HOPES OF COPYING IT, CAUSED ONE OF MY OTHER FRIEND TO TEMPORARILY MOVE IN WITH THEIR PARENTS AGAIN BECAUSE OF IT AND ACTUALLY MANAGED TO HOSPITLIZE SOMEONE IN THE END. YOU SENT PEOPLE SELF HARM PICTURES AND DESCRIBED IN DETAIL WHAT YOU WILL DO TO YOURSELF OUT OF MALICE.

You're a fucking coward and instead of apologizing to the people you almost killed and the people you hurt and used , you had someone instead write Google doc to defend your image so people won't think of you as immoral and ableist and whatever else you are scared of . You value your self image above everything else . Cata wasn't stealing they were trying to break from an incredibly abusive relationship. Taking action to make you remove our names from your DNI isn't black mail when you literally had my fucking discord handle in there which is a violation of my own privacy. Also the last part about Kats au being problematic is such a snake-y move . It clearly reads as "no guys don't look at the other shit I pulled in private uhhh look at how bad an immoral this person is" . Mother fucker you are making romantic ship art of of two cult leaders . Do you realize in what fandom space you are ?? Something something what were you doing in the devil's sacrament.

I could include way more things fang has done but this getting too long .

beware of fang

Hey, im gonna say it outright and state that this is a call out. people get called out for being dangerous. fangs nearly pushed 3 people to commit suicide(including myself) and i had to be hospitalized because of him, so this feels justified. Im sorry if you disagree, ill keep it short and to the point If you’ve been a long time follower of his im sure you’ve seen his vague posts about his ex friends, the cotl tumblr community and “fandom drama” with little to no context behind it, other than various people appearing on his DNI. his vague nature in the posts is intentional, he doesn't want to let on that he was abusing his friends. Ive tried time and time again to write something but it never seemed right, like what he’s done to me and my friends wasn’t severe enough to warrant something like this, but it is and i don't want to let this go any longer, esp not when he has my friends, their names, usernames and literal contact information in his DNI list Over the last year ive been friends with fang hes been horrible. Hes never changed and refuses to acknowledge what hes done to his friends and how horribly he has hurt them, to keep this short im keeping this bullet pointy Here is his carrd, he has everything neatly outlined for yall to block on every platform Dont harass, dont contact. all of this is public information so https://web.archive.org/web/20240713073710/https://fanged-info.carrd.co/#boundaries

https://fanged-info.carrd.co/ Twit: FFANGEDD / narilamb_ / mewhenimsilly Insta: ffangedd / narilamb Tumblr: ffangedd / fanged-cotl / fanged-xeno Cara: narilamb Blusky: fanged / narilamb Itaku: fanged Artfight: FANGED Toyhouse: FFANGEDD Sheezy: fanged Discord & telegram: narilamb All the people mentioned have given consent Cw !!! abuse, suicide, self harm https://drive.google.com/drive/u/2/folders/1MLMOT-qvgrX-9NnUEgpl4AkEPfixy2wG

The drive is a bit out of date, as I logged it all before april. Hes posted more awful shit and vented to me again since then Feel free to request the letter i wrote to him, i might share it anyway because it sums up my thoughts on the matter If you want any additional context feel free to ask

Fang uses suicide and self harm threats to control and manipulate his friends, hes begged me for assisted suicide and when i refused to help him commit he begged in groupchats. He begged on instagram stories as well as twitter, so much so that his twitter for suspended for 12 hours. He has admitted to wanting someone to commit suicide with him and has previously formed suicide pacts and nearly followed through on one with a friend. fang backed out first. he continues to redirect blame. refusing to take accountability for his actions. He still blames his previous medications, his ex psychiatrist, his self diagnosed BPD & OCD, psychosis, and states of beings from disorders he doesn't have (claiming to be manic or sociopathic whilst not having bipolar1 or ASPD) fang blames his (ex)friends, claiming they were projecting their mental illness onto him when they were just reacting to his abuse, that they the ones in the wrong and that how they treated him/cut him off was vile and unfair, and believes that he never got real closure when he did. it just wasn't what he wanted to hear and now feels entitled to an apology from these people when all he’s ever done is traumatize and terrorize them. He describes the amount in which he has cut over pavi, wart and kat because what they put him through and how they traumatized him. The traumatizing actions were: Kat asking for a content warning, pavi didn't want to walk on eggshells anymore and blocked him without an explanation & wart blocked him after being emotionally abused for months Hes described how he would carve their names into his thigh and told me that he will carve my name into his skin when i leave too. He demanded wart and surf choose their “real friends” and cut off their community for him because fang hated that they were being “two-faced” and hanging out with “people who hate him” He would spend hours venting relentlessly and graphically in his friends DMs, demanding their time and attention and expecting immediate replies. His friends are not professionals and shouldnt be expected to be an on-call DIY therapist for him, for hours, without consent. Fang has said he is completely unwilling to self censor for other peoples safety He referred to me (and our friends) as a phone person, a voice, icons. Concepts he can talk. Completely dehumanizing everyone that cared about him even to their faces. He blames his ex friends for his poor mental health and has said he wishes they watched him commit suicide, he wanted his friends to be traumatized from this (as if they werent already.) When a friend posted a screenshot of a gamenight to tumblr he had a breakdown so severe and so dangerous for so long that several of his friends has to mute the DM to keep themselves safe from his verbal abuse and suicide/SH threats He doesn't care about how triggering any of this can be for someone and will subject anyone (including people in danger) to his “venting” He didnt care about triggering me and contacted me at the worst of my suicidality in january and exasperated the danger i was in so severely I had to be hospitalized against my will before I could commit suicide. 

Im honestly not entirely sure what to even think. he knew the severity of my suicidality. he knew I had been hospitalized for an attempt in 2022, and still he chose me, probably the most vulnerable of his friends at the time to vent that heavily too back in janurary Hes a dangerous selfish person whos proven over and over that hes not getting better and isnt willing to change, i honestly had hope when he slowed down his graphic vent posts and victim blaming on twitter and insta but he decided to say fuck all and get right back into his shit train of shame and misery. Heres a link to all of the screenshot, damning ones are in important bitz if you’re not interested in going through them all https://drive.google.com/drive/u/2/folders/1MLMOT-qvgrX-9NnUEgpl4AkEPfixy2wG in these screens alone he: admits to sending his cuts to his friends, threatens to cut if i leave, admits that he was doing to go through with a duel suicide and begged me for assisted suicide

warts screenshots v

full screenshots & complete context in the drive as for him claims that i was stalking him: i was scared, i was his friend. i tried so hard to be good enough and never was. the screens were a by product of confiding in my friends about what was happening and the drive was made to share w/ them i admit i prolly shouldve combed out some of it but, ykno also big phat apology for tagging cotl!!!!! only did bc fang has, please stay safe everyone, and thank you so much if you have read everything (the doc encase anyone was wanting it ! figured i;d just use tumblr regular posting method) https://docs.google.com/document/d/17QjXUEdQVd8c4GZS--vPo-xR3kgmoLl4ZmN3ROMutg0/edit?usp=sharing

[lilahisntsadanymore]

While Y/n decides to take a break from her celebrity life and spend some time in Outer Banks, her boyfriend decides to surprise her.

The quality of the screenshots might be ugly but click on them and it should get better.

The reader pronouns: she/her

Pairings: JJ Maybank x singer!reader

Words count: 1.3k

Warnings: not proofread (and written at 12am) as usual but none other than that

I do not own any of the pics used in this fanfiction. If I used your pic and you want it removed, I will.

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A surprise on vacation

Y/n loved her job, she loved singing and performing. It was such a blessing to be that successful at such young age. But even the greatest artists need a break sometimes. Y/n needed to catch a breath, let her voice rest.

The picture was taken a day before on a date Y/n and JJ went on and today they were going to have a hang out session with the rest of Pogues. No matter how famous Y/n got, she would always find time for those people. They and Y/n's family were her biggest supporters.

Lying in her bed in her family house, Y/n felt so good, so cozy. This place was much better than hotel rooms. Even the most expensive hotel couldn't compare to how amazing the real home felt.

Y/n got a notification about someone commenting on the post. It were Kiara and JJ replying to Sarah's comment.

What surprise?, Y/n thought. The girl decided to call her boyfriend.

"Hi, baby, what's up?" JJ picked up.

"Hey, I was just wondering what you're doing."

"Like, right now?"

"Like right now."

"Nothing much, you know, just...nothing much."

"Sounds like fun," Y/n chuckled, but she felt there's something off, "what is the surprise you and Kie are talking about in the comments?"

"What do you mean? What comments?"

"Don't be silly, I'm talking about the comment you posted a few minutes ago."

"You know, I can't, can't uhh hear you well," as he said that, Y/n heard a sound similar to someone crumpling a sheet of paper, "see you later today, right?"

"Yeah, right. See you later, JJ."

Y/n ended the call, feeling a bit sad. JJ didn't sound like himself and he was trying to hide something.

However, the girl didn't get much time to think about what her boyfriend might be up to, because she heard the doorbell.

"Y/n, could you open the door?" Y/m/n asked, shouting from the 'office-ish' room of the house. "I'm a little busy here."

"Sure, I got it."

When Y/n got closer to the door, someone rang the doorbell once again.

"Coming!" Y/n shouted, maybe a bit too much aggressively. She immediately apologized when she saw her best friend on the other side of the door. "Sorry, I'm just a little...angry with JJ, I guess."

"Oh, what did he do?" Sarah asked, walking inside.

Y/n sighed. "What is the surprise he and Kie talked about?"

"It's a surprise. I can't just tell you, it would be the opposite of a surprise."

"Keep your secrets then," Y/n chuckled, "why did you come so early anyway? We were supposed to meet up in a few hours."

"I'm on a special mission. I was told to dress you up. C'mon."

The girls walked to Y/n's bedroom. All her clothes were still in the suitcases and she didn't really plan on unpacking.

Now the fact that Y/n didn't felt like unpacking didn't matter, because all the clothes from the suitcases were now thrown around the room.

"This is really nice!" Sarah decided after a long time of searching for a perfect outfit. She tossed a light blue, short dress to Y/n.

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A while later, the rest of the Pogues picked up Y/n and Sarah. As the girls entered the Twinkie, they noticed an intense smell of weed.

"Damn it, JJ, do you gotta smoke so much?" Y/n asked in a not-so-nice tone. She was still irritated at how JJ avoided talking to her earlier that day.

"What has gotten into you?" JJ snapped. "We were good yesterday and today you're all...this!"

"I don't know, maybe it's because my boyfriend avoided talking to me and then wouldn't pick up the phone. I tried to call you meanwhile getting ready like ten times."

"Okay, but I'm here now. We're going to go to the beach and have fun with our friends and we're not gonna argue."

"Whatever."

"Chill out. You've been working so hard, give your brain a rest."

JJ offered Y/n his spliff. The girl hesitated at first, but then took it. She didn't usually smoke, because it could damage her voice.

"That's my girl." JJ praised, watching Y/n blow the smoke out of her mouth. "But you didn't do it right."

"What do you mean?" She chuckled. "How can you not do it right?"

"You didn't inhale how I taught you. The smoke has to go there," JJ put his hand on Y/n's chest.

"JJ, don't!" Kiara scolded him. "Y/n shouldn't be smoking."

"It's mostly weed, just a bit of-"

"Every kind of smoke can damage her voice."

"There's plenty of people who smoke and sing though."

"Just leave it," Pope chimed in. "Don't have to corrupt her more than you already did."

"Me?" JJ pretended to feel offended. "We all did it. Together like the team we are. Go Pogues!"

Y/n smiled. "But mostly you."

"But mostly me." He grabbed her hand and squeezed it gently.

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The sun had begun to set when the Pogues started to light up a fire. Nothing too big, just a small fire on the beach just for them, because the beach was pretty empty that day.

The cracking sound of fire made Y/n felt peaceful and the feeling of her head going slightly up and down on JJ's chest as he breathed made Y/n feel very safe.

"I'm so glad to be back here." The girl said. "Such a shame I'll have to leave in two weeks."

"It's whole fourteen days, we can do anything!" Kiara exclaimed. "You name it and we'll do it, we'll make memories to think of while you're working again."

"Or just stay." JJ added. "What's the worst that could happen?"

"The industry I signed a contract with would probably sue me." Y/n laughed. "But it doesn't matter for now. Right now I'm here, with the people I love the most."

"Talking about love...uh, could you stand up?"

"Weird enough, but alright."

Y/n stood up and so did JJ. The girl was visibly confused. Maybe she would be less confused if she didn't forget that just a few hours earlier she was angry about not being told what the surprise was.

As JJ was trying to find something in the pockets of his pants, the rest of the Pogues stood up as well. Sarah secretly took out her phone and started filming the scene, trying to not be caught by Y/n's eyes.

Finally, when JJ took out a little box out of his pocket, he got down on one knee and opened the box. Y/n covered her mouth in surprise, she didn't see that coming.

The ring inside the box was silver with a baby blue gem. Sarah knew exactly what she was doing when she helped Y/n pick out the outfit.

"Will you marry me?"

When the question left JJ's mouth, tears ran down Y/n's eyes, the happy kind.

"Yes. Yes, JJ."

Y/n's hand was so shaky when JJ was putting the ring on one of her fingers. When he stood up, they kissed but it was different than any of their kisses before. It truly felt more 'adult', because it was who they were now. They weren't just two kids in love with only a word as a promise. Now they were engaged. Promised to each other.

"I'm glad you said yes," JJ said, "it would be pretty awkward otherwise."

"Sarah got it on the video," John B spoke.

Pope added, "if you said no, we would at least have something to blackmail JJ with." He joked, making the other Pogues laugh.

"Who will be your bridesmaid?" Kiara asked.

"You and Sarah can be!" Y/n exclaimed. "The real question is, who will be JJ's bestman?"

"Hey, why go with stereotypes?" JJ laughed, putting an arm around Y/n. "You could have bridesmen and I could have bestwomen!"

"You're onto something here!"

The couple had much time to decide. Maybe Y/n could stay a little longer than just two weeks. Her career wasn't as important as the future she was going to build with her fiancé.

[nozzlebolt]

"Healthcare" farce.

The other day I as usual requested a renewal for two medicines I've used for 15 years - the right stuff. Instead a nurse booked a meeting, claiming that "the doctors" said to meet for renewal, in my journal! Changing, gaslighting.

What is normal is for a doctor to schedule a summons ffs! Instead they had changed the predicted renewal to beg for a needless appointment then! Rotten to the core frauds!! 🤬

This was the continuation from last year, where a nurse had commented that they had free time for "your spirometry", a useless service that I am not in need of at all given that the dosage is already correct, and minimal! The doctor then only renewed for one, rather than the usual four times - a year supply - apparantly going with the nurse by imposing an artificial limitation on the availability of my medicine to push needless services on me! Thus, they callously created artificial demand! I complained about that to the healtcare inspector authority, but never heard from them. Useless. 🙄

Back to today... I naturally unbooked the appointment since I hadn't requested that. Then I went to an emergency room since I had no medicine left. They agreed to prescribe a limited amount, though their function is not to renew prescriptions. The nurse was victim blaming though, needlessly playing devils advocate. So I got my medicine for now anyway.

I will complain to the healthcare inspectors about the begging to be needed despite my chronic condition remaining unchanged. They put my life at risk by playing games - sadistically trying to push needless services on me - instead of delivering on them medicines upon request ffs!

I will schedule an appointment at another clinic than the unreliable beggar one, then really iron in that I do need my medicine upon request, nothing else!

I will not submit to needless check-ups just because of some abusive nurse once had time to spare for needless spirometry, and the groupthink that ensued! I do not exist to fill their slots! That ain't "care", that's blackmail and fraud! I ain't no slave! 🤬

And so, guess what... I will henceforth REFUSE TO LET ANY DOCTOR TOUCH ME AT ALL!! Minimize that! 🤯

AND I will still get the medicine I am entitled to, given my chronic condition.

Ah yes, touching privaleges removed! The client has spoken. 🤫

I am not to be trifled with! 🧐

I am not to be trifled with! 🧐

I am not to be trifled with! 🧐

I'll update, and link this post once I have complained to the inspector about the bad practise, etc.

Update 1: The farce continues.

The new clinic are playing sick games. Will put together a collage of screenshots later.

One "doctor" claimed I don't have asthma, an official diagnosis according to my journal, going against all previous observations from my childhood and adulthood! They then neglected to schedule a meeting, instead a doctor instructed a nurse nurse to tell me to ask for an appointment for the purpose of getting another diagnosis! I commented my objection to the deranged claim in a note in my journal. 🙄

I called the head of the clinic, who was on vacation. I then called IVO (healthcare inspection authority), who were not available by phone like their homepage claims, instead running an unadvertised schedule during summer. I then inquired through the IVO website how a primary care doctor is allowed to go about when questioning a diagnosis. I will lodge a complaint regarding this negligence - grasping for straws to falsely contradict a lifetime of doctors, out of malice! 🙄

After I sent the request again, adding my strong assertion that the other doctors are correct, the clinic today - on the 25:th of July - scheduled an appointment for the 19:th of August, far from their obligation BY LAW of maximum 3 days for a primary care appointment (90 days for specialist). I added a note of the negligence in my journal. 🙄

I then sent my request yet again, where I also inform them of the negligence, and that I will lodge complaints to the IVO regarding the failures.

I have chronic asthma without a doubt. I went to visit a specialist doctor/researcher during my entire childhood! A rolemodel for his field, they call him in the news article below. I'll include pictures or scans of part of the journal for the upcoming collage.

He expressed concern for me upon my transfer to a specialist for adults in the 90:s... rightfully so given this farce from these primary care "caregivers", who are playing games and now a "doctor" even falsely questioned my asthma diagnosis - which is backed up by a ton of data from my childhood, and adulthood. 🙄

(https://www.sydsvenskan.se/2008-06-15/tony-foucard-foregangsman-inom-barnallergologi)

(Salmeterol is a long-acting beta-adrenoceptor agonist. We later opted out of the study since we'd get charged more for the medicine, but I was prescribed it later and it is a component of the medicine I have used for 15 years that I am trying to get a renewed prescription for.)

Instead of believing in the diagnosis first set and observed by specialist doctors way back, primary care employees are now taking turns sadistically abusing me together by playing with my life - attempting to cause emotional distress and mortality salience, as a part of yet another monstrous obedience training - the latest unspoken excuse for deranged sadistic punishment is my refusal to be touched - only warranting my mistrust 100%! Here is the kicker... since I have suffocated so often from my lifelong asthma, I don't get stressed from asthmatic symptoms since that costs precious oxygen. 🙄

I will not be silenced by malpractice, and will indeed never let them touch me! It is the duty of the primary care to take this seriously and make sure my journal says not to touch me for, ffs! That IS my boundry, which no healthcare staff shall violate! It is utter incompetence to fail to take notice! 🤬

Go ahead and shamelessly beat the dead horse... burn the charred bridges that you still can't cross... sink the shipwreck you are in... the deep mistrust is still gonna be there, as it is obviously well deserved! 🙄

Again, none has taken notice of my assertion of refusal to be touched - A doctor I have never met opted instead to abuse me by disagreeing with my lifelong diagnosis, as a punishment. 🙄

Given the psychological torture I am being subjected to by sadistic "primary care" staff, I will indeed lodge a complaint to the IVO before long. 🙄

Update 2 (2019-07-28):

This patient is happy with the medicine and happy with the CORRECT diagnosis, despite the debased attempt above to force ME to suggest otherwise in order for them to provide service. ⚠️🙄

My DEAD SERIOUS no touching boundary for the healthcare staff keeps getting stonewalled. Boundary issues detected! 🕳️🙄

I predicted I'd get the silent treatment next, and thus asked for a specialist doctor. AND I put in an request to renew my prescription for the medicine that does the trick anyway, despite the propagated false claim that it doesn't. It does though. 🛑🙄

Update 3 (2019-08-02):

The other day, I finally got an appointment within a reasonable timeframe, for today. I immediately voiced my reservations in a note in my journal given that I was now to meet the same doc who got things so wrong (including the category, that looked like a physical meeting though it was a non-physical).

I went to the appointment earlier and am now chilling, some time after having gone out again to pick up the medicine.

The head of the clinic - a psychologist - joined the meeting, perhaps having gotten passed my complaint to this patient committee/authority thing since they had called me the day before after I filled in a form (only to minimize my grievance and undermine me though).

I tried to convey my personality and at the suggestion of spirometry and a lung x-ray to see if anything is amiss for instance, I said I can tell things are the same and that x-rays are carcinogenic, respectively. The doc then argued that tobacco causes cancer too, to which I said that is why to not add more risk since I would not submit to be treated for cancer anyway, and that my level of non-attachment includes my own life (I had mentioned my father passed away when I was 18, since we talked about my scool years, and that it was not "must have been difficult" to me). Such is my personality.

Anyway, we then discussed my medication. I requested an aerosol bronchodilator and an aerosol chamber instead of the powder, and suggested to go back to having separate salmeterol, to enable to cut down on the anti-inflammatory corticostereoids (salmeterol can never be prescribed alone though).

Now I'm prescribed Serevent Discus (50 microg salmeterol) twice a day, and Flutide Evohaler (125 microg fluticasone) 1-2 doses, twice a day - instead of the combination one, Seretide 50/250 twice. Also Ventoline Evohaler (salbutamol). GSK city.

The end of the too long story, I hope. There you have it.