#I'm almost 23 and I can tell you with zero regrets I'm glad I never dated in my teens | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

cabinofimagines · 2 years

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When you’re almost 19 and have never dated before :)

No offense to this anon but this kind of comment piss me off cause it's literally the least important thing in the world whether you date someone before your 20s or not

Do you know what do you want to be for the rest of your life?? What are your dreams ten years from now? Build a circle of people that in the long run will make you just as happy as a significant other and most likely will last longer than a romantic relationship you had in your teens

Learn about yourself as a person instead of overthinking how many people have you touched and how many have touched you, I promise you in the long run it's like a -1 in the scale of things that will matter after you get out of your teens

-Danny

#I'm almost 23 and I can tell you with zero regrets I'm glad I never dated in my teens #instead I got to work on myself and get to know me without having someone else pressuring me to not disappoint them too #besides it's like maybe you are more mature than i was when i was 19 yeah but. people who learn to like spending time on their own #rarely suffer that much after a breakup #so it's actually a good thing that you get to spend time with yourself you'll be a wholly built person once you meet someone who is worth #your time #also would you even be able to say what are you looking for in a partner for sure? be honest #apart from just saying “someone that gets me”#sorry if im coming off too strong or like I'm hating I'm not lmao #i just want kids to stop hating on themselves over dating #love is not supposed to be experienced under a negative and pressuring light it's always meant to be natural #let it grow at its own pace

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