#I’m just gonna tell them I will not be there either way 🤷🏼‍♀️

[lesbiansanemi]

Had to drop gf off at the airport today :(

[princess-olaf]

Can we talk about how this editing process makes Andrea look bad?

For the last week she kept telling about how we will see Kelly telling Stella about Damon.

“We don't want to go too far past that. We wanted to stay in the urgency of that and Severide's reaction to that and how he would tell Kidd. We're keeping that time frame to the moment, like right after that. We get a little bit of time there, but then we jump ahead six weeks, which is where the other shows are jumping ahead to so we're all around the same time. We get a brief moment with Severide and Kidd to live in the fallout of Benny Severide's son, and then we jump forward.” (Source)

It’s not only this interview, she said many times.

And what we got? A scene that was 10 seconds long?

I’m gonna get back to this in a second.

Because we need a bigger picture. It’s second year in a row when she was talking about a scene in a premiere (meaning hyping the brand new season) that wasn’t there. Remember when she was saying again and again how 51 saw the tension between Stella and Kelly and someone (I think she said it was Violet?) compare them to tigers? And we never saw it. Nada.

So, back to last night. It’s another premiere where she is the only showrunner and she teases things that we don’t see. Because you can’t change my mind - that few word we saw during recap section (!!!) wasn’t the actual scene.

So, here is the thing: does she now have any control over what happens in the editing room? Or she just wants to talk anything that comes out of her mouth and doesn’t care if it’s really true?

Either way, it’s not a good look on her 🤷🏼‍♀️

[golbrocklovely]

I just LOVE Amber! I honestly think out of all the girls, she would be the most positive girl for him to be around. I’m always hoping to see more content with the two of them.

The other two….I’m just not sure about. I liked stas in the videos, and I think she gets more hate than she deserves. Sure, I understand why a lot of the fandom don’t like her. But we don’t know everything that happened in full detail. You know what they say about assuming…

And the other, Shea, the history with her seems a bit odd. But again, we don’t know every single detail about the two of them. And quite frankly it’s none of our business 🤷🏼‍♀️

I honestly feel bad for Colby. No matter what he will get hate for any girls he’s seen with. Must be exhausting for him. The fandom needs to chill tf out a bit. I understand having a ‘celebrity crush’, but hell you gotta know you won’t ever be with him. (Sorry this was a long post lol, but I’ve been holding this in for awhile. Btw love your tumblr! 💕)

oh i love amber as well. i found her just before she started hanging out with colby so it was perfect timing when they started collabing. i love the two of them together and i hope that they collab again soon. i genuinely love every video they've made together.

as for the other girls, i get the sentiment of not wanting to assume or not know the whole picture, and i agree with that for the most part. personally i have always been of the belief that if colby is happy, than i'm happy for him. even if i don't like them, i'm not gonna be upset at him for hanging out with them. especially with shea. he clearly is happy when he's around her, and bc of that i wouldn't want him to lose her if he really does feel the way i assume he does feel.

but, just bc we don't know the whole picture, doesn't mean we're wrong for noticing what we can see and judging based off of that.

with stas, i'll hand it to you, a lot of the stuff i've heard is mostly hearsay. i haven't seen too much. but i have seen enough stuff (like her mother sharing their location when they were in europe and fans hitting her up bc of that, her roommate liking fandom related tweets some of which were about shea, stas liking tweets about colby, stas answering questions fans have had about colby, her taking credit for his outfits, the malishka bs that happened from europe) to make me question whether or not her intentions are pure. bc at the very least, she interacts with fans a lot, and if for argument's sake everything about her was a lie or bs, she HAD to have seen fans congratulating them being together when they were in europe. there's no way she didn't, especially when it was some of her closet fans literally saying it. so for her to ignore that and not come out and say "hey guys, me and colby aren't together" is enough of a red flag for me to side eye her until shit like that changes. and that still isn't the case.

as for shea…. i literally have ss of the shit she has done over the years. her liking comments about amber that were negative, her apologizing to her gcs first and letting them spread the message she was sorry until finally posting something about it on twitter, her telling a gc that andrea had a bf and that was why her and colby weren't dating when they were hanging out even tho andrea herself never told her fandom about this guy until they broke up, her leaving winky face/hearts comments on edits shipping her and colby together, her pretending to not know a fan publicly she was bad mouthing to a gc even tho she blocked them, her liking shipping comments on tiktok only to later like comments saying 'all the shipping ruined colby and shea's friendship', i mean… the list goes on and go. there is proof of her weirdness. and again, even if there is more to the story, the little bit we have seen is enough for me to not like her.

but that being said, all of this is why i also ignore both of them as best i can. i don't pay attention to either of them until someone brings them up on here, and even then, i usually try to tell the person (at least as of recently) to just ignore them bc it ain't worth it.

do these girls get hate for unnecessary things?? oh for sure. and i don't advocate for it. i wish they didn't get hate at all, even if i don't like them. that's why i think it's just better to ignore them, especially if they upset you.

at the end of the day, colby deserves to have friends that are girls without there being drama. it's really that simple. and it's a shame that i don't think that will ever truly happen.

and thank you, i appreciate the love :)

[laurenjxuregui]

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing

single

2) Are you happy with who you are?

yes and no. i believe i’m a good person (or at least try/want to be). but i also know that i have the potential to achieve so much more than i am right now, so that’s what makes me unhappy with myself.

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?

no, it takes time. i don’t fall for people fast. sorta wish i did sometimes tho so it’d be easier to date people.

4) Have you ever had your heart broken?

oh yeah.

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is okay?

no!!!!! it is never okay. if you ever try to justify cheating then bye. there is never a good reason under any circumstance. period.

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?

hell fucking no.

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?

no :/

8) Do you want children?

no. i’m not trying to have the responsibility of raising kids in today’s fucked up world. and i’m not about to bring kids into this world for my own selfish reasons.

9) Do you think the person you like truly cares for you?

lol no.

10) Have you ever fought with your significant other?

obviously. is that not normal in any relationship or...?

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?

just tell me!!! or do something special to make me feel wanted.

12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?

no not really? what’s the point? i don’t have time for that lol

13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?

idk what that means but prob not.

14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?

im sure it does for some people, but i don’t think that could ever be me lol like i said before, my feelings usually take time to develop. and initial attraction does not equal love.

15) Are you romantic?

deep down i really am but i never really got a chance to show that side of me 🤷🏼‍♀️

16) Do you believe that you can change someone?

i did think that, but i’ve learned that you can’t. YOU can’t change someone. they can only change themselves if THEY want to for you. there’s a difference.

17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?

i’m gonna be dumb and say disney world in front of the castle lmao bc that’s really the most magical place i can think of atm. but i’ve also never traveled a bunch of places yet so there might be somewhere in the world that i love more.

18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?

yes but i’m trying to get over them because i know i shouldn’t have them.

19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?

yes.. my whole life has pretty much been this lol

20) Have you ever broken a heart?

no

21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?

no, i’ve already been in position where my s/o had to choose either me or someone else. i wouldn’t put myself thru that again. if i gotta fight someone for them then i don’t want the person. choose me or lose me that’s the motto lol

22) What would you say about your last ex?

i’ve already said enough so i ain’t even gonna answer this.

#97 RELATIONSHIP QUESTIONS

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing 2) Are you happy with who you are? 3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast? 4) Have you ever had your heart broken? 5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is okay? 6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you? 7) Have you talked about marriage with another person? 8) Do you want children? 9) Do you think the person you like truly cares for you? 10) Have you ever fought with your significant other? 11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know? 12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get? 13) Be honest, do you play the “game” when you are dating? 14) Do you believe love at first sight exists? 15) Are you romantic? 16) Do you believe that you can change someone? 17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be? 18) Do you have feelings for someone right now? 19) Have you ever wished you could’ve had someone but you couldn’t? 20) Have you ever broken a heart? 21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other? 22)What would you say about your last ex?