#I wrote this really late and I mean everyword
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formerdino Β· 2 years ago
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I can't relate to bisexuals who claim to love every woman and one man. Not every woman needs my love or attraction. There are plenty of women who I feel nothing for and that doesn't make them any less amazing! My attraction to someone is not a judgment of their worth, beauty, or character. I won't saddle myself with the burden on loving every woman my heart simply isn't big enough. There's a whole world of people with love to give and I think we all play our part in that. I'm attracted to plenty of women. I know this. I'm comfortable with this. I don't feel the need to prove this to anyone. I won't try to minimize my attraction to men either. There's nothing dirty or evil about being a man or being attracted to men. I would never enter a relationship with a someone if I felt they weren't deserving of being loved. I wouldn't insult them by publicly or privately saying I would rather be with a woman to seem like a better feminist or a better queer.
Finding men attractive isn't some moral failing just like how being attracted to women isn't a virtue. It's all just neutral. If I loved someone and they just considered it to be some sort of prize or something to brag about because they managed to bag a bisexual that would rip my heart out. I don't care about golden retriever energy or fluffy haired gamer boys I want someone genuine and trustworthy. I love my bisexuality and I love being bisexual, but it's not some special perk to anyone that dates me. I want my love to have value to someone because they love me just as much and I don't want to cheapen by claiming otherwise.
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