#I wouldn’t be surprised tho if other former teacher’s pets went into the opposite direction with how they like the kink

[theshadowrealmitself]

I did say I was gonna try to kill that prude in my head, so today we’re talking about student/teacher kinks

Obviously, I wouldn’t go for it in real life, combination of a lot of things like: never actually been attracted to any of my teachers, terrified at the thought of being in a relationship with someone who holds power over me, would absolutely be devastated if people thought my grades and academic success were because I was screwing a professor, etc

And I do feel like mentioning why I wouldn’t do it in real life is important to this discussion because I feel like it influences how I enjoy that kink, I’ve always been a bit of a teacher’s pet who wants to excel and be recognized for excelling

(still a bit of a pet in that regards, had a workshop this week where I showed up extremely prepared, engaged with the ta by answering questions and actively listening to the mini lecture, and when I asked for help with a tiny part, she took over my laptop and wrote down a shit ton of suggestions for me because she was happy I was trying while the rest of the class was just kind of ignoring her, I will be riding this high for awhile)

So obviously I’m not really into the s/t where the dynamic is degradation, I’m not a “bad student” that needs to be “punished” (I’d cry if I was called a bad student honestly), and I’m not into “student screws professor for better grades”, because again, for me, it’s about succeeding on my own and being recognized for that, so I’m only into it when the dynamic is praise kink stuff

Which unfortunately brings me to my final problem, so much praise kink stuff heads into kind of,, is infantilizing the right word? that kind of area, like yeah, I wanna be called a good girl/boy, but again, the point is that I’m competent, that the prof is impressed with me, I don’t wanna be treated like a kid or a dog, I wanna be treated like a competent, succeeding student that they want to reward so badly and they also find me attractive, but that takes backseat to everything else

So yeah, those are my thoughts on that kink from the perspective of someone who used to be a huge teacher’s pet (and now only kind of has moments of that)