#I think this is now in soft feedism territory

[softcuddledrone]

gives you 256 gummy bear..

O-oh my this is a big treat, this might take a while, and I'm already starting to feel a little full--

But SOFTIE is up for the challenge! I'm a good cuddledrone, and good cuddledrones accept their treats gratefully and eagerly! :3

[ed-recovery-affirmations]

Disappointed in your recent post on feedism. There are assholes and predators in every community; they are usually a minority and do not define that community. For example, lots of feedists are not into the things you described. Look up "soft feedism," and you'll see there's a whole bunch of folks whose primary interest is in the caretaking and domesticity aspects of being fed/feeding. Look up trans feedists and you'll find people who find healing and strength in radically transforming their bodies. Even of the ones who ARE into forcefeeding and health issues? That doesn't automatically mean they are preying on people. There is often a TON of communication, negotiation, and checking in that goes into those relationships, because they KNOW it's fraught territory and want to protect themselves and the people they care about. I actually agree with you that external validation of your body can potentially be a crutch that people use to keep from healing their own relationship to their body. But it can also be an intensely powerful and transformative experience, to be loved and celebrated specifically FOR the thing you always feared on some level would make you unloveable. I'm sorry your friends had negative experiences with assholes in this community, and I understand why feedist content might be upsetting/triggering to you. But I see people with odd kinks demonized more and more lately, and it sucks to see an account I respect spreading that kind of thinking, especially when by your own admission you don't engage with the content or know much about us.

Hi there! I just answered an ask similar to this one - turns out you're not the only person who feels passionately about this, and cares about your community. I hope you don't mind how long I took to answer this ask. I was incredibly burnt out and did not have the emotional bandwidth to give it the consideration it deserved, which is why I'm coming back to it now.

But you're right. When I made my initial post, I thought I knew enough about feedism to speak on it, because I'd not only heard a lot about it but personally known people who had negative experiences about it. I did not know of anybody who'd had positive, healthy, respectful experiences in which the safe, sane, and consensual boundaries of other kink communities were followed. I appreciate the passion you have when sharing about your community, and you're right that strange and unconventional kinks shouldn't be inherently demonized. Others have voiced that concern to me and for that reason, I did take down my post. I thought I knew enough about the topic to speak on it, but I have come to realize that's probably not true and I will try to be open to continue to learn more about this community when I do have that emotional bandwidth.

[pudgedork]

pinned post!

hey! realised I probably ought to do a pinned post, so here we are.

this is a strictly 18+ blog for feedism kink stuff! if you’re under 18 please go away! also a zero tolerance zone for any bigotry or ed content, and all that stuff.

I’m Pudge! I’m 24 years old, transfem non-binary (she/they) and from the UK (for my sins). I’m quite fond of feedism as you might’ve worked out. I guess I’m both a feedee and feeder? but tbh I prefer to say I’m just generally into feedism. I’ve been into fatness for as long as I can remember, but it took until I came out to really embrace this part of myself.

currently I’m not actively gaining, but I’m not not gaining, if you know what I mean. I’d describe myself as chubby rather than fat at the moment (~200 lbs), but we'll see what the future holds...

kink stuff:

generally I lean more towards soft feedism and the cosy/romantic side of things, but in a fantasy setting I can go for some of the more intense stuff (immobility, lighter health issues, etc)

light-hearted teasing/humiliation is a big yes, the more explicitly judgemental side of things less so

mutual gaining is my absolute favourite. super hot, but equally romantic and sweet. just very good content

✅ other aspects of feedism I like include outgrowing clothes/furniture/etc, gentle force or funnel feeding, burps/belly noises, and encouragement

⛔️ things I’m not keen on include inflation, messy/slob stuff (beyond very light examples), pregnancy/breeding, and vore

all fat bodies are rad! from slightly chubby to extremely fat territory, love it all

while I’m personally only attracted to women and femme enbies, all fatness enjoyers are more than welcome here! in my writing I generally try to write from a gender-neutral perspective, so that as many people can share in the squishiness appreciation as possible

other stuff:

I have a chronic illness that pretty much entirely dictates my day-to-day life, and means I don’t have much energy. posts will probably be a bit sporadic because of that, sorry!

fairly sure I’m autistic, but I’ve never been formally diagnosed. given how many times it’s been suggested I should look at pursuing one though, I think I’ve been diagnosed by committee at this point

started HRT fairly recently, so still very early in my transition

I’m a lesbian, but I’m not actively looking for a relationship right now

DMs are closed, sorry. I’m a pretty socially anxious person, so they’re a bit overwhelming for me. asks are cool though!

I really enjoy writing, which is mostly what I’ll post here. I’m very new to writing kink stuff, so it’s a bit of a learning experience, but one I’m enjoying

love music (though who doesn’t?), mostly punk but also like a bit of indie/alt rock and stuff like that. I’m not a musician though; I don’t have a musical bone in my body unfortunately

my hobbies are all pretty chilled out, partly out of necessity. video games and hours of reading about stuff I find interesting are how I spend a lot of my free time when I’m not resting. I also collect Pokemon cards, because I think the art’s neat :3 (definitely not beating the transfem stereotype allegations here)

I think that’ll do for now, hopefully you enjoy the contents of this blog <3