#I really appreciate adks like this because I always feel like I’m being dramatic or exaggerating or something so it’s nice

[werebutch]

i worry that your dad may be actively trying to sabotage you as a means of keeping you under his thumb. i wish i could somehow keep him away from you, i'm so sorry.

Probably. He’s said a million times that he wants me and my sisters dependent on him for like..ever. Until he dies I guess is his goal. Not in a cute aww-please-don’t-leave-me way, a creepy controlling way. Sometimes I think he does things without meaning to but him invading my privacy and being too nosy has been a problem since I was like 14. And even before that but I give him a pass for that stuff. He’s not a horrible guy he’s just really really really bad at being a father. Or a friend. Or really a person tbh LMFAO. I would much rather an absent father over …however you would describe him … 🤦 I’m jealous of all u guys BAHAHAH

You are very sweet though thank you. I’ll be moving in with my mom soon for a month or so (maybe longer we’ll see how it goes) so I’ll be around him a lot less. Just waiting on my mattress to be delivered lol and then I’m out of that house !