#I posted it on twitter originally but there is that one circle of envy shippers that I rlly don’t want to deal with I might delete it there

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What makes me feel icky is the misogyny when it comes to interpreting N x V like if the roles were reversed and N was a girl instead and V was a boy, would people label it as a toxic ship? I kept thinking about this because if you watched a dude attack a woman and slice her head off because he refused to tell the truth about the past of the two then would people call it toxic? Idk it seems like apparently current Envy gets a pass because V is a pretty girl instead of a guy. Would people defend V if she was a dude like they do when she’s a girl and would people hate N for defending “herself” in Episode 4 against V like they hated current N for that

I think that N and V’s relationship is more dysfunctional than abusive but at the same time, it definitely is also abusive in a way like it’s not normal for two people to start hurting each other emotionally and physically. I just find it odd how if the roles were switched I don’t think that Envy would’ve gotten the following that it did

For some reason when people acknowledge that V was hurting N both emotionally and physically toxic envy shippers would excuse that “V was just traumatised!” “N was about to kill Uzi in the pilot though!” “She was just protecting him!”

Trauma shouldn’t excuse hurting the people you care about, that would just make the situation way more worse, relationships are about trust and communication, obviously V and N are both traumatised, V was just the only one that remembered it but as I said that doesn’t excuse her actions, if she truly loved N she wouldn’t be doing this

Just a disclaimer, I’m not making V seem like the bad guy, N is not so innocent either, they both have issues that they should’ve worked out a long time ago, I just hate how people would immediately defend V but turn around and hate N for defending himself against her, if it really was the other way then there are chances that people wouldn’t be defending V but since she is a pretty girl people would defend her like no tomorrow, it’s just misogynistic in my eyes