#I know a lot of utter cunts who homeowners with high paying jobs cars and degrees

[goldfinchwrites]

Look I’m really sorry you have grievances with your brother but this isn’t saying anything outlandish at all. Shit happens and you can’t just bootstrap yourself into financial independence. The housing market is shit! The job market is shit! Driving lessons are really in demand and booking a test virtually impossible (also we all should be driving way less)! The education system fails a lot of children! Very often the reason people can’t achieve these things is because of poverty and disability neither of which are any sort of moral failing if you’re not a fucking ghoul and even if you have the means to and don’t want to that’s literally fine because none of these things make you a better more kind person

Can we stop using "still lives with their parents" or "unemployed" or "doesn't have a drivers license" or "didn't graduate high school" as an insult or evidence that someone is a bad person? Struggling with independence or meeting milestones is not a moral failing.