#I have fought so hard for every bit of traction I’ve gained and it has barely added up
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woke up feeling salty
#ooc tbd.#I just don’t think we can have the female oc convo without also including nb muses getting put in the back burner for cis male muses too#bc I have had that unfortunate experience for fucking#six years now?#I have fought so hard for every bit of traction I’ve gained and it has barely added up#I’m so grateful to the people who’ve given me a chance and have stuck around#but it’s not the amount of people that would have if io wasn’t so explicitly NOT a man#the times that I DID have more attention interest was when I tried to be more lax about pronouns and shit#and that was miserable#how can you look at me exclusively using they then pronouns every day all day for every response#and still willfully misgender my muse#and every time I’ve made a point of going out of my way#to point at io with a neon sign that says NOT A FUCKING MAN followers would drop like flies#so I think I have every right to be salty about this#negative tw#misgendering tw#I’ve made a lot of mistakes with them in the past and was a pushover#and I’m happy where I’m at now#bc their gender is respected#but god I still think about my experiences here a lot#and I try not to be salty I really do but.#and I’ve written female ocs too I’m not trying to belittle that conversation I just think that nonbinary and trans muses need included#in that convo too#or should be talked about the same way
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