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ghcstcd · 2 years ago

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but like you must understand i don't think anyone expects you to HAVE answers and designs and stuff? it's just questions! are you maybe not comfortable being asked things like that? do questions like that make you feel under pressure and maybe it's better if me & others don't ask things like that?

I'll be very honest with you, your message came across as very distressed to me. Full of anxiety and over explaining. Like I was doing something wrong by working slowly through what little material I've already made, and the fact that I hadn't gone further in depth, or perhaps thinking as you have, is wrong.

I love lore questions, I love discussions, but I won't lie to your face and say the way you presented them didn't make me feel as if I was doing something wrong and not catering to you specifically. Also, you were messaging me to reply because I hadn't replied to your other ask within 24 hours adds to that stress I feel. I don't know you. We're both strangers to each other online. Saying things akin to "no pressure but" does apply pressure.

#You kind of are pressuring me. and it's not just you #I'll say multiple times 'i don't have a design for Cirrus or Sunshine yet' and people don't listen and demand them #I don't usually publish those asks because it's clear it's falling on deaf ears #Everyone needs to remember that I don't know you and you don't know me #likely we know very little about each other #I try to be as respectful as possible because of that #your last few asks haven't felt respectful. they feel like we're both feeding each other's anxieties #I don't know if you're feeling anxiety! I can only tell you how it feels on my side of things #messages from beyond the ask box

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