#I can't find k in this but they must be a mod

[nat-a-nat]

I love jammer being in the chat, because of course he watches sams streams, that's a tier three subscriber right there

He probably loves spotting Evan and is also the only one not freaked out by him being creepy in the background

That's his boy-bestie <3

Post-canon idea of what happens when your local creepy extremely haunted bestie <3<3<3 moves in with you who is an extremely popular and famous streamer.

[badaziraphaletakes]

Hello! This isn't exactly Good Omens related, but I've seen this blog talk about "perfect trauma victims" vs actual trauma victims, so i figured one of the lovely mods might know!

One of my WIPs right now is an essay on the harmful effects of "perfect trauma victims" on actual trauma survivors. I know that Harry Potter is a good example of the "perfect trauma victim" stereotype, but was wondering if you could think of any others? (I was thinking Cinderella, but I'm not sure). As for good portrayls of trauma survivors, I am planning on citing Aziraphale, but would Angel Dust from Hazbin Hotel be valid, and are there any others?

Also, as another source: how would you define a perfect trauma victim versus a trauma survivor?

Thank you! Y'all are seriously doing Gods' work with this blog.

Cinderella is an interesting one because it's such an old story and has been retold in so many different ways that there's probably a version of Cinderella to fit any occasion. If we're talking about the Disney movie, then yes I would definitely cite her as a perfect trauma victim stereotype.

(I haven't watched Hazbin Hotel yet, so I can't speak on that. I'm starting to feel like this is a fail on my part.)

Another good portrayal of a trauma survivor might be Sarah Connor in Terminator 2: Judgment Day. In the first movie she was a pretty, helpless waitress who got yanked out of her comfortable existence and forced to endure horrifying things. In the second movie, she's hardened and unsympathetic. Her son tries to hug her, and she ignores his affection in favor of patting him all over, looking for injuries. Her character arc culminates in an attempt to k*ll an innocent researcher in front of his family in an attempt to change the future. The overall theme of the movie is that humanity will save humanity, and recognizing the value of human life is the ultimate goal for a happy future.

(I did not notice the Good Omens parallels until I typed that out just now. Neat.)

A perfect trauma victim is a societal myth that hurts real trauma survivors. It's a stereotype portrayed as a person that reduces survivors to a one-dimensional trope. It implies that if a trauma survivor is unlikable or makes bad choices, then somehow they deserve what happened to them or somehow brought it on themselves. Or that they're not a "real" victim; they must be lying or faking it if they don't act just right. In criminal trials, juries are tempted to find for the defense when the accuser turns out to have committed unrelated crimes or had a nontraditional sex life.

A trauma survivor is more difficult to write because they're more complex. They behave as real people would and are a complex blend of internal and external influences. They make choices that fans might not understand or approve of, but in terms of their own survival it makes sense. Like going along with a powerful, dangerous superior instead of telling him where to stick it, so that one and one's companion can live to fight another day. You know, hypothetically. :)

Hope this helps! <3

[nagito-komaeda428]

on anon because this guy had my tumblr and im scared im SHITTING MYSELF tbh but im the musical recs girl hi thats me u will never guess who i am 🎀

but nagito komaeda i must inform thee that this guy that got angry at me for spending time w someone im closer to sent a news article about a random severely detailed crime in my area and ykw i reckon if nagito thinks “thats weird” then it has to be unusual

but anyways hi nagito komaeda how we feeling today

- emojiless anon ill figure it out

(BSHWHHAHA THANK U NAGITO MOD FOR LETTING ME TALK TO NAGITO KOMAEDA AB THIS IDK WHY THATS SUCH A FUNNY IDEA TO ME HES JST LIKE “?????”)

Ah, I've seen Hajime receive asks like this before. It's truly an honor to be entrusted with something like this...

...

Jeez... I'm not even sure what this guy's problem is. There's a lot to unpack here-- I think we should just throw away the entire suitcase, honestly.

Some guys really can't just leave people alone... even someone as low as me understands that there are boundaries. What was his intention with sending you something like that? Really...

And the fact that you have to hide behind an anonymous button in fear of him finding this ask... truly detestable. You should never have to live in fear, K-- uhm, Anon.

[himbo-only-zone]

kaito momota || fluff alphabet

Highest kin time! He is loved, but he deserves more love. So give him more love.

- Mod Anna

a. attractive. what does he find attractive about you? he's a personality centric man, so i think that'd be his go-to for you! if you're dating him, you must get along with him pretty well, and that's all he really wants.

b. baby. does he want a family? he's cool with whatever you want, honestly. if you want kids, he'd love some, but if not he understands. it is your body and all, he wouldn't want to make you go through something like that. if you do, he'd be so supportive. by your side at all times. loving husband kaito.

c. cuddles. how does he cuddle? classic spooning position. he wants to be able to hold you snugly! he usually lays behind you, his arm carefully around his waist and his face buried in your neck. if he's having a bad day, though, he'll ask you to turn around and face him so that you can press your foreheads together. he just wants to look you in the eyes. he'll know that it's alright.

d. dates. what are the dates like? extremely fun! anything with kaito is a mystery, if we're being honest. one day he'll take you stargazing at a mountain top, you two alone, just cuddling as he rambled on about constellations. the next, he'll be taking you to an axe throwing place because it looked cool and he wanted to show off. never a dull moment.

e. everything. what are you to him? (ex. you are my _____) you're his galaxy! something he wants to know inside and out, something that he'll never get bored of!

f. feelings. when did he realize that he was in love? you two were hanging out with a bunch of friends, but everyone had left for the night. you and him were both waiting on rides. you sat on a park bench and talked for a little while, small smiles on each of your faces. the way the stars illuminated your hair that night ... it sent kaito over the moon.

g. gentle. is he gentle with you? it depends on the moment. if you guys are having fun, he'll totally push you down a little and nuggie the absolute shit out of you. if you're feeling down and need a hug, he'll treat you with a lot of care. he touches are so gentle, you'd never think kaito would be this way.

h. hands. does he hold hands with you? you guys usually hold pinkies. he gets really nervous because he thinks his hands are sweaty, and then he saw the pinky thing, and then he was determined. if it's really cold out, you guys will hold hands in his jacket pocket.

i. impression. what was his first impression of you? pretty. he immediately saw you and recognized how beautiful you were, but quickly shoved it back to try and make a good impression. he was a tad nervous, but it faded away as you two realized you got along so well.

j. jealousy. does he get jealous often? occasionally. he's really oblivious to that sort of thing most of the time, but if someone outright says something, he's all over them. he's holding you to his chest and covering you up with his jacket, glaring and chewing them out. you can't help but think it's adorable.

k. kiss. how are his kisses? who initiated the first kiss? his kisses are really soft, normally on the temple or cheeks. if he's feeling flirty, he might be dramatic and dip you into a passionate one, that's rare, though. he kissed you first. he was driving you home from a get together with everyone and while you two sat in the driveway ... he took your hand and held it for a moment. you stared into his eyes before he eventually leaned over and kissed you.

l. love. who said “i love you” first? he did. he was very romantic about the whole thing. you were up on a hill, staring up at the stars, laying against his chest. he brushed his hands through your hair before cupping your cheek and smiling. “i love you,” he whispered faintly. you happily said it back.

m. memory. what's his favorite memory of you? before you two started dating, you were playing pictionary with everyone. you two were on a team together, and you were (very sloppily) drawing a cactus. he couldn't figure it out, and it ended in you violently yelling and him wheezing on the couch.

n. nickel. how much money does he spend on you? he doesn't really feel the need to, but he does pay for dates. dates are usually home-made because that's his specialty, but he'll go pretty far out once a month to make you a bit happier. only because you deserve it.

o. orange. what color reminds him of you? blue reminds him of you, probably because of the night sky. that night when it illuminated your face so perfectly, it stuck with him. he always associates you with a dark, navy blue.

p. pet names. what pet names does he use for you? he honestly calls you dude a lot of the time. if he's in a loving mood, it'll be babe or hon, but nothing that big. once in a while you'll hear darling, and it'll melt your heart, honestly.

q. quaint. what is something non-modern that he does? he likes candlelit dinners. if he's feeling really special, he'll turn out all of the lights and just light candles. he might even find a older style record player and put something on to slow dance with. he looks really cute with that warm lighting.

r. rainy day. what do you two do together on a rainy day? board games!! he loves board games, it's insane. he was super super hyped up when it started raining, and you wondered why. once you saw him dash in with monopoly, you knew where this day was headed.

s. sad. what does he do to cheer you up? he'll sit you down and hold your hand. he'll let you tell him what's wrong before he starts giving you a motivational speech. he's honest, and he'll show you all the passion that he has I'm his heart for you. he then pulls you into his lap and holds you there for a while. you're not getting out anytime soon.

t. talking. what does he like to talk about? astronomy is a given, he loves rambling on about the stars. if it isn't that, he loves talking about his friends!! like he'll just ramble on about how proud he is that shuichi made eye contact with kaede while he was speaking with her. it's really sweet, honestly.

u. unencumbered. what helps him relax? sneak up behind him and hug him!! he's not really an upright person, but if he's more tense than usual, surprise hug him. he'll love it, it makes him feel so loved. he does appreciate it, and he'll always thank you for things like that afterwards.

v. vaunt. does he like to show you off? yes. he loves it. if you're looking like a boss ass bitch that day, which is every day in his eyes, and you're hanging out with friends? oh lord. you walk in and he'll hold his arms out at you, smiling like an idiot. you'll say some praise and say something like “do a pose.” he's a huge dork. he's your dork.

w. wedding. how, when, and where does he propose? he proposes about a year in, not too long but not too short. he takes you to the park, that's extremely empty, and you say down in the grass. everything is so peaceful, and he gently takes your hand and looks down at you. he carefully pulls a ring out of his pocket. “i know is kinda- uh- sudden, but ... you're the only one i want in my life, and i wanna make you mine. so ... will you give me a chance and marry me?” of course you will.

x. xylophone. what song reminds him of you? what's your theme song? fly me to the moon by frank sinatra reminds him of you, that's a given. your theme song is slow dancing in the dark by joji!

y. yes. does he want to get married? of course he does!! he's pretty traditional, honestly. he understands if you don't, but you'd see him kind of sulking about it later. it's not something that has to happen, but he wants it.

z. zebra. if he were to get a pet, what would he get? even though he acts like a dog, i can see him really wanting a cat. he just wants to baby it. seeing him with a cat curled up in his lap is absolutely adorable! he would name it luna or something like that.

[sasuhinamonth]

I can't find anything in your rules and FAQ about what kinds of elements are not allowed. Such as triggering things. What kinds of things can't we draw/write?

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[lesbian-ed]

Hi! I'm really shy, but have a question and I think you guys can answer it better than anyone I know, so here's the thing: what if I know that I'm a lesbian, but when someone asks me, I just can't say it out loud? I will say that yeah, yeah, I like girls, but I can't get the word "lesbian" out of my mouth. I don't know why, because I'm definitely out of the closet though (I'm a butch so it's pretty visible I'm gay). Any advice? Does it happen to anyone else but me? Thanks in advance

Hello, anon!

I’ve been in your shoes. I’ve always been visibly gay as well, so it really was a bit strange to not be able to say the word ‘lesbian’ out loud in those first few years. To me, there was even the fact that, in my country, the word for it has the /k/ phoneme at the end (we say ‘lésbica’), which gives it a very striking sound – there’s no ignoring the word if someone says it aloud; you’re gonna attract attention when you say it.

‘Gay’ ended up being my go-to word in those times. Everyone knew what it meant and it sounded ‘friendlier’ – it wasn’t about wanting to distance myself from ‘rabid, hairy lesbians swinging axes and killing men’ (I always wanted to be nearer to this mythological creature that apparently inhabits the public consciousness, tbqh), it was just shame, I suppose. We all have to deal with our internalized lesbophobia at some point and I had tons of it to sort through. And even though I’m butch, I wasn’t out to my family for quite a while, so there was this half-life I was living: being out to the world and at the same time just formally undefined within my own house. In fact, it’s still hard to say ‘lesbian’, to people in my family, even if it’s not about me, though I’ve been daring lately.

Maybe that’s the answer, though, daring to say it. Not to everyone in the world, of course, you’re not going to get on a bus and randomly tell the driver, ‘good morning, I’m a lesbian’! But if you’re around trusted friends, if you’re in an environment where you can be open about it – why fall back on euphemisms? Why should we ever be ashamed of being who we are?

I’ve said it in another post, but lesbian carries meaning: it has weight, it has a history and it has pride. The fact that we hear this word being thrown around lightly, that we’re subjected to heterosexuals’ leers and frowns and derisive chuckles should not shame us out of our own word.

And it is ours, say others what they may, because none of the others available translate the certainty it does; it doesn’t have that nebulous and frankly juvenile connotation that comes with ‘sapphic’; it doesn’t encompass bisexuality as the useless ‘wlw’ acronym does; it doesn’t include homosexual men as ‘gay’ does; it isn’t as completely meaningless and all-embracing (when not offensive) as ‘queer’ – lesbian is clear-cut. It’s beautiful, it’s powerful to recognize yourself in a definition without having to explain further and to know that it holds not just yourself, but a whole plethora of women who are just like you; it’s amazing to know that, listen, strictly homosexual women actually exist and we’ve existed since the dawn of time -- and we have a word for that! Language is sometimes so lacking, but we have a word that speaks to us. Heteros have tried to take it (be it men stealing it to describe their vile pornographic creations or women co-opting it to justify their political leanings), the trans/q*eer crowd is trying to take it (and erase its meaning and us in the process), but they can’t have it. Try as they might, they cannot and shall not have it.

We are lesbians. And we shall not be made to feel ashamed of it, we shall not be scared off by the word that defines us.

See, daring to find strength in the word is a start – and there is so much strength in knowing who you are, there is so much strength in our recognizing ourselves, even though society tries to hide our natural existence at every cost, tries to make us believe we are hysteric, ill, gross… They can tell all the lies they want, but we, lesbians, are here, we’ve always been here.

I don’t know when things changed and I dropped other words, I don’t know when it will happen to you. But it started when I understood all that is contained in this simple little word, when I read it as a lesbian rather than with the glasses heterosexist society had given me; when it wasn’t heterosexuals’ twisted ideas of us, but when it translated our history, when it brought to mind all the lesbians that came before me – the writers I admire, the artists, the scientists, but also the ‘common’ lesbians who managed to live their lives authentically in defiance of the established order just by loving their partners fully, even if their names have not been passed down onto us…

A few days ago, I went out with an old friend of mine who was there when I first came out. In those times, I don’t think lesbian ever passed my lips. Now? I wear it with honour, I speak it with respect, love, passion. For it is mine, I am it; it does not limit me, it has freed me. And by heavens, it’s a beautiful word and although I was just born like this out of some random occurence in nature, I’m damn fucking proud of being a lesbian.

Say it, write it, roll it around on your tongue, anon. Strip it of the negative meanings others have associated with it, meanings that have nothing to do with it or with us. Dare to name yourself, dare to be. Slowly if you must, but surely.

/Mod T