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divinekangaroo · 1 year ago

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I frequently fantasise about divorce with 50% custody of the kids, not because I dislike my husband specifically, but because I hunger so intently for that fantasy of being able to live all on my own in a studio apartment with no evidence of any other person’s stuff in my space.

A one week on, one week off parenting and householding roster, really

#He takes the bulk of household work so this isn’t about the usual mental load / unfair housework thing #I just wasn’t made for living w people full time #Maybe a three week cycle #one week alone | one week kids only | one week all together #We would rotate out of our separate one bedroom apartments into the kids’ house #Rich people fantasies? Because this requires three properties!#also it’s not a fantasy about never having had kids or not being with him because I’d go nuts all on my own too #it’s just an introvert fantasy I suppose

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