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#He fluctuates between golden retriever energy and black cat
imconfusedbutok · 4 months
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My boyfriend has anxiety and I have adhd which makes for some pretty strange things we talk about/do
Had a whole conversation about eating habits
I tend to be spontaneous while he takes his time to decide on things and often asks for my help/advice
He sees me as funny and cute because I’m forgetful
he actually loves how I ramble and stim and keysmash
We don’t have to explain ourselves a whole lot because we have similar mental illnesses (both have anxiety/depression)
when one of us needs a break/is overstimulated we listen to the same type of music to distract ourselves
I can respect his boundaries and usually let him touch me instead of me touching him because he doesn’t much like physical touch/physical affection
both like receiving/giving gifts as a neurodivergent love language
I get confused/lost easily and he explains it so I can process
In short my boyfriend is the best and I love him
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