#GojyoHC

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when an ex boyfriend or crush tries to get back in the life of their s/o? For Sanzo and Gojyo (Saiyuki)

☰ Sanzo

■ He really doesn’t seem all that concerned at first unless your ex comes on very strong or pushy about getting back into your life, like blatantly flirting with you or trying to talk about getting back together or anything like that especially in front of him. Which then he can become very annoyed and hostile about the situation.

■ But even then, he’s not immediately threatening and doesn’t step in to confront them immediately, he will prefer to talk to you about it because if you want to handle it he’ll let you or if you want his help dealing with the situation he’ll step in, he would just rather see how you want to handle it first.

■ Though he can lose his patience if it’s taking too long to resolve or the guy just isn’t getting the message. He’s most likely to step in and confront the guy after he’s already had a long day and he’s already irritated and the guy tries to approach you or talk to you, which can make him really explode on the guy.

■ He can become very physically hostile and threatening towards the guy just because he’s annoyed and kind of snaps on the guy. And at this point it won’t matter if you want to handle the situation or not, because he’ll be mad and just wants to make it clear that he needs to take the hint and stay very far away from you.

■ However, he can be far more threatening and violent if your ex has been more aggressive or persistent about getting back in your life, like stalking you, touching you inappropriately or being pushy or forceful about getting back with you or into your life after you’ve already said no or told him off.

■ He never once thinks you’ll leave him for your ex or go back to your ex or anything like that, he trusts you completely. But he will not like your ex being in your life even just as a friend, especially if it was a bad relationship just for your sake.

☰ Gojyo

■ Immediately takes notice and won’t want you to have anything to do with your ex and can be very protective of you. So, whether the guy comes onto you strong or in a subtle way or wanting to be just friends with you on to get back together with you he’s quick to step in and tell the guy to back off and leave you alone.

■ However, he will not become very aggressive or threatening towards the person at first, instead he can actually show a more playful attitude about the situation. More like "You had your chance and blew it." and will suggest the guy get over it and more on because you’re with him now.

■ Never even really considers the idea that you would leave him or cheat on him because he trusts you a lot and doesn’t see it happening, unless for any reason you seem to defend your ex for any reason or if you insist that he lets you handle the situation, then he can grow more suspicious, particularly if the situation doesn’t get resolved quickly.

■ If the situation doesn’t get resolved quickly or if he feels like the guy is being inappropriate or more aggressive with you then he can address the situation in a for more physically threatening way because he will not stand for anyone making you uncomfortable or feeling worried or scared.

■ Will likely be very physically violent and threatening with the guy and will make a point to hurt the guy to drive the point home that he needs to leave you alone and stay away from you, that doesn’t mean he’ll mortally wound the guy but he will rough the guy up, especially if the guy just won’t back off.

■ More than anything he’s more focused on making sure you are okay and kept safe and if he gets aggressive with the guy it’s more to send a message because he’s concerned about you and your safety and he’s not afraid to get very violent in order to protect you if the guy is harassing you.

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            LOVE LANGUAGES TEST.

people show & recognize love in different ways: gift giving, words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, & acts of service. these different ways are called love languages, & while everyone understands a little of each language, we all speak & understand one or two better than we do the others. our love language is how we most feel loved.

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Gojyo responds to physical touch

For you, love is as simple as a caress. Where ever it happens, how ever long it lasts or how it is: it could be just holding hands while walking about, having a quick cuddle once the kids are in bed, stealing a kiss here and there, exchanging touches while passing each other in the hallway, and of course making love, particularly in the warming up phase – body to body, skin against skin… Physical touch is security and reassurance for you and makes you sure that your partner loves you. On the contrary, the absence of physical contact hurts you deeply and you can feel ill treated or rejected and you close down emotionally. But when your partner communicates in your love language, it touches you deeply inside, creating strong emotional intimacy that opens you to yourself and to your partner. Some advice: Every person has his or her own geography when it comes to bodily touch. Don’t think that touching them in a way that pleases you will necessarily please them and vica-versa. It’s important to verbally confirm the touches and caresses that you like, ‘You know I love it when you hold my hand… ‘I like it when you brush against me while passing by’ or ‘I adore when you take me in your arms’. You can invent a couple’s game to make your partner guess which styles of caress you like and which zones of your body are more receptive (Getting hotter, getting colder… ) If you are seriously lacking contact, begin by explaining to your partner how you operate in sensorial terms and perhaps invite them to find 5 different ways of physical contact during the day.

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Hi! I have a request for Saiyuki please! So, my question is: for Hakkai and Gojyo, can we get cuddling headcanons? (Like, any preferred positions, are they a cuddly person, who instigates, anything you choose that's related to cuddling.) Thank you! I love all of your writing and I'm so happy you write for Saiyuki! ❤️

☰ Hakkai

■ Doesn’t often instigate cuddles and only will if the two of you are alone, he’s also more prone to instigating cuddles if he feels like something is on your mind or you seem distraught or depressed because he will want to try and cheer you up.

■ Likes cuddling with you however it is most comfortable or practical at the time or where the two of you are, but often times prefers to cuddle with you sitting next to you, putting his arm around you, stroking your hair because he typically likes sitting next to you.

■ He will also like cuddling with you facing you, such as him lying on his back and your lying next to him on your side or stomach resting your head on his chest. But he will also like you leaning against him while sitting next to him or resting your head in his lap and vice versa.

■ Is very gentle and loving with you and tends to wait for you to instigate things or at least show interest in being close or cuddly with him, which he will always respond positively because he does like being near you and cuddling with you.

☰ Gojyo

■ Will instigate affectionate acts and cuddles with you pretty frequently because he really does like being affectionate and close to you, though he can also try to instigate or push things further than this at times especially when the two of you are alone. Though he’s not shy when it comes to PDA either.

■ Has a tendency to cuddle with you the most from behind and initiates cuddles from behind, with your back to his chest. Leaning against you or hugging you and wrapping his arms around your waist or stomach, especially when he’s bored or when he wants your attention particularly at times when you are busy.

■ He will prefer cuddling with you in bed just finding it more comfortable and even when lying down he will like cuddling with your back to his chest, he tends to stroke or play with your hair or run his fingertips along your arms, sides or stomach. When not in bed he will like sitting behind you and cuddling with you, having you either sitting between his legs or even on his lap and will often rest his chin on your shoulder or the top of your head.

■ Will always respond positively if you want to cuddle or if you try to instigate things because he will often beat you too it, but will absolutely adore you instigating cuddles with him. He also has a habit of kissing the top of your head, your forehead, cheek or your hand when cuddling with you and will like holding hands with you when cuddling.

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nsfw headcanons for gojyo?

■Will try to instigate sex with you fairly often or any sexual acts with you anytime when the two of you are alone even if that means finding an empty room ora place the two of you can be alone, though he’s not overly worried aboutanyone walking in on the two of you.

■He likes cuddling, making out and taking time with foreplay when he can andwill leave marks and hickeys on you unless you stop him, some could be easy tohide while others he may make fairly obvious and trails kisses from your lips,jaw, neck and collarbones.

■Can be quite open minded to new ideas and kinks in the bedroom and will beinterested in what you would like to try, he’s neither strongly dominant orsubmissive and can play either role to some degree though he does prefer to bethe one in control but can also find it a turn on if you like to be thedominant one calling the shots.

■Is comfortable with oral sex but would prefer regular sex and can be prettypushy when he wants sex but won’t force it, tends to prefer doggy style ormissionary when the two of you can but also likes sitting you on a table orsuch while he stands or bending you over a table while thrusting into you frombehind.

■He often times will pin your hands down when your lying on your back, or holdsyour waist or hips to pull you closer against him for he can thrust deeper intoyou. His pace can vary from fast and rough to slow and gentle though he isalways fairly passionate and loving.

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Headcannon on how Gojyo and Hakkai handle first dates

☰ Gojyo

■ Is verycomfortable with first dates and isn’t nervous about it either though he willprefer for you to come up with ideas for the first date for it’s something thathe knows you want to do and have fun with. But if you don’t want to decide he’llgladly come up with something to do.

■ He willprefer something rather simple for the first date for the two of you can get toknow each other on a deeper level, so something like going for lunch and goingfor a walk, to a festival or zoo will be enough for him for the two of you canspend most of the time talking.

■ He will berather flirty and suggestive with you and even affectionate not to the extremebut will try to hold your hand and will hug you, though unlikely to try and kissyou on the first date. Even though he may want to he won’t just to keep fromscaring you off or making you feel uncomfortable.

■ Gojyo will befairly polite and respectful towards you but at the same time he will behimself and may even tease you if an opportunity arises, but he won’t pretendto be someone he’s not just to impress you on the first date.

■ He willprefer to do something that will be special and memorable for you even if hehas to get you a special present or even take you somewhere more special orromantic. But he really won’t plan to go that far on the first date unless thetwo of you have been friends for awhile and he really wants to win you over.

■ Will havequite a bit of questions for you to get to know you better though he can seem abit more unwilling or hesitant to talk about himself very much especially whenit comes to more serious info or about his childhood and such, he can be ratherquick to change the subject.

☰ Hakkai

■ Hakkai isvery polite and a great listener and will push for you to open up and talk moreabout yourself, wanting to hear about your interests, dislikes, hobbies andsuch and really getting to know you more to see if the two of you really haveenough in common to have a relationship.

■ He will not bevery affectionate towards you on the first date and won’t try to do anythingaffectionate with you no matter how simple it is, and he certainly won’t tryfor a first kiss either. In fact, it can take a while of dating before he willcome around to being comfortable with affectionate gestures.

■ Hakkai isvery comfortable with doing just about anything with you for a first date andwill prefer for you to decide what the two of you do, but if you don’t want topick he’ll decide on something simple lunch or coffee at a simple restaurant orcafé, then off to a museum, garden, walk through the forest or something similar.

■ He is verykind and compliments you for how you look or for particular hobbies or skillsthat you have, such as if he thinks your hair looks nice or if you look cute aswell as if he learns you have different skills like cooking, crocheting,gardening, etc.

■ Hakkai canseem a little distant or hesitant about an actual romantic relationship, and itcan take awhile before he really seems to show genuine feelings for you even ifhe falls for you pretty quickly, he just doesn’t show or express his love foryou quickly.

■ He can berather chivalrous and motherly towards you like if you are too cold he’ll get youinside or somewhere warmer, or if you seem nervous he’ll be very comforting andtry to get you to feel more at ease with the situation and can seem prettyattentive and cautious with your safety.

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Headcanons for Gojou and Dokugakuji with a short s/o (around Gokuu's height) please?

☰ Gojyo

■ Finds theheight difference absolutely amusing and cute but that won’t stop him fromoccasionally teasing you especially in times when you’re struggling to reachsomething or your height is causing some kind of problem for you.

■ Has atendency to touch your head and hair often, running his fingers through yourhair or tousling your hair, or even twirling strands around his fingers especiallyif you have long hair, and he will lift you up when he hugs you.

■ Will refer toyou as little a lot or use nicknames referring to your shortness, though notall the nicknames are in a teasing or negative way. Some nicknames he’ll use ina loving or endearing way though it’s something he’ll really only keep doing ifyou seem cool with it.

■ Has a habitof hugging you from behind and resting his chin on the top of your head as wellas pulling you to sit on his lap at times especially when he’s trying to be lovingand affectionate with you and trying to instigate some cuddling.

☰ Dokugakuji

■ Doesn’tmention your height much unless you mention the height difference, such as ifyou tease him for being tall or make comments about how much taller he is thanyou. Though generally he’ll just go along with it but can occasionally teaseyou or smile/laugh over the height difference depending on the situation.

■ He does havea habit of picking you up or carrying you especially in serious or dangeroussituations because he can be very protective over you and will worry about yoursafety. Because of this he can be quick to pick you up and remove you from asituation or move you to a safer distance.

■ Canaccidentally bump into you at times because you are so much shorter than him,such as if you are following him and he turns around to say something to you hemay bump into you because he doesn’t immediately see you due to your height.

■ Often times he’llhug you from behind and wrap his arms around your shoulders or will pull you againsthis chest and into a hug, but in general he doesn’t mention your height much orpoint it out because he won’t want you to feel like he’s making fun of yourheight, though he does find your short stature to be adorable.

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How would Gojyo react if his S/O said she was pregnant? (AU were Gojyo is fertil)

■Extremely surprised and initially won’t seem happy or upset, just stunnedespecially if the two of you weren’t trying to get pregnant. He will be leftquite speechless for a few minutes which could give you the impression that he’snot happy about the news.

■He actually will be happy about the news and comes around pretty quickly,showing a genuine happiness over the news, especially if you are happy andexcited about the news, he will show a real sense of enthusiasm for the news.

■However, while he will be happy about it the news will be surprising and he canhave moments that he’ll worry or be concerned, mostly worry about being afather and feeling like he may not be very well suited to being a parent ingeneral though he’ll try to hide his concerns.

■His interest and happiness over the situation will get better in time as youget further along in the pregnancy and the more the two of you talk about itand the future together in general.