#Gnc advice

[gnc-culture-is]

Do you have any tips for dressing and presenting fem with a mustache?

I’m a feminine enby who shares a body with a dude. He loves his mustache. He grew up infantilized and belittled, so it’s proof that he is in fact an adult man. I’m not going to make him shave it. But it definitely makes me feel less feminine. I want to dress like a fairy princess. But fairy princesses don’t have mustaches.

Firstly. Fairy princesses *do* have moustaches. You yourself are proof of this. I have met many women who have moustaches.

Secondly. You can cover your moustache with makeup. Here’s a guide targeted at cis women, but you may also want to look at guides written by and for drag queens.

Failing that: You can temporarily tint it with colored hair wax. Coordinate it with your outfits if it pleases you.

[good-to-drive]

I think we should stop saying Paul was basically a woman and start saying Ringo was basically a woman, not because it's any less stupid but because it's exactly as stupid and much much funnier

[nosleep83]

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[candy8448]

Thinking of redesigning the blog banner for my @yourbigendergremlet blog

Im the real thing i will properly colour pick everything and draw it properly, this is just a concept drawing ig

Anything i should add or change?

Please, i want your opinions

Or i could do this

Which look better?

[our-gnc-experience]

slight vent.

(hyper)fem trans man gnc experience is not feeling welcome anymore with the recent rise of people hating fem trans men (tiktok). esp the ones with big chests or chests at all. wish i could attach screenshots because its vile af and has thousands if not a million likes. but i want to stay anonymous. it went something along the lines of "when the glamour he/they with d cups is surprised about me misgendering him" and it had 1.6 MILLION likes. i genuinely hate existing as a transmasc atm. genuinely.

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[peachie-kittie]

Gender is a fuck. Am I woman? No, but maybe. I'm definitely no man. Might be nonbinary honestly, like a nonbinary woman. But since I'm afab that feels weird to say.

Wanna experience genderfuckery but like. Not sure how. It's all a fuck and I feel kinda lost lmao. Should I even care???

Hard to tell what is and isn't ocd rn (dw m not majorly distressed just mildly annoyed and confused)

[gardenof--eden]

sometimes i think i should be a boy

[the-maddened-hatter]

They would all have the same information, just different titles to be less conspicuous for people in different situations (the original idea was for younger people who may still be in school)

. If you do think it would be a good idea please comment some name ideas! <3

[our-trans-gnc-experience]

Hi, I’m a trans and non-binary person. While I usually consider myself trans-masc, I’m starting to wonder whether I’m just considering myself trans masculine specifically (and not just generally trans and androgynous) as a way of making up for what feels like parts of my body that are perceived by others as inherently feminine. I am pre top surgery, quite short, and have what I consider to be a feminine looking face (though that could just be the dysphoria talking).

 Sometimes I’d love to wear a dress, but in the way that a boy can wear a dress. Sometimes I’d love to dress in a suit, but in a distinctly queer way. I just want to be gnc, and it feels like in order to do that I have to dress masculine all of the time, to make up for my other physical characteristics. I want to be able to dress how I’d like.

I know there is the obvious “stop caring about what others think” solution, but that’s really hard for me because I also have OCD and struggle with intrusive thoughts related my dysphoria (and people’s perception of my gender presentation).

Sorry if this doesn’t make sense, and if there are any typos. I’d really appreciate any advice from anyone!

Sorry anon but I don't know how to help with this, I hope someone else can help though

[gnc-culture-is]

got this ask but tumblr won’t let me answer it.

I have two questions that are intertwined. hope its okay + makes sense.

at what frequency does my GNC have to be to be called it? like, if i only wear a skirt and paint my nails sometimes, can i still call myself GNC?

in a similar vain, for a while ive also considered myself GNC because im a trans man. like, whatever my presentation is, it is non-conforming to what is expected of me. if i present masc, im seen as non-conforming to my birth sex. if i present fem, im seen as non-conforming to my gender. is that a valid definition for me to use? i know thats not the typical one used

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yes that’s enough. Frequency is not the deciding factor. The fact you do this At All and Want To Continue is enough.

You have just told me two ways you do not conform to your gender, both the one you are in actual possession of and the one you have been told you should have. I don’t know the nuances of your gender and if you still align yourself with your given gender in addition to being a man, however;

You’re valid, you’re fine. Keep living your life. You don’t need my blessing but you have it.

[queer-queries]

Okay, I have a question and I’m not sure if this is even appropriate to ask, but I saw the other tomboy ask and this hasnt left my brain since

I’m straight. Not gay. Im a girl and I like men.

But I’m also very masculine for a girl, growing up I was called a tomboy, and now I’m often mistaken for a lesbian.

Now. I know that butch is a term used in the lesbian community to describe masculine women, right? So I would assume that *I* couldnt use that word to describe me since I’m not a lesbian even though I’m masculine? Is there perhaps a different word to describe masculine women who are not lesbians besides tomboy, which sounds more childish?

hey friend!! you're absolutely not alone in this experience! as a butch lesbian myself, i so so appreciate your willingness to respect that butch is often seen as a lesbian-exclusive term, but it's really more just a queer-exclusive term. it's largely thought to be a lesbian/sapphic term, but it's really applicable to any queer person who experiences masculinity through a butch lens!

onto your question though, the label i'm most familiar with is azurgirl! i hope that works for you :)

[farmerlesbian]

i have been enjoying the asks y’all have sent in lately! it usually takes me a couple days to a couple weeks to answer asks so i hope y’all anons who send em in do eventually see the answer when i post it. i really do hope you find it helpful!

[bigenderblahaj]

Hello trans/gnc tumblr. I have just been presented with an opportunity to buy a chest binder for the first time. I am not in a situation where my parents can know, so I'm looking for advice. What is the best binder/ binding brand? I don't really care about price (I've been saving money), I just care about quality (true to size, not going to cause damage, etc.), since I can't return it after I order it. Advice is greatly appreciated from those who bind/ know someone who does.

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