#Gender is a fuck

[victusinveritas]

[stratica]

Its whatever you want it to be-

-I felt like I needed to draw this as a reminder for myself, but also sharing as a reminder for others too. You're not alone

[undefbug]

all i do is make my silly little genderqueer self portraits and wonder if all the confusion and hurt is worth it in the end

[strawberrycowtime]

genderbend franziska go!!!!

[blackmore62]

bro what the fuck even is gender anymore when I see someone hot I don't even try to determine their gender internally I just think yep that's a violently attractive person and get on with my day

[despair-tea]

one thing I dislike is the sophomoric idea that society should, naturally, move towards a completely genderless model. I get where it's coming from, but it assumes an impossible level of homogeneity rather than accepting that - in the infinity of genders that DO and WILL exist - there are some which will take familiar forms and patterns and names.

Like, look, I don't live in the androgynous future ze're imaging. But if I did I would still feel alienated and out-of-place in a slightly different way from the way I felt growing up under gendered capitalism. Because I'm not genderless, and I know damn well that I'd still feel some calling to change... something about myself. Even without words like "woman" or "witch."

It's a nice dream. it might be comforting to some. But it seems like an airy fantasy to me, and not one I can see myself living in.

Obviously I agree that the barriers between genders need to be broken down. Obviously I don't think the traditional gender roles as our society sells them to us are working. But the future I see has more kinds of people and not less.

[burningneonstarlight]

Fuck gender that shits lame, let's just like vibe and shit

[chridys-space]

There's something just really funny about seeing my new pronouns in an official document with my full, very masculine name

[sparkmender]

tbh I was unsure if I should have Rung be Rung or Ruth. For human au stuff I sometimes have Rung as a lady, but I’m not sure what the vibe is here, so!

[dysphoric-158bpm-amen-break]

Should an egg like me be allowed to have this much power?

So as a little experiment to see if I can trans-pass without HRT, today I went to a local mall and went to the women's bathrooms to wash my hands real quick (I was eating churros when I came up with the idea and my hands were sticky).

Not even a fucking glance of suspicion. I must have looked like an average cis lesbian to them. There are literal thousands of trans woman working every day to be a little more trans-passable by society and my egg ass in denial just gets it for free.

Still cis tho, 100% sure, no doubt about it.

[princessofgames]

gay femmes and butch lesbians can fuck eachother. Peace and love on planet Earth

[raindrop2401]

"Any/all" but in an apathetic, kinda nihilistic way

[trainsgenderjamie]

I have got to get myself some tits. Like holy FUCK I am not enough of a genderfuck i am not enough of just a big question mark. I want people to see me and be confused. I want people to look at my body and say "that is a woman" and then look further down and doubt everything they know about me. I want to be the gender. I need to be the penultimate expression of both genders and yet neither at the same time.

I need to start taking Estrogen dude what the fuck. Genderfluidity is a bitch

[kerbedotjpeg]

beware the pipeline she/her to she/they to they/them to he/they to they/them to he/him to they/them to any/all to bun/buns

[dogboypawjob]

Yeah I'm a man unless I'm hanging out with a bunch of girls in which case I'm not a man. I'm something else :)

[alicehearthrow]

I'm so trans that if I were afab I'd be trans-masc

no but really, I'm genderqueer in a way that I'm certain that I would want to get on T, and depending on their size maybe get a breast reduction, if not outright removal, and I'd def be he/him'ing all over the place, instead of xe/xim'ing as I do now

I'd probably not actually call and define myself a man, but I'd probably play with male gendered nouns like boi, prince, and whatever, which I already do but not as directly