#Gender is a fuck

[victusinveritas]

[stratica]

Its whatever you want it to be-

-I felt like I needed to draw this as a reminder for myself, but also sharing as a reminder for others too. You're not alone

[undefbug]

all i do is make my silly little genderqueer self portraits and wonder if all the confusion and hurt is worth it in the end

[strawberrycowtime]

genderbend franziska go!!!!

[blackmore62]

bro what the fuck even is gender anymore when I see someone hot I don't even try to determine their gender internally I just think yep that's a violently attractive person and get on with my day

[despair-tea]

one thing I dislike is the sophomoric idea that society should, naturally, move towards a completely genderless model. I get where it's coming from, but it assumes an impossible level of homogeneity rather than accepting that - in the infinity of genders that DO and WILL exist - there are some which will take familiar forms and patterns and names.

Like, look, I don't live in the androgynous future ze're imaging. But if I did I would still feel alienated and out-of-place in a slightly different way from the way I felt growing up under gendered capitalism. Because I'm not genderless, and I know damn well that I'd still feel some calling to change... something about myself. Even without words like "woman" or "witch."

It's a nice dream. it might be comforting to some. But it seems like an airy fantasy to me, and not one I can see myself living in.

Obviously I agree that the barriers between genders need to be broken down. Obviously I don't think the traditional gender roles as our society sells them to us are working. But the future I see has more kinds of people and not less.

[pastelago]

Fuck gender that shits lame, let's just like vibe and shit

[vaporwavedoggie]

This is literally me. If you even care.

[dysphoric-158bpm-amen-break]

Should an egg like me be allowed to have this much power?

So as a little experiment to see if I can trans-pass without HRT, today I went to a local mall and went to the women's bathrooms to wash my hands real quick (I was eating churros when I came up with the idea and my hands were sticky).

Not even a fucking glance of suspicion. I must have looked like an average cis lesbian to them. There are literal thousands of trans woman working every day to be a little more trans-passable by society and my egg ass in denial just gets it for free.

Still cis tho, 100% sure, no doubt about it.

[princessofgames]

gay femmes and butch lesbians can fuck eachother. Peace and love on planet Earth

[raindrop2401]

"Any/all" but in an apathetic, kinda nihilistic way

[trainsgenderjamie]

I have got to get myself some tits. Like holy FUCK I am not enough of a genderfuck i am not enough of just a big question mark. I want people to see me and be confused. I want people to look at my body and say "that is a woman" and then look further down and doubt everything they know about me. I want to be the gender. I need to be the penultimate expression of both genders and yet neither at the same time.

I need to start taking Estrogen dude what the fuck. Genderfluidity is a bitch

[kerbedotjpeg]

beware the pipeline she/her to she/they to they/them to he/they to they/them to he/him to they/them to any/all to bun/buns

[tailless-whale]

Yeah I'm a man unless I'm hanging out with a bunch of girls in which case I'm not a man. I'm something else :)

[alicehearthrow]

I'm so trans that if I were afab I'd be trans-masc

no but really, I'm genderqueer in a way that I'm certain that I would want to get on T, and depending on their size maybe get a breast reduction, if not outright removal, and I'd def be he/him'ing all over the place, instead of xe/xim'ing as I do now

I'd probably not actually call and define myself a man, but I'd probably play with male gendered nouns like boi, prince, and whatever, which I already do but not as directly

[amiru-shrubfeast]

Okay so I'm pretty sure im bi or pan gender, which means I'm multiple genders at once.

This comes with the cons of never being able to physically express myself how I feel. Its pretty difficult to be soft uwu little femboy and huge buff bear butch lesbian at the same time.

But at least any form of attraction I feel towards others is gay, so thats a big W