#Funnily enough this issue is easily resolved if just rephrased to something like 'obsessed with perfection' even though it

[tripleguess]

You know what's frustrating? I've got an immediate knee-jerk reaction over anyone calling me a perfectionist, for 99% of the time I get called such, it is to dismiss any and every complaint I have as unreasonable instead of hearing me out. Because of that, even if the label is used in good faith, I get upset.

Now, guess what is part of the OCPD criteria.