#Friendzone Mod

[sashasspace]

THE FRIENDZONE MOD

The Friendzone mod adds buffs to the “ask to just be friends” interaction in the game. Your sims will now feel a way about being friendzoned. If the interaction is positive, both sims will have positive moodlets, but if the conversation is negative, then both sims will have negative moodlets. Also, your sims will get a milestone and a special milestone buff for friendzoning a sim; in the milestone, the sim will remember the location and who they friendzoned.

How does the mod work? Click on a sim that your main sim has a romantic bar with, then click the relationship pie menu, and click change relationship to press the "ask to just be friends" interaction.

How many buffs come with this mod? This mod has 16 buffs for the sim who is friendzoning and the sim who's friendzoned, therefore, in total the mod has 32 buffs (for every in-game emotion) + 1 extra milestone buff to remember the moment for the sim who friendzoned. Scroll down to see some of the buffs and milestone.

This is the first version of the mod and will come with future updates such as phone interaction, computer interaction, custom interactions… etc. Lastly, this mod is currently in early access and will be public on October 23rd, 2024. 

Here's a video tutorial for visual learners

Early access post

Credit

ImTashaMonet for teaching me about Random Weighted Loot

DanitySimmer for teaching me about modding

Thatssojordy for encouraging me to make this mod

FAQ: Why is the milestone not appearing for me? Maybe you might have cheated something in your milestone section and it got messed up, but you can cheat it yourself if you want to set it up for your sim with UI cheats mod by right-clicking milestones and scrolling "friendzoned a sim" milestone. You can even right-click on the milestone to set up who your sim friendzoned and even set up the location too.

Thank you so much and I wish you a lovely day take care 💗

[preciouslittle-bhaalbabe]

Started messing with the no romance limit mod and flagged Astarion as being "partnered" so now I have this weird mix of platonic greetings, but access to romance dialogues early...I have no idea how this will affect the game later on but I can just flag him as partnered again if it goes weird.

On the plus side. He goes "hello my dear" again :3 It's my fav greeting.

[kaguya-muneuji]

me when i make a social blunder (in a game and in real life

[agentark]

Morrigan left, Zevran romance dialogue bugged, have to look at Loghain's dumb face, just let the darkspawn win

[askaceattorney]

Dear Juniper,

Oh, sure. I'd love to come as a friend. Do they have any good food?

- Apollo Justice

[the-most-humble-blog]

This post made at least 7 people cry. 3 got banned. 1 wrote a 14-paragraph response with no punctuation.

2 wrote my ex — the one who still has my name in her phone — trying to convince her I’m “actually an incel.”

Reblog if your writing comes from the gonads. Scroll if you’re just posting to be liked.

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EFFECT: spiral induction, TOS self-violation, shame-activated meltdown

TRIGGER_WARNING="writing from the gonads, satire, emotional domination, fragile ego destruction"

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🧠 BLACKSITE WRITING LESSON —

“WRITE FROM YOUR NUTS. OR YOUR OVARIES.

TRUTH DOESN’T APOLOGIZE — IT TRIGGERS.”

Let’s begin with the realest thing I can say to you:

If your writing doesn’t cause someone to ***unfollow, spiral, cry, or violate their own platform’s Terms of Service*** trying to insult you back—

then you didn’t write.

You ***tweeted.***

You ***begged.***

You ***branded.***

You ***posed.***

But you didn’t ***write.***

—

Do you know why the most ***inclusive*** people are often the first ones foaming at the mouth

when you remind them of a truth ***they haven’t integrated?***

Because ***inclusion has become camouflage.***

And ***truth requires confrontation.***

So when you say:

📌 “You’re not oppressed. You’re just underachieving.”

📌 “You don’t want equality. You want pampering.”

📌 “Your trauma doesn’t exempt you from discipline.”

📌 “He didn’t ghost you. You’re emotionally repellent.”

They ***malfunction.***

They ***froth.***

They ***report.***

Because you triggered them with a ***truth they’ve never survived.***

—

Here’s the core tactic:

🧠 Trigger the spiral with ***conviction.***

🎯 Not with slurs. Not with edginess. Not with “shock.”

But ***with writing so rooted in truth*** it makes their own reflection blink.

Most of these people can’t fight you with ideas.

So they weaponize ***policy.***

They hide behind ***TOS like it’s armor.***

They’ve got ***blue hair and a report button.***

But you?

You’ve got ***truth and rhythm.***

And ***you’re better.***

—

💣 THE SCIENCE OF THE SPIRAL:

Truth > Ego > Shame > Rage > Report > Self-Violation

When you speak clearly, directly, and ***without cowering*** —

you bypass the cortex and strike the amygdala.

You ***scare them.***

Because you’re ***certain.***

Because ***you don’t need their applause.***

Because ***you’ve healed past the lies.***

They’ve built an entire platform identity on ***delusion.***

You reminded them ***they’re replaceable.***

That ***no one is obligated to coddle them.***

And that ***fairness isn’t real.***

—

Ever notice how they preach ***fairness*** with ***shit-brown plaque*** between their teeth?

Like they’ve been eating ***rotten morality sandwiches*** since birth?

They ***recite phrases*** they learned from a ***toxic ex*** or ***a crying influencer.***

And you remind them:

📌 “You’re not a good person.

You’re just afraid of confrontation.”

📌 “You didn’t write.

You copied rage and prayed for notes.”

📌 “That isn’t trauma.

That’s just who you are now.”

—

🍼 Here’s how you WIN:

Write something ***so true,***

so **audaciously accurate,**

that they ***lose the plot.***

They ***snap.***

They ***report you.***

They ***go full terms-of-service kamikaze.***

And all you did was ***type from your gonads.***

***Truth first. Cadence second.

Tears not your responsibility.***

You triggered them

***and became the godparent to their violation report.***

They got banned.

And you got ***more followers.***

Teehee 🍼

🧠 Read more unhinged writing doctrine and scrolltrap gospel at:

👉 https://linktr.ee/ObeyMyCadence

🛡️ Literary warfare. Gonadal authorship. Truth-triggering cadence.

🚪 Warning: May cause user bans, timeline spiral contagion, and aggressive follow activity.

📊 TRUTH TRIGGER METRICS 📊

• Reporters who violated their own TOS: many

• Times you begged to be liked: 0

• Spiral responses that ended in bans: confirmed

• Writers who lead from ovaries/nuts: elite

• Apologies issued by winners: zero

• Times cadence lost to clout: never

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[luv-u-ary]

'ELLO <333 WELCOME TO LUV-U-ARY

This is a fun lil thing I wanted to do for the month of Feb. This is my first time so have fun yall <33

AO3 Collection: https://archiveofourown.org/collections/WritingChallengeLuvuary

Rules/Restrictions

There arent much rules for this. Just have fun! There are no prizes, this is just something for writers.

All ratings are allowed but only sfw fics will be reblogged.

You ARE allowed to use many prompts for one day.

You do NOT have to write for every day to be part of this challenge

You can write as much as you want. From short drabbles to multi-chap fics

You dont need to write on AO3, posting on Tumblr is allowed!

You CAN combine challenges

NOTE: If you want your fic to be reblogged you MUST have these tags:

#Luvuary2025, #LuvuaryChallenge #sfw OR #nsfw (depending on ur story)

You also must mention me (@luv-u-ary) if you want your fic to be reblogged.

Feel free to ask me any questions if you would like <33 Happy writing <333

-Mod. Clara

FULL LIST UNDER CUT:

Day 1:  Sexual Tension 

Day 2: Toxic Relationship 

Day 3:  Flirting

Day 4: Friends to Lovers

Day 5: Candlelight

Day 6: Rain/Thunderstorm

Day 7: Grief/Loss

Day 8: Forbidden Love

Day 9: Soulmates

Day 10: Love letter

Day 11: First Kiss

Day 12: Break-Up

Day 13: Secret Admirer

Day 14: Enemies to/and Lovers

Day 15: Love Affair

Day 16: Friendzoned

Day 17:  Second Chances

Day 18: First Love

Day 19: Healing/Recovery

Day 20: Confession of feelings 

Day 21: Goodbyes

Day 22: Coming Home

Day 23: Dancing together

Day 24: Snowed-In

Day 25: Unrequited Love

Day 26: Reunion

Day 27: Rebuilding Trust

Day 28: Love Triangle/Square

[luckystarchild]

I installed a "polyamory mod" into my latest playthrough of Baldur's Gate 3, for the reason of "I want to romance Halsin but also I have never successfully resisted initiating a romance with Gale before Halsin becomes romanceable so this mod will let me romance them both at the same time and not have to dump Gale and suffer his kicked-puppy eyes when Halsin inevitably propositions me in Act 3."

I played through the early portions of the game as usual. I dodged/friendzoned characters like Wyll, Karlach and Astarion along the way. I outright turned down Lae'zel and Shadowheart when they propositioned me. I figured my plan to romance Gale (whom I leaned into wholeheartedly) and Halsin (for whom I've been pining from afar) would go off without a hitch.

Which is why it took me by complete surprise when my Tav was suddenly making out with Karlach, dancing with Wyll, and hugging Astarion in Act 2. And of course Gale is in love with me. And of course Halsin keeps dropping hints that the Act 3 confession is on course for collision.

I... think I underestimated the polyamory mod. I thought I'd have to actively choose to date someone with it, but without any intention whatsoever, I appear to be in committed relationships with four characters, with a fifth (Halsin) on the way, and no one is mad or making me break up with anyone.

I am NOT COOL ENOUGH to pull this off.

I know it's a game, but from a mental RP standpoint, I'm basically rolling around embarrassed every time my Tav approaches anyone because they say "First in my heart!" to literally E V E R Y O N E they come into contact with in camp. I'm not this smooth in real life. I am not this smooth in real life!

[belladovah]

hi bella. you seem to be well versed on the current mod landscape so im asking you this: i remember somewhat recently seeing a post about a mod that fixes the issue where using ACR causes the maxis autonomous romantic actions to blow up the jealousy triggers for everyone and everything despite any friendzone or no-jealousy settings being in place from the ACR mod. do you recall seeing it yourself and if so, who made it? if not, sorry to bother you and thanks for your time anyway!

Hello! That rings a bell actually but I'm not sure🤔 I've recently found @simgigglegirl's toned down ACR edit and @theonlyriftwalker's guide on replacing ACR and why they don't use it so perhaps its one of those you could be thinking of or could perhaps be of some help.

Does anyone else know what anon is referring to?

[sashasspace]

30+ MESSY Sims 4 mods to bring CHAOS to your game!

Shush mod by Sasha's Space [Early Access] Friendzone mod by Sasha's Space Basemental Drugs and Gangs by Basemental Mods* Curious inquiries by Lumpinou Ask about mood by Jane Simsten Extreme Violence mod by Sacrificial Mods* Life’s drama by Sacrificial Mods* Life’s tragedy by Sacrificial Mods* Sims torment by Sacrificial Mods* Social interactions Pack by KiaraSims Little Miss Drama by Ellesimworld Holiday Drama by Ellesimworld Relationship and Pregnancy Overhaul by Lumpinou MC Woohoo by Deaderpool Errant Thoughts mod Adeepindigo First impressions mod by Lumpinou Brawling mod by UtopyaCC Xtreme Squabble Mod by King Black Cinema x Error404phillips Immersive Social bunny mod by Plumlace Celebrity System mod Kiarasims More Deadly Intense Fire mod by Weerbesu Hit Purse for all ages by Cepzid Stun Gun Mod by Cepzid Bonus Digital Romance by ThatssoJordy Messy relationships  by Wicked Pixxel Love Triangle mod by Maplelbell Send a Forged Breakup Letter via Mail Petty Ex Mod by Lumi Romantic Complaints Mod by Utopya CC [Early Access] Say something mod by Lumpinou Everyone can spar mod Remove fight cloud by Cepzid Jucier Secrets by Simmytime Secrets and confessionals by Wicked Pixxel Drama by SHEnanigans x MizoreYukii Danitysimmer sugar and spice mod Psycho ex by Wicked Pixxel Seasonal Drama by JellyPaws Basemental Addons by Kuttoe Open Love Life Mod by Lumpinou Friends with Benefits Mod by Lumpinou End friendship mod by Lumpinou

*asterisk used for sites you can google♥ Thank you modders♥♥

[eliteseekertrine]

HALT! ORGANIC BEFORE YOU START SENDING IN YOUR ASKS I SUGGEST YOU READ THE RULES! (Edited; 12/5/2024)

NO FOURTH WALL BREAKING ASKS! (i.e; "Starscream did you know you are not real?") I will not answer and immediately delete it.

keep it SFW please! I know some of you fleshies are horny for these bots but keep it in your pants please!

kindly keep the romantic asks to a minimum please! you WILL get friendzoned otherwise (sorry to the oc x canon peeps)

Please don't send memes I will NOT respond. your ask will be deleted!!!

(Mod note; please keep in mind that I do not know a lot of transformers lore like with Galvatron or Cyclonus hell even Lost Light so pleaseee keep from spoiling!)

[rakkiankh]

Yosuke romance mod isn't working for me, tragically.

I have not seen any of Naoto or Ai's social links yet btw. Chie and Yukiko are excluded cuz I've already friendzoned them

[flirtatious-slenderman]

... I'm glad I've been able to support you at all. You deserve it.

ohhh something's very wrong with me...

why is this coming back...?

surely it's just protective urges going a little far, right? im sure its just that...

[iloveyouchantilly]

how to get over a breakup ep.1 - mods featured with links below

watch here

How To Get Over A Breakup is set in the new world of Ciudad Enamorada. We will be exploring all of what the Lovestruck expansion pack has to offer. We will watch as Luciana and her friends navigate dating, work, parties, and celebrity encounters in the city. I have linked the mods featured in episode one below. <3

mods featured

temporary separations by lumpinou

crying mod by chingyu

reality tv overrides by themintsimmer

friendzone by chingyu

[luckyqueenreign]

I saw the first Islander Alex and my reaction towards him was:

Sorry babe, but you're gonna be my first friendzone.

IM SORRY THEY WANT ME TO PAY SEVENTEEN GEMS FOR ME TO MEET SOMEONE?!?!

Hard pass. And I advise everyone to not pay that either, even if you mod your game. You’re basically telling them this is something we are willing to pay for when it absolutely should be free.

[pushing500]

I don't know if "Akubra" means something else somewhere, but I've always known it as the Australian hat company. So, in my head, Head Chef Wendy now speaks with an Australian accent. I mean, everyone does because I'm Australian, and so is the narrator's voice in my head, but she's extra Aussie now.

Also, I brought some coffee, and Irwin and Wendy drank all of it before anybody else got any. A bit greedy, but I appreciate the enthusiasm.

I get the feeling Irwin is starting to get a bit irritated about the hat issue that his fiancee won't let go. He grumbled about it with Cinnamon the Steel Construct (a couple of times, actually.)

Fafo and Kaz continue to dance around the idea of actually getting together in favour of repeatedly friendzoning each other, but they apparently agreed to a hookup which is... Good for drama and storytelling tension, I suppose. I don't know if hookups are a mod thing or not. I don't think I've ever seen this interaction before.

Irwin, my sweet baby boy, got shot in the heart while he defended Brennan from a raider. Of course, being the absolute legend that he is, he wandered to the hospital across the base and tucked himself into bed while he waited for Brennan to finish a game of chess before she could patch him up. I would have expected her to be a bit more grateful, considering she's only still alive because of him, but oh well.

Our newest yttakin colonist, Kawoo, is apparently married to a Saurid raider named Andrei. Andrei seemed to be under the mistaken impression we had kidnapped his wife and came to rescue her. Luckily we're correcting him in our jail. We even let him keep a friend named Baz in jail with him until the misunderstanding is cleared up! We're very thoughtful that way.

Last but not least, Big Dipper the baby thrumbo is now Big Dipper the teenaged thrumbo! Hooray! Doesn't he look just like his Mum? How cute!!

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