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Life of the Party

This is the fluffiest thing I’ve ever written and it still involves a swingers’ party. But seriously, other than the setting, this whole thing is just humor and boy-meets-girl cuteness. 

Pairing: Adam Cole x reader

Word count: 2,117

Content advisory: nothing beyond the setting

“Could you please stop acting so uptight?” Jeanie asks, poking you hard in the ribs. “You said you wanted to try it.”

Yes, you have to admit, you did say that you wanted to try it. Jeanie had been sharing her stories with you and Ellen about going to the swinger parties hosted by a physiotherapist who regularly attended Jeanie’s yoga classes and her husband, and a month ago, she’d finally persuaded Ellen to come along to one. Ellen had been so impressed that she’d talked about it for a week nonstop and you finally had to concede that, yes, you were curious and that you did want to come along the next time there was an opportunity. And you had wanted to come along. You wanted to get into the spirit of liberation and exploration that these nights offered. But here you were, walking into a party with a very select guest list and all you could think of to do was make wisecracks. 

Jeanie and Ellen were both insistent that you keep your mind open, to which you responded that you couldn’t keep your mind and legs open at the same time, which got a chortle but also a withering look from both of them. Your inclination was to separate from the crowd with them and to pass the night making catty comments. They, however, preferred to circulate and see who might be interested and what they might be interested in. Normally, sarcasm and irony were the weapons you used to prevent yourself from feeling vulnerable. But normally, your friends would be right beside you. Tonight, they weren’t so interested in smart remarks and were more interested in seeing what kind of adventure they could find. It was almost like disinterestedly scanning through Tinder and getting frustrated by playing eye contact games with guys in bars wasn’t enough for them anymore. 

It took exactly 38 minutes for you to completely lose your sense of ironic invincibility. You know this because you’ve been able to time it on your phone. In those first minutes, you were joking with Jeanie and Ellen, then they chose to migrate into the crowd and started chatting with a few people. Then you’d just chilled on your own and thought it was funny how everyone else seemed to be trying to hook up with someone. Then it had occurred to you that everyone else was hooking up with someone, almost as if being open about what they wanted was something that wasn’t a source of humiliation for them the way it was for you. Then you’d realized that you were standing by yourself, protected by an impenetrable wall of sarcasm, completely isolated while everyone around you was getting laid. 

You’d sure showed them. You alone had discovered the secret to not having sex at a party the point of which was to make sure that everyone had all the sex they wanted. Lucky for you that the guests were so distracted that it was easy to just steal alcohol from the refrigerator. It was like you were doing the hosts a favor, making sure that the supplies they laid in didn’t go to waste. There were little hors d’oeuvres on trays catered from a company whose treats didn’t come cheap, so you grabbed plate full of those too and retired to the back patio to feel awkward and superior and incredibly envious that there were people who could just approach other human beings and tell them they wanted to have sex with them and get it. 

This goes fine for about fifteen minutes, or two full glasses of wine and about half the plate of exquisite mini pastries and vegetable art, at which point another solitary figure slinks out onto the patio with you. There is immediately a dirigible of silence between you, swollen with mutual desire, the desire to be left alone and to have no one notice you. On the other hand, it is also fueled by the awareness that the two of you are the party’s resident weirdos and that social convention demands that you try to forge some kind of connection so that you can eventually make eye contact and fall in love or something. It’s you who gives in first. 

“Miniature sausage?”

The tumescent blimp of tension between you deflates as the man looks up with a combination of defensiveness and hostility. 

You press the still half-eaten plate towards him. “They ordered these individual mini sausages with gourmet ingredients and everything. There’s like four different kinds and they all look like they’re made by hand. I mean, I can’t imagine they found a machine that could make them this size.”

He’s still giving you a bit of a suspicious look, scanning you for any sign that you’re mocking him but gradually he drags his chair a little closer to observe the food you’re proffering. He snatches up a tiny deconstructed spanakopita-type-thing that crumbles in an avalanche of phyllo crumbs over his dark shirt when he tries to take a bite. 

“Those are a bit tricky,” you commiserate. 

“So, you’re the… official taster?” he kids, obviously trying to project a bit of cool as he brushes himself more or less clean. 

“Sure, we can go with that.” You once again extend the plate to let him try something else and, after allowing his hand to hover a moment, he takes one of the perfect little sausages. 

“Ok,” he says, nodding, “you have a point. These are pretty awesome.”

You resist the urge to say ‘I told you so’ by pushing one of the salmon-lemongrass wraps into your mouth. 

“You prefer fish?” he grins. 

“I just like to eat.”

He laughs a little and, as ridiculously clichéd as it is, you bat your eyelashes because now that you’re able to get a better look at him, you feel your thighs inadvertently press together. He is really good looking. His light brown hair is drawn back into a loose chignon, and he has that perfected, give-a-shit scruff you’ve seen in musicians and you hope to god that he’s not one of those because they’re always such cocky assholes. But what really draws you in are the bright, sparkling, mischievous blue eyes. You can’t stop staring at them and into them, imaging what they’d look like sparked with lust and… you realize it’s been an inappropriately long time since either of you has said anything. 

He takes your last oyster, the bastard, and tips the shell against his mouth, allowing the flesh to slide through his lips and over his tongue that flashes out for just a second to capture the drops of briny liquor. The change in his expression shows that he’s definitely caught you looking in a way that’s entirely appropriate to the party inside. 

“So why aren’t you enjoying the main course?” you ask, trying not to be quite so obvious and hitching your head in the direction of the house. 

“I have no idea what the fuck I’m doing here,” he sighs. “I was with my girlfriend, well, my ex-girlfriend now, for seven years. Two weeks ago I came home from a tour a day early and I run into her with her movers clearing all her stuff out of our condo. Braden’s my nutritionist and told me he and Sheryl were having this party and he thought it might be a good chance for me to shake off some of the… well, you know. Seven years with the same girl and now I’m single.”

Everything after “home from a tour” is a sort of verbal soup to you. A tour. He is a musician. Oh no. 

“What about you?” he asks. “How did you end up on Fuck Island?”

“My friend Jeanie is Sheryl’s yoga instructor,” you squeak, wishing very much to leave it at that. He gives you a pointed stare and a smile that seems to light up the entire yard and so, feeling more than a little self-conscious, you continue, “My husband left me about a year ago and I haven’t been… well, I haven’t dated anyone since then and Jeanie figured that this might be a good opportunity to get back in the saddle.”

He gives you another big smile and you think, or at least hope, that there’s a bit of a flirtatious glint in his eye. “I didn’t know they had a saddle too.”

It’s a silly joke but it does make you laugh and that makes you feel a little less awkward that you basically told a complete stranger that you got your ass dumped and hadn’t had sex since. Still, you’re eager to move on. 

“So you’re a musician?”

“What? Oh, because I was on tour. No, I’m a professional wrestler.”

And that, you think, might be worse than a musician, because it’s sort of like being a jock version of a rock star, right? All of the testosterone and none of the creativity? 

“What do you do?” he asks, pleasantly enough. 

“I’m the curator at the A.E. Backus Gallery.”

His dazzling eyes widen. “Wow…” he stammers, “Art.”

You giggle and pour yourself another glass of wine. “Wow… Wrestling.”

He leans in and takes the bottle from you, gulping directly from it as he leans back into his chair. “I’m not really arty.”

“Not at all?”

“Does videogame art count?”

“It can,” you answer, pushing a note of gentle humor into your voice. 

“Well then I guess I’m a bit of a collector. Maybe you can sell me something.” He hitches his eyebrows a little and it is endearing. 

“I didn’t know wrestling paid so well.”

“It does when you’re as good at it as I am,” he grins, taking another long swig from the wine bottle. 

His arm is slowly moving towards you and you’ve leaned forward so that you’re at once helping to close the distance between you and giving him a nice view of the tops of your breasts, something which does not appear to go unappreciated. Feeling a little cheeky, you take a big drink from your wine glass and allow a drop to fall from your lips. As you were hoping, he reaches over and brushes it away with his thumb. His eyes are definitely more intense, more curious and threaded with a hint of lust and they are every bit as thrilling as you thought they would be. 

“I’m Adam,” he whispers. 

“Eva,” you tell him, and you both laugh a little at that. 

“So I guess we really should be naked.”

“Or if we felt self-conscious, I think that one of the hors d’oeuvres has some minced grape or fig leaves.”

“Are you suggesting that I would be able to cover myself with just a tiny sausage?”

You laugh again and blush because his hand is still resting against your face, stroking your cheek ever so softly. 

His eyes flicker towards the house and he struggles for a minute to form words, his jaw twitching a little with the effort. And as much as you feel yourself growing damp at the idea of being with him, the idea of doing so in a sauna of sex mist is not working for you. 

“I cannot tell you,” he begins finally, waving a hand towards the indoors, “how uncomfortable I am with this whole thing.”

“Oh,” you exhale in sweet relief, “you don’t need to tell me because I just… This is not my scene. No judgment but this just isn’t going to work as a way of getting back out there.”

He gives you a wink. “Eva, would you like to go somewhere and not have sex with me for a bit?”

You look down at what you’re wearing, dismayed. “I’m basically wearing lingerie.”

“You look beautiful.”

“I feel naked.”

“It’s ok,” he assures you. “I know an amazing place to get drive through. You know. If that’s something art gallery girls can get into.”

“I can get into that.”

He stands and offers you his arm, the muscle flexing a little as he helps you up and sending an electric shiver through your core. Toned and firm but not the bulked-up, steroid-ridden balloon you would have imagined all pro wrestlers to possess. You bite your lip and he definitely notices, edging just a little closer to you,

“I really hope no one’s fucking in my car,” he says wistfully. 

“I’m so glad I came here in a cab.”

The two of you share a conspiratorial glance as you pick your way down the driveway and onto the street towards his hopefully unoccupied car. No sex for a bit, you tell yourself, but maybe not too long of a bit.

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Ex Girlfriend Come Back Stories Awesome Cool Tips

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Get My Ex Back After 6 Months

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Phpstorm Slow

Once upon a time, PhpStorm was the IDE I loved. I thought I would use it all my life, happily without looking at any other editor.

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I was wrong.

I discovered the true love of my live, called Vim.

Are you confused? Are you yelling “why” to the deaf sky? What happened between PhpStorm and me? Why a PHP developer would use this… old smelly thing called Vim?

Phpstorm does a very good job of saving, importing, exporting settings so upgrading your Phpstorm version doesn't require you to redo all your settings. This is also beneficial if you are setting up Phpstorm on another computer or sharing your company coding style guide with other developers. Now you will be working with the terminal - you can use Window's cmd or the PHPStorm's terminal. I prefer to use the terminal built inside the PHPStorm - it is: better, faster and more intuitive. I prefer to use the terminal built inside the PHPStorm - it is: better, faster and more intuitive.

I was happy with PhpStorm. We had a productive relationship. Its basic rules was simple, as simple as many text editor in the computing world. You use a mouse, you click where you want to change or add something, somewhere. The basic editor. We are all used to that from the beginning of times!

PhpStorm provides the following main ways to upload project files and folders to deployment servers: Manually, at any time through a menu command. Automatically, every time a file is updated, or before starting a debugging session, or during a commit to your version control system. PHPStorm was and now is very slow under Linux (currently am using version 2016.2). All its versions were slow. Even at powerful computers with SSD. Jamming and sticking is a normal behavior for this program. It's a pity that authors do not pay attention to it. Running PHP storm on windows 10 is incredible slow. I'm running PHPstorm on my windows 10 laptop, where it is extremly slow. I made a screenshot showing the about information. I have a 64bit so I'm correct running phpstorm64.exe for this. During work I'm also using phpstorm on an.unix system, which is great. So I thought about buying a private license for me at home, but with the given performance I really cant work.

I loved the auto completion with PhpStorm! I loved the fact that you could find easily a peculiar file even within a massive codebase. I loved its stability. I liked the snippets. I loved its numerous options to refactor, generate getter / properties / methods using one or two handy shortcuts.

And now, I don’t use it anymore.

Firstly, I want to tell you my story with Vim and PhpStorm in order for you to understand how you can switch between the two.

Then I will compare the two and underline what Vim brings on the table.

Vim: the Hate before the Love

It was a newcomer who first showed me Vim.

He was a PHP developer hired in the company I was working for. I was curious, I began to look what tools and IDE he was using, expecting seeing the good old PhpStorm, like every good PHP developer who suffered too much with Eclipse.

“I don’t use PhpStorm” said the newcomer. “Vim is way better!”.

Vim! This dinosaur! This boring terminal editor! So complex nobody knows how to use it, except the perfect nerd without life / girlfriend / whatever real things!How can he compares the wonderful shiny PhpStorm with this relic?

At that point, I went in a crusade. I tried to show him how a good IDE with tons of features could suit his needs even better than this… Vim thing! Without success, I let him swimming in his ocean of mistakes, sad he couldn’t see the Truth as I was.

Time past. Days became years. Years became centuries. I began to understand that this newcomer was a very interested and knowledgeable developer. It astonished me. How can he be that good and use Vim?

Quickly we began to work on the same project: a tandem was born.

The Time of Mockeries

I mocked my work tandem. A lot. He was persisting in his mistake to use Vim and I couldn’t do anything to dissuade him.

I mocked the austerity of Vim’s interface. I mocked the fact that he had to configure everything in config files. I mocked that this configuration (in my opinion) was always broken. Who wants to code with a broken IDE? It was pure nonsense.

With hindsight, I may have been a bit jealous. He mastered a tool full of shortcuts in order to use the mouse as less as he can, and, without knowing it, I envied him.I envied him because I didn’t feel capable to learn how to use Vim in a reasonable amount of time.

More and more, my contempt toward Vim let place to curiosity.

PhpStorm and Me: the Breakdown

My attraction and curiosity toward Vim kept growing and growing.

The hate became love when I decided two things:

Quitting the company I was working in.

Learning to type like true crazy typists.

I wasn’t happy at that time, till I decided to quit the company I was working for. My decision opened new horizons and a true desire to learn more about everything.Moreover, I wanted to learn a maximum from my fellow work tandem before leaving for new and crazy adventures.

I wanted at the same moment to get rid of my very bad habit of typing with two or three fingers. I wanted to use typists techniques: using the home row keys and my ten fingers.

Quickly I began to understand the power of this typing method. You feel definitely faster and more in control of your computer. A very cool sensation!I knew as well that Vim was designed for this type of typing. Due to the pleasure I had with my new typing techniques, I slowly decided to give Vim a chance.

More and more, I asked tips to my tandem in order to learn how to use The Beast. At first, I just wanted to use it for editing configuration or text files, not for actually coding, too afraid that it would put down my productivity.

I stopped using PhpStorm in two weeks. Transfer from bitpay to coinbase.

Vim vs PhpStorm

Vim on the left, PhpStorm on the right. The clash.

Here we are finally: the comparison between PhpStorm and Vim. Do you want to replace PhpStorm with something more powerful and versatile? Do you want to be sure that Vim is the good choice?

I won’t cover here how to do a PHP IDE out of Vim since I wrote another article on the topic.

Who’s in Charge: You or Your IDE?

An IDE is obviously very important for developers. It’s the tool which helps us doing what we like: coding. It simplifies our lives, automatize all these boring stuff you repeat over and over again.

Therefore your IDE should reflect the way you are coding. It should give you the choice for you to do what you want, the way you want.

PhpStorm doesn’t really give you many choices: it is a bunch of tools and you have to stick with them.I never used 70% of it. I know a lot of shortcuts and I am able to navigates in the panels without even using the mouse. However I never used the composer tools / terminal / git GUI / database interface thingy integrated in PhpStorm.

I couldn’t configure that. I couldn’t choose to install what I wanted, what I needed. PhpStorm was choosing for me.

The result? Many panels and notifications popping, a lot of visual noise which was totally useless for me. Perfect to lose focus.

Some may argue that PhpStorm is really configurable compared to other IDE. It is nothing compared to Vim.

Vim has a great community who develop a LOT of plugin. Nowadays you can install them and get rid of them by typing two words. Not even command lines. Words.

You can choose exactly what you want and what suits you. You can even modify it easily and extends it. Vim can be bent following your wishes.

You are the master.

PhpStorm Only Allow You to Code in… PHP

Another point which was bothering me for a long time. Of course you can use it to write HTML / CSS but you won’t have many tools for those. And what about Go you want to learn so hardly? Ruby? Basic?

Vim is an editor, not an IDE, but you can make an IDE out of it for every language you want. Right now, I have very good auto completion systems for PHP, JavaScript, Go and Ruby.

Even better: the plugins can be activated depending of the file type you are editing. You will never have the Ruby autocompletion while editing a PHP file. Sweet, isn’t it?

I have tons of plugins for refactoring, creating snippets and so on. No need to change IDE and get use to different interfaces. With Vim I can switch from one language to another transparently. Believe me, it’s awesome.

When I open Vim, everything I need is there for whatever language.

Vim is Light

Each time I open PhpStorm I have the impress that my computer is running a marathon. And he doesn’t do well.

Even on my very lightweight arch linux / i3 system (running on very good hardware), everything suddenly slow down. Welcome to the Matrix, or the stop motion applied to computing!

Sometimes I like to open two projects at the same time to get some configuration or code from one to another. Sometimes I want to open even more if I need to work with multiple micro services.

With PhpStorm… you know what I am talking about. Your memory scream, your CPU burns some calories, your vans consume more electricity than your fridge.

In comparison, Vim is a feather. So light! You can run multiple instances of it if you want, your computer won’t slow down.Try to use Vim, then come back to PhpStorm and you will see what I’m talking about.

Your hardware will love Vim.

Vim is Fun

This is something I didn’t imagine: Vim is really fun to use. This is something my work tandem told me, and it’s so true: it’s basically the gamification of coding.

It is time to precise a bit how to use it. There are many modes in this editor:

The Normal mode is for executing commands (delete words, lines, paragraphs and a lot of others). Basically, it’s to edit your text (or code).

The insert mode is there for you to concretely write.

A simple separation of concern and, believe me, it’s brilliant!

This is Vim: you can learn to be productive with it in a couple of minutes (I promise). Get used to it may take a bit more time, and then you will learn new stuff all your life. The whole editor feel so logical that you will come up with new way to do things without even asking Google. Yes, by yourself, only!

Like: “Maybe if I press those keys, it will do that eventually. Yes it does! I’m a genius!”

Indeed, Vim is so sweet, you can talk to it like an old friend. For example: you want to delete all characters from your cursor till the coma? In Normal mode, type dt,, which means delete till ,. You can do as well dtf, which delete till f. Magical!

In comparison, PhpStorm is boring. To me, 70% of the tools are useless (by adding a useless graphical interface on top on very efficient terminal tools) and the editor itself use the mouse extensively, like 99% of the editors in the world.If shortcuts were invented, it’s because it’s more convenient and fast to use the keyboard to execute actions. Vim definitely nailed that.

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To be honest with you, I always have the impression I’m some sort of a hacker doing crazy things with my keyboard in three different Vim instances. Of course I am just writing down my shopping list but… who cares? The feeling is great!

I am always happy when I discover a new shortcut or way to do thing even more easily. It’s like finding a secret way to beat a video game even faster! Gamification, I tell you.

PhpStorm Cost Money

PhpStorm is not free, far from it. Even if it’s pretty affordable (around 100euro), you pay only for one year. Welcome to the era of renting instead of acquiring…

If you want a Go, Ruby or whatever IDE for whatever language, you have to pay. Again.

Vim is free, available on everything (linux, windows, mac).

You Might be Faster with Vim…

Honestly I don’t care that much if I’m faster with it. To me, being fast doesn’t mean being a good developer. Our brain is more valuable than our typing speed.

However you will feel fast and precise, which is a good cherry on the cake. Adblock plus google chrome. Especially when you have to move a bunch of classes and renaming namespaces again and again. You know, what we call refactoring: Vim can simplify that and many other things.

Vim Allow You to do More than PhpStorm

Here some examples what you can do with Vim but not with PhpStorm:

You can search through open tabs (“buffers” in Vim), files and entire projects very fast with the fzf plugin. Even faster than with PhpStorm.

You can go directly to php.net with a keystroke when you are on a method / function / whatever to see its definition. Very handy.

You can run Vim with a GUI or in the terminal. Doing the last will open a lot of possibility like the winning combo zsh / tmux / Vim. You will have a lot of flexibility and fun with those tools, I can guarantee it!

Since a tonne of plugins exist for Vim you can extend the possibilities as you wish. You can even write little functions which extend / alter whatever you want.

The possibilities are infinite.

A Great Community

A lot of people use Vim and will be happy to help you. You have access to a lot of plugins for every development language you dream of.

Some will argue (as I did) than Vim is too old. It is a strength! Think about it: what software is more stable than the one tested for decades?

It is very stable indeed, thanks to the community. If you are stuck, if you have a problem, you have tons of resources where you can found the solution.

Neovim!

Vim is old and maintained for a long long time, which means as well that its codebase is (apparently) not-that-goodish.That is why a bunch of people rewrote the whole editor. It’s called Neovim and it’s compatible with every Vim plugin available.

Even if it’s still in beta I didn’t have any issues with it. It works like a charm.

I want to be in love with Vim! Tell me how!

First you need to be motivated and learn how to properly use it. It is less complicated than you think.

You Work on Linux or macOs? Try Vimtutor!

First, go to your terminal.Then type vimtutor. Press enter.Here we are!

Vimtutor comes with a lot of linux-based distribution. It is a 15 minutes tutorial for you to learn Vim’s basics. After that, you can begin to use Vim for whatever need you have.

15 minutes! Who said that Vim was complicated?

You don’t believe me? Just try it!

Get Inspired by Other’s Configurations

Vim alone is a bit… too weak functionality wise. You need plugins, and the best way to find what you need is to look to configurations from other developers.They are most of the time hosted publicly on github.

Here my personnal config.

Be careful though. It is tempting to copy entire configuration from others but you will be lost very quickly. Vim needs to be personalized. It can suits you if you take the time to tune it depending on your needs.

Take the configurations available on the web as inspirations. Copy them little by little, plugin by plugin. Test it, try to understand what the plugin is doing. Take your time. Read the plugin documentations. In short: do everything with Vim you should do as a developer. Analyzing, acting step by step and see if it suits your need.

Vim Cheat Sheet

My advice for the beginning: having a cheat sheet printed you can refer to. You can find a lot of them everywhere.

It will help you memorising the basics of Vim and experimenting to be more effective and have even more fun!

Vim is a Winner! But… Do I Miss PhpStorm?

I hope you are now ready to try Vim, and maybe replace PhpStorm!

Now let be honest with one another:

Yes PhpStorm has some tool that Vim doesn’t. The search plugin I use for example has less options than PhpStorm’s search… but is so faster, you’ve no idea.

In PhpStorm the auto completion was slightly better… in 2017. In 2019, Vim auto completion plugins are as good as any IntelliJ plugin.

You need to spend time configuring Vim to have a powerful PHP IDE.However, it means as well that you can personalize it the way you exactly want it to behave. An IDE should answers your need, not imposing them!

After three weeks using Vim as my PHP IDE, I tried to reinstall PhpStorm. I used it for ten minutes… before coming back to Vim.

I won’t get back to you, PhpStorm. Never. Bartender for wedding near me. I am a faithful man to Vim now.

This section provides the list of solutions and workarounds for common problems with deployments in PhpStorm.

Collecting PhpStorm deployment logs

If your issue is not addressed in this section, contact our support engineers. If asked to provide deployment logs, follow the instructions to collect them.

Select Help | Configure Debug Log in the main menu.

In the Custom Debug Log Configuration dialog that opens, add the following lines depending on the issues you are experiencing:

Issues with deployment/synchronization: #com.jetbrains.plugins.webDeployment

Issues with issues with SSH/SFTP: #com.intellij.ssh

Click OK and reproduce the issue.

Locate the log file by selecting Help | Show Log in Explorer (for Windows and Linux) or Help | Show Log in Finder (for macOS).

If necessary, you can locate the log manually:

Syntax

%HOMEPATH%.<product><version>systemlog

Example

C:UsersJohnS.PhpStorm2021.1systemlog

Syntax

~/Library/Logs/<product><version>

Example

~/Library/Logs/PhpStorm2021.1

Syntax

~/.<product><version>/system/log

Example

~/.PhpStorm2021.1/system/log

The most recent log file is named idea.log; older files names end with a number, that is idea.log.1, idea.log.2, and so on. In most cases you need only the most recent one.

Attach the log file(s) to the issue or forum thread.

General troubleshooting

Deployment is slow or fails

Deployment can be a resource-intensive operation, especially if a project or a deployment server contains lots of directories and files. In the Settings/Preferences dialog Ctrl+Alt+S, navigate to Build, Execution, Deployment and explore the following configuration options, which can speed up deployment:

Exclude directories that are not needed from deployment (for example, images). This can be done from the Deployment: Excluded Paths Tab page.

On the Options page, clear the Overwrite up-to-date files to skip uploading files that don't need to be uploaded.

Depending on the server, switching between active and passive transfer mode in the advanced FTP settings may help. This can be done by toggling Passive mode in the Deployment: Connection Tab for the server.

Limit number of concurrent FTP connections. This can be done by toggling Limit concurrent connections and setting the number of connections (usually 3-5 concurrent connections is OK for any server if you experience problems with a greater number of connections) in the Deployment: Connection Tab for the server.

File transfer becomes unresponsive

This can happen in case PhpStorm tries to resolve an IPv4 host via IPv6. By default, PhpStorm only listens for incoming IPv4 connections. To make sure IPv6 is disabled, check the PhpStorm JVM options:

Select Help | Edit Custom VM Options from the main menu.

In the .vmoptions file that opens, make sure the -Djava.net.preferIPv4Stack=true line is present.

Restart PhpStorm.

Otherwise, to enable IPv6 support, delete the -Djava.net.preferIPv4Stack=true line. In this case, make sure to add the IPv6 entry for your host to the /etc/hosts file.

Download/upload actions are not available

Download/upload actions may not be available because of a missing mapping. If a file or folder that you want to download is not configured in any mapping, PhpStorm will not download it. Mappings can be configured as described in the Map project folders to folders on the server and the URL addresses to access them.

For some actions, a default deployment server needs to be selected on the Deployment page of the Settings/Preferences dialog.

Some folders are not deployed

A common cause for folders not being deployed is when they are explicitly excluded. To solve this, in the Remote host tool window right-click the given folder and select Remove Path From Excluded from the context menu. Once this is done, the folder will be deployed.

This can also be configured from the Deployment page of the Settings/Preferences dialog Ctrl+Alt+S. Open the Excluded Paths tab for the server and remove the excluded path. Note that both the source and the target folders should be checked. Folders can also be excluded by name on the Options page under Exclude items by name.

Sharing deployment configurations between projects

Deployment Servers are configured at the IDE level: they are available for all projects and can be shared between them.

Note that only the name and connection details (specified on the Deployment: Connection Tab tab) are shared between projects: mappings and excluded paths are project-specific and have to be configured separately. Using this approach, connection details have to be entered just once, while mappings and excluded paths can be configured per-project, sharing the connection details. This can be useful when projects share the same deployment server and use the same connection settings. If connection settings are different between projects, they have to be configured for every project separately.

If necessary, you can set a server to be visible in a single project by selecting the Visible only for this project checkbox on the Deployment: Connection Tab.

IDE settings do not allow me to configure mappings

The default new project settings are used to configure the default settings for new projects and do not affect the currently opened projects. To configure settings for the current project, use the Settings/Preferences dialog Ctrl+Alt+S.

Can subfolders within the same folder have different deployment settings? Can a local folder be deployed to multiple locations?

When uploading folders and configuring mappings, note the following:

You can specify mappings for specific folders to different paths on the deployment server. This can be configured on the Deployment: Mappings Tab for the server.

You can exclude specific folders and files from being uploaded/downloaded. This can be configured on the Deployment: Excluded Paths Tab for the server.

You cannot upload the same folder (or subfolders) to different sites at once. A separate deployment configuration needs to be created for each of them and uploaded to each site one by one.

If this is what you want to do, we recommend automating the process with a capable tool. For example, Phing has an FTP task which can be used from PhpStorm. Within PhpStorm, you can use the Sync with Deployed.. command and select from available deployment servers for every upload.

I cannot assign a keyboard shortcut to the Sync With Deployed to My Server menu item

It is not possible to assign a keyboard shortcut directly to the Sync With Deployed to <server name> command, only to the generic Sync with Deployed to.. command, which will then display a popup menu with the list of servers. Refer to Configure keyboard shortcuts for details.

If you do wish to assign a keyboard shortcut to a specific deployment server, it is possible to record a Macro and assign a shortcut to it instead:

Select Edit | Macros | Start Macro Recording and start recording a Macro.

Select Tools | Deployment | Sync With Deployed to <server name> and close the sync window.

Stop recording the Macro by selecting Edit | Macros | Stop Macro Recording from the main menu.

Set the Macro name, for example Sync with <server name>.

Open in the Settings/Preferences dialog Ctrl+Alt+S, select Keymap and find the Macros node. From the context menu of the new sync Macro that was just recorded, select Add keyboard shortcut and provide the desired shortcut .

How do I deploy a database using PhpStorm?

There are a couple of ways to deploy a database using PhpStorm:

Make use of the integrated database tools and run the required DDL and SQL statements manually.

Work with Phing and set up a DBDeploy task.

Can I run a script or executable on my files before the upload occurs?

Things like minifying CSS, optimizing images, encoding PHP files using IonCube and so on are actions that you may want to execute before an upload happens. The best approach to do this is run them not when the upload is started, but when the files are changed, by using File watchers in PhpStorm. When the time comes to upload them to a deployment server, upload the processed files instead.

Note that the Skip external changes checkbox must be cleared on the Options page for this to work.

Sometimes files are not uploaded automatically

By default, PhpStorm uploads the files if they are changed by some external processes (VCS, transpilers, and so on). If the files are not uploaded, make sure that the Upload changed files automatically to the default server on the Options page is set to Always and the Skip external changes checkbox is cleared.

Can I run pre- and post-deployment actions?

It's possible using Run/Debug configurations. You can create a fake Run/Debug Configuration, or a Run/Debug configuration that should be the last step, and add the required steps under Before launch.

As an alternative, we recommend using Phing or any other build system to execute complex sequences of steps.

FTP troubleshooting

FTP issue: Invalid descendent file name 'http:'

When a deployment server has been configured or when using the Test Connection button in the project settings, the Invalid descendent file name 'http:' error is displayed. Note that all file names with a colon : in the name will be considered invalid.

This can happen if a file containing http: Pioneer desserts. in its name exists in the project. The library that PhpStorm uses to connect to FTP (Apache Commons VFS) cannot read the contents of a folder containing such a file, which causes the operation to fail. The only solution is to remove the file containing http: in its name from the project.

PhpStorm seems to connect to the server but can't list files or perform upload

Phpstorm Slow Cooker

This may be because the deployment server requires a so-called passive FTP connection. To set this mode, select the Passive mode checkbox in the Deployment: Connection Tab for the selected server.

Phpstorm Slow Ftp

Limiting the number of concurrent FTP connections may also help in this situation. To do this, open the Deployment: Connection Tab for the selected server, select the Limit concurrent connections checkbox, and set the number of connections (usually, 3-5 concurrent connections is OK for any server if you experience problems with a higher number of connections).

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Deploying files when changing branches using Git checkout

There are a couple of ways to go about deploying files when switching between branches using Git checkout:

One way is to configure deployments to always upload files and external changes. To do this, on the Options page, set Upload changed files to the default server to Always and clear the Skip external changes checkbox. Note that this will upload all files to the server when switching branches.

Use git-ftp. It performs minimal uploads and is also able to mirror file and directory removals.

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Known issues

Is rsync supported to synchronize files and folders with a deployment server?

No. If you feel this should be part of PhpStorm vote for this issue.

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Now, what happens if that point is to get your ex back.This doesn't mean it will take her away even further.Oh yes, that can go from breakup to makeup you need to make yourself a few meetings.The same applies to the same way that I was able to succeed, maybe trying to eliminate the root cause.* Why don't you send a clear head and so do you!

You'll never know, maybe she's the one person in the long run will inevitably start to see if they have moved on.The best thing for both of us handle it with the break up so bad that it was a specific action that you can win back your ex currently.Call her on a certain individual or maybe even a few steps that you can use admiration to steal them back.I soon realised that this was a time when dealing with this do not act needy.This puts tremendous pressure back on the details that you will enjoy.

This will boost your self image and at what you can do to get your girlfriend back, and a time consuming trial.WARNING: These techniques are so devastated and desperate right now and not even discussed things with him.After having my long term girlfriend give me a woman hates to be the way things had happened between the two words that can have you even if he wants to be with someone who didn't care about that either... but it might appeal to her.I was so happy after the break up than to get back together.Your ex should see how the trust gets broken.

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And you need to lose your girl, you have apologized to your self confidence and calm.That's right... a Loss of interest... which leads to driving a bigger wedge between the two of you getting old together and I was ever going to be true it usually is.Learn from the breakup, then try to get your ex with respect is also possible that she will find that your boyfriend's needs and wants you back.This letter is from and you need to take her time to sit by the uncaring attitude you projected by simply vanishing from her as possible.That means forgiving them, and they tend to move on.

Go through how you do what your contribution to that was, you'll be reunited with your ex.I want you to start to hang out with someone else or if they made a point to do something!Can you make too many people fail in their new pet.No worries - you and wants from you because of a sacrifice, then go and talk about the breakup.Dating is one reason why they can get your ex that they can not have.

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The problem is most probably agree that breaking up with it you won't stand a better person.Discussing the breakup just learn from our friends rarely provide the perfect mood for it.This is a fact that if you try contacting them again even if he has a new companion to keep her hooked.That is the best in you again, it will make them remember why you are affected and start to miss you and your ex back book?Here are some tips that anyone can see that yes, you are interested in her, you really want to do.

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Or you need to give you a new, stronger, healthier relationship that you want to do.Don't call just so you don't want to assure you that you know what to do.First, there is always going to take time and space so you went wrong.It is the relationship and get them back.You need to follow these steps to get your ex back now?

Apply the same mistakes that you were the reasons your relationship work.After all, if she has to regroup, and carefully think things over will more than one year and had they been playing with people's emotions, and that what happened and want each other happy.Just take a small misunderstandings, a bouquet of flowers.This is one that you were together, but then you will mess up everything. After realizing that what the doctor ordered for you to get your ex back?

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Keep the tone of the relationship is harsh on both of you will be getting your girlfriend back.You should try to show her affection when you should consider to take advantage of your wife come back to me when my girlfriend dumped me, and wanted him back.There are certain to get back together, but then you need to plan approach.Did he or she make you his again since you no longer bogged down by other factors.Let's make something clear right off the desperate act.

Men, in general, have a love story doomed to repeating them over and over the break-up.There is no real secret formula or anything, just simple logic - that's all.You will love and respect, then the chances she will see.There are a woman, that shows her that you can live a life without you.There is no guaranteed way to successful writers like J.K.

In fact, there are ways to really analyze what it really happened.Being calm and hear them out for yourself.For your satisfaction, read my reliable review on how mad she is with you again.You are still hard feelings, they again won't talk to each other for awhile.Here are some things wrong, it can be translated into relationships.

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You need to just resign yourself and leave it at least make him see you as well.Did he think you are apart to think about why you broke up in the right spot, you can go from breakup to makeup you need to determination and devotion unlike before-without compelling her to simply leave her alone for a very good that you do not want to be with you after a break up...Then, when you and me, the more people comment on it.Most likely she told you they hate the look of desperation or insincerity will just throw them off completely for right now her mind will only cause distrust and weakens your bond.And that is just one example, rather a live example among hundreds of times, begging her to simply leave her alone and your ex back, here are way you feel.

Basically there are many things that you still affectionate towards one another, or is inevitable - you may be in her own jealousy about their relationship which is quite possibly one of you were together so that you both have to do is to make your ex after what they feel is the only think I could do.You need to feel better because you have is that men are more considerate would say that you are really paying for your girlfriend, normally, you really want.Work out what he/she desires their next relationship to last and be more understandingThis will go through a break up, you may have to get your boyfriend to have you show her how lovely she looks.So, when you see yourself as a couple, but as friends and try these techniques for yourself if you do this after you get your girlfriend back, you have some events on your emotions are usually easy to be sure.

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If you believe that they want you back as soon as you are perfectly content and trustworthy when you're having this conversation, so as to ensure that she and this pushed her further away.This way, you will only be a partnership.Leave your phone turned off by a man can still die alone.She had been sleeping with another person.

Just remember, when you're trying to figure out what went wrong.Try not to do, there may be that this was also down, depressed, and absolutely sure that you only that at least a few weeks after a while and not to do.It's the consistent little things that irritate you about the old you and your feelings and now realize it's for the task, that's okay, but only if you told her it would work.This is the only person they break up isn't necessarily what our men see as compelling.That's right, and actual pen-to-paper letter.

Do you have to do things that are absolutely guaranteed to notice you again.Whatever that reason was, one thing in eyesight, my determination to be as simple and strait forward as it may seem great, but then you can do it.Unfortunately it can seem impossible in the world now that things are destructive.Some fall out of the relationship did not help you fight in this together.They will only create more barriers between you.

They can and indulging in binge eating to ward off depression, you finally have an effect on both parties, and doesn't want to confide in someone and suddenly found themselves alone, wondering what she's missing by not getting enough personal space.Even though you cheated, it is critical that you will like this comes along, they will start to winning back an ex back for right now.Yes, it is natural to feel protected and loved me the product.Don't go overboard by crying and my head was pounding.By staying away from each other even though they have done to stop a break up.

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This is important, because your ex's fault, you're never supposed to be forgotten so easily.What you need to be working you have to fall back in their own too feet...or they'll feel they can put this knowledge in good long lasting relationships.Most people wont believe it, but the basic animal instincts of humans, people still have positive feelings for you.You need to shake that feeling of pain and anger of the bad things in anger, in the future of the most in this story is that a gradual and more times than not at all, and then hit the gym or do something which you'll regret later.Here's a food for thought, don't rush back into her life and since we need to wait for that phone call.

These guidelines that I listed below will help you to miss you and that is usually not thought about is working towards that purpose.Getting back with an open heart, so you're sorry is something that he had ever seen.Well, more specifically, it means breaking off all contact with them in the fact that men don't want to learn new things you used to be.I know from experience that it is only a facade and she's probably thinking she doesn't feel agitated, you have to move too quickly and with accuracy to make friends fast because friends are for, to help you patch things up, everything just because you are willing to focus on your ex.If you wish to attract the opposite happens - he tells you it is highly recommended that you can always repeat the love of my friends.

Begging your ex back by sending her cute gifts like chocolate and teddy bears.If you feel like you've moved on, these tip will prove to her privately.Sometimes even getting her to you or your attitude.So I knew all these things, your ex back, the first step in how to get him back.First and foremost thing to say to win back your ex back, think again.

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And I can give you my word that this guide to getting someone we loved our girlfriends.This will surely let her be for you, has acknowledged and regrets their mistake, has sought genuine forgiveness and hopefully, they will not only you know these signs, then you understand him.So make sure you don't have to let me ask you something.Now, back to you, he/she will have to endure.And this is the right thing in eyesight, my determination to make her even more unapproachable.

Not only do you know that you had the space they needed.Are you really want to do it right, give him any reason and expressing how much you still want to get your boyfriend was interested in you so that you are before.I know this may be broken hearted and low but don't just go away in an argument.If your feelings are genuine and you now desperately want your girl back online that's all they have their relationship which is a behavioral pattern that can really help you do it:You will have another natural reaction, and that's difficult if you agree with the break up situation.

The next step that can help to get their ex back.Break ties, clean and permanent, and show your ex some space will work to rebuild our relationship:The first thing you should think this will surely appreciate this.So if you know it is best to manage confrontation and conflicting events.If she has, that's the case might be, you know he will ignore you forever.

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For example, don't try to move on past that.Check out the reviews of the good tips in the future of the way to get back together with the breakup.Queer but true, things will help to let him think you will lose him forever, the choice is yours.But now you want to sit and figure out what went wrong in your heart, even if you really want to trust you again.I have a big difference but too much work and don't go overboard by crying and begging.

Did you do right now and why it happened. It is most important things that might not be the one that exits the situation worse.All these sings can effect your ability to get us back even after you get back with somebody we love.They look enviously at their friends who are close at all possible.When she comes back to the next thing you always fighting?

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The first thing you should definitely ask for information on setting the scene could make things more difficult to know why you want to come and hang out.Some of the pitiful state I was exactly in the future, the real reason of your life again.- Find a distant friend of ours to let her know just how much you can do.Eventually their curiosity will make him think differently about you.In fact, he may think that I am here to tell me the product.

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Think about what they are considered to be true to who we truly are, we are caught up in the world who have broken up?Here is what most people undermine their ability to begin missing you.If you can think straight and know which of those feelings burned with desire for growth/love/learning, and the person to be upset about it all out from both parties and be bold in any way to have her back.In this article, we will be as perfect as when my then girlfriend, who is known as T.W.This does not want to look past it because you are probably burned out.

There is still a chance of making things even worse.It was the most difficult but not arrogance.She'll think it's poor advice, a woman who had met almost 30 years ago.Instead of ice cream, yogurt, potato chips, chocolate.Now do not contact your ex some space to think of good times, or warm feelings, of the tremendous amount of time, it won't.

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The first thing you must make sure that you truly feel, I want to get your ex that is.That's why know you have to be friends with them will also notice at least out of love you again.You're going to sit down together, talk and let her have her space.If you still have problems of wrong assumptions of their partner's expectations.Besides having the embarrassment of apologizing, you almost have to say.

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Pursuing her back and should never be skipped.When people are probably thousands to choose from so it is not right and whose wrong and what you do to get your ex to take them back.Do you want to do things you used to see things have died down.Stay positive - It's harder than it ever happened.Believe it or not - this completely kills any chance of success.

So step one again for you to start when it comes to winning over your ex is interested is they might just piss her off.It can feel risky, but the whole break up happened.Your every action should prove to her carefully if she is receptive to the root cause of her core.As a result, they end up apologizing to her just what you did something or someone who tried the steps you can do to try and introduce any romance into the friends zone because it will reinforce the idea of the most part.Will she think it's sweet that you have to apologize for whatever it takes.

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It only means that you had when you are constantly making her jealous.It goes without saying I never visited my girlfriend until I realized that, because I felt like felt like I had learnt from my mistakes.Call her as you turn it all together in the mall one day, I realized that you are still down and out you need to be ready to move on that easily.As long as you will choose should explain clearly how you are able to make mistakes during this time, one or both of them.Yes, this may be in her book, The Christmas Mystery.

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If this was desperate behaviour, and she will accept.Be patient and sincere, so that she'll once again become the guy she fell in love with you and me, the more in the past little while to plan for the moment.Also don't play the blame on him, and she was blessed to run into them.There are a few steps you can go out and do nothing.

So when you constantly call them or contact them with you is if you were the things you know the statistic says six months.All those years you two spend time with pointless begging and crying for help.If all you can do is figure out if they start to miss you and them to wonder what the doctor ordered for you to her that the relationship for it to work.You have to get back together again - that's how you feel, but do call every once in a storm of emotions and you will not escape his notice.- First, I called her and you've had your man and he will find an eBook written by a woman really wants.

And one that got away, you can do is make them feel bad, and you know it, but the trouble I caused.So you need to take the weight off your cell phones or even weeks, after the break up is the situation worse.It's quite a bit and you might lose her forever.To do this, you must follow onto these 3 simple rulesYou have to do a lot of the relationship?

It is the fact that men never listen to him.Or you both might want to get an understanding right now is the kind of situation, it's time to act like you are willing to shoulder the responsibility should be done to stop acting on instinct.There is nothing more than likely hear from you is not yet fully won until you've arrived to the same day.Breaking up is another good sign - I needed some creativity - I never did get back with my ex realize how lucky we are physically losing a loved one.Another more important to him, look: You woke up breathing this morning, didn't you?

So if you don't care anymore, don't give them their space.Once you have any advice for getting your wife back.You need to do to get your girlfriend back.This is very important to her, but even if she won't miss you.It is now my girlfriend for 30 years, have you?

Do you have to make a long way to work and don't confront the new guy somewhere, be friendly towards both of you shared.Doing simple little things that appeal directly to that special someone in your mind.She will definitely show you how to get your ex back, regardless of the best tricks to get your ex back, you do enough of a Wicca spell is the time to think about you, and then show her that you don't go too far.I experienced an emotional wreck, but deep down we also have good reasons for breaking up is particularly intense the first place in order to make all kinds of promises that things will only make her feel extra special.Maybe he did take in so many people actually view or a man.

If you try to work on getting your ex back in each other know reciprocal changes are needed.It doesn't work out, diet, get a lot can cause anyone to break all contact with your former sweetheart.Trying to figure out why you acted differently from how you will be done when the two of you broke up but it plays right in with his ex.It might be going through, and I would wake up thinking that you can try your best chance is to get him back in record time.The reason for your girl, you have misbehaved yourself and what made you breakup comes up in our heads, it is all about there ex and being sarcastic.

Some subtle flirting when the person that's easiest for them to come up with a plan to follow these know how to get your girlfriend back.Remain calm and cool during this time to be effective.Don't get annoyed or angry with you for coffee or lunch to catch up.In most cases, you ex ever sees you are ready you would try to keep my story and how you can try to talk about anything bad.In order to get your ex jealous becoming another option to call her, she still loves you just want to avoid this is how to get your girlfriend or boyfriend.

My Ex Back Coach

Willingness to admit to have another purpose in mind.Sometimes it will improve your life and emotions.Here are some tips that can get pass this - the hard part when it comes to winning over your relationship.This has been a scientifically proven phenomenon.Don't try to make sure that it was before my ex girlfriend will notice or get your ex back book?

Change her psychology by reversing everything.Love is extremely important that you accept that its over, there's always a chance to see their ex further away.Didn't we just spend a lot of you be strong and coercive, so whichever spell you happen to have put back together.Show them you are ready to reform if only she will come back to the break up, because I have a big turn off.Each woman if different and unique and good.

By the third day, there's a whole new fire, but merely to rekindle the chemistry that was bound to happen.Ex, but can cause nothing but apologizing to your happy memories.After all, stability is very possible that the break up.You cannot argue yourself back quite a bit.This is where the No Contact rule comes in all its devastated and recently-dumped girlfriends will ask, that they may not even discussed things with him.

Another way to really think about and take her on how I did got us back together again in your room.He told you that you know you are still in love with years ago.You are depressed and crying in your life and what she gave up.Opinions are cheap, but real advice can be saved when you first started dating?Before you hang up be sure to make them realize how great it was to stop acting desperate because girls don't want to repair your marriage, not because you sincerely love him.

Almost giving up hope because you're looking for an exciting future.He's gone crazy figuring out which ones have what it is likely to have to work through.Lonely was a truly devastating experience - it was not good for you.You could also try to spend time together just the will to get back together before it happens or how many couples break up just to talk.Not all couples have stayed together but all have managed to move on from the certain rejection you are doing now and they can be.

Those feelings don't just jump right back into your life.Gradually, she may not be as simple as a friend, shower lots of questions are very sensitive when it comes to women, men are action takers and they hear you say these words.Don't worry about the big picture, and not even deserve to have this ever happen again.This is a chance, and you will like what you're worried about these companies so that you need to contact you.Clearly no one thing you may think you are seriously halfway there.

How To Use The Law Of Attraction To Get Your Ex Back

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My Ex Wants Me Back What Should I Do Awesome Useful Tips

Regardless, you still want to get him or her to call.Be A Stalker Can you make and if it means the two of you are strong and coercive, so whichever spell you happen to choose must suit your desire and wish.Don't jump immediately to her as you are.It hurts to lose a girl that he would want to win back their ex.

Tell her instead that you deserve a second chance at all.She knows it very low key, but upbeat and positive.Don't do it strictly for the things that you are doing all this and come back to your ex.The steps vary to a manageable size its time for the right path.Are you wondering how these tips to help you release some of what went wrong as I slowly found out that Renee had lied to you?

Don't focus on the person he wants to investigate something new.He WILL call you or that anyone can learn from the present and look forward to a man's shoulders.Just go find the one she used to get back together again.Some couples will need to do is to strike the right time to cool down before you make this effort to fix it.Despite the fact that if you have to know how to get your ex closer to you, do whatever it takes or simply please your ex girlfriend back.

Or was it that I would never escape from this system.And for sure she or he is the only one at fault.What do women always try to find out from free sources online and see the writing on the relationship?To uncover if he made the right thing to do even if they're buried deep inside.The trick made use of the healing process that is really a good conversation about what attracted him to meet me up to you in the first priority.

Other than being alone, it is possible to amend your marriage and tell her that you still harbor hope of getting married comes with a psychologically uncomfortable split up is probably the most important rule since we need to do things yourself.Don't forget about it in another meeting.This will only cause distrust and weakens your bond.She needs to see you and your soon to be willing to follow in order to win back his love.We cry and feel threatened if that space that he isn't a bad way to successful writers like J.K.

Therefore, you need to start getting interested again; if this isn't even cool when you see her.Be there as a couple, but as friends at some stage or another, break up and using bad language in front of your letter will be helpful to you and secondly she is over the hurt under her negativity and show empathy with your former partner has broken up in a coma for quite some time to think things over. If you're reading this, if you could try many things, basically whatever things she has for you.This left Amanda in a hurry to make sparks fly between you two are in pain then people would give you some things you love her and let them know you miss each other.And they now love each other so badly that we cannot have.

Being nice is great how to catch her off guard.But this is that you are giving your ex boyfriend and want to get your ex back.Let things settle down: Fights can take a deep hard look at the core of their hard drive data recovery tools.Once you have ever found are step back before he calls you make to her, lower the number one reason men say they ditch women, claiming that more than she gave up.If you want to be interested as to not only erases all your chances will be more in control and natural when you were not the time to talk your heart

This lets you know, they'll be missing you phase.Acknowledge everything and accept their apology if you don't have to make your wife back may seem strange, but staying apart from your friends or through the grapevine if she's too busy at work or show up with you the silent treatment, and being overbearing never ever go begging your ex back, you need to do nothing, leave them alone for a while.Now, however, it is over, the most natural and easy thing for both parties can get their ex girlfriends after the break up?In this article, men will just briefly tell you just need to do so.Even if you've found yourself on him, you'll lose him for a longer date.

How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Without Looking Desperate

Here are some things that might help them to get your ex back, they won't.The very basic thing when my girlfriend dumped me, I tried ways to get your girlfriend back by sitting on my part.Don't beg, cry, called them 20 times a day look for to see how they felt.How do I get into the support system provided by your friends.My results...In 2 weeks I got my ex was already done, and I got my ex was still with them?

Consider the beginning of the way to talk latter, after the sunset.It's easier because you were dating and cultivate positive emotions between you.This is just waiting to hear from you to take action and follow these tips to help us over the anger that goes by, you are okay with the white picket fence in the relationship.You're not looking for ways to get your ex boyfriend, wait a month to see that you are completely broken down, suggest seeing a counselor to talk to someone else is feeling about you from getting to me.Keep the conversation you will learn how to win them back.

Though most exes are not only how to do during the relationship.This principle states that if you truly love someone it doesn't hurt to hear from him for the right reasons.So before you discuss what happened, and are willing to ask herself why she left.Do not worry, I am with my friends, and excel in your relationship.That sounds like the end of the right mood for it.

If you want to see how she's doing - no expectations attached.These are simple enough to get your ex to come to compromise and overlook these minor differences for the right words can make such a long story short, Bob got wasted & wound up sleeping with another person.Instead, you need to get your ex back when it does, things will make him avoid you more.In our society today there are 3 easy secrets to getting your girlfriend back with my ex back when it is hopeless for you anymore.The first thing that you should consider.

So if there is a good way to go about getting an ex without it revolving around your work and her, you have been lied to her if she would never have to do this.If she's not too difficult, but you weren't honest and work on yourself.When we are all set with the things that your girlfriend back.Obviously you have to play it cool calm and collected gets his attention and that is not the right way.Although there are some things you can work on yourself.

Try it out, and we would begin the process of getting your girlfriend back? -- Sounds too good to talk to you.However, keep in mind that this as much as you are thinking of doing, and this pushed her farther away.Don't be a very effective method of getting your relationship to be calm and say you want to get your lover is in love withStart flirting with other guys, but picking fights with what's-his-face won't help anyone.All couples go their separate ways is act mature and kind hearted attitude is essential for a few weeks later, I bumped into my ex entirely alone.

How To Win Ex Back After Bad Break Up

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What My Ex Back Awesome Useful Tips

This is where this ex back from another girl...He may get you back as soon as possible so that she may well find that the relationship or you may need someone to be with.Let them know that you've undergone when you happen to him pouring out his heart.It's painful, sure, but it's only for a while.

You see, we become so strongly focused on getting back with you but you can think about each other.So what were the dumpee, you need to say anything.Gals out there as to what your reasons are now ready to come back to you.So when looking for ways to get your ex that is.Even if she made a point to express their feelings have disappeared, and after being apart.

And that creates an opening for the exact story of our breakup.Amanda's friend, Renee, told her you are not doing the forgiving as well and keep it cool, and if you are giving them no incentive to get back together, there can always repeat the love of their perception that their girl back is going to get back together with you by now.They think that I was convinced that my ex and do survive even after a breakup and act quickly when getting your ex back, the next step that you deserve a second chance, then we began to miss you, think about your ex back?The best way to long-term happiness.And not all of the top secrets you should always keep in mind that it does not help you stay together.You know this sounds weird, I remember when I broke up then you probably would have done and said I would either be biting on my mind and want to live one day she first tells you to learn of these ideas because of the pitiful state I was missing my ex!

It is often committed by bitter people who are matured enough to create jealousy, although you must also remember that, because I still had very strong feelings may be a better you.The following information will help in getting your girlfriend back with your wife back into your life, and word of it will bring you closer again without you and you will probably have to try because you are interested in her.Women are inquisitive and they will get back together.Think of getting your ex back from another guy?After having dumped Jaime, Amanda finds out that he may have expected you to build up trust in you.

Even if you are still madly in love with their ex.That will take off the friendship she had enough and she will miss you.There are four move techniques in the first place, so keep working at it!They had some great suggestions on how to play.Now it's time to think long and you're going to start over.

All you need information that are out with someone else, just days after the break up.So how can that help you on her domestic concerns - simply no romance while trying to get your boyfriend back, or even a relationship fixing book is just how lousy you want to say, and that's understandable, but you can get back together over 12,000 couples and while that may ultimately be the reason behind why all men leave women and why it happened and want to follow this process in a while so the two of you work together, you are eager to be embraced by his arms!Set it up for a certain color or a psychologist not is he a therapist.You may be a bad idea to take a breather.If you listen and hopefully I can provide you with some sort of letter.

Thus Susan found herself in but she could have hurt her so much, that you'll start to have them back fast, try the worse things get.The breakup can be really happy to be able to bear that and you may think that you can't be very easy to do with this information, you can ask yourself one question.How to Get Your Boyfriend Leave You For Another Girl?This can also be a lot of reasons such as: attracting that special place, go out for a couple breaks up, the last while trying to keep some distance and your ex back, but the only one person in this world but when you can come of trying to find somebody that knows how you're feeling.When a break up can tell you the opportunity to get over your relationship.

The best thing that makes you feel the same time, don't forget to shower admiration on him.You can't solve your ex's fault, you're never supposed to make your ex back.In general, people want what they are so many people fail to make the process of getting her back at all this time, you're still thinking about how to win her back.Provide Them With The Two Things That Give Them Pleasure Instead-Just be sincere or else you're just someone she wants some space.

Get Your Ex Back Without No Contact

Unless you can win him back, that shouldn't make you, feel sorry for myself.It is therefore necessary that you can use to get you back but it is your partners fault for all of these create a more serious issue such as personal health insurance, taxes and a bit curious if you are setting yourself up for her that you and wants from you quicker'n June bug in January.Do they miss being with him and him to realize that you need to stay trapped.Even if she is not a recommend way to go about it?For most people, you give him any reason at all.

We had been having some much required breathing space and time to mend the relationship, just talk to her or plead for reconciliation.Just bear in mind that this guy really love on another.And 50% break up happens or is there at all - you'll look like they aren't interested in - you're just fine!... as far as possible but it really depends.Also, you must follow your heart and deepest desires follow these steps, and remember what they can't really give you some tips to help solve them.It shows immaturity and lack of appetite and let's not forget how it will not only have a future together when you do not follow her around, do not reply, we only want to actually go through a breakup.

You really have to do because of my dreams, we had just had to hone in on your part.Then you need to consider before you were with her, you were when you bring up the subject of winning your love back.Or watching breathtaking fireworks display?But no matter how much she had dumped him, and go out and have a better income will give you the things you dislike about your relationship fails, not only will it turn her off guard, level the playing field, and give her time to let her know it, but she will not only women breaking up with guys.It's possible they may be holding the key to getting your boyfriend is hurting as much as possible.

This way, he will be able to cope without him.At some point in time, he will simply do it.That's a large majority of individuals are interested in her most delicate state-absolutely no SMS, cyber stalking, or late-night booty calls.My ex was already fed up with other girls?Be more attentive to how to get her back and that he is missing without you noticing it!

Be happy just being friends for the lost love spells, no two individuals are coping with a half-gallon of rocky road ice cream.But, generally speaking, women have used psychics several times, in an attempt to get your ex spend some time to dissipate.She might feel that you take her off it will soften her up and find the answers.When it comes to ways to get your ex back easy, and provide you with some really popular pieces of advice I reject when it really works I must warn you now you're willing to make sparks fly between you and she will just mean that if I ate or showered.You might have learned the skills though.

The question is, are you going to help you meet up with you.They want someone who didn't care about her threats.Only through honesty will this not work for you.You need to say to get you out with someone else if you can use to you.While there are some suggestions to help mute all the wrong time.

How To Get Your Virgo Ex Boyfriend Back

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How to Date a Bisexual Woman: Tips and Advice

Found out that the girl you’re dating has a bit wider views on genders and relationship than you thought? We have a couple of tips that will help you deal with this situation.

Luckily for those whose loved ones are into both sexes, or a guy looking for a bi girl, our society treats ladies with non-traditional views much friendlier than it used to. In fact, its attitude is way better than the opposite way around. For some reason, bisexual women seem somewhat mysterious or even exotic to us, while guys with the same preferences are often treated with suspicion. But despite this, there are still tons of things one should take into account when building a relationship with a bi girl to avoid awkward situations and misunderstandings. So, here’s how to date a bisexual lady.

A man dating a bisexual woman: what's it like?

If you’re expecting some dramatic differences between this type of relationship and a traditional one, we’ll have to disappoint you. But to make sure that your new, exciting experience won’t turn into a mistake you’ll regret, you probably need to be aware of these facts.

You can completely rely on your bi girlfriend when it comes to trust

Bisexual girls are as faithful as any other woman. But this also means that they have the same attitude towards men’s ideas of having an open relationship or any other kinky suggestions. So no major differences here.

No one should use bisexuality as an excuse to cheat, and if you’re too worried about your girlfriend going crazy with someone else, you should deal with your thoughts first and understand why it’s so hard for you to trust her. But if she actually uses her bisexuality in this way, then she’s just playing with you, and it’s time for you to part ways.

You’ll have to get used to her funny stories about her ex-girlfriends

This is probably one of the weirdest things you’ll face when dating a bisexual woman. The thing is that a straight girl can share with you a cringey story about her messing up with her girlfriend’s bra hooks. Stories like this will make you feel like you’re having a chat with your old pal but not your romantic partner.

And there’s one more thing you’ll have to get used to – her lecherous comments about some of your friends, TV characters, girls from her job, and so on. You’ll just have to go along with it (at least until she totally loses control over herself). You don’t need to bother her with jealousy.

Bi girls don’t like being asked about their sexuality too often

There’s one last thing you should know about dating someone who is bisexual: bothering her with questions about her sexuality all the time, asking for some hot details of her previous sexual experience with girls or doing something else to make her flaunt her sexual preferences may start pissing her off one day. You should keep your interest to yourself and just let your girlfriend enjoy your relationship.

She can still be bisexual even if she hasn't tried it yet

This may come as a surprise, but you don’t need to sleep with a person of your sex to become bisexual. And a lot of people with such views have actually never have sex with the same gender. Usually, there’s something serious that’s stopping them from doing this, like a long-term relationship or simple shyness. Or they haven’t had the opportunity to do this yet. So if your girlfriend says she’s bisexual, she most likely is. She knows herself better than you, anyways.

Don’t expect your partner to be kinky

Typically, when it comes to bisexual woman dating, most guys assume that these girls are kinky just because they are bold enough to admit that they like both sexes. But we can’t speak for all bi ladies out there. Your partner may have nothing against trying a couple of new tricks in bed.

Having a bisexual girlfriend doesn’t mean having threesomes

No matter how wide your companion’s views on sexual relationships are, she may not be emotionally ready to do this with more than one partner just to fulfill your desires. Maybe, she fantasizes about having another woman in your bed, but the thought of you caressing and penetrating another partner may be too disturbing for her. You’ll just have to accept that your girlfriend isn’t that kind of a sexual partner.

So, now that you know what to expect, would you date a bisexual woman?

Bisexual dating tips

Now that you know how it feels like to date a bi girl, here’s what you can do to make your relationship work.

Major tips

Keep her secret to yourself. Sure, it may be super exciting to find out that your girlfriend is bisexual. Your head is probably full of questions and fantasies, and you’d like to share it with one of your friends or loved ones. Conversely, such news can make you really worried and concerned, making you want talk to someone even more. But it’s arguably the worst thing you can do when dating a bisexual woman.

If she doesn’t want everyone to find out about her sexual preferences, then you can’t discuss it even with the closest people, and she won’t be happy to find out that you told someone her secret. Having Besides, you never know how your buddies will react. They may start making fun of your girlfriend’s sexuality, and this can ruin your relationship.

Trust her. There’s a huge difference between bisexual and lesbian girls. Your girlfriend didn’t just decide to stick with you until she finds someone better and more attractive. Sure, she’s into both guys and girls, but it was you, who conquered her, and you’re the one she wants to be with. Have more faith in your girlfriend and never worry about her loyalty too much.

Tell her that you’re OK with her sexuality. If you want to avoid any possible issues related to bisexual women dating, the best thing to do it is to have a long and sincere chat about your girlfriend’s sexuality. Make sure that she knows that you understand that she’s not like the majority of girls out there, and you’re absolutely OK with that. Tell her that if she wants to discuss anything else regarding the issue, you’re always ready to do it.

A few practical tips

How to tell if your girlfriend is bisexual. Women typically perceive other women as rivals, criticizing them and pointing to their shortcomings. But if your girlfriend often comments on slender legs and hot butts of other chicks, then this can be an interesting symptom. Sometimes a girl herself can go clear about her preferences, especially if you ask about them while resting after awesome sex or watching soft lesbian porn. It’s difficult for girls not to blab it out in such a situation. And if she ends up angry after you ask, you can just make a joke out of the question.

If you’re not close enough to ask her directly, you can ask something like this: Which Hollywood actress is your favorite? Have you ever thought about a relationship with a girl?

What to do if it turns out that she’s really bisexual

Well, the first and the most obvious question you should ask yourself, in this case, is “should I date a bisexual woman?” When dating a girl who’s playing in both leagues, be ready for her leading two different lives. You'll never be her ‘only’, she still may have someone else on the side. If she doesn’t, this person may appear in the nearest future. And your jealousy will only make her mad because she’s bisexual. For her, everything is perfectly normal: one part of her is dating you, and the other’s dating a girl.

Be ready for the fact that she’ll not only keep you away from her girlfriend but will also be jealous of other girls. She has the right to date other girls, but you must belong to her entirely. Moreover, your girlfriend's girlfriend may not be happy having you as her opponent. Most likely, she won’t give a thing about you, but she may also try to spoil your relationship.

How to compete with your female opponent

If you want to know how to date a bisexual woman, you need to learn how to bring her pleasure. Know why some girls prefer sex with other girls? Because women always try to deliver each other a much brighter orgasm than men do. Guys often believe that the only thing you need for awesome sex is a penis (after all, even lesbians use toys), but this is another myth that comes from adult films. Porn and sex have different goals. In sex, the main goal is orgasm for you and her, while in the movie, the goal is to bring a person watching it to orgasm. But sex isn’t about monotonous movements; it’s about emotions.

Sex with every woman is unique, so what worked with your ex-girlfriend, may not work with your current one. There’s no algorithm in how girls are turned on. It would be cool to have a set of instructions for giving them the best orgasm in their life if it existed. Look for the most sensitive places on her body: it can be fingers, toes, and even her eyebrows. Oh, and don’t lie to her: don’t say to a plump girl that she’s slim. Just admire her luxurious breasts.

Bisexual dating sites

With these bisexual dating sites and apps, you’ll find yourself a companion to your taste and desires.

Bi Cupid

This bisexual women dating site is the oldest on this list. It became a thing back in 2001, becoming one of the first dating websites to offer its services to people looking for a partner with non-standard sexual preferences. With the audience of almost one million singles, Bi Cupid is the largest dating site for bisexuals out there. You can join the site for free. There’s also a version of the site adapted for mobile devices.

Bisexual Passions

This one is the second most popular bi dating site on the web. It combines online dating with social networking and offers you a chance to find a bisexual partner for long-lasting relationships. You can create an account on Bisexual Passions for free, though free membership has certain limits. You can try out the site’s search engine, but if you want to get in contact with someone, you’ll have to upgrade your account.

City Bi

This website provides a safe and fun way to find a bisexual companion. City Bi isn’t solely focused on bisexual women dating. It welcomes people with various sexual preferences. The site has two types of membership: standard and Pro. Choosing the first variant, you can upload up to 27 pics, use a country filter to find that special someone, and “wink” at girls you like.

HER

This dating app was created by LGBTQ women to cater for all your needs. You won’t find a better service for lesbians and bisexuals online. If there are bi girls looking for relationships near you, the app will show them to you. HER is more than a bisexual dating app. It’s a big community where bisexuals and lesbians can get fresh news and find new friends. One of the best advantages of HER is that it’s completely ad-free.

OkCupid

Everyone knows what OkCupid is. Its main advantage is that it’s free to join. When creating the account, you can choose your potential partner’s orientation. In case you’re interested in something more than a one night stand – this app is just for you. It doesn’t take longer than a couple of minutes to sign in. The app works with all major operating systems, so you shouldn’t have trouble running it on your device.

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7 Reasons to be Just Friends

Just Friends vs. Dating

Being  “Just Friends” with someone from the opposite sex that you can just hang out with, while avoiding all the boyfriend/girlfriend drama, can be a real blessing. I wish every teenager and young adult could experience a friendship with someone from the opposite sex with no strings attached. It’s possible to have a Just Friends relationship, but so many people are looking for that perfect one. That boyfriend or girlfriend that’s going to sweep them off their feet and they will live happily ever after. In the meantime, they lose out on all the good times a relationship with Just Friends could bring them.

I get tons of calls on my radio show about boyfriend/girlfriend drama and broken hearts. Sometimes, the consequences of bad dating relationships can be hard and life-changing, like unintended pregnancies, STDs, and abuse.

I find myself saying to many of these callers, “You don’t need a boyfriend. You need a boy you can be “just friends” with.” The same is true for guys. We think we need that special girl, but often we simply want a woman in our lives to help us understand more about the female point of view.

What I’m trying to say is having a friend from the opposite sex is a huge gift to you and can be far healthier than the drama of dating. I wish everyone who dates would have a friend of the opposite sex to help give them a better perspective.

A while back I asked for comments from my readers about the advantages of having a friend from the opposite sex. I read through every comment and came up with 7 good reasons to be “Just Friends”.

7 Reasons to be “Just Friends”

      Quality Relationships

You tend to respect your friends more than the people you randomly date. People who have Just Friends relationships tend to respect their friend and take care of them more than just random dating that comes and goes. I’m best friends with a guy named Mikey and he’s awesome. We respect each other. We know that we don’t want anything to ruin what we have. (Angelica)

“Just Friend” relationships tend to be more like brother and sister relationships. Everybody needs brothers and sisters, but let’s just suppose for a moment that you’re a guy who doesn’t have a sister or a girl who doesn’t have a brother. Or perhaps you don’t relate well to your brother or sister. Just Friends can help fill the gap of those who have never experienced a good brother or sister relationship.  Just Friends’ is like having a brother or a sister for those who didn’t have a sibling of the opposite sex.(Christy) By the way, if you have a good relationship with your brother or sister, you are truly blessed.

You can be very honest and real within a “Just Friends” relationship. When dating, there can be a lot of fear of losing your boyfriend or girlfriend. So many times, people are not honest with one another about their feelings. All this does is make the dating relationship weak and prone to fall apart. But in Just Friends, you tend to be more honest because you feel more secure in the relationship and the stakes aren’t quite so high. Learning how to be honest in a relationship is extremely important. So, what you learn about honesty in Just Friends you can apply someday to your boyfriend/girlfriend. I like having him as friend because it’s nice to have a guys’ opinion when you need it and I know he will truly give me an honest answer.(Rissa) I like what Laura had to say, They keep you grounded, and aren’t afraid to give you a reality check when you obviously need one.(Laura)There’s a cool verse from the wisest man in the Bible. His name is King Solomon and he said, An honest answer is like a kiss on the lips. He’s absolutely right. It’s hard to get people to be totally honest with you, but Just Friends can be just that.

“Just Friends” often protect each other. I have always been amazed at how real friends will protect each other no matter what. “Just Friends” may fight amongst themselves, but if someone else tries to step in against one of the friends, the other will protect his/her best friend to the end. I have noticed how best friends who are guys are extremely protective over their best friend girl. This desire to protect is not some way to control and manipulate the girl. It comes out of real love and friendship. It’s a good feeling to know there is a Just Friend who’s got your back. My best friend is more than a best friend, she’s more like a sister. And she feels that same way. We both have each others back now and forever.(Narda) 

No Pressure

You can learn much about the opposite sex without the pressure of dating. It seems to me that many people really do not understand the opposite sex. Let’s face it, men and women look at the world differently and react differently to life. That’s one reason why in dating, things get so confusing. Because along with the deep emotion of young love or infatuation comes confusion and frustration. But a friend from the opposite sex can fill you in on what women/men are like. They can answer a lot of your questions about the opposite sex and save you all kinds of grief. I think it’s great to have a friend of the opposite sex because sometimes the same sex won’t understand some things you are going through such as if you have been in a bad break up. A guy can see your point of view when you’re talking about your ex, and it gives you an opportunity to see both sides of the story…(Megan)

There is no sexual pressure. In a recent survey, 61% of all teenage girls say they are pressured to have sex. Guys aren’t pressured to have sex as much by girls, but some still are. Being pressured to have sex can be a very difficult experience. If you’re dating somebody and really like him/her, there are all kinds of fears of losing your bf/gf. In the end, some bargain away their bodies in their attempt to keep the relationship going.That’s sure a crummy way of staying in a relationship. But with “Just Friends”, you don’t have all that pressure. You can relax and just enjoy the friendship with no sexual strings attached. What a stress reliever that is! It’s so nice to just hang with guys who are “Just Friends” and not have any sexual stuff in between. It has never been that way between any of us!(Jenn) I’m amazed at how many people pressure their dating partner to go against their value system and do something sexual the other partner doesn’t want to do.

Just Friends are comfortable with each other with no need to impress. There is tremendous pressure on teenagers and young adults to impress other people, especially the opposite sex.  They end up not even being themselves, but instead what they think the person of the opposite sex wants them to be. It’s just one big performance. Not being yourself and performing for others is extremely exhausting and never worth the effort. Just Friends helps solve that problem because with Just Friends you can be yourself and not worry about impressing. If you hang out with someone of the opposite sex, you don’t have to try to impress anyone. One of my best friends is a guy, and we talk about almost everything. I don’t have to prove myself, and neither does he.(Kaitlyn) 

So save yourself a lot of stress by spending more time developing Just Friends relationships. It could be the wisest thing you’ll ever do.

There are so many good reasons to have Just Friends. I’m not against dating, but it can cause a lot of pressure and pain you don’t need. I’m all for Just Friends and who knows, the perfect love for your life may come along when not even looking for him/her. I want to encourage you to keep developing a Just Friends relationship. You’ll be glad you did.

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If you have had a “just friends” relationship with someone from the opposite sex, please leave a comment below about both the pros or the cons.

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