#Dude was out there feeling sorry for himself when Sirius was crawling out of Azkaban and eating Rats for Harry

[v-a-l]

The worst thing about Wolfstar is that Remus’ mediocrity and negligence is blamed on Sirius to facilitate a false equivalence that hinges entirely on Remus having Sirius’ personality and Sirius having no personality.

[shivstar]

Right. Because I headcanon that Remus Lupin was so self deprecating and self loathing that he did not have the guts to ask someone out. Let alone be in a relationship.

So I hate when he is shown as being in a relationship as a teenager or a young adult like some Casanova.

The dude was self conscious and awkward and gangly. And had lots of scar. And I know people won't like it but the truth is that those scars were not pretty or sexy, they were scary and suspicious. He wanted to stay out of shadow so that people did not know that he turns wolf once a month.

His friends found out his secret because he lived with them in the proximity of a dorm room. Otherwise I cannot imagine him offering up his biggest secret to anyone.

In Canon also he could be with lovely Tonks because his secret was outed due to the events in the shack. Or that order people knew atleast because Dumbledore told them.

I literally don't see him as a guy who can offer anything other than toxic relationship to his partner.

One good thing Jk did was to kill him in battle so that he would not add anything in his long list of failures and non actions.

But I wish she kept Tonks alive who could take care of Teddy and marry a decent guy this time and not chose some random old fart because of the pressure of the war!

The worst thing about Wolfstar is that Remus’ mediocrity and negligence is blamed on Sirius to facilitate a false equivalence that hinges entirely on Remus having Sirius’ personality and Sirius having no personality.

[pociemek]

#sirius black#remus lupin critical#marauders#hp#with the way fandom harps on about Sirius’ reckleness and irresponsibility#you’d think he was the one who abandoned his pregnant wife and unborn child#and blasted his dead best friend’s kid into a wall in his other dead best friend’s house#You can argue that Remus owed nothing to the Potters ans Harry#I’d agree and say this is exactly why James AND LILY made SIRIUS the godfather#Dude was out there feeling sorry for himself when Sirius was crawling out of Azkaban and eating Rats for Harry#While Remus could hardly be persuaded to stay for his own kid#and you’d think he’d have raised Harry better or loved him better?#I think not.

The worst thing about Wolfstar is that Remus’ mediocrity and negligence is blamed on Sirius to facilitate a false equivalence that hinges entirely on Remus having Sirius’ personality and Sirius having no personality.