#DifficultRealisations

[xena-woundedwarrior]

“When did excuses and blame shifting become acceptable because we allowed a group of people to tell us how we each react to different influences?”

Honest truth?

People need to stop thinking its ok to blame their chosen actions on their chemical balance level.

It’s said that we only use an average of 10% of our brains true protentional and if we accessed higher our capabilities and abilities could become, somewhat, supernatural like.

Now I’m no scientist and I dare not contest or prove the facts of the mind’s true abilities. However, There is no denying that our minds are a lot more powerful than society understands - let alone wants us to know, and probably there is the whole factor that us, ourselves truthfully don’t want to know or even begin to understand how powerful it truly is, because… then we would have a lot less to blame our choices on… and honestly, I get that, I to share that common flaw and fault.

HOWEVER… 

When did excuses and blame shifting become acceptable because we allowed a group of people to tell us how we each react to different influences? 

Have people forgotten the fact that our bodies work as a complex system while each person being unique to their own way their body responses to things – Meaning we are all different and therefore our experiences, responses and reactions in every sense of the words, are… Unique… so how can anyone say how you will respond to something? Rather what is said is a guide line to what Could be expected. But once again society has taken this to a new level, letting these “guide lines” become an excuse to act a certain way, instead of just owning up to the fact… that in truth… It is how you are choosing, in your mind, to respond.

I smoked weed, therefore I am lazy and don’t focus on anything… I drank a bit much, therefore my ambitions went out the window and what I did or said wasn’t really me, – I was to fucked to realise what I was doing… I had some chemical enhancing drugs, therefore although my brain is actually functioning at a higher more focused and alert level, somehow… this still enables me to blame lack of focus, true care for life, the people in it and what they going through as well as the “forgetting” of ones promised words, plans made, self-goals and so many more excuses for bad behaviour.

NO! I’m sorry, but that is a complete LIE! And I REFUSE to accept it or see it as a point to try understand your actions. These are excuses society has given you to justify the decisions you make and to help ensure you… and you hope others, that nothing really bad was meant, and that there is little to no truth behind any of it… And you know what? That’s a Codfish move! If you gonna do or make decisions that impact others emotions, your or others lives, the work you have put into others or the care you have for them. Rather grow up - own up to it - and aim to improve your flaws. And if that’s to much for you? Than at least decide what your own unique body can handle and what it can’t… Your body knows its self-better than anyone, so listen to it and be aware.  

Is what you doing now really worth the future damage you know you avoiding but will come no matter what? Don’t let it negatively impact even the near future regardless of the distant one.

There is something much more important than discovering your own body limitations though, and it is the very thing that people seem to forget above all the rest.  The fact that you control your mind, and your mind? Your mind Is more powerful than anything can conceive or fully understand (even through all the development and technical advances that humankind has achieved). And what controls your actions, decisions and response? Your mind… Same as it’s the very thing that keeps your body functioning and heart beating.

Therefore in conclusion; Even when your body and your mind are influenced by chemicals, surroundings or whatever – The fact is, is that they only open up certain areas of your brain that you don’t or cant access on a regular bases therefore it heightens the level in which you brain is functioning enabling you to make decisions based on your own current desires without certain barriers – But you forget, you the one that put those barriers there, you did it for a reason, because you felt strongly enough about it and you decided something was more important or it didn’t fit into the person you aim to be. So when you remove those barriers and decide to show a different side of your self…. Own up to it and accept the actions made, the words said and the emotion shown by you. Blaming it on your choice of usage, abuse or escape is a weak excuse and lie to cover the truth that clearly lies within you.

It is you who chooses those actions, it is you who controls those responses, and its you who decides what your focus will be on.