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Australia is in the news again
Farzam Mehrabi was found guilty of drugging and raping women. (ABC News: David Weber)
In short:
Perth dentist Farzam Mehrabi has been found guilty of drugging and raping several women he met on dating apps.
He was found guilty of stupefying and raping three women, raping two further women and stupefying another.
Mehrabi will be sentenced on December 17.
A jury has found a Perth dentist guilty of drugging and raping women he met through dating apps.
The WA District Court had heard that Farzam Mehrabi put drugs into his victims' drinks without their knowledge before sexually assaulting them.
Mehrabi's trial started in early August, with the dentist facing 22 charges, including sexual penetration without consent, stupefying in order to commit an indictable offence, and impeding someone's normal breathing.
The offences occurred in February and March in 2022.
He was found guilty of stupefying and raping three women, raping two further women and stupefying another.
Mehrabi was captured on CCTV in bars, putting drugs into the drinks of women he was dating.
One of those women, who had found him on Tinder, said she experienced blurred vision after drinking a martini, and remembered she "didn't really like the taste".
She was later raped at Mehrabi's home, where he choked her without her consent.
Perth man Farzam Mehrabi will be sentenced on December 17. (ABC News: David Weber)
Another victim told the court Mehrabi told her "he had the best MDMA" and she had some with him.
But she said that on another occasion she had been drinking with Mehrabi in his garden before she started seeing in "fours" and vomited.
She said she then blacked out and could not remember anything until she woke in his bedroom the next day, and later discovered injuries on her body.
She went to police and they recorded a phone call with Mehrabi, who claimed they had got drunk before having consensual sex outside.
Media report caused victim to come forward
Another victim came forward after seeing some media coverage saying "Perth dentist accused of spiking drinks".
The urine sample of a woman who was not assaulted, but who had her drink spiked, showed MDMA, methylone and methylamphetamine.
The court had been told that in some cases, the women had engaged in consensual drug use and sex with Mehrabi, who often talked about drug use, particularly MDMA.
Farzam Mehrabi was found guilty of 21 of 22 charges in the District Court of WA on Wednesday. (ABC News: David Weber)
His defence was that none of the sex was without consent, and he liked to be dominant with his partners.
The victims were aged in their late teens and early 20s, and the 34-year-old denied he was trying to deceive anyone by lowering his age on dating apps and targeting younger women.
Mehrabi was found guilty of 21 of the 22 charges the jury was considering, and found not guilty of one of the stupefying charges.
He had already pleaded guilty to two charges of supplying a prohibited drug and one charge of offering to sell or supply a prohibited drug.
Two of the women had not been assaulted, but told the court they had been drugged by Mehrabi.
A CCTV image of Farzam Mehrabi spiking a woman's drink. (Supplied)
Mehrabi was remanded in custody and will be sentenced on December 17.
Judge Troy Sweeney approved the release of footage showing Mehrabi spiking drinks to the media because she said there was an educational aspect for the public.
#Australia#Perth#Farzam Mehrabi is a rapist#Spiking drinking#Dangerous men using g dating g apps#Men choking women#Cops not listening to women#A dentist often talked about drug use#Men lying anout their age on dating apps
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“QUEER”
First of all, let’s clear up a common misconception. Queer does not just mean gay. It’s an umbrella term for an identity which deviates from society’s perceived norm: heterosexual, or straight. Queer can refer to sexualities — gay, bisexual, pansexual, — or it can refer to being gender-queer; i.e, any label that deviates from the perceived gender norm: the binaries, male and female.
“Queer” is a reclaimed slur.
If you do not fall under the umbrella of queerness, it is safe to assume that you cannot use it. At all.
I am bisexual.
This means I experience attraction to plural genders. Pansexual also works fine. For the difference between bisexual and pansexual — see here:
Being bisexual isn’t easy. I went through similar hardships to gay women: I experienced attraction to women and was scared of what this meant for me, in such an oppressively homophobic society.
I am not saying being bisexual is harder than being gay, nor the inverse. But my experiences are distinctly bisexual, not gay.
Without further ado, here are the 3 things I’ve found to be the hardest about being queer, but not gay (enough).
#1: Finding My Place
Or, not being queer enough
I always knew I wasn’t straight, but I didn’t know what I was. Up until recently, I was still questioning. This didn’t feel enough to join groups or conversations with LGBT+ folk, let alone go to pride. Was I even LGBT if I was never L, G, B, or T?
I am still yet to attend a pride, even though I identify (fairly confidently) as bisexual. I am in a relationship with a man. This is (problematically) known as a “straight-passing relationship” and makes me feel even more undeserving of a place at pride.
This has been upsetting to me at times. But for others, it can be outright devastating. Growing up and needing support, but feeling like you’re ‘not gay enough’ to ask for it? So many young people are being left alone and afraid. Finding others like you is vital to figuring out who you are. Likewise, finding spaces which are safe and inclusive is vital for anyone, regardless of their sexuality or gender identity. A friend of mine happens to be a transgender man, and he summed up the issue perfectly:
“One thing that I keep noticing is how all hangout spots are “gay bars”, or (far less common) “lesbian bars”. I’m a straight man, so I don’t feel like I’m supposed to be there, but hanging out at regular bars is still too much of a gamble, so I don’t really have anywhere to go.”
It goes without saying that gay folk aren’t always safe in these spaces, as seen by the homophobic attack on the Pulse nightclub in Orlando, in 2016. Bigotry hurts the entire LGBT+ community. Bigotry doesn’t stop to ask whether you identify as gay or otherwise queer before it pulls the trigger.
But the LGBT+ community itself is much more welcoming to those who “pick a side” and just come out as gay, already. The infighting is inexplicable when one looks to attacks such as that in Orlando: bigots don’t care which letter you are in the acronym. So why does gatekeeping exist when we need to be strong in the face of intolerance when fragmentation only makes us weaker? Who are we helping by continuing to exclude identities from the discussion?
#2: Myths and Misconceptions
Well, it stands to reason that if bisexuals are what they seem in TV and movies, why would anyone want to make them feel included? They’re “greedy” and inauthentic. They’re attention-seeking, not to mention their propensity for threesomes. Now, I haven’t been in a wild orgy yet, but it seems like it will only be a matter of time before I follow my natural path.
Straight men, in particular, need to own up to their assumption that bisexual women are down for a threesome. The thing is, we are. But not with you, you big ASSUMER.
Infidelity
All jokes aside, the stereotyping of bisexuals is not only hurtful, but leads to difficulties finding and maintaining relationships.
As I came to terms with my bisexuality, I also had to accept that I might never be fully trusted by my partner, regardless of their gender or sexuality. I was shocked when my partner reacted to my coming out with the equivalent of a shrug — so much so, that I burst into tears of gratitude that my soul-bearing moment hadn’t been met with slut-shaming or assumptions of disloyalty. Nothing has changed. If anything, our bond is even stronger for me having been more authentic after coming out.
But cruelty came from elsewhere: when I came out, I was told that my partner was to be pitied, either because I’m gay and in denial, or bound to cheat on him. The main consequence of such attitudes has been the crippling fear of coming out to my partner. It saddens me that I felt so relieved when he accepted me for being who I am, and loving him just the same as I always have.
This outcome is not the case for many couples, with straight folk worried that their bisexual partner will realise they’re gay and just leave them. This fear of abandonment comes from a place of ignorance. When the media presents bisexuality as a steppingstone on the way to “picking a team”, it’s no wonder that people struggle to trust their queer partners.
Other Queer Myths
The myth that all trans folk medically transition invalidates those who choose not to do so, and let’s not forget the ignorant jeers that it's all just a mental illness. Asexual folk battle the stereotype that they can never have a relationship and shall forever remain a virgin (because what an awful thing that would be, right?) And pansexuals… well, at the lighter end, they’re asked if they have sex with cooking utensils. But often, they’re erased as irrelevant because “we already have the label bisexual”.
This brings us onto the third and final difficulty that comes with queer folk who aren’t easily categorizable as gay: erasure.
#3: Erasure
Erasure refers to the denial of an identity’s existence or its validity as a label.
Non-binary folk face ongoing and loud claims that they simply do not exist. This is despite the historical and scientific evidence to the contrary. Plus, the most important evidence — them, existing. Asexual folk are told they simply have not found the right person yet, or that they are just afraid of sex. Demi-sexual folk are told “everyone feels like that, unless they’re just sleeping around!”. And bisexuals are dismissed as simply being in denial that they’re gay.
Monosexuality & The Gender Binary
Our culture is so built on monosexuality (being solely attracted to one gender — for instance, gay or straight). Monosexuality is reinforced through everything from marriage to dating apps, the media to what we teach in schools. People cannot fathom that someone might want to experience more than one gender in their lifetime.
The binary models of sex and gender are also deeply ingrained. These rigid belief systems combined are to blame for our inability to accept that bisexuals do not need to “pick a side”. I was paralysed by fear for 17 years because I found girls attractive and that might mean I’m gay, because bisexuals are just gays who haven’t realised they’re gay yet.
Bierasure
Bierasure is dangerous, firstly because it leads a child to have to internalise both biphobia and homophobia. For instance, I had to work through being taught to hate gayness, whilst being taught that any attraction to non-male genders made me gay.
Women were cute, and so I was gay, and this meant I was disgusting.
My own mother told me this. She also told me that something has “gone wrong in the womb” for a child to be gay. (Well, Mum, I’ve got some bad news about your womb!)And she, like any bigot, extended this theory to anyone who experiences same-sex attractions — anyone queer. This is another reason why bi-erasure is perilous. Whether you’re a gay, cis-male or a demi-bisexual, trans woman… if your parents will kick you out for being gay, they will likely kick you out for being any sort of queer.
If we deny the bigotry that bisexuals undergo, we will continue to suffer. It won’t just go away. It will fester, with bisexuals having no one they can go to who believes them. And thus:
Erasure Kills
Bullying and suicide rates of queer-but-not-gay people continue to sky-rocket. We must direct funding, support and compassion to every queer individual, as they are all vulnerable to discrimination and bullying. The problem is being left to fester. This is in part because bigots treat all queer labels as just ‘gay’, deeming them equally unworthy. This is how far erasure can go.
Conclusion
Earlier on, I stated that my experiences are distinctly bisexual. The same applies to any queer identity.
Emphasising our differing paths and struggles is important to avoid the aforementioned erasure of already less visible groups. But this does not mean that the LGBT+ community should be fragmented by these differences.
If we can unite in our hope to live authentically and love freely, we will be stronger against bigotry. We are fighting enough intolerance from without: there is no need to create more from within.
So out of everything, what’s the hardest part about being bisexual?
It’s the fact that nobody knows it’s this hard.
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SUPERBAT Rec List!! AU NO POWERS ish PART 2
No Powers or No Capes (There are some minor exceptions but I think this still applies)
Soo it’s become harder to find these fics and I kept postponing making this list just in case I found moreeeee. After some time convincing myself I decided that If I find more I’ll just make a part 3.
Here is the link to Part 1 Post
So without further ado. Here you go!
Storge by ichikonohakko @ichikonohakko
G - 3,310
Storge (storgē, Greek: στοργή) is liking someone through the fondness of familiarity, family members or people who relate in familiar ways that have otherwise found themselves bonded by chance. An example is the natural love and affection of a parent for their child.
Or the story of how Clark Kent meets the Wayne family children.
So this was in my mark for later and I read it as I was making this list and it’s very cute and adorable and highly recommend it!
don't you know an apparition is a cheap date by knoxoursavior�� @clqrkkent
E - 39,385
Clark has been able to see ghosts since he was eight, just a few days before his Pa died in his sleep. Years later, after having moved to the city with Martha to pursue writing, Clark meets Bruce Wayne, who takes an interest in his work and Clark in particular. Not long after they meet, Bruce asks Clark to marry him and Clark moves into a mansion that has more ghosts than it has people.
So I couldn’t find more AUs for this list, I was about to quit looking and yesterday I ran into this one and it gave me so much hope that there might be more out there (part 3?maybe?) I think of this as Ghost Whisperer Clark
Stories for the Loved and Lost by MatchaMochi @renaimori
M - 9,681
The first chapter leads Clark to another, and another. He turns the pages, eating the words up hungrily and feeling them, pored over the story as if he was reading someone’s personal diary. And the thing was, he knows it, he knows this story. He remembers flashes of memory that aren’t his, thrown in yesterday’s weird dream or last night’s nightmare.
or in which Bruce is an author and Clark is his fanboy.
I WILL read every single SOULMATE AU FIC I CAN FIND CAUSE I’D DIE FOR THIS TROPE. This is beautifully written <3 <3
Ghastly Murders in the East End by dippkip @dippkip
T - 38,227
London, 1888. A vicious killer known as Jack the Ripper has begun haunting the district of Whitechapel. In light of Scotland Yard’s inability to solve the case, intrepid reporter Clark Kent has made it his mission to track down this fiend and bring them to justice, though he may find himself more deeply involved in the affair than he bargained for.
Meanwhile, Bruce Wayne, a seemingly irresponsible and eccentric duke, remains largely unconcerned about these atrocities. The Batman, however, has taken special interest, and spends his nights relentlessly hunting the new murderer at large. The paths of these men will converge as the body count begins to rise, and their investigations and growing affections will cement their bond, intertwining their fates with that of the most notorious murderer in all of England.
OKaaaay this is one of the exceptions, Bruce is Batman but it’s a different century and Clark is powerless, I think it compensates. Usually I prefer when they’re both “capeless” but this was such a fun read.
As You Grow by dnawhite76 & Prubbs @prubbs
M - 59,946
After the death of his wife and children, Clark returns to the United States after spending years abroad to reconnect with his friends and their families. And while trying to gather what little remains of his old life and possibly move forward in his grief, he ends up falling into old habits with his first love and best friend, Bruce Wayne.
A story about grief and acceptance.
So I want to point out how good this fic is. I hate sad and this story has a lot of grief and I felt it was very grounded on its depictions of feelings. I tend to avoid this type of fics buuuuut this was so good. I couldn’t stop reading even if the grief got to me. It’s very wholesome and does have a satisfying ending.
A good start by BlueAlmond @discretocincel
G - 1,253
Clark loves being an elementary school teacher, but it breaks his heart to see any of his students hurting. So, when he notices Jason waiting over forty minutes every day for someone to pick him up, he decides to have a word with his father.
Absolutely love Professor Trope!!! Sooo you could argue this is ficlet but doesn't feel like one to me so I’m not putting it in the ficlet section.
Engraved In Our Souls by Nixie_DeAngel @nixie-deangel
T - 9,004
It started with pain, with warm blood and bold, black letters. How was he to know it'd lead to a pair of gorgeous eyes, shimmering with the promise of life long happiness and love?
Or, after years of waiting, Bruce finds his soulmate in the least likely of places.
Little cute soulmate AU<3 AS I SAID I WILL READ EVERY SINGLE SOULMATE AU OUT THERE CAUSE I LOVE THEM
Ghosts by ren_makoto
T -3,067
Wayne Manor is haunted. Clark doesn't mind.
Here is another of the exceptions, this is neither No Powers/No Capes, but they’re not relevant to the plot or we don’t see them using them (I don’t think they are mentioned but its implied). The Fic’s whole focus is on the ghosts! and absolutely loved it I LOVE REN MAKOTO FICS
There is Little Danger by ren_makoto
T - 5,327
"It's tradition," he said, one inch from Clark's mouth. "Yes," Clark said. "Tradition."
Or, where Bruce and Clark are trapped in an elevator
another Ren Makoto cause I can’t help myself
Semi-Permanent Couplings by ren_makoto
E - 10,463
"So, Bruce, how do you feel about one-night stands?"
Ren Makoto <3 <3 <3 This fic contains Adultery soo Read the Author’s Notes
Hubris by ren_makoto
M - 20,197
"This is turning into a routine," Bruce said breathlessly. "What can I do for you, Clark?" "Please," Clark said hoarsely. "I just want to get some sleep."
I really like the writing on this fic, this is a 100% NO CAPES, Clark does have powers and he’s starting to process them. Ren Makoto stole my heart with this one.
Not so Perfect Afterall by tekowrites
E - 6,966
AU: High school, Senior year. Clark thinks his life is nearly, if not already perfect. Then he overhears a conversation that changes absolutely everything. Bruce is there to pick up the pieces.
Red, White and Blue by melmel_79
E - 3,639
He works for the Secret Service, and it's best that no one knows he is in a relationship with the president. At least he hoped no one would know...
He grips the envelope tighter and knocks on the door to the Oval Office.
This was a mistake.
Late Night Feelings by the_butler @the-butler-fanstuff
M - 9,283
It was a little past one in the morning, the phone the only light in his room. He glared at it, then threw it to his side on the bed, not caring to see where it landed. A few seconds after, he patted all along the side to find it and looked at it again. He pulled up the messaging app, scrolled down, and then sighed. He exited the app and threw the phone on the bed again. He repeated this several times until some minutes later the phone chimed and he hurriedly sat up and felt for it on his bed. He opened the messaging app again and finally breathed a sigh of relief when he read the reply he’d been waiting for the whole night.
“Be there in 30 mins.”
I LOVE CLARK HERE, GOOD FOR YOU. He’s such a good adult looking out for himself! self-loving and self-respecting Clark here everybody.
it took me by surprise (I know you felt it, too) by jessequicksters @jessequicksters
G - 1,124
In which Clark and Bruce fall in love in between study sessions, track races, grocery shopping at Whole Foods and romantic student dinner dates, burnt lasagna and all.
FLUFF, could argue this is a ficlet buuuuut dont care, it goes here.
Towards You by tekowrites
E - 22,607
AU where Clark is a new transfer student at an elite high school, and he encounters Bruce Wayne. Clark doesn't fit in, not anywhere it seems, and his crush on the star of the football team? Only serves to shows how much. Jealous girlfriends, misunderstandings, hormones and lurking trouble are just some of the challenges he's going to face.
I LOVE THIS , basically this fic made want to make a PART 2, just had to find 15+ other fics to add to the list.
Read the tags, this does contain some heavy topics towards the end
The Game (of Love) by KaizokuHime @kaizokunohime
E -12,288
In WayneTech VR Augmented Gaming, a guild of superheroes has arisen who volunteer to help police that reality. One of these superheroes, Superman, has had a crush on his fellow member, Batman, for many years, but thus far has had little success on asking him out, even as fellow guildmembers. How will their relationship progress? And how intimate can they truly become without knowing the other's identity offline?
A Game You Can't Win gave me hunger for gaming fics, then I found this one and I WANT MORE GAMING FICS
Wham Bam Shang-A-Lang by ShowMeAHero @andillwriteyouatragedy
E - 8,354
Clark Kent is a professor at the same university as Bruce Wayne. Not that it matters, because Bruce doesn't really speak with his co-workers - they're there to work with, not befriend. That is, until Clark and Bruce are assigned to teach a class together in the fall, and start spending more and more time together, and Bruce starts to realize, maybe, he just might need a friend - and maybe, he just might need something else, something Clark-specific.
YES YES PROFESSOR TROPE. They are the best together!
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SORTA KINDA MAYBE FITS THE CATEGORY
The Gift by tmelange
E - 5,564
University student Clark Kent is on a field trip to Gotham City where he meets a creature of the night.
VAMPIRE AU, soooo Clark has powers but he is not superman so NO CAPES on his part. Bruce is a Vampire and I’m not really sure if he’s Batman but he’s some sort of vigilante. This felt very AU and sorta? fit the category, so I decided to add it anyways but it’s worth to mention this is an outlier on this list.
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SPECIAL MENTION CAUSE I HAVENT READ THIS ONE BUT IT WAS RECOMMEND TO ME by @just-add-butter
Spoils of War by littlechinesedoll @cumdumpsterbrucie
“If I go with you as a spoil of this pointless war, will you leave?” Bruce stands his ground, terrified and shaking, but he keeps eye contact with the warlord.
“Excuse me?” Kal must be hearing things.
“If I go with you, if I serve you, will you let my people live? Will you let my brother live?”
This is not finished buuuut it’s a Medieval AU. I just need to get myself in the right mindset to read an unfinished fic but will get to it! love what llittlechinesedoll writes.
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FICLETS
This section was accidental. I like my fics long and rarely read ficlets but here are a few that came across my way when I forgot to set word count filters.
Snapping the Chats by littlechinesedoll @cumdumpsterbrucie
G - 2,278
Clark tries to use the Snapchat filters on Bruce.
General Check-up by littlechinesedoll @cumdumpsterbrucie
T - 906
One where Brucie is getting a check-up from Thomas Elliot and he touches Bruce more cause Clark is obviously jealous
Subway Providence by the butler @the-butler-fanstuff
G - 400
A short drabble about art I did of Clark and Bruce waiting for the train on a subway platform.
So my first list was me coming across and realizing I love this kind of AUs and this second list is me carefully looking for them! Even tho my 1st list has some of my favorites, I hold this one closer to my heart. Hope you Enjoy it.
Also if you know of any that I haven’t included on these lists, please I beg you send them my way <3
#superbat#rec list#rec#batman#superman#clark kent#bruce wayne#recs list#kal el#superbat rec list#fanfiction#fanfic#worlds finest#world's finest#ao3#archive of our own#dc#dc rec list#fics#batfam#superbat fic rec#DC comics#au#alternate universe#superbat au#superbat alternate universe#no powers au#no capes#no powers#superbat no powers
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ABOUT ME
Hachi ✨ 20 ✨ She/Her ✨ 🇵🇭 ✨ INFJ 6w5
Hello, I’m Hachi! I'm a full-time freelance illustrator on Fiverr, and I hopefully plan to branch out in other artistic areas in my life! Expect me to dump all of my artistic interests over here : #hachichiart
I also have a children’s picture e-book that I self-published on Amazon. I made it as a requirement for my high school thesis, so while the art there is definitely a representation of my past, I still stand by the message I was trying to send. I hope to eventually branch out this series in a form of a webcomic of sorts, for people who can’t afford to purchase my e-book for financial reasons. These characters are extremely dear to me, and I can’t wait to expound on them when I have the time lmao. Here’s a tag regarding the series: #behindtheartistichand
Some note-worthy things to mention, this blog is generally 15+, but I do make sure to tag any NSFW content and general triggers out there. I often post and retweet adult animation, so I’d say tread carefully if you’re a minor. I’m also critical with the media I consume, but most of the time, I like to talk about why I like something rather than why I hate it. I just find it more fun to expound on the positives of my favorite things. I also don’t take everything seriously.
Please let me know privately if I did or say anything wrong. Sometimes I say things without meaning to, and I’m not the brightest crayon in the box, so constructive criticism is greatly appreciated. If you take offense with anything I posted, just send a polite DM and explain why it offended you so I can be educated regarding the subject. I’m also available for any questions, DMs and a genuine chit-chat.
MAIN INTERESTS
1. Character-Driven Storytelling
2. Adult Cartoons
3. CGDCT / Slice-of-Life Shows
4. Pastel Goth / Creepy Cute Fashion
5. Coming-of-Age Stories
6. Magical Girls
7. Psychological Horror
8. Well-Written Children’s Media
9. RPG Maker Horror Games
10. Video Essays & Film Studies
11. Speed Metal / Vaporwave / Shibuya-Kei
12. K-POP / J-POP Girl Groups (Serotonin Babey!)
13. 4LT (MBTI), Typology, Cognitive Functions
14. All Types of Artistic Endeavors (OCs, FanArt, Comics, Film, Music, Fanfiction, etc.)
TOP 5 ANIME SERIES (IN NO PARTICULAR ORDER)
1. K-ON!!
2. Hunter x Hunter
3. Neon Genesis Evangelion
4. Ojamajo Doremi
5. Ouran Highschool Host Club.
TOP 5 CARTOON SERIES (IN NO PARTICULAR ORDER)
1. South Park
2. Bojack Horseman
3. Moral Orel
4. Ed, Edd n Eddy
5. Infinity Train
FAVORITE MOVIES
1. Interstellar (Favorite Sci-Fi Movie of All Time)
2. Nacho Libre (Favorite Guilty Pleasure Movie)
3. Johnny Got His Gun (Scariest movie of all time due to the sheer existential dread)
4. Studio Ghibli Films (Particularly Ponyo, My Neighbor Totoro & Grave of the Fireflies)
5. Perfect Blue (Favorite Anime Movie)
6. One Cut of the Dead (It’s hard to recommend this movie without spoiling it, but it’s an absolute must that you finish it in its entirety before you proceed to make any further judgments)
7. Coraline (I know almost everyone loves Coraline at this point, but it’s genuinely good.)
8. Interview with the Vampire (Favorite Vampire movie of all time that doesn’t seem overdone or cliché. It’s also really gay)
9. Get Out (2017)
10. Us (2019)
11. Up (2009)
12. Toy Story (Movies 1 to 3)
13. Hereditary (2018)
14. The Shining (1980)
15. Audition (1999)
16. Misery (1990)
17. The Green Mile (1999)
18. Shawshank Redemption (1994)
19. Saving Private Ryan (1998)
20. Mommie Dearest (1981)
21. The Others (2001)
22. The Platform (2020)
23. The Lodge (2019)
OTHERS
1. Homestuck (It’s been a good while since I read Homestuck, so my memory of the general storyline is fuzzy. I’ll re-read it once I have the chance)
2. When They Cry (Currently up-to date with the Higurashi anime and watched the live-action movies. Finally started to tackle the sound novels. Have yet to encounter Umineko and Ciconia)
3. Age of Youth (Favorite K-drama of all time.)
4. Squid Game (Battle Royale-type thriller series that tackles capitalism and the illusion of choice and free will? Sign me the fuck up)
5. Majisuka Gakuen (Favorite J-drama of all time. Also, yes, I’m biased because of my love for AKB48.)
6. Flight of the Conchords (Favorite live-action series of all time.)
7. Adult Cartoons (The Boondocks, Camp Camp, Superjail, The Oblongs, Bob’s Burgers, The Simpsons, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, Home Movies, Beavis & Butthead, Daria, Smiling Friends, Aggretsuko)
8. FilmCow (I absolutely love everything they put out. Currently up to date with VuloLives’s broadcasts)
9. The Eric Andre Show (A good friend recommended me this show, and I haven’t stopped since.)
10. Nathan for You (My humor condensed into one show)
11. CGDCT / Slice-of-Life Shows (Sweetness & Lightning, The Amazing World of Gumball, Spongebob Squarepants, Gakkou Gurashi, Lucky Star, Gakuen Utopia Manabi Straight, Koufuku Graffiti, Hidamari Sketch, Pita-Ten, A Little Snow Fairy Sugar, Di Gi Charat, Miss Kobayashi’s Dragon Maid, Yama no Susume, Shirobako, Sayonara Zetsubou Sensei, Saint Young Men, Gunslinger Girl, Kareshi Kanojo no Jijou, Osomatsu-san, Hey Arnold, The Peanuts, Arthur, Hibike! Euphonium, Nichijou, Asobi Asobase, Azumanga Daioh, Codename: Kids Next Door, Chowder)
12. Idol Anime (Love Live! School Idol Project, Aikatsu, Revue Starlight, Full Moon wo Sagashite, Pretty Rhythm, AKB600SEC // Will get into IDOLMASTER eventually)
13. Undertale (Will pick up Earthbound and Omori eventually)
14. RPGMaker Horror Games (Mad Father, Misao, The Witch’s House, Ao Oni, etc. Hoping to get into newer released games!)
15. Fictional Children / Adolescents Getting Trapped in Dangerous Scenarios (Digimon Tamers, Made in Abyss, The Promised Neverland, Alice Academy, Code Lyoko, The World Ends with You, Total Drama Island, Danganronpa)
16. Weird, Experimental or Slightly Disturbing Series (Serial Experiments Lain, Kuchuu Buranko, Invader Zim, Flapjack, Salad Fingers)
17. Shounen Anime (Yu Yu Hakusho, Mob Psycho 100, Dragon Ball Z)
18. Magical Girl Anime (Sailor Moon, Cardcaptor Sakura, Tokyo Mew Mew, Mermaid Melody, Puella Magi Madoka Magica, RWBY, Panty & Stocking with Garterbelt, My Little Pony, Princess Tutu, Powerpuff Girls, My Life As A Teenage Robot, Bee and Puppycat, Star vs. The Forces of Evil, Steven Universe // Will pick up She-Ra & The Owl House Eventually)
19. The Haunting of Hill House / Bly Manor (Don’t let the jump-scares deceive you. It’s a genuinely good character-driven horror series)
20. Sci-Fi Cartoons (Rick & Morty, Solar Opposites, Futurama, Bravest Warriors)
ROLE MODELS / BIASES / OSHIMENS / BEST GIRLS
1. Trey Parker & Matt Stone
2. Gain & Narsha (BROWN EYED GIRLS)
3. Hyuna (SOLOIST)
4. Sooyoung (SNSD)
5. Gyuri (KARA)
6. Hani (EXID)
7. Seulgi & Yeri (RED VELVET)
8. Sana (TWICE)
9. Yves & Olivia Hye (LOONA)
10. Shuhua (G-IDLE)
11. Yena (IZ*ONE)
12. Winter (AESPA)
13. SUZUKA (ATARASHII GAKKOU)
14. Shiroma Miru (NMB48)
15. Yabuki Nako (HKT48)
16. Takahashi Minami (ex-AKB48)
17. Kojima Haruna (ex-AKB48)
18. Shinoda Mariko (ex-AKB48)
19. Sayaka Akimoto (ex-AKB48)
20. Watanabe Mayu (ex-AKB48)
21. Shimazaki Haruka (ex-AKB48)
22. Matsui Jurina (ex-SKE48)
23. Sakura Miko (HOLOLIVE)
24. Natsuiro Matsuri (HOLOLIVE)
25. Oozora Subaru (HOLOLIVE)
26. Inugami Korone (HOLOLIVE)
27. Houshou Marine (HOLOLIVE)
28. Kiryu Coco (ex-HOLOLIVE)
29. Momosuzu Nene (HOLOLIVE)
30. Kureiji Ollie (HOLOLIVE)
31. Takanashi Kiara (HOLOLIVE)
32. VuloLives (INDEPENDENT VTUBER)
CONTACTS
• Instagram: @Hachichimitsu
• Twitter: @Hachichimitsu
• I take art commissions on Fiverr: https://www.fiverr.com/hachichimitsu
• I have a children’s e-book on Amazon. Make sure to download the Amazon Kindle app to be able to read it on your smart device: https://www.amazon.com/Behind-Artistic-Erika-Marie-Vargas-ebook/dp/B08789CW3V
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Benefits of Advertising On Social Media 2020
Take a peek at what we imagine are the primary social media marketing tendencies for 20 20 that marketers will need to become aware of to be able to make certain their marketing strategy is up-to-date and as powerful as you can.
Social media has become synonymous with digital marketing, moving hand-in-hand with many -- or even all -- digital campaigns. But, social media is far from static and what functioned a month or two ago may well not receive exactly the same excellent results today.
It really is a lot more important than previously for marketers to understand and stay ahead of this curve the moment it regards social media.
Avoid the pitfalls that restrict engagement by means of your target audience by simply figuring out about social media mistakes that you really do not want to make.
Bearing this in mindthat we have taken a peek at a number of of the tendencies that people consider are definitely going to be most important when it regards social media marketing in 20 20. Below are the tendencies that we, and some other specialists, believe you Have to Be aware of ahead of this new year:
The digital De-Tox
This equates to 45 percent of their entire world's population currently being on social media. When this implies that brands have the chance to reach larger audiences than previously, a new tendency is affecting that audience base.
This really is greater than only the usual changes we view regarding folks opting to make use of one platform in favour of another -- including as Facebook viewing end users fall however Instagram attracting a lot more -- that tendency is still visiting persons take a temporary or permanent break out of all social media.
One in 3 adults within the united kingdom are now actually diminishing their social media usage. A few 6 percent of end users have taken off an app out of their phone, 6 percent have permanently deleted their accounts and 8 percent have deleted their accounts and taken out social media cellular apps.
Other people elect to De-Tox because they tend not to expect social media platforms, possibly thanks to problems such as Fake News or even because of privacy and data worries.
"I believe that year, we are going to be viewing of a change at the way social media end users act on line; '' I presume that digital De-Tox will grow a lot more prevalent this year, together with many folks seeking to restrict the amount of time that they spend social media.
"I also feel that there surely will be a huge drive towards making social media private and stable due to its own users - that has turned into a huge dilemma not too long ago and many men and women are only realizing how dangerous a lack of internet privacy can be. And those matters, clearly, may have a significant impact on marketing overly - brands and marketers will need to maintain the top of those tendencies and act accordingly"
This is simply not to say that social media is becoming emptiness regarding digital marketing, but marketers don't want to understand that the impacts it might have. When added into this problems that pay-to-play social media attracts, additional persons taking to a digital De-Tox (if temporary or permanent) will impact reach and engagement in one's articles.
Ultimately, it really is vital that you never start placing all of your marketing eggs at the social media bucket. You want to be certain that ample funding and useful resource remains nonetheless being awarded to additional channels, like email marketing and search engine marketing. But, it is also vital that you assure that any social media existence that you really do have is equally as meaningful as feasible. Your brand should offer significantly more than memes - you want to supply articles that has a constructive and memorable impact in your own audience and that delivers as much value as feasible.
A significant part of meaningful and valuable encounters on social media would be that the way that brands engage together with their audience. Even though sharing articles that you just imagine your target audience will probably like is still part of maintaining your social media presence, then you also ought to encourage and cultivate interactions that are higher than a straightforward such as share.
Additionally, there are a whole lot of brands out there who apparently have large social media followings and when you search much more carefully at individual articles, their engagement amounts are almost nonexistent. These brands that are viewing additional engagement in their followers are performing this by assembling communities around their articles.
That is not to say that communities are a new idea, however, they are increasingly being assembled with brands in distinct ways, and that's paying down and will more than likely continue to do therefore as we head in to 20 20.
"whilst social websites aren't a new idea, the way brands assemble them will be changing the way we interact using them. The main point can be the internet presence needs to expand your reachand to ultimately induce further conversions.
"For starters, it really is crucial to measure your time and efforts and stay intouch by means of your audience. Social media suites are a great way to observe every thing from one place, in article creation and supply on tracking and analytics. Discover what's effective and what's maybe not -- you shouldn't be afraid to muster and decide to try some thing new!
It supplies your brand the ideal possibility to engage with recent and potential clients.
"significantly more than at any time earlier, potential purchasers want to hear from existing clients -- thus offer them a place to do only that."
Bridget Poetker -- Mature Information Marketing Specialist at G-2
Assembling social media communities away out of the own profiles is only the start, after all, creating a set and having men and women combine isn't a guarantee that they could engage. Doing this can keep men and women engaged together with your brand but also bring about new leads and clients whilst also adding a human, personalized part into a brandnew.
"I think that the days of only posting articles and persons turning up to engage are slowly and gradually arriving at an end as pay-to-play social media becomes increasingly more and more prevalent with every single social networking as time passes. As a company, you are already at a disadvantage, and that's the reason why it'll grow far more important than to actually engage with your area.
"I am not talking about engagement therefore that the articles turns better from the algorithm, however actually thanking individuals on your area not when they engage along with your articles however actually proactively reaching them out enjoy a social media consumer could reach out into a close friend. If your company wants to live in organic social media in 2020, I really think that sort of humanization of one's brand is likely to undoubtedly be necessary."
One good thing about social media communities may be the fact that they assist with word marketing, and it can be another huge social media marketing fad for 20 20. Communities allow one to engage with nano or micro-influencers that are already advocates your brand as a way to make them share honest perspectives and adventures of one's products or services.
We all understand that influencers have now been around for a little while and so they have become an expected part of their social media practical experience. They can provide great gains such as brands, for example a relatively substantial earned media value, especially today that Instagram usage has been continuing to rise at an elevated rate.
But many kinds of influencers are not any more dependable by users . Enormous influencers are perhaps not just high priced because of brandsthey nolonger have the impact that they usedto because they are regarded as disingenuous. In fact, 61% of users can anticipate that the recommendations of good friends and family within star endorsements because they are somewhat more inclined to become honest.
In comparison, smaller influencers, such as people that are inclined to become part of those own communities, are inclined to have much better relationships with their followers, so this means that they reap the benefits of a high degree of trust. This can lead to a lot more engagement at a lowly expense, as well as increased confidence at a brand that is much more inclined to culminate at transformation.
"A fantastic reason to follow along with my advice on social media communities would be that will also make it a lot easier to the brand to engage with influencers from 20 20. This can be the different way to incite word-of-mouth marketing on social media when organic social media for organizations is still virtually dead.
"Today I am not talking about shelling out thousands of dollars and reaching outside to actors that are encouraging one brand today and another brand to morrow. I am talking about authentically engaging with people on your area that are already pursuing you and are already nano if maybe not micro-influencers and locating a way to collaborate together with them.
"that I am quite passionate about it subject matter that it goes to function as focal position of my second book, Age of affect, that arouses in March of all 20 20, however need less to say I really trust that marketers in 20 20 will soon realize that social media isn't only a place to market for folks, but really will be your ultimate discussion board for one to get and collaborate using a variety of social media end users of varying sway that can aid drive your marketing aims forward."
It's those conversations that are much more inclined to impact buying choices and support build confidence within your company.
This kind of marketing creates favorable brand opinion, has people talking about your brand and more insights to people' purchasing behaviour and pain details. All this enables one to create a real adventure for the audience.
The Growth of alternative platforms
Facebook, Twitter and Instagram are inclined to function as the center platforms utilised by B2-C brands, together with linked-in also remaining vital for B2B companies. But many end users are becoming fatigued using such heart platforms whereas brands have to struggle harder than previously to achieve fantastic heights of organic reach and engagement.
Even though Twitter has viewed increase thus far this year, its own active consumer amounts have diminished from it has all-time 2017 substantial. Similarly, Facebook has observed a enormous fall in end users -- especially youthful users over the last couple of years, together with more youthful audiences choosing to devote less on additional platforms.
[Average Regular Twitter consumers year]
As the app was launched in 2016, its popularity has increased fairly lately, together with 2019 visiting a large multitude of end users flock into the platform.
Even though TikTok is still not likely to function as the optimal/optimally alternative for B2B brands, B2-C companies using a more youthful target audience (41% of TikTok end users are aged between 16 and 2-4 ) might detect it for a great platform to encourage engagement with end users that are stepping away from a lot more traditional social media platforms.
As effectively as TikTok, a fantastic platform to take a position set to people attempting to encourage e commerce sales by way of social media can possibly be P interest. Although P-interest is far from new to the spectacle, it has undergone a recent resurgence, meaning that it really is currently useful for greater than simply saving getting or recipes decorating inspiration.
P interest has unearthed that it suits well in to the e commerce space and has an audience that is engaged together with the idea of purchasing products that they view to this platform. In fact, 75 percent of P interest consumer s say that they are"quite curious" in new products compared to only 55 percent of folks on different social media platforms.
That is why retail brands are acquiring success over the platform, together with them coverage 2x increased yields on ad expend in your platform than some other types of social media and a 1.3x greater yield than traditional search.
"As Instagram as an e commerce platform is now becoming harder to gain clients out of, marketers will likely go on to P-interest. P interest now looks Instagram once the latter arose. Significantly more than 250 million folks utilize P-interest monthly, and this variety may increase.
Marketers and company people whose target audience are teenagers and younger men and women needs to truly consider TikTok as a profitable marketing platform.
Applying these alternative platforms allows one to engage with an audience who may possibly not be about Instagram, Facebook or even Twitter, as well as offering you with with various ways to share your own content. This might help supply far better outcome and shape your prospective social media marketing strategy.
Our social media strategy guidebook can assist you to create an integrated social media marketing strategy that demonstrates the way you can increase engagement to promote leads and sales.
Consumer service is always planning to become a vital aspect of supplying a fantastic client encounter, however in the digital age, the buyer service that you offer will be a many more observable to everyone on line. As nicely as internet purchaser critiques, buyer complaints and dilemmas are easier to see than before as a result of fact that a great deal are shared on social media.
Above a quarter (28 percent ) of users have utilised social media to communicate using a company within the last year, a tendency that is very likely to increase as a result of this fact that significantly more than 30 percent said this really is a handy contact system and around 2-3% believe it's a fantastic way to receive 24 hour service.
Because social media is regarded as getting convenient, it's likely that brands will discover that it's easy to utilize as a way of consumer service. As a consequence, the majority of men and women count on brands to answer a issue or complaint on social media around precisely the same day, together with 37 percent wanting a reply from less than thirty moments . Just 6 percent do not anticipate a reply at all, even though 31% want one in less than two hrs and a further 26 percent want to hear back over 3 weeks, revealing that the expectations permanently consumer service to social media are very high quality.
This can be the reason why social media as a kind of consumer service goes to become a huge fad for 20 20, especially considering there are so many brands appearing to create communities.
"At precisely the same way that social media became a real alternative to get an actual social lifestyle, it's rapidly evolving as a consumer service device. Companies have taken note with the and gives far more and much more consumer service by way of social media. Brands have grown significantly far more active social accounts, all for your sake of interacting with all an massive consumer base spread across social media channels"
As well as supplying an easy way to speak to clients and immediately deal with problems -- especially as everyone is therefore attached to social media -- this specific kind of buyer service supplies benefits such as brands. Answering a purchaser complaint can increase purchaser advocacy by as much as 25 percent , meaning that reacting to complaints can aid create loyal clients. Yet, you also ought to bear in mind that failing to react to a complaint can decrease purchaser advocacy from 50 percent, thus a social media buyer service strategy is called for so as to guarantee all members your consumer care team are after precisely the same measures, especially as far more clients are inclined to become contacting you throughout social media during the following year.
Notification Testimonies on social
Considering that the launch of Snapchat, additional social media platforms have hurried into add the testimonies format with your own offering. The effect has been tremendous increase in the usage with the format such as Instagram in particular, which as of January 2019, boasts 500-million daily active testimonies end users across the world.
Stories provide a distinctive encounter to feed-based sharing on account of the fact that they are visual and meant to be equally created and swallowed in-the-moment, rather than shared with a feed that may remain observable. There exists a whole lot of place for experimentation, tongueincheek articles and enjoyment, that makes testimonies remarkably engaging, and it's one among those reasons as to the reasons testimonies had a growth rate that was 15x the rate of Feeds at 2017.
Nevertheless, the increase of testimonies is not merely among users, organizations are also employing this social media instrument for marketing goals.
On average, brands are putting up Stories around around 7 days a thirty day period , averaging outside into one tale each days. Brands using a subsequent to 100,000 or longer share testimonies a lot more regularly (every 2 days), probable as a result of fact that they can gain from a greater range of testimonies features -- including as adding a URL with their own articles about Instagram.
Brands are also advertising greater via testimonies, together with 45 percent of Instagram ad invest be-ing Stories, implying that brands are watching better effects with all the direct format getting made available from testimonies.
"Should you regularly utilize social media, it doesn't arrive as a shock that Instagram testimonies' popularity will increase in 20 20. Battenhall executed research that discovered that 98 percent of Instagram accounts utilize testimonies, whereas 400-million end users watch Instagram testimonies to a daily basis.
Nevertheless, this inquiry would be just why are they popular?
Instagram testimonies are somewhat more authentic than traditional Instagram articles that allow for heavy modifying and altering.
This material is currently just available for 24hrs, so thus, it's latest and won't turn out to be outdated.
Shoppers want are living updates and real-time articles. Instagram testimonies are normally probably the very up-to-date content material a enterprise can provide a user.
During Instagram testimonies, you can share different folks's Instagram articles. This work allows individuals to associate easily with different accounts and companies.
"I presume that brands are likely to begin with touse Instagram testimonies to induce users to IGTV, to create greater long-form articles to these organizations. Alternatively, perhaps towards social e commerce, exactly where brands will start attempting to sell their products via Instagram testimonies."
Tales aren't planning to function as a suitable alternative for each brand out there there, but together with them becoming engaging and visiting an increased usage that may probably lead shoppers to anticipate brands that they follow along to create testimonies, it might be well worth assessing if and how you can make use of them. As Instagram sees far more organizations use tales, the platform may also probable release far more features created for brands, that might make the format much more accessible to get a broader range of companies.
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I think mid-May will mark 9 months since my first stage of rff phalloplasty with dr. mang chen of brownstein and crane surgical services. i can’t say enough positives about dr. chen and his microsurgery team, but in particular dr brian parrett. I had my surgery with the “new” microsurgeons and am very pleased with the aesthetics of my new member, for those anxious about this “new” team.
I will hopefully return to post on recovery and my arm scar, as many seem to be curious about all of that – and understandably so; however, this post is focused upon “hooking up” or “sexual encounters” in my experience being post-op downstairs.
Proceed with caution: I will use several terms that may make some uncomfortable though I do so as to not cause any confusion or greyness on what I am speaking of.
So firstly, what’s up, down there? I had a vaginectomy so there is no longer a vaginal opening. My junk that grew on hormones is buried in the base of my dick. I can feel it near my scrotum as well as in the base. I could orgasm since week 5 with sensations felt in this area. I had glansplasty (the creation of a defined head) in late feb. of 2017. This is to say it was NOT done in the first stage. My surgeon says doing it after stage 1 gives it a better opportunity to not flatten out. It has not flattened out yet so woo-fucking-who J I cannot get erect naturally. I will not be able to get erect unless I get a surgically implanted erectile device. I am not sure if I will. I do have a scrotum but no testicular implants. The scrotum looks ideal (for me personally, folks) in that it resembles a cisgender male’s scrotum. I do plan to get testicular implants in September. So in summary: dick, ball sac, no erections naturally, no balls inside my ball sac. Nothing really “different” about what comprises my anatomy down there.
I had experienced a breakup shortly before going into phallo. My ex accompanied me to my surgery still and made a more final break in the final days of our stay in the Bay (san francisco area of California). We have not been intimate since my recovery. She cared for the recovery of my junk in the early weeks.
I have had numerous partners (1 female, multiple others male) since recovering. While exploring grindr, many are actually displeased that I am post-op and seem to have been more excited when they assumed I had the female junk I was born with. Undoubtedly interesting on a gay chat, date, hookup app. I have had many other experiences where men want to meet up and want to exchange oral sex or penetrate me anally (again, I cant get erect naturally). Some want to hear about my surgery details and want to meet up or simply want to hear because they can’t g o o g l e. Many request pictures, sometimes I send and other times I block, while other times I simply say no. There is no formula, it all just depends on my mood.
I’ve had encounters from social scenes where I’ve got reactions such as “let’s do this” to “let’s end it here.”
It’s still a process of sharing to a degree and worrying whether folks are put off by the idea of me being a transsexual altogether, regardless of anatomy. There’s still plenty of assumptions. It isn’t always about simply having a dick lol. The idea of being trans sometimes has influenced whether folks want to take it further (or if on an app, whether they want to meet up).
Presently I seem to be talking to far more men than women. It’s rare a woman captures my interest. I don’t know if it’s because I am attracted to men or because it’s affirming to attract men who exclusively like men, who tend to be far more visual….and to have folks only attracted to men be excited about my junk is affirming as hell. I’ve had others love my junk pre-op but I didn’t love it and that’s what didn’t work. I didn’t love it 24/7, not just during hookups or sex in a committed relationship... I haven’t gotten into anything serious for several reasons – one being I’m enjoying this fun. It’s certainly liberating and post-op, I am without as much apprehension of telling the sparknotes of what’s up down there; pre-op, OMG so much fear in disclosing..NOT SO MUCH because folks would reject me (read: many are very excited about pre-op or non-op junk) but because I wasn’t comfortable or even remotely ok with my pre-op junk. Since being cleared for sexual activities, I realized I was hit with an IMMENSE freedom. I did some dangerous things where I’d drink ridiculous amounts and end up not remembering who I came home with, who was with me when I woke up. It just felt good to be embraced and recognized as an ordinary gay man. It felt amazing to do all types of things now that I’m physically existing in a way that makes sense to myself, I wanted to catch up in a way, on all these adventures of knowing myself through these sexual undertakings.
Just like being pre-op, my mileage varied regarding who was down to date/mess around and that hasn’t changed. What has changed is my confidence, so more folks end up YES rather than NO. It is apparent I have this sense of knowing myself and not hesitating to meet this person or that person on a sexual level and allow stuff to happen. I felt so much more shy and ashamed pre-op. It was if I didn’t have the language to participate in conversation pre-op, whereas now I have mastery of the vocabulary, I’m armed with a dictionary and personality to maintain conversation. If you’re operating fine with your junk that is untouched by surgery, I say keep it. Bc these surgeries have recoveries that are really NO FUCKING JOKE. While I do compare my junk to that of other men’s (ie my comment about the sac CLOSELY resembling that of cisgender males), that kind of thinking is far from my mind when getting sexual with others, especially men. It is an awesome result compared to my pre-op junk; however, for those considering and those post-op can likely agree, it isn’t the dick of a cisgender male and never will be. It has its downsides if compared besides a cisgender male’s dick but because I was struggling so severely with my pre-op junk, I absolutely love my dick. It’s been a gift of life. Not because the hookups, bc you will always get rejection regardless of what you’re packing…but because my confidence, knowing and coming into myself now that my junk matches that which I’ve known and I’ve needed is finally a reality.
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Welcome to the Wardens, Dani! Your application for THE PROTECTOR has been accepted with a Santiago Cabrera FC.
I was really excited when we received an app for the Protector because I knew he would be such a core part of the Wardens’ group. After reading through your app, it was clear that you nailed this skeleton bio perfectly and really made it into your own fleshed out character with so much life! I couldn’t imagine a more perfect rendition of this bio. As a world builder, it is fantastic to see how you’ve really researched into the Vartheli culture and even showed it in your moodboard, Gonzalo’s background, personality and ambitions. The roleplay sample was a direct link to one of the headcanons mentioned in his skeleton bio and that was so fantastic to see because you clearly were thinking about how the Protector fared in that meeting with the dragon, and were taking all the details seriously. Eldris needs a man like the Protector in the growing times of darkness!
The application can be found under the cut. You have 48 hours to create a roleplay account (cannot be a sideblog) for your character and we will be updating our opening date soon!
O O C - I N F O
Name: Dani
Age: 22
Timezone: CLST
Activity Level: I’m in law school which means I might get some rough weeks every now and then but most of the time I’m super active and I manage to make time to do a few replies daily.
Extra: None, really.
S K E L E T O N - I N F O
T H E - B A S I C S
Skeleton Title: THE PROTECTOR
Name: Gonzalo Alonso Casalis
Gender: Male
Age: 34
Class: Warrior
Faceclaim: Santiago Cabrera
C H A R A C T E R - D E T A I L S
Nationality: Vartheli
Appearance:
Tanned skin, golden under the burning sun of Varthal and deep, brown eyes that seem almost black, Gonzalo had always known himself to be a handsome young man; but before joining the Guild, he never had the chance to use it to his advantage. Being the son of a horse master meant the boy spent most of his time playing around with the horses in the dirt, hiding his good looks. Though this didn’t mean that both men and women didn’t notice, because they surely did.
When he came of age and joined the Arms Guild, turning him into a more proper, polished version of himself, Gonzalo started carrying his hair just above his shoulders: not long enough to be a bother, but long enough to feel the wind as he rides around Eldris, the feeling of freedom too important to him as it reminds him of home wherever he is.
Unlike his flashier countrymen, Gonzalo has always been more sober in his taste. He prefers red fabrics and warm colors, just as most of those born under the southern sun, but he keeps little jewelry on his person. At first it was due to the fact that despite his parents not being poor at all, they weren’t quite well off either, meaning such whims weren’t exactly available to him. Now, after years in his position as the right hand of Blademaster Dorn, he has simply grown used to simpler tastes. Gonzalo wears two gold rings, one on each of his index fingers, and five golden ear cuffs on his left ear. Every time a particular adventure marks him or he finds himself in need of dealing with a life changing decision, he gets a new one.
Finally, like every warrior, Gonzalo has his fair share of scars. Most of them are small and faded, bites and cuts all over his back, legs, hands, and chest from angry horses, angry creatures, and angry men. Most notably, he has one big scar trailing from his left shoulder all the way down to his elbow, made by a griffin’s claw as he tried to escape it’s clutches; and a shorter scar, almost a finger length long, following over the line of his collarbone to the middle of his neck, made by a blade when he was captured by bandits near the Spine Mountains. Gonzalo is quite proud of his scars, they tell tales of adventures and near death experiences, but by now all of the Warriors from the Guild and most of the Wardens have learned not to ask about the scar on his neck. He doesn’t like it, and he doesn’t want to talk about it. That’s all they need to know.
Personality:
[ + ] Adventurous – His family always said that Gonzalo’s heart beat as wildly as a horse’s; strong and steady and aching to stretch its legs and run off into the distance. The moment the boy was old enough to stir a horse by himself was the moment his parents started losing him from sight for hours and hours as he rushed into the forest, the lake, or the plains just to explore. That thirst for adventure hasn’t dimmed despite the years that have passed, and the man still finds himself surprised with every new place he visits.
[ + ] Curious – Apart from his adventurous heart, Gonzalo’s mind has always been bright and sharp. He doesn’t fear magic like many in the south and even less the great creatures that plague the forests and mountains. Everything is a learning experience in his eyes, and like a child, his eyes always light up at the sight of a big and powerful beast or a mage’s work. Gonzalo always questions everything, reads a lot, and keeps an open mind to the unknown.
[ + ] Loyal – The Guild means everything to Gonzalo. He considers the warriors his brothers and would give up his own life for them without thinking twice. He never doubts them, which is why when Blademaster Dorn sent him to join the Wardens, he went willingly and without complaint. Now, he can see the importance of the Wardens and their responsibility to Eldris, so he puts the same dedication and trust in everyone who joins, treating them as brothers and protecting them with his own life.
[ + ] Genuine – Many join the Guild for the fame and respect the title entails, but not Gonzalo. He never cared for fame or power, two things that simply landed on his lap because unlike many others, he sought the greater good with no hidden agendas. Gonzalo has become someone people look up to; a man who breaks all fights in their ranks and mediates solutions with kindness and understanding of both parties. He’s always true to his word and reliable whenever a problem arises. He has never broken a promise and he’s not about to start.
[ - ] Hot-Headed – Gonzalo has no patience for stupidity, rudeness, or cruelty and he is quick to take to arms or start a fight to defend what he believes is right. He’s a kind and fair man, which means he rarely accuses anyone without just cause, but injustice doesn’t sit right with him, and he’s not one to stand idly by when he is able to do something to change an unfair situation. He’s patient, but people have learned not to test his limits. He’s never lost a fight thus far, after all.
[ - ] Naive – Despite his bright mind, Gonzalo has always been quite naive when it comes to trusting others. He believes in humanity, good hearts, and good deeds, so it isn’t strange to find him giving his money away on the streets or doing favors for those who seem distressed. He has always been very trusting, and even though he knows there are bad people in the world, he refuses to fall into cynicism, and doubt every person he comes across.
[ - ] Stubborn – “Stubborn as a mule,” his mother would call him, because changing Gonzalo’s mind has never been an easy task. He believes in authority and trusts orders given by those he respects, but when he believes something is right, be it religion, tactics or even the simplest things, it will take a good argument to make him doubt himself or his beliefs. Like every good soldier, he never disobeys, but that doesn’t mean he has to agree with the orders given.
[ - ] Apprehensive – If anything could possibly go wrong, Gonzalo has probably thought about it twice already. He knows his flaws and understands he trusts people too easily, which is why he’s so apprehensive and tense when it comes to any road set before him, always worried about those around him and fretting over any impending dangers that may lie ahead. Despite this, he isn’t a grim man at all. Most of the time he behaves quite charmingly, but he loves too deeply and protecting those he cares about is always on his mind.
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Flying feet on fields of grass, galloping hooves, and yapping dogs at his ankles were the sounds of Gonzalo’s childhood. His family lived in a small town on the outskirts of Vessia, where his father raised the best war horses in all of Eldris; loyal and brave just like their horse master, and fit to endure the burning sun of the south and the freezing cold of the north. Gonzalo, his only son, was a wild little thing since birth, running before he could speak and always meddling in everyone’s business. Everyone in town adored the charming young boy, as well as the many pets that would follow him around.
His childhood was filled with big adventure and small indulgences. His family wasn’t particularly rich, but the fertile land provided food fit for kings, rich in taste and bright in color, and large expanses of land to explore. Gonzalo spent hours and hours on the back of a horse, feeling the steady rhythm of its hooves hitting the ground as he rode around Varthal, the warm wind blowing against his face. Sometimes, it made Gonzalo wonder what it would be like to fly.
It was no surprise that the boy took to a sword with incredible ease, feeling its weight like an extension of his arm as he wielded his newly acquired companion with the natural talent the Vartheli seemed to posses. It was the final piece that completed the boy and turned him into a man; a young man with a brave heart that beat wild and strong, aching to find his place in the world.
And so Gonzalo started searching. Adventures turned into long journeys, down to the end of the continent or up into the forests and mountains. It was during one of these journeys that he met a group of men, Warriors of the Arms Guild, fighting an imposing beast: a gryphon. He rushed to their aid, jumping from his mount to the beast’s back and landing the final blow to its neck. Once on the ground, the men stood quietly, watching him with curious eyes and smiles brightening, as they seemed to have a silent conversation, their heads nodding their agreement.
He received an invitation to join them the next day.
The Arms Guild was more than a group of heroes protecting people from harm. They were a brotherhood, a family that took Gonzalo in and embraced him like one of their own. He trained, bled, and fought, years passing by as he earned his position and title as Blademaster Dorn’s right hand. He was respected and trusted but never feared. Gonzalo found his place in the world among its heroes and even though his heart never stopped longing for adventure, for that great desire to fly, he knew where he belonged: protecting the people he loved.
Adventure, of course, sometimes came at a great price. A lesson he learned in one of his many journeys to the north. They were traveling through the Spine Mountains, shivering from the cold when Gonzalo saw it: a great dragon, black as the night, flying over them. It was the greatest moment of his life, the mere sight of the embodiment of such ancient power making all his journeys worth the wait. He ached to follow it, to see where it would lead them, but bandits took their moment of distraction to their advantage and ambushed them.
Only Gonzalo survived.
Life became simpler after that. He returned to the Guild to heal his wounds and continue with his task. Years passed and the persistent rumors of the members of the Guild wanting him to be their future Blademaster never worried Gonzalo until the day Blademaster Dorn approached him and ordered him to join this new faction that was forming to fight the threat of the Netherworld: The Wardens. He wanted to send their best warrior and rider to represent them, but Gonzalo only saw a new test, another step in his path to be what was needed of him so he simply bowed his head and accepted.
It was the start of a new adventure, and if the world needed a hero, that was exactly what he would be.
Reason for joining the Wardens:
Joining the Wardens was an easy decision; an order that Gonzalo followed blindly with a gracious nod of his head. Blademaster Dorn needed him there, their best warrior to face the greatest challenges, and since Gonzalo was his right hand and friend, he trusted the man to choose what was best for the Guild. It started out as a test, a way to prove himself once again among others, not those who already respected him and loved him like family, but a new group of heroes from every part of their land.
He couldn’t deny he was quite weary of it, like he would be of every new organization without an established code of honor, but it still felt like the right decision to make. It was a new adventure after all and despite how much Gonzalo loves the Guild and his brothers, the Wardens certainly sounded like an interesting thing to see.
Soon enough the Wardens became like a second family to him, a group of talented people fighting together to protect the world, an idea Gonzalo certainly agreed with. The South was blind to what was really happening; to the dangers looming over their heads and he would never run from those who needed his protection. He was no hero, but if their leaders were willing to ignore this, it would have to be their job to make sure peace returned to Eldris.
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Journeys through the Spine Mountains were always long, cold and tedious. They had been sent to Sorvim to mediate a religious disagreement that had been threatening the south for some time now and before things got worse, Blademaster Dorn had ordered them to pay the northern town a visit. Gonzalo liked the north, its colors so different from the brightness and the warmth of the south, but the green of its thick, imposing trees always made up for the colder tones that surrounded them now.
The rainy Targum Forest had turned into cold stone quite a few hours ago and now they found themselves right in the middle of the mountain range, the cloudy sky and softly falling snow making it difficult to tell how early or late it was. Still, they knew they had been riding for a long time, and it would soon be time to set up camp before the road got too slippery for the horses and the night too dangerous for all of them. Bandits often used that same passage, after all.
Gonzalo rode forward, leaving the rest of his brothers behind to scout the surroundings for a good place to camp when he saw it, or more accurately, felt it. The ground shook with a powerful roar, one that could only belong to some great, powerful beast, but not one he had encountered before; the sound foreign to his ears. He looked up, his eyes scanning his surroundings as his hand reached for his sword when he found the great creature flying overhead.
A dragon.
Its great wings flapped gracefully through the falling snow, as if it was used to the powerful winds that surrounded it. Gonzalo lost his breath, his eyes unable to lose sight of the menacing creature. No one had seen a dragon in ages. They were believed to be dormant until a dragonborn woke them and called them to their aid, but Gonzalo couldn’t remember the last time that happened. It felt like fate, like destiny to be the one witnessing such a moment and he couldn’t help but smile, brilliant and bright.
He turned his horse around quickly to inform the others, to show his brothers what he had just seen and ask them to follow the dragon to its nest when he heard it: screaming, slurs thrown carelessly and the sound of metal hitting metal. He galloped at full speed to reach them, to protect the people he had sworn and oath to, but when he reached them, only one of his brothers was still on his feet, surrounded by bandits.
The fight that followed was vicious, and impossible to win. They were outnumbered, and with one last blow the last remaining warrior was dead, and Gonzalo was down on his knees, bloodied and bruised at the hands of the bandits. He watched them, analyzed as he thrashed and snarled to break free from their grasp, but couldn’t.
“You’re coming with us,” the man said, and Gonzalo looked back up at the sky, feeling as if the world had stopped just for him, one last kindness so he could see the dragon fly away. He sighed and prayed to the Divine that they would deliver him from harm just once more so he could come back and follow the dragon’s path.
After that, everything went to black.
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Online Dating Effects to Teenagers
According to match.com, online dating is defined as a system that allows individuals to communicate with each other over the internet.
The objective of online dating is to develop a romantic or sexual relationship or courtship. With this system, users must provide personal information before the searching proper including one’s location, age, sex, physical attributes, personal interest, and career information.
Online dating is becoming a more common way for singles to find true love. There is a site that caters to just about every whim or belief while some even offer forums and fun activities to make contact easier. With a careful eye and common sense, finding safe and smart love is possible.
This leads to the issue of users, specifically teenagers, for developing negative effects. This includes safety, self-esteem, trust, and problems with social communication. Although online dating is a faster way to meet and know people and thought of knowing your love interests, one should be aware of the consequences and safety measures before signing up into this system.
Stafford (2015) reported the need of raising awareness of online dating. The report emphasized the ignorance and confidence of teenagers involved in online dating that there is still a chance of less danger to occur when meeting personally with the person after dating online with the use of Tinder.
Tinder is an online app that offers a variation of men and women who are willing to date anonymous and strangers online.
Because of this, it was proven that a female college student was sexually attacked after meeting with her date in a coffee shop. She thought that it was safe to meet up with the person knowing that her friends tried and no harm happened to them. Unfortunately, she was sexually abused after being brought to the apartment of the guy and started being aggressive and assaulted her without shame.
Thus, online should be addressed and should be given importance through spreading awareness regarding the negative effects that can give to teenagers.
Based on Finkel (2012), teenagers should be aware of the two broad areas of public policy which is relevant to online dating particularly protecting the safety and privacy of users and substantiating the advertised claims of online dating sites.
Before pursuing an online dating site, one should be attentive to the rules and safety awareness notifications and measures to a particular site in order to increase awareness of safer dating practices.
Moreover, online dating gives a huge impact to people involved including health, safety, or performance. The need for regulatory scrutiny is a must for these sites in order to consistently monitor the different effects and results of online dating activities and for future users to be more aware of what it can give to them.
Online dating is not something that users and future users should be scared about but everyone should be aware and should know all the rules and measures of these kinds of activities in order to avoid hurting oneself and getting into any trouble.
Furthermore, McCarthy (2013) stated that the importance of safety is to be first and foremost in all sorts of online activities specifically online dating for the youth. Youth are naturally trusting especially when one is nice to the other. Aside from the need of the guidance from the parents, the youth should be aware of how safety is really important. The youth should limit themselves regarding giving personal information in order to maintain safety and security to oneself. To avoid abuses, assaults, and other forms of harm, one should be aware of the measures and consequences in order to maintain a safe and happy online dating activity.
A British website reported regarding Nick Tsinonis, who is a co-founder of Scamalytics which creates software designed to prevent scammers from targeting people on online dating sites, offered a range of advice as to how to stay safe while interacting with a prospective date online.
First, keep chats restricted to the website or app. This means that messages should be limited only to the website in order to avoid detecting one’s location or any other private information that might give harm as a user of the site.
Second, block anyone suspicious. This can avoid the user from abusive and inappropriate gestures from people on the dating site.
Third, take time to get to know someone before meeting. Always bear in mind that the person is a stranger, thus, ensure yourself that he or she is who they say they are.
Fourth, Ask a friend for advice and their opinion. Sometimes, our mind can be unsure about one’s thinking regarding meeting the perfect match when in fact we are being conned by a scam-artist.
Fifth, research them online. Use different social media accounts or use google images in order to deeply know your stranger chatmate.
Sixth, always meet in a public place. Always remember that dating online is like meeting a stranger, and so, it is important to be safe and avoid meeting the stranger in private places in order to avoid abuse or assaults.
Seventh, communicate with a friend. Let someone else know where you are and check back in with that person at the end of the date.
Eighth, avoid drinking too much on a first date. Despite the enticement and inhibitions, it is always better to avoid oneself from regretting something at the end of the date.
Ninth, do not go home with them on your first date. He or she is a stranger, thus, bringing someone home is no safer that going to someone else’s house.
Last, do not be afraid to just get up and leave. Once you feel uncomfortable, simply leave because safety is of paramount importance.
With these reminders, one will be able to put oneself to safety and avoid any harmful incidents.
SOURCES:
Starr, G. (2013). "Cite A Website - Cite This For Me". Retrieved April 12, 2017 from http://datingtips.match.com/pros-cons-internet-dating-4597503.html.
Stafford, E. (2015). “Raising awareness of online dating dangers”. Retrieved April 14, 2017 from http://www.themorningsun.com/article/MS/20150222/NEWS/150229885.
Finkel, E. (2012). “Online Dating: A Critical Analysis from the Perspective of Psychological Science”. Retrieved April 14, 2017 from https://www3.nd.edu/~ghaeffel/OnineDating_Aron.pdf.
Bulman, M. (2016). “10 Ways to Avoid Falling Victim to Online Dating Predators”. Retrieved April 14, 2017 from http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/10-ways-to-avoid-falling-victim-to-online-dating-predators-dangers-safety-a6915301.html.
McCarthy, C. (2013). Online Dating for Teen? Why Parents Need to Talk about Online Relationships”. Retrieved April 14, 2017 from http://www.huffingtonpost.com/claire-mccarthy-md/online-dating-for-teens_b_3682486.html.
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I shifted my weight on my feet and bit back a sigh. I should have known she was going to be persistent, but I was done playing nice for her when it was clear her son was so beaten down that he was too scared to make a move or even speak for himself. She was a tyrant and I wasn’t going to subject myself to her vile company anymore. As soon as I slipped inside my apartment I was going to delete all the dating apps I had on my phone.
“I have a dog and she’s leery around strangers.” That was partly true. I did have a dog, a massive blue pit bull that I rescued from a shelter just days before she was supposed to be put down. Dolly looked like a brute, but she was a sweetheart and had never met a human she didn’t want tummy scratches and love from. We were kind of kindred spirits in that way. I mean I didn’t need my ears scratched or my belly rubbed, but I was afflicted with the same pressing need to be liked and accepted by pretty much everyone I came in contact with. It was ingrained in me to at least try to make everyone a friend, and if they didn’t reciprocate my kindness it only forced me to try harder. Sometimes I hated that about myself, and sometimes it was my favorite personality trait because the men and women in my life weren’t the easiest nuts to crack. They all loved me and let me in because I’d refused to let them shut me out.
Well, all except for one man.
I couldn’t hold back my flinch when he crossed my mind because he had warned me about online dating from the get-go, and I hated that he was right about it. I also hated that he was the reason I was desperate to find a man . . . a man who wasn’t him . . . in the first place.
Mommie Dearest shook her head and clicked her tongue at me. “Joseph is allergic to dogs. Your pet will have to go as things progress between the two of you.”
I felt my eyes pop wide and the forced smile I had plastered on my face for the entire evening finally slipped away. I already knew she had a few screws loose, but she was taking her crazy to another level if she thought she could tell me to get rid of my dog or what to do with anything in my life.
I straightened my shoulders and tilted my chin up. It was a look that worked on the drunks and unruly college kids that I hustled out of the bar where I worked every night.
“That’s not going to be a problem because things are not progressing beyond my front door. Thank you both for dinner, but if you’ll excuse me I’m going to go inside and cuddle my dog and erase every online dating app there is.”
The woman narrowed her eyes and stepped around her son. The young man made a noise low in his throat and his eyes widened. I thought he was scared of his mom, but the closer I looked at him the more obvious it became that he was scared for me as the woman advanced. He reached out a hand to grab his mother’s elbow, but it fell away before making contact like he knew the repercussions for intervening would be severe and drastic.
“Listen here, you little . . .” I lifted my hand before she could throw at me whatever insulting word she was going to label me with. I don’t think the woman was used to anyone standing their ground with her because she gasped and fell back a step.
“Stop. I thought I was talking to Joseph. I thought he was a nice guy, maybe a little sheltered and awkward . . . but a nice guy. Obviously it wasn’t him running his dating profile and there was some other agenda here from the start. I’m well past the age where I need a mother’s approval or permission to date her son, so I’m going to go into my apartment and end this date before either side gets nasty.” I looked at the shell-shocked young man hovering behind his mother and mouthed good luck before turning my back on both of them and inserting my key into the door. Dolly barked loud and deep from the other side, which was both comforting and reassuring.
I turned the knob on the door and pushed into the apartment without looking back. Once the door was shut and my dog was happily rubbing against my legs, I tossed my head back and let out a sigh that felt like it was tied to my soul. I was tired, so tired.
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Denver has always been just a pit stop for Church on his way back to rural Mississippi. It was supposed to be simple, uneventful, but nothing could have prepared him for the bubbly, bouncy redhead with doe eyes and endless curves. Now he knows it’s time to get out of Denver, fast. For a man used to living in the shadows, the idea of spending his days in the sun is nothing short of terrifying.
When Dixie and Church find themselves caught up in a homecoming overshadowed with lies and danger, Dixie realizes that while falling in love is easy, loving takes a whole lot more work…especially when Mr. Right thinks he’s all wrong for you.
Jay Crownover is the New York Times and USA Today bestselling author of the Marked Men, Welcome to the Point, and Saints of Denver series. Like her characters, she is a big fan of tattoos. She loves music and wishes she could be a rock star, but since she has no aptitude for singing or instrument playing, she’ll settle for writing stories with interesting characters and make the reader feel something.
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