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Resources - DV

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Im pretty sure everyone is aware of the Devin situation and I wanted to post some resources. If this isn't allowed I completely understand but wanted to post some resources for people who may be experiencing something similar.

National DV info: 1-800-799-7233 https://www.thehotline.org/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=domestic_violence Online Chat is an option

The National Deaf Hotline: 855-812-1001 mailto:nationaldeafhotline@adwas.org Online Chat is an option

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[jwhite65]

On today's episode, Lisa brings attention to the fact that seniors who suffer from dementia are more vulnerable to elder abuse than those who are not cognitively impaired. She identifies the various categories of actions towards seniors that are considered by law to fall under the definition of elder abuse, the warning signs to look for, and the resources available to report any suspicions of elder abuse. In her What's News segment, Lisa provides updated study information that finds 11 key factors that can contribute to a person's risk of developing Alzheimer's disease and measures one can take to lower their risk. The study also revealed that the study results have allowed scientists to develop a tool that can predict whether someone will develop the condition within the next 14 years! Such a breakthrough! For more information on this interview: https://bit.ly/47QCHjo

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New York Father Pleads Guilty: Shocking Domestic Violence Case Unfolds In a horrifying incident that shocked New York City, Stephen Giraldo, a 36-year-old father, has pleaded guilty to attempted murder after a brutal attack on his estranged wife, Sophia Giraldo. This article explores the tragic event, its aftermath, and the need to address domestic violence. The Tragic Incident A look into the shocking events of December 27, where Stephen Giraldo's actions left his estranged wife with severe neurological damage. Victim's Struggle Sophia Giraldo's miraculous survival and the enduring physical and emotional scars she bears. Unfolding of the Nightmare The disturbing sequence of events took place when Stephen arrived at Sophia's residence to drop off their children. The Horrific Act Details of Stephen Giraldo's unthinkable act, instructing the children to stay belted while he accelerated, followed by a stabbing. Outrage and Heartbreak The city's collective outrage and heartbreak were expressed by Queens District Attorney Melinda Katz in the aftermath of the incident. Legal Consequences An insight into Stephen Giraldo's guilty plea and the expected 25-year prison sentence he faces in October. Long-lasting Impact The enduring trauma and scars will persist for Sophia Giraldo and her children despite the legal proceedings. Addressing Domestic Violence The significance of this case is as a reminder to address domestic violence and prioritize the safety of individuals and families in our communities. FAQs about New York Evil Father Pleads Guilty To Striking Wife With Kids In Car, Followed By Liver Stabbing Q1: What led to Stephen Giraldo's guilty plea? A1: Stephen Giraldo pleaded guilty after a horrifying incident in which he stabbed his estranged wife, causing severe harm. Q2: How severe were Sophia Giraldo's injuries? A2: Sophia suffered severe neurological damage, broken leg bones, and a liver stab wound as a result of the attack. Q3: What legal consequences does Stephen Giraldo face? A3: He is expected to receive a 25-year prison sentence when sentenced in October for his attempted murder conviction. Q4: What is the broader message of this tragic case? A4: This case underscores the urgent need to address domestic violence and prioritize the safety of individuals and families in our communities.

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Donna Wayles, Domestic Violence Advocate, Author, Cranston, RI, USA

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Domestic Violence in the Middle East

Domestic Violence in the Middle East

It is necessary not only to enact but also to enforce legislation that criminalizes all forms of violence against women, including marital rape. Laws should be followed up with plans for specific national action.

#DomesticViolence #HumanRights

Read more: http://bit.ly/2nwqFKB

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More voice are needed If you have a voice, and the person next to you doesn't. Please take out a time and teach her how you had developed your own voice.

[sillygoofywriter]

Aesop Carl [Red Flag Headcanons]

I have done one for Naib and now I am doing one for Aesop! I hope you enjoy! And remember, you deserve a great, happy, and healthy relationship! Don't settle for a toxic or abusive one! Providing information to the dv hotline for those who need it 💕

https://www.thehotline.org/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=domestic_violence

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-Aesop can be very morbid at times due to his obsession with death and the dead. What I mean by this is he will openly talk about how he thinks death is a good think and how everyone should strive to die. ["They are no longer in their filthy husks, they are peaceful, beautiful, quiet, and free."]

-He will literally mention his plans to kill people to you at times. He talks about this stuff like it's normal.

-Will kill everyone around you to get you all for himself because everyone around you is "filthy" and can "corrupt you". "Dirty you".

-This guy is a yangire so...yeah, be careful! [Yangire: Yangire (also referred to "Cute and Psycho") is a Japanese term used to refer to normal people who suddenly become violent, sometimes due to a past trauma.]

-He probably has tried to kill you once or twice or thinks about killing you. Remember, he likes dead people so he'd probably prefer if you were dead..

-Aesop is very obsessive and at times uncomfortably obsessive. This man will talk to you and only you and be around you and only you. Go to the bathroom? He's outside the door just standing there waiting for you. Having fun time with the girlies or guys? Man will casually walk up and insert himself into it by sitting down beside you. When you have to go into a match he will grab your wrist so tightly you swear he will leave bruises. Or, he tries his best to go into the match though he isn't scheduled for it. Sometimes when you're just spending time with him he will randomly inspect your person just to make sure he doesn't forget a single detail about you (so he can embalm you without seeing you in matches as well as for his own...benefits.)

-Stalker. Yup, Aesop will straight up stalk you. He will get recording devices from Naib (since he is a mercenary, he probably has Spy gear) and put them in your room and bathroom. He will sometimes just watch you from a distance (even if you're together) to admire you from afar and..think his own thoughts. Aesop will even sneak into your things and steal little items that you used or are yours. For safe keeping of course. Considering he thinks about killing you or has tried killing you, it's especially alarming that he sneaks into your room to watch you sleep.

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Hey, thank you for reading and I hope you enjoyed this headcanon (if you can enjoy this sort of thing). Please have a good rest of your day. Remember, you are loved, you are special, and you can do amazing things! Love you!

[johnlennonofficial]

fwiw, even setting aside the fact that severe physical punishment of a child certainly does constitute abuse (and some of what mike mccartney has described does sound severe) paul has also spoken about his father striking him across the face during arguments well into his teens: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fs1TYtUjoiI&t=2219s nobody’s living out victimization fantasies, fans are just interested in him as a person as well as a musician and it’s a valid line of analysis about his childhood! and one that is relevant to the history of the beatles and the dynamics within the band, since paul’s involvement with john was a major point of contention between paul and jim. i don’t think anyone’s suggesting that it was a matter of serious ongoing physical violence, but abuse takes many forms and there are plenty of indicators that paul’s relationship with his father was not 100% positive and had a dark side that paul tends not to discuss

so have we considered the swaggy fact that if paul doesn’t want to talk about it, maybe y’all shouldn’t pry into it?

while i agree that being physical with your child is not ok, let me lay out the difference for you: abuse is irrational, punishment has purpose. abuse leaves victims feeling worthless and questioning sanity. even with different definitions, the leap between harsh punishment and abuse is not yours to make for someone else.

paul has insisted time and time again that he loved his father. that he was harsh, but he’s forgiven him for it and maintained a good relationship. nothing about that indicates ptsd. ffs, if you wanna talk ptsd, talk about the loss of his mom. watch him shut down over that.

and even IF this was 100% abuse, and you’re convinced, why the FUCK are you obsessing over it? you absolute freak. do you think it’s some sort of game? that someone suffered for your theorizing? for your entertainment? does that not make you sick?

or have you experienced abuse and truly need help? is this a way of projecting? i’ve been there, and i promise you that it is not healthy. you deserve to feel worth again. if you feel this way, please talk to someone. here’s the DV helpline in the US: https://www.thehotline.org/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=domestic_violence

i appreciate that you care about him as a person. you seem young and sweet, and i know i was harsh with you, but i truly don’t think you feel the weight of the words exiting you. i encourage you to go into the real world, live life, have experiences, talk to the older generation, and learn some boundaries and respect for the person you claim to love.

now, can we PLEASE shut down this horrendous line of discourse? it’s shameful.

[sperocounseling]

A domestic violence is not just physical, it can also be a psychological abuse. The effect of domestic violence can be seen in general to any individual of any race,age, gender or caste. You need to raise your voice against it, if you see it happening. The few steps mentioned in the blog can be useful to help a domestic violence victim.

[jwhite65]

Cool Your Heels with Host Lillian Cauldwell's Interview with Chris Barry and Lisa Johnson for their book, "Been There Got Out: Toxic Relationships, High-Conflict Divorce, and How to Stay Sane Under Insane Circumstances." We discussed the book which offers practical advice for anyone suffering in or struggling to get out of a relationship with a narcissist or other toxic personality types. It's packed with practical facts, tips, and advice, and covers everything from identifying the problem, committing to taking action, and legal/custody battles to navigating a co-parenting relationship with a hostile spouse, and how to handle your court case in a relationship struggle in front of a family court judge. For more information: How to get help from Toxic relationship

[nothingtoseeherejajaja]

“Boy will be Boys”

TW: Mention of sexual, verbal and physical assault, rape, domestic abuse, child abuse, violence against women and children, femicide. 

“If a boy is mean to you, it's because he likes you”. I think of this phrase every single time a man has sexually harassed or assaulted me, flabbergasted at the normalization of violence against women. I think of the white man three years ago who caressed my thigh on the bus ride home and told me he wanted to “rape me and show me the night of my life”. Did he like me? I think of the boyfriend I had who constantly belittled me, physically and verbally assaulted me and made me want to die.  I think of all the countless stories women have told, and the ones never told because they never had the space or support to share. I think of the women and children sex trafficked everyday and the countless videos of non-consensual violent pornography displayed to the public, both crimes and profitable for those uploading it. I think about how one of those videos could have been me when I found out my childhood babysitter was a pedophile who abused me and other kids. Or when I found out one of my high school teachers was arrested for child pornography and making minors do sexual things for his pleasure. I think of the never- ending stories of violence our women endure, profitable within our society. Like the murder of Marisela Escobedo Ortiz and her daughter Rubi Marisol Fraire Escobedo. Her daughter was killed for wanting to leave her murderer, after finding out he wasn’t who she fell in love with. And just like her daughter, after protesting and raising awareness relentlessly of the murder and the Mexican government’s compliance in it, Marisela was silenced and killed.

 Women are constantly having to fight for their right to live and be treated as equals. And when we do, we are either criticized, assaulted, raped, silenced or killed. It’s difficult to live within a world that thrives off of breaking you and normalizing your pain, Your oppression becomes part of their daily routine. There's a poet called Olivia Gatwood and her poem “If A Girl Screams In The Middle Of The Night'' (2019), describing the violent endings many women encounter. She begins her poem by stating in caps the truth that society will hide from many women in order to control and oppress them;

“IF A GIRL SCREAMS IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT

and no one is there to hear it

here’s what happens. i’ll tell you.” (Gatwood, 5, 2019)

Gatwood illustrates the violent murders of women and the suffering endured.  

“if she is in the woods, it shoots

from the cannon of her throat

& smacks itself against a branch,

whips around it like a tetherball.”  (Gatwood, 5, 2019)

The disappearance of women.

“if she is facedown in the moss,

it seeps into the forest floor’s pores,

& every time a hiker passes through,

the days beyond her unravel..”  (Gatwood, 5, 2019)

Mistreatment of women experiencing trauma and violence.

“if the girl is in the city,

the scream get lodged

in the cubby of a neighbor’s ear

prevents him from sleeping at night

& so naturally, he sells it to a second hand store

he takes it to the buying counter

in a jewelry box & says,

i don't know who this belonged to

but i don't want it anymore.

& though the pierced & dyed employee

is reluctant to take it, she sees the purple

bags rotting figs under the neighbor’s eyes

so she offers store credit.”  (Gatwood, 5, 2019)

Pleasure derived from perpetrating violence on women.

“& so not to startle customers,

a small label will be placed on the box

that says A SCREAM & each time a person cracks

it open the the girl’s rattling tongue will shake loose

into the store. this happens for months but no one

wants to buy it, to take care of it. everyone wants to hear it once to feel something & then go back

to their quiet homes, so the store throws it

in a dumpster out back, where the garbage

truck picks it up & smashes it beneath

its hydraulic fists. the scream will get buried

in a landfill somewhere in new jersey

& later the landfill will be coated in a grass,

where a wandering child will see a hill,

will throw her body against it

& shriek the whole way down” (Gatwood, 5-6, 2019)

Femicides occurring in Juárez Mexico are proof of institutionalized violence against women. Since the mid-1990s, “international media began to fixate on hundreds of gruesome killings of women: mostly young women of modest means. News stories reported on bodies found en masse in the Chihuahuan desert, at times describing evidence of trauma and torture in lurid and objectifying detail. No one knows exactly how many women have been killed or kidnapped in Juárez, but gender-based killings continue”. It wasn't until 2019 when the Mexican government “registered 1,006 victims of gender-based homicide across the country, with 31 of those in Chihuahua state, where Juárez is located”. According to Mexico's attorney general, that is a “137% increase over five years”, including only women who have been found”. Countless amounts of “crimes go undiscovered, unsolved and unpunished, enough that homicide on the basis of gender has generated its own official classification in Mexico and in much of Latin America: femicide”. Femicide encapsulates not only the “killing of victims who happen to be female” but also “the systematic violation of human rights. Whether through domestic violence or sexual assault, the victims of femicide are women who were killed because they are women” and it should be recognized as such (Chin & Schultz, 2020).

Women’s stories are constantly disposed of, silenced and erased from the world because it exposes the structural violence we experience and how embedded it is within our society. According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, “1 in 5 women” are “victims of rape or attempted rape during their lifetime”,”1 in 5 women” have “experienced contact sexual violence by an intimate partner in their lifetime”, “19.1 million women” have been stalked, and “1 in 2 female murder victims” are “ killed by intimate partners” (NCADV, 2, 2020). The list goes on and on. And that again, only counts for REPORTED acts of violence. For an institutional and global issue, we must create an institutional and globally effective solution to end the normalization of gendered and sexual violence against women.

National Coalition Against Domestic Violence:

If you are in immediate danger, call 9-1-1.

For anonymous, confidential help, 24/7, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE) or  1-800-787-3224 (TTY).

National Child Abuse Coalition:

If you know someone who is in trouble or needs assistance, call the Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-4-A-Child (1-800-422-4453).

Works Cited:

Chin, Corinne, and Erika Schultz. “Disappearing Daughters.” The Seattle Times, 8 March 2020, https://projects.seattletimes.com/2020/femicide-juarez-mexico-border/.

Gatwood, Olivia. “If You Hear A Girl Scream In the Woods.” The Life of the Party, 1 ed., Dial Press Trade, 2019, pp. 5-6.

National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (2020). Domestic violence. Retrieved from https://assets.speakcdn.com/assets/2497/domestic_violence-2020080709350855.pdf?1596811079991

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Jas Rawlinson, Write Like a Pro, Brisbane, Australia

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Domestic Violence in the Middle East

Domestic Violence in the Middle East

It is necessary not only to enact but also to enforce legislation that criminalizes all forms of violence against women, including marital rape. Laws should be followed up with plans for specific national action.

#DomesticViolence #HumanRights

Read more: http://bit.ly/2nwqFKB